WEBVTT - Summer Break Didn't Feel Like a Break

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<v Speaker 1>It is Marcus in the morning. This is second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we do have toadd on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Todd, Hey, what's that you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey dude, we're doing all right. Thanks for waiting. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go ahead and get into your situation. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try to figure out why this lady Valerie ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>on you. I understand she has disappeared. I understand that

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<v Speaker 1>the date was solid, but let's talk about it. How

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<v Speaker 1>was it exactly? What did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 2>We basically just met for dinner and Walnut Creek.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, easy, you know, I mean nice, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like chill, and I felt like it went great.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't I don't feel like I have a

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<v Speaker 2>bad radar, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think there were any like big signal flair

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<v Speaker 2>is being shot off that I miss.

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<v Speaker 1>Your self awareness is strong.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Owise me too.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just I just really thought, like, okay, there's

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<v Speaker 2>definitely gonna at least be a second date and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>even a third one, I don't know, and then just

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<v Speaker 2>like total disappearance.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, I don't know how long you've been listening

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<v Speaker 1>to the show. However, So what I'm gonna do is

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call Valerie. I'm gonna have you not on hold,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'll have you mute it. Okay, okay. And what

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do is, so we'll just try to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>where where went sideways? If at all, maybe she's just

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<v Speaker 1>been busy. I don't know. I've been saying that for years.

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<v Speaker 1>It's never the case. Well, we'll try to figure it out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's hope. Let's hope a boy can dream. Let's call her.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead and mut your phone. I'm gonna give her

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<v Speaker 1>a shout. Don't say anything. We'll try to figure some

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<v Speaker 1>things out. Okay, no promises, Great, here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I am looking for Valerie. Please.

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<v Speaker 3>This is she.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Valerie, It's Marcus calling from Star one oh one

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<v Speaker 1>three from the Morning Show. What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Cool? How are you? Hi?

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<v Speaker 3>What's up? I'm good? How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god? So do you know about second date update?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that I'm the ghoster you are?

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<v Speaker 3>He's on he is okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Todd gallery Vallerie Todd that high. It was a lovely evening,

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<v Speaker 1>so I understand. Okay, So my guy says that nothing

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<v Speaker 1>was weird, and now I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't say nothing was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, did you have fun weird?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, he's good. He's easy to talk to.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye know, he's fun. Okay, I was kind of weirded

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<v Speaker 3>out by the garment bag. I thought that was a

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<v Speaker 3>little strange.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean.

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<v Speaker 3>He brings like a complete garment bag with him when

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<v Speaker 3>he showed up. Not you know, this is not like

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<v Speaker 3>a gym bag, like a full a full garment bag.

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<v Speaker 2>Are reacting like that's weird. That's not weird, it's weird.

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<v Speaker 3>It's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>What I don't I don't think it's it's practical. That's practical.

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<v Speaker 1>What's in the garment.

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<v Speaker 2>Bag like a backup out of it, like garments, like

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<v Speaker 2>like an entire outfit you never know like it. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's like it's you know that like people in an

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<v Speaker 2>office have like a backup like shirt and pants, just

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<v Speaker 2>in case like something happens. Right, Well, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to be that guy that like spills mustard on a

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<v Speaker 2>shirt or something and then you look like a goon

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<v Speaker 2>for a whole first date if.

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<v Speaker 3>You spill you just kind of have a sting like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, I need a whole spare of of everything.

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<v Speaker 2>What what if it's red wine.

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<v Speaker 3>It means you had a good time. I don't know, Like, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I can have a good time. Then I could

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<v Speaker 2>just change clothes and still be looking fresh and okay.

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<v Speaker 3>But look, I didn't even get to the weirdest part

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<v Speaker 3>of this. So at one point during the dinner, he's

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<v Speaker 3>like looking around and he goes, do you think this

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<v Speaker 3>is more like a navy blazer crowd?

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<v Speaker 1>Why?

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<v Speaker 3>Like he's gonna change in the middle of.

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<v Speaker 1>The date, tudd. So you brought like a whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and you brought it into the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't have any place to like store it, and

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<v Speaker 2>if I get something on my shirt, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to have to leave and go to the car. So

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<v Speaker 2>I was a boy scout, like I always be prepared

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever, right, Like you never know where the Knight's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go, Okay, but.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean maybe leave it. I don't know, carrying it

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<v Speaker 3>around like a safety blanket. It's a little much like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just thinking it's it's Walnut Creek. It's not Monaco,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, right, Like you don't need all.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I mean I just I feel like it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>matter where it is. I think preparedness is attractive.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but this is getting like a little obsessive. I

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<v Speaker 3>think like the more you're explaining it, the weirder it's

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<v Speaker 3>starting to sound to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't think that that's weird that I'm always

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<v Speaker 2>gonna look good for you. No.

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<v Speaker 3>At this point, I'm just wondering what else you've.

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<v Speaker 2>Got in the trunk. Okay, for the record, nothing weird.

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<v Speaker 2>There's like a to go kit, There's like water in

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<v Speaker 2>case I need it. There's like road flares and like

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<v Speaker 2>a safety blanket.

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<v Speaker 3>The fact that you had to say nothing weird, like

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<v Speaker 3>the fact that you knew to say that is exactly

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<v Speaker 3>why I'm nervous about this.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So are we talking like no second date

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Or what's what's our deal? Valerie?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I've wish him the best, hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, relax a little sure, Okay, hang on, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see the problem. I'm mostly on Todd's side here,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest. What do you think anyway? Second date

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<v Speaker 1>update