1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Diane, I can't ask you this question because you don't 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: have a dog, and I don't know. One of the 3 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: things I wondered is is it true also for cats? 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: But I don't know because it only addresses dogs. Okay, 5 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: and you don't have dogs. Christian with Over, Oh, yeah. 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 2: Be nice. It's his birthday? 7 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 8 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 4: No, I know the how just like Dustin earlier this 9 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 4: week and new it was Josh's dog's birthday from Instagram. Diane, 10 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 4: how do you know it's Kristen's dog's big day? 11 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 5: Because when we were in the studio earlier before the 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 5: show started, I was like, today's the twenty sixth, right, 13 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 5: and she said, yes. 14 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: It's Over's birthday. 15 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 6: Oh and she's wearing an Over T shirt. 16 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 2: I gave her that. 17 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 6: Oh whoops. 18 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: Anyway, Christian with Over do you ever and let me 19 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: finish my sentence. 20 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 6: Do you hug Over every day? You put your arms 21 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 6: around him and give him a great big hug. So 22 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 6: you hug Over? Okay? Tyler with Meadow? Yeah, do you 23 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,479 Speaker 6: hug Meadow more than hug? 24 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 7: Yes? 25 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 6: The yeah, So you wrap your arms around and give Meadow. 26 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 4: A hug like roll around on the ground. She's a 27 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 4: lot tinier than over right, but still a pitbull. I 28 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 4: don't care how much hair she gets all over me. Right, 29 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 4: it's a mess, but it's a it's a cuddly, lovable mess. 30 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 1: With my two dogs, vez Vezzie Vezna. I'll definitely hug Clancy. No, okay, 31 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: you know what, Like, Clancy is a very snugly dog, 32 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: but I won't. I won't hug Clancy. I don't know 33 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: if it's because she's small, but I won't. I won't 34 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: hug her like Vezzie's part. 35 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 6: Great day the. 36 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 7: How much does Clancy way? 37 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: Clancy probably weighs thirty pounds twenty five thirty. 38 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 6: Pounds, but Venzie's like seventy five. 39 00:01:58,760 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 7: Metaways twenty pounds. 40 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: Whops, so yesterday, experts, I don't even know how or 41 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: why I ended up here. Expert explains, hugging your dog 42 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: is doing more harm than good to you or to 43 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: the dog, to you, not no, not me, to the dog, 44 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: to the dog. Okay, Kristen has already dismissed the experts. 45 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: They say, you're actually doing more harm than good. 46 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 6: To the dog. 47 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 2: Well, why because you're making them soft? 48 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: No, no, you're not making your dog a pussy because 49 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: you're I mean. 50 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 5: But you've seen dogs who aren't aggressive, and you see 51 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 5: other ones who who aren't. 52 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 2: I wonder if that plays into it. 53 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 6: It does not, it does not. So hugging we wet humans. 54 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: We look at hugging as a as a as a 55 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: love or affectionate. 56 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 6: Right, but not I don't want I don't. I don't mean. 57 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: Loving an affectionate like like like sex. I just mean 58 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: like if you if you have a boyfriend or a 59 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: girlfriend or whatever, if you hug them, it's a sign 60 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: of affection or comfort or it's there's something pleasurable. 61 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 6: It comes from a good place. Right. 62 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 7: It can be also be compassionate. 63 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 6: Compassionate, I'll take that. That's another good word. 64 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: And so when a when a human does that to 65 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: a human, the receiving human understands where it comes from. 66 00:03:33,720 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: Right Like yesterday, yesterday when we were leaving Omega Studio, 67 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm a hugger. 68 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 6: We were leaving Omega Studios. I hug Kathy. 69 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:42,839 Speaker 7: I hugged Jim. 70 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 6: But Kathy knew as I went in for the hug 71 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 6: that I. 72 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: Wasn't trying to hit on her or her husband was there. 