1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: Wake your ass up, John Jay Rich, what's crack a leg? 2 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 2: And this is the big Boss dog snoopy Diagle, double 3 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: gigsel dan boom, what you don't do. 4 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: We're not talking about Rin ten team, We're not talking 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: about last year. It's the one and only dog y'all 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: the glass, big sp Eagle, double gibble in your face 7 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 1: to be and in the place to be. 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 2: And you're listening to John Jay and Rich. John Jay 9 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 2: and Rich. Our phone numbers eight seven, seven, nine three, seven, 10 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: one oh four seven. You can call us and jump 11 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 2: on the radio with us. You can also text us. 12 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 2: Text jj R in your number to ninety six eight 13 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 2: nine three. Good morning, Dinah. 14 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: Good morning. I'm about to get married and I need 15 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:51,959 Speaker 3: to talk this out because I'm spiraling a little. So 16 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 3: I brought up wanting a prenup, not because I'm planning 17 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 3: to leave him, but because I'm a grown adult. You 18 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 3: understands how life work and just you know, want. 19 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: To be set. 20 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 3: So his response to that, though, completely threw me. He 21 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 3: was like, you didn't have money or success when we met, 22 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: so why would you need one out? Yeah? 23 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:18,639 Speaker 4: Rude? 24 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 3: Right, So that threw me back, and I'm right, and 25 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 3: obviously it felt like an attack, it felt personal. And 26 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be shady, I'm just trying to 27 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 3: be smart. And he also has a ton of student 28 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 3: loan debt, so you know, and I love him, I 29 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 3: trust him, but I don't trust the economy or the future. 30 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 3: And so now he's acting like I'm predicting our divorce 31 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: and I'm just over here trying to protect the both 32 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 3: of us. 33 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so you said that. He said you guys 34 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: had enough when you met. So now how long have 35 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 2: you guys been together and what do you have now? 36 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 3: Well, we've been together now for about two years, and 37 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 3: I mean pretty much the same, Like it's nothing like 38 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 3: super crazy, but you know, combining both of our incomes, yeah, 39 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 3: would be higher. But he also has that loan depth 40 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,679 Speaker 3: that I don't ever want to fall on to me 41 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 3: in case something were to happen to him. 42 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 2: You know, do you guys, have you either of you 43 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 2: guys been married before? 44 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: No? 45 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 5: Hmmm, do you have anyone in your life who had 46 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 5: like a really nasty divorce, because I mean, you could 47 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 5: always use that as an example, like I don't want 48 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 5: I don't want us to ever get divorced. 49 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 2: I want us to be forever. 50 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 5: But in the event that the unthinkable happens, I don't 51 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 5: want to end. 52 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 2: Up like so and so right. 53 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 3: No, I definitely have a friend that has gone through 54 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 3: that and his wife ended up taking everything because they 55 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 3: didn't have a prenap. Oh he was left with nothing. 56 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 2: I'm curious that. So, Peyton, you're young and you're getting 57 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 2: married soon. Do you and Kadeem or have you guys 58 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 2: had this conversation. 59 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, we have talked about the prenup conversation. We probably 60 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 4: will not be signing one. I mean, but we also 61 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 4: don't have the student loan debt problem. Like both of 62 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 4: us are good because we both played basketball in college, 63 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 4: so all that was paid for us. So we don't 64 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 4: really have any like looming debt like that, which would 65 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 4: probably make us maybe have that conversation. 66 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 2: But no, for now, about you, Richard, you got married 67 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 2: and you this guys were grown ups. 68 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: So I remember when I talked to my divorce attorney 69 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: and I said, hey, I got engaged, and she didn't 70 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: say congratulations. She said, have you had her sign a prenup? 71 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, No, I take that as. 72 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: A totally different congratulations. 73 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 5: That would be what a divorce lawyer would say, because 74 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 5: I'm sure make divorce a lot easier. 75 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 76 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: So when I brought it up to Stacey, she left 77 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: hysterically and said, I have more than you anyway, I'm fine. 78 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 4: So she said, Okay, I'll sign the pre or signe 79 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 4: what O. 80 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 2: Get your guitars, dude, your speaker, She'll guitars. 