Speaker 1: All right, it is Mojo in the morning. Went out
Speaker 1: to dinner with Chelse and some friends. We sit this way,
Speaker 1: which I like it. The way that we sit. We
Speaker 1: sit if there's a booth either side by side, where
Speaker 1: Chelse and I are side by side, and then the
Speaker 1: guys are across from each other, or we'll sit where
Speaker 1: Chelsea and now will be across from each other and
Speaker 1: the two people that were with or across from each other.
Speaker 2: And that's how it was in this one.
Speaker 1: So the guys are next to each other, so they
Speaker 1: can sit there and you know, they can have.
Speaker 2: Their own comfort. Ye can have their own the girl
Speaker 2: girls can have their own compo.
Speaker 1: I have my headphone so loud. I can't hear craps
Speaker 1: so across the table. Sometimes I can't hear and I
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to my wife, you know, we talk.
Speaker 2: About say that. No, be honest. You know, sometimes you
Speaker 2: go out with people, you want to talk to other people.
Speaker 1: Right, So we're out to eat and we're with a
Speaker 1: couple that Chelse's really close with her. I kind of
Speaker 1: am semi close with him, and.
Speaker 3: So basically you're saying you got drugged out.
Speaker 1: No, I actually kind of wanted to I was okay,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to get myself into more trouble
Speaker 1: than I am for bringing this thing up. So we're
Speaker 1: sitting there through dinner, and as we're sitting there having conversations,
Speaker 1: I started getting into a personal bit of the relationships
Speaker 1: and I started becoming when from Tom to Mojo where
Speaker 1: I started doing the interviewing aspects of things.
Speaker 2: About halfway through.
Speaker 1: And I started asking questions that I guess I wasn't
Speaker 1: supposed to And the reason why I wasn't supposed to
Speaker 1: know that I was not supposed to ask those questions
Speaker 1: is all of a sudden, I'm sitting there asking a
Speaker 1: question and I feel a foot kicking my shin. Chelsea
Speaker 1: starts kicking me under the table because she's upset over
Speaker 1: what ever it is that I'm saying at that particular moment.
Speaker 2: Tell us what one of the questions is.
Speaker 1: No, it was it was about past relationships that they had,
Speaker 1: and this is a second marriage for these guys, so
Speaker 1: it was something that it was basically me asking a
Speaker 1: question about her, the woman's past spouse, and it brings
Speaker 1: up bad I guess stuff going on like I wasn't
Speaker 1: supposed to do it and so you know what it's
Speaker 1: like when you have somebody kick you under a table
Speaker 1: and you got to pretend like you didn't get kicked
Speaker 1: under the table all of a sudden, It's like getting
Speaker 1: stung by a wasp, you know what I mean at.
Speaker 2: A picnic or something. You're like, ah, something just hit.
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 1: So the conversation keeps going and now I'm staying away
Speaker 1: from the whole thing, and the wife goes and what
Speaker 1: else do you want to know? And Chelsea, So with
Speaker 1: that said, I wanted to ask this question, what is
Speaker 1: this the thing that you do to your significant other?
Speaker 1: Like what's your thing that you do or like the
Speaker 1: unspoken thing that you have in your relationship to tell
Speaker 1: them to shut the f up? Because for Chelsea, it's
Speaker 1: kicked me under the table and that's my shut the
Speaker 1: f up?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like pineapple? Or does anybody have a safe word
Speaker 2: like that? And if you do, what is your what
Speaker 2: is your safe word?
Speaker 4: Do you?
Speaker 2: I think a.
Speaker 5: Good way to go about it is bring up the
Speaker 5: weather for some reason, you know what I mean, like
Speaker 5: the is it supposed to rain tomorrow?
Speaker 2: And then like that's you're cute? Is ship?
Speaker 3: See We'll always do at least I will always do
Speaker 3: the hand squeeze that just gets really really tight, or
Speaker 3: I'll dig my thumb nail into West's palm if he's
Speaker 3: starting to go down a road that I don't want
Speaker 3: him to go.
Speaker 1: Oh, I've had the fingernails in my skin, or like
Speaker 1: my mom used to do that. My mom is she
Speaker 1: getting mad at you? She never would spank you, or
Speaker 1: she'd just grab your your wrist or something, you know,
Speaker 1: and it would be like, oh, inside you.
