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Speaker 1: It is Marcus in the morning. We are doing second

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Speaker 1: date updates basically, and we've been doing it for years,

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Speaker 1: but I feel they need to explain. You go on

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Speaker 1: a first date, right, and you get ghosted, and then

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Speaker 1: you call me and then we call your date together

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Speaker 1: and we try to work it out so that you

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Speaker 1: can get a second date. Let's say good morning to Santiago.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Santiago.

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Speaker 2: Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm all right, dude, how are you doing? You holding up? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, to our understand the situation, but I'm you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to understand what's happening.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about Brittany. So I know you guys met online.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for the DM. What did you do on

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Speaker 1: your date? See if we can figure some things out.

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Speaker 2: So we went out to this wine bar and you know,

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Speaker 2: she walks in and I see her and I'm like, wow,

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Speaker 2: she's welcome together. Looks beautiful. Uh huh. So then you

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Speaker 2: know we I see her, I wave her down, and

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Speaker 2: you know, we get to talk and whatever, and you know,

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Speaker 2: we like the conversations were very nice. It just felt

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Speaker 2: like a click. Sure, we have great vibes going on.

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Speaker 2: You know, we talked about family, We talked about our

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Speaker 2: dream jobs, like it was just the whole deal. It

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Speaker 2: was just very natural, flow well together when we were talking. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we were having drinks, we were we had an appetizer,

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Speaker 2: we had dinner. It was it was just great. It

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Speaker 2: was just very very nice and it was very nice

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Speaker 2: and flexed. You know. It was a good flip.

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Speaker 3: How did it end?

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Speaker 2: So when we were leaving, I mean, they was you know,

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Speaker 2: I walked her car, we were you know, I was

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Speaker 2: just you know, telling her a good night that I

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Speaker 2: can't wait to see you again, like I really had

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Speaker 2: a great time. And she said the same thing, that

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Speaker 2: we had a great time. So I saw her leave,

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Speaker 2: and you know, like I felt like I was like

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Speaker 2: happy about it.

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Speaker 3: You know. Okay, did you follow up at all?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So that's where the confusion comes then, because the

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Speaker 2: next day, you know, I was asking to see if

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Speaker 2: we were gonna go on a second day, but she

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Speaker 2: did not respond, and I thought we were viving so

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Speaker 2: well that time. So I just don't understand what happened.

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Speaker 1: Here's what we're gonna do, Like I said, I'll have

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Speaker 1: you on the line. I would ask that you mute

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Speaker 1: your phone. Let's see if we can figure some things out.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead and mute your phone and we will call

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Speaker 1: her and see what's up.

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Speaker 3: Here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Brittany.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is Brittany.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Brittany, this is Marcus calling from Star one O

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Speaker 3: one three. Good morning, Oh.

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Speaker 4: My gosh, Hi, good morning, Oh.

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Speaker 3: My god girl. What are you doing?

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Speaker 4: This is so cool. I listen to you guys every morning.

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Speaker 1: Should say please tell me you get up early for work.

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Speaker 1: Tell me you're not a third shifter or something.

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Speaker 4: Okay, no, no, I do get yes, Oh so cool.

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Speaker 4: What do I owe the honor?

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Speaker 3: Well, you want to be on second date? Update? Of

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Speaker 3: course I do, says no one ever.

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Speaker 4: This is like iconic.

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Speaker 3: So have you been on a date recently or what?

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Speaker 4: Go ahead and bring Santiago.

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Speaker 3: On Santiago, you've been summoned.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so Brittany, he was telling me about the date.

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Speaker 1: Sounds pretty charming. Did you ghost?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I did, and I feel really bad, but I'll

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Speaker 5: tell you Marcus for that happened.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and you know Santiago, so sorry. You're great. By

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Speaker 4: the way, you're funny, You're charming.

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Speaker 3: Really, this is about Santiago. I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Marcus, yes, say goes for you, of.

