1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,240 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, I want to be 2 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: the best me possible. I'm gonna tell you a story. Okay, 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: this is a real life thing. When you hear it, 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: when you listen to it, I want to know if 5 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: you would have done anything different. Please, That's what I 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 1: want to know. In eight hundred and four, nine, ninety three, 7 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: ninety three, I genuinely want to know from you what 8 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: you think about this. Maybe you'd do exactly what my 9 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: brother did, maybe you'd switch up a couple of things. 10 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: We're live on ninety three three FLZ. By the way, 11 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: we're back. We're live Ashley Terry jed myself. I was 12 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: on vacation though, hanging out with my brother who just 13 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 1: became a doctor, which is sick and I'm so excited 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: for him. He is a doctor, he got his doctorate 15 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: in psychology, and he has, you know, a group of 16 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: friends and they're taking pictures. And after they did all that, 17 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: after the graduation, we went to lunch and he was like, yeah, 18 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: I was kind of awkward. I was taking pictures with 19 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,919 Speaker 1: someone who used to be my friend. We got into 20 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: a pretty big fight. She got really mad at me 21 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: about something, and you know, it looks as though she's 22 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: not mad at me anymore, which is nice. 23 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: And I said, well, what happened now? 24 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,959 Speaker 1: I want to know when you listen to this, if 25 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: you would have done exactly what he did or if 26 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: you would have changed something up. 27 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 2: He said. 28 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: That he had this group of friends they called themselves 29 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: the Core four. Okay, and he was playing video games 30 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: with one of the people. All right, another friend calls him, 31 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: let's put this in our group, Ashley, you and I 32 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: are playing video games. You can hear everything going on 33 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: in my apartment. Jed calls me. I pick up, and 34 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: you happen to hear the conversation because I put him 35 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: on speakerphone. 36 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 2: You can hear it. Okay. 37 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: Now, what this girl told my brother was is that 38 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 1: she cheated on her husband. 39 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 2: Pretty crazy stuff. 40 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: He hears her out on everything, and then he goes, hey, 41 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 1: before I say anything, I do need to tell you 42 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: I had you on speakerphone. You know so and so 43 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 1: heard you. She freaked out, She hangs up, doesn't talk 44 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: to him. Okay, Now, he said, he said, I shouldn't 45 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: have had you know her on speakerphone. I didn't expect 46 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: her to say something like that. But at the end 47 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: of the day, he did. That wasn't my issue. I mean, 48 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: that was a messed up part, but he agreed that. 49 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,959 Speaker 1: I said, I wouldn't have said anything thing. I would 50 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: have just listened and been like, holy crap and then 51 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:04,799 Speaker 1: hung up. 52 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 3: I think he did the right thing only because it 53 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 3: is such major news, and if he hadn't done that, 54 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,239 Speaker 3: and that person goes and tells someone else, she's gonna 55 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 3: be like, well, how do they know? And then she's 56 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 3: gonna think Jacob told this friend. Well, no, you told 57 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 3: them because you were on speaker and I told you 58 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 3: were on speaker. 59 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but if you're all in a close friend group, 60 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: you should just be able to tell that friend. Hey, 61 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: keep your mouth shut, act like this never happened. 62 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, but everybody knows in friend groups. Yeah, they probably 63 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:31,839 Speaker 3: had their core four. But out of those core four, 64 00:03:31,919 --> 00:03:34,399 Speaker 3: two of them are probably closer to each other than 65 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 3: the other two. 66 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 2: Sure that bad of. 67 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: A person that I because I said, when he says 68 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: all of this, he tells the whole story. I immediately 69 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: I was like, well, why did you tell her? You 70 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: shouldn't have told her. And my fiance got so mad 71 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: at me. She's like, do you keep things from me? 72 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: Why would you keep things from her? That's horrible. I 73 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: don't even know this lady and she just happened to 74 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: cheat on her husband, so I already don't think she's 75 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: that great. 76 00:03:58,960 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 2: So I would keep a secret. 