Speaker 2: My mom had long nails. I remember that.
Speaker 5: My grandma used to grab the fat behind my arm. Oh,
Speaker 5: my god, can't that? And then if she was really
Speaker 5: on your ass, she had twisted a little bit.
Speaker 2: Roof Grandma from my roof one.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine if you did that with your your husband,
Speaker 1: like Chelsea did that.
Speaker 2: My mom used to take the hairbrush and just bomp
Speaker 2: us a little. What if I did that? I start
Speaker 2: a fight?
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Speaker 1: What's the signal your partner gives for you to shut up?
Speaker 2: What's up? Donna?
Speaker 6: Hi?
Speaker 7: Is I kick him?
Speaker 2: Under the table and he stuff out that why are
Speaker 2: you picking me up? That is true.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't realize what's going on right what what?
Speaker 1: What if you had to kick him under the table
Speaker 1: for what has he done that it's made you kick him?
Speaker 2: It could be anything, he says, Yes, it's definitely anything.
Speaker 4: He says, something he says when you know friends are there,
Speaker 4: or something he shouldn't.
Speaker 2: Say, just like you, what kind of shoes?
Speaker 7: Give him that look?
Speaker 5: Give him that look?
Speaker 6: And Nickel, what are you looking at me like that?
Speaker 2: You know what's funny is Chelsea.
Speaker 1: Chelsea was wearing like these boots on Friday or Saturday, No, Thursday,
Speaker 1: Chelsea was wearing.
Speaker 2: These boots and these boots are tall.
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What is that song? There's boots are meant for walking?
Speaker 2: These boots are men for giving your husband a bruise?
Speaker 2: They hurt so bad? Jade, what's going on?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 6: So I just wanted to first time in a long time.
Speaker 7: Usually whenever my boyfriend says something that is not supposed
Speaker 7: to be brought up, I just give him a stern
Speaker 7: Mom looks because I have a three year old.
Speaker 1: Paddler, and she said it, Oh yeah, I felt that
Speaker 1: you can't say the F word like you just said, but.
Speaker 3: Every mom has.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's scary. So you give, you give.
Speaker 1: And and what have you remembered that the last time
Speaker 1: that you gave a look?
Speaker 2: What was it over? Do you remember.
Speaker 6: It was like the last one it was bringing up
Speaker 6: exes And when you get into that conversation, it is
Speaker 6: no good either way.
Speaker 4: No one wants to talk.
Speaker 2: About their Well that was my problem. Ja, Yeah, don't.
Speaker 1: Don't bring up exes to people that you're in a relation.
Speaker 1: You're having a fan family friendly meal with what's up?
Speaker 1: Mikayla high?
Speaker 2: Hey are you doing? What's the the way that you
Speaker 2: do it? Yeah?
Speaker 6: So I was like recent he diagnosed like a couple
Speaker 6: of years ago with ADHD and I talk about it
Speaker 6: all the time. So my husband was talking about somebody
Speaker 6: he found out was cheating and we were with a
Speaker 6: couple that he didn't know they had like just recently
Speaker 6: gotten over this. So he's like talking about how horrible
Speaker 6: this is, and I'm like, oh my god, I forgot
Speaker 6: and brought up something with the kids and the.
Speaker 4: Nabies that are so it's just like super NOI like
Speaker 4: normal for us for me to just like randomly have
Speaker 4: these like thoughts I have to get out like right now.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so you know, I just got to do damage control.
Speaker 1: And then do you drive home and just talk about
Speaker 1: that entire moment with each other?
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, absolutely, absolutely for days to come.
Speaker 1: I read as a stat just a little bit ago
Speaker 1: in one of the I don't know what prep service
Speaker 1: it was, we had a morning show thing that we're
Speaker 1: like prep services that said that sixty percent of couples
Speaker 1: leave the night with each other arguing on the way home.
Speaker 1: That means only forty percent are happy. That's crazy, bro.
Speaker 3: Do you would tell us too the thing? Because Wes
Speaker 3: and I have done this before and it kind of
Speaker 3: depends on who you're going out with. But we're on
Speaker 3: the way there, you'll say, Hey, this and this and
Speaker 3: this is off limits. Like you kind of have a yes,
Speaker 3: you kind of have a little chat before you walk in.