73 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: And it wasn't, it wasn't. It was just very like, 74 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: I'm a hugger, so I gave her a hug. But 75 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: it comes from and but somebody on receiving end. And 76 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: even if Kathy was like, god, I wish you wouldn't 77 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: touch me, she knew. 78 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 6: What it was. Dogs don't know that. 79 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: Dogs don't know that it's compassionate, affectionate, like they. 80 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 6: Don't they don't know what those words mean. Right now. 81 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: They know when you pat them or like when you're 82 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: when you're doing stuff that you're you're happy with them. Yeah, 83 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 1: and they want to be there for you. But dogs 84 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: don't like to be constricted. Dogs like to be free mm. 85 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 1: So what you're really doing is you're putting them in 86 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 1: a position where now they may freeze and just kind 87 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 1: of let you do it and like the where and 88 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: it's like and they know you and they trust you, 89 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: but it was like, okay, just let o on me, please, 90 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,600 Speaker 1: let owe me, please, and then once you let go, 91 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: then they're back to being themselves. 92 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 2: Well what do they do? They give you the gentle 93 00:04:58,279 --> 00:04:59,919 Speaker 2: nudge like okay. 94 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 6: Oh, well they may do several things, Kristen. 95 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: The answer is yes, oph has never once come to 96 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: you and said, hug me. Now I know you hug 97 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 1: him close, and if over could talk, he would say, uh, 98 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: let go, let go. 99 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 2: Oh, here she comes. 100 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 6: And I don't know. 101 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 1: They said, like, so if you pay attention to your 102 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: dog while you're hugging your dog, you may notice their eyes. 103 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 6: Get a little bit big, like they're fearful. 104 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: Right, you ever get that, Christian, where the eyes get 105 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: a little bit big and in your mind you're like, oh, 106 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 1: they're like perked up. No, that's the dog's sign of distress. 107 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: Does Opher when you hug him, do his ears kind 108 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: of go back a little bit? Right? 109 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 6: Yeah? How about Meadows? Do her ears go back a 110 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 6: little bit? 111 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 7: Listen? 112 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 4: I unlike Kristen, who is upset by this study, this 113 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 4: is no surprise to me. I know there are times 114 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 4: when it's not consensual between the two of us. 115 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: Right, But like, but Christian just said Opher's ears go back? Yes, 116 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 1: you know what, that's a sign of distress. 117 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 7: List all of these signs. I have seen them all. 118 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: The one that I haven't seen, They said, Like a 119 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 1: lot of times a dog that is being hugged will 120 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 1: start to lick its lips. 121 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 4: Oh, but I get there first. I lick her nose 122 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 4: all the time. That's not an exaggeration. It's like we're 123 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 4: playing tongue to I always. 124 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: Win, but the but I don't think that I've never 125 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 1: paid attention to. Or they'll like raise a paw to 126 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: kind of push you a little bit. Yep, yeah, oh 127 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,359 Speaker 1: does Opher do that? You know what that is, Kristen, 128 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: sign a distress. 129 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 4: Even if you miss all the signs, the second you 130 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 4: let go and they run away, you know that they 131 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 4: probably didn't want to be there, That is true, But. 132 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 7: I wanted to be there, you know. 133 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: The and the one thing that I read yesterday that 134 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:57,799 Speaker 1: actually made me happy. 135 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 6: And like I said, I don't know why. I don't 136 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 6: know why I don't. 137 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: Hug Clancy, but listen, Clancy will and don't confuse this 138 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: with they say, don't confuse this if you're sitting on it, 139 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: if you're sitting on the sofa, the bed, like wherever 140 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: your dog's place is, your dog may come up and 141 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: snuggle right up next to you and curl up and 142 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: lean on you. And the whole thing. Pardon me, the 143 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:25,119 Speaker 1: wow McDonald's went through me quick. Next one is gonna 144 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: be solid. The but the dog may the dog. 145 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,119 Speaker 6: May curl up next to you. 146 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 7: No, it ain't. 147 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: But the dog may curl up next to you. Yeah, 148 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: but that's the dog choosing to do it. Oh, but 149 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: that's what I was gonna say. Clancy will come snuggle 150 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: up next to me, but I don't hug Clancy. 151 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 6: And I was actually glad. 152 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: Rescue dogs or dogs with limited early socialization may be 153 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:56,239 Speaker 1: more sensitive to close contact handling because they've not learned 154 00:07:56,280 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 1: that it's safe and predictable. So they do say, you 155 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: gotta be careful with rescue dogs. Now, both my dogs 156 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: are rescue dogs. But the but I wasn't doing it 157 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: for that reason. But I would have never thought of that. 158 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,679 Speaker 1: But that does make sense. That does make sense. 