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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning and we are doing second

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Speaker 1: date updates. So I've got Gideon on the phone. Gideon

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Speaker 1: and I have been chatting off the air about his

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Speaker 1: date with Marla. But let's bring everybody up to speed.

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Speaker 1: So you guys giddy and you met online and you

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Speaker 1: had dinner in Los Gatos, tell me more.

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Speaker 2: That's right. Well, you know, I thought it was a

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Speaker 2: great night. I had her sort of marked down as

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Speaker 2: like really funny, really confident. We had a lovely Italian dinner.

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Speaker 2: You know, we talked about kinds of things, you know,

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Speaker 2: things we like to do, where we would like to travel.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: You know, we're joking about where we what we would

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Speaker 2: do if we won the lottery. You know, it's just

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Speaker 2: warm fun.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, let me ask you something though. You said

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Speaker 1: you had her marked down. Do you have like little

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Speaker 1: bingo cards or what do you have?

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Speaker 2: I'd like to keep tracking, you know. You know, people

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Speaker 2: are always on their best behavior on dates, right, and

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Speaker 2: I just want to like make sure I remember things

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Speaker 2: correctly that I'm not you know, making things up or

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Speaker 2: misremembering and that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's like that would be horrible to misremember

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Speaker 1: somebody in front of them.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, as you sit back, you know, a

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Speaker 2: day later, two days later, I just want to make

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Speaker 2: sure that it's like, yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: So has she ghosted?

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Speaker 2: She ghost entirely?

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Speaker 1: All right, well, let's call her. We'll call her. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna have you on the line and uh uh, you

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Speaker 1: know what, I'll just I'll poke around a little bit.

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Speaker 1: We'll try to figure out if if something went sideways,

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Speaker 1: if she's just been busy, or what the deal is.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that sounds great, man.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get you a second date. Okay, go ahead, mute.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Marla and try to figure out why

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Speaker 1: she ghosted after your date. Honestly, it sounds pretty easy.

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Speaker 1: So let's figure this out. Here we go. Hello, is

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Speaker 1: this Marla? This is she Mascus calling Marlate. It's Marcus

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Speaker 1: calling from start one on one three radio. Good morning, Hi,

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 1: I don't suppose you listen to me in the morning,

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Speaker 1: do you.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I start work super early. I don't listen to

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Speaker 3: any radio or anything in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope you weren't just about to go to

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Speaker 1: bet or anything. I apologize, So U I wonder if

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Speaker 1: you might have a second to be on the air

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Speaker 1: only because so we do a segment on the show

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Speaker 1: called second Date Update, And I got sent your phone

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Speaker 1: number by one of our listeners who says he just

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Speaker 1: went on a date with you and he fully enjoyed himself.

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Speaker 1: He'd love to take you out again. Do you mind

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Speaker 1: talking about your date with Gideon? Wow?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So he's feeling like maybe you ghosted, and I don't

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Speaker 1: want to accuse you of anything, but like A would

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Speaker 1: love to know if you ghosted, and b for my

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Speaker 1: guy to be a better person, like was there something

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Speaker 1: that happened or maybe you've been busy or what the

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Speaker 1: deal is? So I guess the first natural question is

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Speaker 1: did you go? And then if so, why?

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Speaker 3: Okay, this's just got super awkward.

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Speaker 4: Am I on the radio right now? Or people?

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Speaker 1: Can people hear me technically? Yes?

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Speaker 4: Is that?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is a first It's fine, It's fine. I

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Speaker 3: guess I'll just you have a very trusting voice, so

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Speaker 3: this could be like a therapy.

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Speaker 1: Session for me by superpower. So what happened? Did you ghost? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Man? I did ghosts? I did not answer it. He

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Speaker 4: is still texting me.

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Speaker 3: By the way, the dates started out promising, I'll just

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Speaker 3: be upfront. It started out promising, and then this guy

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Speaker 3: did did two things that like derailed everything.

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Speaker 1: Tell me everything, okay.