77 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 3: No, you just got to tell it because it's going 78 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 3: to come back on you. I do think it's going 79 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 3: to eventually come back on you. 80 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 2: Really, Yeah, I know you do, Bud. 81 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 4: I know Joe that if we ran into this situation 82 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 4: where we were playing video games, right, this is part 83 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 4: of the hypothetical, and we were on speakerphone, we were 84 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,359 Speaker 4: playing with Colbe and jewels, and you drop the knowledge 85 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 4: bomb on me like that, I would have to disclose 86 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 4: it to you. Yeah, because that's not something that you 87 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 4: that I want. I would keep it between you and 88 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 4: I obviously, but if they hurt it, I have to 89 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 4: be like, hey, they also heard it, because then you 90 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 4: don't want to Yes. 91 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 3: Because what happens if once at one day you find 92 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 3: out they know, and then you're gonna be mad at 93 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 3: Jed and I'm like, whoa, well you told them my 94 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 3: business and then Jack like, well you were on speaker, 95 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 3: Like why don't you tell me? I was on speaker? 96 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, but why can't I get them too, like I, 97 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: why can't I? I would try to convince them to tell. 98 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 1: I'd say, hey, that's a lot of weight for me 99 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: to just know. Maybe we should talk about this as 100 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: a full friend. Do you think you're ready to tell 101 00:04:56,680 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: these people? I would kind of you to tell. 102 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 4: And if it's a core four, you would assume that 103 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 4: it would be a point. 104 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 5: Lauren, Hey, good morning. 105 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 1: Hi, good morning. I'm a little bit worried. I have 106 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: anxiety that I didn't explain this correctly. Do you understand 107 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: everything I'm talking about right now? 108 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 5: I mean yes. And my first thought was, if she 109 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 5: didn't cheat on her husband in the first place, nobody 110 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 5: would know anything because it wouldn't have happened. So if 111 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 5: she didn't cheat, then she wouldn't have said, hey, I. 112 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 2: Cheated on my husband, and then nobody would have found out. 113 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 4: So I blame it on her fully, all. 114 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: Right, then I don't feel that bad for my response. 115 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, Lauren, I got shamed at the table, 116 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: absolutely shamed. 117 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, we need to shame her. 118 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: You cheated on your husband exactly nobody else's fault but yours. Yeah, 119 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 2: it's some accountability. 120 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: Does Clockett apply to that? Statement, I'm trying to figure 121 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: out what to properly use clockett. I'm talking no, okay, 122 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: I'll continue to work out that. 123 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 2: In the recycled bent with six to sevens. 124 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: What one more time? My brother in a friend group. 125 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,440 Speaker 1: One of the friends not talking to any of them 126 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: because she called my brother to tell him that she 127 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: cheated on her husband. Crazy stuff. He happened to pick 128 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: up and put her on speakerphone. When he did that, 129 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: one of their other friends could hear the whole conversation. 130 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 1: He then fessed up and said, listen, I'm so sorry 131 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,720 Speaker 1: you were on speakerphone. This person heard that you did 132 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 1: that as well. She's super mad. 133 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: Collette. 134 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, Joe, it's Collette. I don't know if you can 135 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 5: hear me. I'm getting over Brontie. 136 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: Oh you sound still absolutely fantastic. You sound elegant. 137 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 5: Who loves your baby, who loves your baby? 138 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: Thank you? 139 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 5: All right, Well, she's one hundred percent right. She got 140 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 5: it right on the nose, because it would go round 141 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 5: and round and it'll come back the person who was 142 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 5: the girl have the phone with the speaker. She'll she'll 143 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 5: blame him that he's the one that spread the rumor. 144 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 5: She she shouldn't do that to somebody but your husband, 145 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 5: and she shouldn't be talking about it. So she deserves 146 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 5: everything she got. 147 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 2: You guys want to know even more. Yeah, he stayed 148 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 2: with her. There's still you already know. 149 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: I asked that and then I got kind of like 150 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: That're like, well, why is that your my my next questioner? 151 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 2: I guess my first question was what does she look like? 152 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 2: I hadn't know what you guys weren't thinking the same thing. No, 153 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,239 Speaker 2: I'm thinking it's Herny. They're still together. 154 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 1: And then the other thing for off the air, you 155 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: know something crazy Jed knows the guy? 156 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 2: No way, Yeah you do. Wow, Yeah, I'll tell you later. 157 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 2: You'll know. 158 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't even know him though. You know, I'm 159 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: completely on it from a side venture, sidequest. Okay, yeah, 160 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: all right, collect we'll talk to you. Uh, we'll talk 161 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: to you later. We gotta move. We're getting a bunch 162 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: of people calling in, and uh, I knew I only 163 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: had time for six or seven minutes.