Speaker 2: You got a brief. Yes. Absolutely.
Speaker 1: My favorite is going to nights where there's many couples
Speaker 1: there and then the drive home seeing if the stories
Speaker 1: are similar, like because you will go and all the
Speaker 1: guys will hang out with each other yea, and all
Speaker 1: the girls will hang out with each other, and then
Speaker 1: you'll drive home and I'll go that is what he said,
Speaker 1: and those are my favorite rides home. What's up, Haley,
Speaker 1: how you doing fantastic? What's the the way that your
Speaker 1: spouse tells you to shut the f up?
Speaker 2: Or you tell him?
Speaker 3: I used to my ex boyfriend.
Speaker 1: I would tell him things that like my best friend
Speaker 1: would tell me, and when we go out, he would
Speaker 1: bring it up, and so I would just pinch him
Speaker 1: under the table to.
Speaker 5: Get a to stop talking, Like, am I supposed to
Speaker 5: know that?
Speaker 6: I wasn't supposed to tell you that?
Speaker 7: So stop bringing it up?
Speaker 2: Can I say something? Though? Chelsea does this too.
Speaker 1: She'll tell me things and not really be as specific
Speaker 1: as to say, don't ever bring this up in public.
Speaker 1: I just assume that she's telling me it because I
Speaker 1: should know and everybody should know. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: know if you yeah, now that you know how we
Speaker 1: do the whole. This is not for the radio, Chelsea
Speaker 1: has to say. This is not for any conversation, not
Speaker 1: to be repeated. Treat us like.
Speaker 2: Therapist is just meant to listen sounding board?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 2: What's up? Rick?
Speaker 6: Oh? I got down and my wife calls me w
Speaker 6: when I start saying things that I shouldn't take.
Speaker 2: What does that mean that so you're gonna kick you
Speaker 2: under the table?
Speaker 5: You do?
Speaker 6: Ye?
Speaker 2: Hold on, you're I had to dump that. Your wife
Speaker 2: calls you W and y W.
Speaker 7: Because I'm the a hole, but I'm the whole.
Speaker 2: You're the w. Yeah that's funny. Oh my god. Now
Speaker 2: I'm happy you actually said the actually.
Speaker 7: And can I get the rest this morny?
Speaker 2: I'm seven clues? Yes, yes, I would like to get
Speaker 2: how much? How much money you put up the Okay, Nicole?
Speaker 2: You there, that's on your high Nicole? How are you?
Speaker 5: I'm good?
Speaker 4: How are you?
Speaker 1: I've got I've got bruises on my body from this
Speaker 1: weekend's conversations?
Speaker 2: What did you want to say?
Speaker 7: What I was gonna say was whenever you know, I'm
Speaker 7: in a public setting with my significant other and they
Speaker 7: say something off the wall, I just give them the
Speaker 7: really big eyebrows raised all the way up to like
Speaker 7: my forehead, and the squinty eyes, like you say one
Speaker 7: more thing and you're walking home. That's so great those
Speaker 7: conversations before. Oh he always does every time he sees
Speaker 7: me turn my head to him. You know, yep, I
Speaker 7: said something.
Speaker 1: You realize your eyebrows but they can Dwayne, what's up?
Speaker 6: Hi?
Speaker 2: Hello, how are you doing?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 2: Typically, when my wife calls me by my first name,
Speaker 2: I go by DJs.
Speaker 6: She says, my Duane, I know him in.
Speaker 1: So it's like your parents when your parents would call
Speaker 1: you by your formal or use the middle name, that's
Speaker 1: when you know it.
Speaker 2: You know, you use the middle or the course, it's over, Dwayne.
Speaker 2: Who would you rather be in trouble with your wife
Speaker 2: or your parents?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, See for me, it'd been my parents way getting
Speaker 1: in getting in trouble. Now, I never thought like used
Speaker 1: his kid. You know, you get sent to your room,
Speaker 1: or you get punished or anything like that. You were
Speaker 1: kind of like, ah, this sucks. When I'm older, this
Speaker 1: will never happen. Then nobody told me in marriage was
Speaker 1: like all right,