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Speaker 3: First, midway through dinner, he casually mentions in our conversation

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Speaker 3: that he records every phone call he makes or is on,

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Speaker 3: not just work calls, because I said, you mean like

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Speaker 3: at work for your job, you know how they're like, oh,

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Speaker 3: this call may be recorded for quality assurance, you know,

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Speaker 3: And I was like, like personal calls and he's like yeah,

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Speaker 3: and I'm into true crime stuff, so I was like,

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Speaker 3: But then it just got weird because he said I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to remember exactly how he worded it, but he

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Speaker 3: said it's for my protection, you know, because it helps

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Speaker 3: me remember all the details. And I was just like, weird, okay,

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Speaker 3: And then I was like, wait a minute. When we

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Speaker 3: talked earlier before our date today, were you recording me?

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Speaker 3: And he literally just shrugged and was like probably. And

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Speaker 3: at first I thought he was kind of making a joke,

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Speaker 3: like I thought he was just kind of like messing

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Speaker 3: with me, uh huh. But no, then he kept going

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Speaker 3: on and on about it. I'm over here trying to

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Speaker 3: eat my damn fried mozzarella. And he starts just talking

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Speaker 3: about how he does it to protect himself.

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Speaker 1: Huh.

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Speaker 4: And I'm just like, what is this a joke? Like

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Speaker 4: I'm just not getting it right.

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Speaker 1: Let's just pause for a sec. Let's just take a beat.

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Speaker 1: So part of this, Marlae is I have Gideon on

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Speaker 1: the phone lit listening right now, and now I have

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Speaker 1: a big question.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, of course you do. Of course he's listening.

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Speaker 1: Is Oh, so Gideon, are you there?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I'm here.

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is like a bad dream.

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Speaker 1: So do you record all your phone calls for real?

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Speaker 1: Of course?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I think it's just a smart thing

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Speaker 2: to do. It's legal, it's smart. People misremember things.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: It's a dangerous world. I want to make sure I

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Speaker 2: got my ass covered.

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Speaker 3: No, it's not legal. You can't record somebody without their cossete.

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Speaker 3: I mean, Marcus asked me, is it okay if I

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Speaker 3: talk to.

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Speaker 1: You on the radio?

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Speaker 4: He asked for my consent. You can't just do that.

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Speaker 3: Besides, this is not the vibe I'm trying to like

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Speaker 3: enjoy over pasta in a first date. And my damn

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Speaker 3: fried Monzarela, like you were just like killing the vibe.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're.

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Speaker 2: Being recorded all the time anyway, all those cameras. It's like,

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Speaker 2: what's the big deal.

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Speaker 4: Dude, Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Okay, wait, Marcus, I forgot this whole other thing too

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Speaker 3: that he did or just.

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Speaker 4: Didn't even get to it yet.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: At the end of the night, when the check came,

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Speaker 3: this guy pulls out a little notebook writes down what

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Speaker 3: looked like the total, including like the tax and the tip,

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Speaker 3: with a little special pen that had his name on it.

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Speaker 4: I was like, what is happening right now?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, and he.

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Speaker 3: Said, oh, I'm simply analyzing patterns. I like to track

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Speaker 3: my first date spends.

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Speaker 1: Giddean, are you literally tracking your ROI or what is this?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: I'm joking mostly, but it's like I do like to,

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Speaker 2: you know, keep track of things for clarity, just so

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Speaker 2: I remember things correctly. I want to like analyze patterns.

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Speaker 2: Everything's a learning experience and I just want to make

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Speaker 2: sure that it, you know, dot my eyes, a.

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Speaker 3: Learning experience, excuse me, a learning experience.

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Speaker 4: So this isn't even just about the money.

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Speaker 3: I'm literally on a date with you and your auditing

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Speaker 3: or evening.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know. I just want to make sure that

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Speaker 2: you know everything is straight in my head and whether

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Speaker 2: or not things are worthwhile to pursue.

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Speaker 1: And do you have a little box next to Marla's

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Speaker 1: name that says worthwhile to pursue. I'm just genuinely curious.

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Speaker 4: I don't even want to know. I don't even want

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Speaker 4: to know. This is just this feels so instantly prepared.

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Speaker 2: What other doctrine is prepared? Wandering around Billy Neely with

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Speaker 2: no aim, no Marcus.

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Speaker 4: Do you see why I ghosted this man?

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Speaker 1: Yes? I you got you. Guys, hang on, that ain't happening.

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Speaker 1: Let's just let's wrap it up. Second date update