81 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: Look at all the magic tricks I can get. Get 82 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: all those magic tricks from her family of magic. 83 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 2: My friend Greg. You guys know my friend Greg I've 84 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 2: talked about all the time. He's single. He was engaged 85 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 2: and she got upset when he pitched her a prenup. 86 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 2: So I called her on the radio and I was like, 87 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: I was like, you need to sign a prenup. And 88 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 2: you know she did broke up with him. Oh yeah, 89 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 2: if I have to take the le birthday next week 90 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 2: because of the. 91 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: Terrible I mean, I get, I get the conversation of 92 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: like that means you don't believe in what this can 93 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: be forever if you're if you're planning ahead for that, 94 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: so but it's still if you got stuff to protect 95 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: for yourself. 96 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 4: But him acting like that tells me like Dinah's catch. Yeah, 97 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 4: you know what I because if you would think that 98 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 4: if it was he had an insane amount of student loan, 99 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 4: that he wouldn't want that to fall onto you. 100 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 1: Do you know the way you could pitch it and 101 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: don't listen to me because I didn't love you could 102 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: say this just assures that we're both gonna work hard 103 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: to stay together. This is almost like us saying, yeah, 104 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: we don't plan on happening, and we're gonna work hard 105 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: to stay down so we never have to go to 106 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: the prenup. That could be a reverse cell for you. 107 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a good way to put that, actually, so. 108 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 1: Might as well try it if you're concerned about it. 109 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: But then again, I never got that done, so don't 110 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: ask me. 111 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 5: I can. 112 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 4: It's heard that wants the prenup. 113 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 2: It's such a tough conversation to have. 114 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 5: It is, but it is also like, wouldn't you like 115 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 5: we You're in a spot where you guys love each 116 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 5: other so much right now, It's like I want to 117 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 5: always have that love and respect. We don't know what 118 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 5: the future holds, we don't know what's going to happen. 119 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 5: In the event that something terrible does happen, I would 120 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 5: rather deal with this stuff when we love and respect 121 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 5: each other and can deal with this fairly for one another. 122 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 2: Then have you know vicious spite in the back of it. 123 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so true. That's exactly it. 124 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad you came to us for advice. I 125 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 2: don't know if for give me any but yeah, you're 126 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: still in the same situation. But thanks, Dinah, thanks for 127 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 2: calling up. 128 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:10,119 Speaker 3: Thank you. 129 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 2: If I get married again, I will have her sign 130 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: the prenup. 131 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta protect all of your things like your oxygen. 132 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: Tak a cold plunge my mouthguard. 133 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 2: Mind, She's like, I'm taking a mouth guard. I know 134 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 2: a lady that got a divorce and in her divorce 135 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 2: she lost uh and this is her thing. She had 136 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:38,039 Speaker 2: our show on September eleventh. She loved that show and 137 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 2: she had it on a disc and her husband took it. 138 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 2: I would put all John Jay rich property in my prenup. 139 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: What if that new wife yours comes after your Gary 140 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: Bricka pan? Got to protect that. I have a story 141 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: about that pan that Kyle gave me. 142 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 2: I do I do. 143 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 5: Someone us specifically John Jay's pan. 144 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's my pan. My wife used my pan yesterday 145 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 2: and I was pissed off. She has her own pair 146 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: and human resources lady. It's actually it's Pam. I'm sorry, Well, Pan, 147 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 2: my name is Pam. You're saying Pan Pam. 148 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying Pam. 149 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry. Who's this gentleman sitting behind you? Hello, 150 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 2: miss lady. I'm Dale. I'm brandon step brother, and I. 151 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: Think I might be able to help with a Pan 152 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: Pam dilemma. 153 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, that'd be great. 154 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: Pam, there's no deed, it's Pam. 155 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 3: It's like calm, No, there's just one m. I needed someone. 156 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 2: I think we've had a for one second. 157 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 3: I needed someone. 158 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 2: I'm sorry going off stupid. 159 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 5: You are wearing tuxedos to a job that requires you 160 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 5: to clean baths. 161 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 2: Please leave this office. We're Donald the Center here. Do 162 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 2: we get any sort of souvenir? Get out of my office.