159 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 7: Us. 160 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 4: I love when Meadow jumps up on the couch and 161 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 4: then wants to go under the blanket next to me. 162 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 6: But it's not enough gonna cost you a couple of 163 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 6: hogs and a kiss. 164 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 7: It's a transactional relationship. 165 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: The but all the things that everybody's doing. And by 166 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: the way, now everybody is on hold, and here it comes, 167 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: mad hey man, my dog loves it. No, And all 168 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: of these experts said, your dog tolerates it. If your dog, 169 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 1: if your dog doesn't push you away, your dog tolerates it. 170 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 1: Doesn't like it, and you know what they equate it to. 171 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 2: They're putting up for fas no. 172 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 6: No, no, back up for a step. 173 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: Dogs don't like when they're on a leash and they're 174 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: pulling and you're pulling because they feel restricted. You don't 175 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,439 Speaker 1: want that. You don't want that pull on the leash 176 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: because the dog is like, let me go. Same thing 177 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: when Kristen wraps her arms around over let me go, 178 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: but tolerates it because she's not gonna let go. 179 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 4: How about that again, it's not a surprise. I recognize 180 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 4: the signs and I and I see it every single day. 181 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: And also if your dog, when you hug him becomes 182 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 1: very still, like okay, like almost like he's letting you 183 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: do it. 184 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 6: No, you know what, that's a sign of distress. 185 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 4: See, I have jokes. I've joked with Meadow mannequin challenge 186 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 4: because she does. She just turns stiff. 187 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, doesn't like it, doesn't like like it. Where am 188 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 6: I going? Kristen? Line two? Hi, Elliot in the. 189 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 3: Morning, what's ups? 190 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 6: Hey? What's going on? Dude? 191 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 8: I gotta combat this whole thing. I got a Kanye 192 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 8: Corso and she hugged me. She start she jumps up 193 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 8: puts her balls on my shoulder and you know, like 194 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 8: leaves in. 195 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 6: Like a on That is them coming to you. 196 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, but not. But even when I she gets all 197 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 8: excited and you know, once more and all that stuff. 198 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 8: But now I'm like Tyler. I rolled around with her. 199 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 8: I kiss her every day on the kissing spot and 200 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 8: hugger and everything. She's not everything that they're saying. 201 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 3: She does the total opposite. 202 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: By the way, give him a kiss on the kissing spot. 203 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: Totally fine. But the second you wrap your arms around 204 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: that dog, that Kanye Corso is number one in distress 205 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 1: and number two just tolerating you. 206 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 8: Yeah, I said, Diane Pitchers of it. Probably uh sometime 207 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 8: last year when I first got her, and now she's shoots. 208 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 6: Beautiful dogs, by the way, beautiful dogs. 209 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 8: Very good, Thank you. 210 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 7: You got a brother moved into the Kathy folder. 211 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 4: Tom was concerned that no one woul dogs would still 212 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 4: be listening because of the last segment. 213 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: Oh now they didn't, Diane, they didn't say anything about cats. 214 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 6: No, I don't know what. I don't know what the 215 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 6: feeling is there with cats. 216 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 4: I don't think I've ever seen anyone hug a cat 217 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 4: every day as aggressive as we're describing with our dogs. 218 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 4: I mean, are you rolling around on the ground with 219 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 4: your cats? 220 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: No? 221 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 5: Oh, no, Juny. I will pick up and like hug 222 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 5: like a baby. Lucy doesn't tolerate it. 223 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 6: Can I ask a Juny question? Real quick? This story 224 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 6: goes back about two weeks. 225 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: Did anybody see the story of the Amazon delivery driver 226 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 1: who stole a cat off somebody's front porch? 227 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 2: And wasn't the cat named Juni? Yeah? 228 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: And then when they called the cops, they were like, oh, 229 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: I thought it was my cat that got loose and 230 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 1: was on the thing. 231 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 6: Yeah, the cat's name was Juny. Made me laugh, made 232 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 6: me laugh. I'm sorry? Where am I going? Kristen Line four? 233 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 2: Bobby is more aggressive than with me than I am 234 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,599 Speaker 2: with him. 235 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 6: So Bobby throws you on the ground, now ugs you? 236 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 5: No, he and I look distressed. No, he's the one 237 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 5: who's always up on me, like he won't leave me alone. 238 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 6: There's Diane licking her lips again. Hi Elliott the morning, 239 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 6: Hi Elliott. Hi, Yes, who's this. 240 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 5: My name's Andrea. 