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Speaker 3: Course, but poor guy sitting there, So what where did

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Speaker 3: he mess up? Somewhere? What happened?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? So, I mean, I don't know if someone else

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Speaker 5: would not be bothered by this. But like towards the

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Speaker 5: end of the night, you know, we were talking about

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Speaker 5: random like habits, you know, like little quarks people have

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Speaker 5: hu and you know, I said, I think I said,

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Speaker 5: like I need total silence to fall asleep or something

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Speaker 5: like that.

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Speaker 3: Not a huge deal, I guess, Yeah, I didn't.

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Speaker 4: I didn't think.

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Speaker 5: So then Santiago said, sorry to quote you right here

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Speaker 5: in front of your face, but okay, don't judge. I've

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Speaker 5: never told anyone this and I should have known right there.

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Speaker 5: But he said that before any date he goes on,

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Speaker 5: he looks the person up online, which is totally normal.

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Speaker 5: But then he kept going and he was like, after

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Speaker 5: the date, he runs a quote post date check, and

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Speaker 5: I was trying to figure out what he meant by that,

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Speaker 5: and then he like kept going and said he goes

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Speaker 5: back through their social media, goes through the LinkedIn anything

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Speaker 5: you can find like a full Google search to verify consistency,

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Speaker 5: like making sure that what they said on the date

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Speaker 5: lines up with what is online or like what is true,

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Speaker 5: so like I don't know and making sure like all

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Speaker 5: the stories match up at the timeline. Like he went

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Speaker 5: into like a lot of detail about like how he

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Speaker 5: tries to catch people on their lives and I think

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Speaker 5: he literally said people slip up. You can usually catch

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Speaker 5: if you look close enough.

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Speaker 3: Santiago, is this for real?

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Speaker 1: Like like the post audit Like, I understand doing your research,

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Speaker 1: that's what we call it research, but like this post

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Speaker 1: auditing thing seems slightly diabolical.

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Speaker 2: I go on a date with people and they tell

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Speaker 2: me that they say one thing, I look up their

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Speaker 2: profile whatever, and it doesn't end up being them or

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Speaker 2: they're not being too truly truthful. So for me, I

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Speaker 2: feel safe. I feel like it's a due diligence for

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Speaker 2: me to like keep on the lookout to see if

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Speaker 2: I'm being lied to or not.

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Speaker 3: Okay, were you planning to do this with Brittany?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I just want to know that she's

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Speaker 2: being truthful to me. I like, you know, honesty is

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Speaker 2: the best policy, and you know I did. I did

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Speaker 2: that to her to see if she was true to

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Speaker 2: her to herself Okay.

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Speaker 4: Did I pass your test?

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Speaker 3: Well, let me I'll ask it in a therapist way. Brittany,

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Speaker 3: how did this make you feel.

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 5: I think I felt like I was in an interview

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Speaker 5: after that, like you know what I didn't sign up for,

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Speaker 5: and I just felt self conscious about everything I said.

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh my gosh, this guy's going to

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Speaker 5: like make sure what I'm saying is true, Like you

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Speaker 5: don't aughtit people after a glass of wine, and I.

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Speaker 2: Mean added, I was just trying to be careful and

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Speaker 2: to see if you were truthful to me. That's all, okay, but.

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Speaker 4: Then don't tell me about it.

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Speaker 5: Like sure everyone does this, everyone does it, but you

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Speaker 5: don't tell people that you're doing that.

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Speaker 4: That's just like weird. I don't know, it just like

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Speaker 4: kind of rubbed me the wrong way.

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Speaker 2: I was just trying to be honest with you. I

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Speaker 2: think you're overreacting a little bit, okay.

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Speaker 5: I mean there's honest and then there's oversharing, which I

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Speaker 5: think that you overshared about what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, is there any point in continuing here? Is

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Speaker 1: there any shot at a second date? Brittany, I go

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Speaker 1: to you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah for me? No, okay, definitely not yeah, so sorry.

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Speaker 1: Fair enough, hang on, hang on, some things you just

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Speaker 1: keep to yourself. I'm all about honesty, but some things

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Speaker 1: you just keep to yourself.

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Speaker 3: Second date update