241 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 8: I actually talked to you last week. I'm the nerd 242 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 8: with the Harry Potter pop socket. 243 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, what's up? Nerd? 244 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 8: I have to argue. 245 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 9: My dog loves being hugged. 246 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 10: My husband will hold and hug her and she falls asleep. 247 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 6: Can I speak on behalf of your dog? 248 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 2: She's playing dead. 249 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 6: I'm tolerating it. I'm tolerating it. You feed me. 250 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: I'm talking, yes, yes, I yes, way, I'm tolerating it. 251 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 6: I'm in dis d. 252 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 9: Is. 253 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 5: She's asleep, in stress. 254 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 6: She's just playing still so that you will leave her alone. Listen. 255 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 9: I don't listen. 256 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: I love dogs more than anybody, but you have to 257 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: listen to thank you. 258 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 6: You have to listen to the dogs. 259 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 7: Kristen. 260 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 4: Are you upset with me that I didn't see your 261 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 4: seventeen photo Instagram post of what over for the birthday? 262 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 4: And she did it three hours ago, so it was 263 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 4: up before we start talking dogs? 264 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: Is it all pictures of her hugging over and over 265 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: in distress? 266 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 4: The blurry ones. I don't know what's going on there, 267 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:43,559 Speaker 4: not that it's censored. Wait, oh, trying to like lick you? 268 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 7: Yeah? 269 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 6: Or it was his rocket out Elliott? What? No, I 270 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 6: don't know. I mean Molton's rocket used to be out 271 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:50,959 Speaker 6: all the time. 272 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 7: God, over is so bit? How much is overweight? 273 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 6: Ninety five damn Hi, elliot in the morning. 274 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: Is this me? 275 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 3: Yeah? 276 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 4: Hi? 277 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 6: Who's this? 278 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 8: Hey? This is Chris. 279 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: Hey. 280 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 6: Where are you calling me from? 281 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 8: I'm calling you from Ashburn? 282 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 6: Oh? Very good? 283 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 3: Yes? 284 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 6: What can I do for you? Yeah? 285 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 8: My dog hugs me. You know I would. All I 286 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 8: gotta do is go up to her. 287 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 9: And just pat on my chest and she puts her 288 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 9: paws up and she hugs me. 289 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you know what that's called training. You've trained 290 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: your dog. You've trained your dog to hop up on you. Listen, 291 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: when I get home, I can do the same thing. 292 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 1: I stand there, Clancy comes up to me, and I 293 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: go like this, and Clancy hops right up. 294 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 6: I've trained her, and as you have done. 295 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: With your dog, your dog's not like, oh, Daddy's home. 296 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 6: And goes running up to hug you. You've trained her. 297 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 10: Well, yeah, I guess I've trained her to do what 298 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 10: I want her to do. 299 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: Exactly, exactly. And here's what I can tell you, based 300 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 1: on all the experts. When you hug your dog, your 301 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: dog does not lie. It's distressing your dog. Well it 302 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 1: comforts me, no, and that's fine, And give you give 303 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: that dog a big kiss on the kissing spot, right, absolutely, absolutely, 304 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: all right, very good, Thank you sir. 305 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it is man's best friend, but relationships 306 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:25,479 Speaker 4: can be complicated. 307 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 6: Line five, Hi Ellie in the morning. 308 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 9: Hey it's the same, Yeah, Hi. 309 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 6: Who's this Hi? 310 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 11: This is Kelly, Yes, Kelly. 311 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 9: So I have ten townships. 312 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 10: Who who is really just toddally in terms of what 313 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 10: she feels like to me? And so a couple times 314 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 10: a day we go through what I call the struggle 315 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 10: snuggle because she absolutely hates it. But I will just 316 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 10: grab her and maul her a day and hugger. Okay, 317 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 10: but you with her, and she defends up, and she 318 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 10: turns her face away from me. And if I try 319 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 10: to kiss her, she acts like I'm trying to set 320 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 10: her on top. 321 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 6: By the way, if I did that to you, you 322 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 6: would be like, get off of me. 323 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 9: If you did that to me, I would call the police. 324 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 1: Yeah no, but I'm saying I would be putting you 325 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: in distress. 326 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 7: This is why we can't give our dogs a pet phone. 327 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 1: No, no, but you're putting the dog in distress. What 328 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 1: just pet the dog, Let it curl up next to you. 329 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: But you're rolling all around with the thing. 330 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 9: It's for me, not for her. 331 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 6: And that's I tell her, I mean, yeah, and you 332 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 6: know the way, you're no different than Christy. 333 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 2: You know what you buy the food exactly exactly. 334 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 9: Also, I'm the one that called about I was going 335 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 9: to do the animal Communicator with the cat and the dog. 336 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 9: That's the other what and I got it. 337 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 6: Whatever happened to her? I had been emailing her. What 338 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 6: was her name? 339 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 4: Was it? 340 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 6: Carla? 341 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 7: Yes, chef? 342 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 9: No, that was the one they did the article about 343 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 9: in the post. 344 00:17:01,880 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, no, but I had the other one. I think 345 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:07,439 Speaker 6: it's Carla Hall it is. Why is that name? No, 346 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 6: Carla Hall's from. 347 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 7: The chew The definitely was the peck Communication. 348 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 1: No, but I even sent her pictures of Vessie and 349 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: Clancy and we were gonna set. 350 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 6: Up a time. I've never heard from her. 351 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 4: Oh she's the one that called in your Yeah, yeah, 352 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 4: it was going to take an hour. 353 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 9: I'm still with the cat and the dog. Right two 354 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:29,119 Speaker 9: dollars later. 355 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: The but isn't the but isn't the but like with 356 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 1: the little ten pounder, like that dog doesn't have a 357 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: kissing spot. 358 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 9: Where is the kissing spot by. 359 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 6: The way, right here, right here? 360 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 9: Oh okay, yeah, that's where it is. 361 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 1: But yeah, below the tail that that. 362 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, a little ten pounder doesn't have a kissing spot. 363 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 6: It does, but it's like that. It's like this big. 364 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 4: I kiss all over Meadow's body. 365 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 7: I do. I kiss everywhere pause below the tail. 366 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 6: I mean not within reasons only. 367 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:09,919 Speaker 4: If we're trying to express her anal glass. I have 368 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:11,880 Speaker 4: my limits, but I do. I guess, and I get 369 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 4: so much hair in my mouth, but I don't care. 370 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 1: Line three, I gotta go quick. Hi Elliot in the morning, Me, Yeah, Hi, 371 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: who's this? 372 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 3: It's Steve. I grew up out of my ass is 373 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 3: listening to you. But now I'm down in Stotsylvania. 374 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 6: Oh the radio still works there. 375 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 3: Oh it does every morning. I listened to you around 376 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 3: for work. Very good. 377 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 11: I appreciate it worked as a Yeah, I worked as 378 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 11: a dog trainer since my early twenties. About the hugging thing. 379 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 11: You are spot on everyone I run into that comes 380 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 11: in for training. They're always up on their dogs, and 381 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 11: those dogs look like they're about to freak out. They 382 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 11: can't see the face from they're hugging on them. 383 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 3: They have no idea. I can see the face. 384 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: The eyes get wide, the ears go back, they get 385 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 1: that stare to them. 386 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, they're in distress. 387 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:10,959 Speaker 11: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, and they tense up. You can 388 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:12,640 Speaker 11: see him tense up immediately. 389 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: Now a lot of people are saying they're just bracing 390 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 1: themselves for my embrace. 391 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 3: For real. 392 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 11: I've had one exception to that rule, and I fully 393 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 11: believe it was learned behavior. But it was a Golden 394 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 11: Retriever that would run. 395 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 3: Up to my ex girlfriend. 396 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 11: And would actually hug on her and put his head 397 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 11: over his shoulder and wanted that embrace. Yeah, but it's 398 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 11: it's gotta be like I mean, but that's learned behavior. 399 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 3: So that means how much stress did he go through 400 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 3: to learn this is? Okay? 401 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,160 Speaker 1: Right, No, that's what they say. Dogs will tolerate it. 402 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: They'll tolerate it, but they don't love it. All right, dude, 403 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 1: I appreciate it, thank you. Yes, it's like walks for 404 00:19:54,000 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: the humans. I don't want to go out that tolerated exactly. 405 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 6: I'll tolerated