1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: I said this earlier in the show, and I genuinely 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: mean this. You know, I love you. I know everyone 3 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 1: in this room loves you. There's a reason why you're here. 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:10,920 Speaker 1: And I'm excited that everyone's now going to be able 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: to know you in like a longer form, like they 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: get to listen to you and really learn about you 7 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,479 Speaker 1: in the way that we have and love you in 8 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: the way that we do. This is going to be 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: an interesting moment because I don't know how he's going 10 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: to react. But we do have a life update, something 11 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: that I don't think any of us thought was going 12 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: to happen when we come back from vacation. But some 13 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: things were great, some thing's not so great, and a 14 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: not so great thing happened to Jed. 15 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 2: So this is going to be hard for me to 16 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: say my girlfriend and I are no longer to get there. 17 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: There's some poor decisions on my behalf that I think 18 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 2: led to that, you know happening. And yeah, so that 19 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 2: happened over the break and it's been a tough last 20 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: couple of days. I remember I actually was hanging out 21 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: with Joe and Katie on the day that it happened 22 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 2: and kind of give them a rundown on everything. I 23 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 2: think they were just as surprised as I was. And 24 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 2: it's been a kind of a rough start to the 25 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 2: new year, honestly. Yeah, I don't know. 26 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 3: Is there any potential of you guys getting back together? 27 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 2: I don't know. I really don't know. And I one 28 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 2: thing that I'm just trying to focus on, Ashley, is 29 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 2: control the things that I can control, and look at 30 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 2: myself in the mirror and realize what I did wrong 31 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: and just learn from it. 32 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 4: As long as you've owned up to your mistake and 33 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 4: you've talked to her and apologize for whatever it is. 34 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 2: I have, and if she doesn't accept my apology and 35 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 2: doesn't want to hear from me, league get it. I 36 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 2: would probably do the same thing as well. It sounds 37 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 2: like you cheated. Did you cheat? 38 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 5: I did not cheat. There was no cheating. 39 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: There's just some There's just some things where I was 40 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 2: not one hundred percent honest about and because of that, 41 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: she felt like I was, that she couldn't trust me anything. 42 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 3: She felt you with whole information correct. 43 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: You shared your location with her, yep, and then you 44 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: told her you were somewhere that you weren't. 45 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I basically was not honest about the time 46 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 2: that I had gotten home from said location he went 47 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: out to, soho I did. 48 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 3: I always remember real quick when a woman question. 49 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 4: When a woman asked you a question, ten times out 50 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 4: of ten, she already knows the answer to. 51 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: Just be honest, you're right eight hundred and four on 52 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 1: the ninety three ninety three, and never gonna make a 53 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: mistake like that. Never maybe get caught in a lie 54 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: with their significant other. Did you ever recover from it? 55 00:02:55,960 --> 00:03:00,080 Speaker 1: Or maybe didn't? You had any advice for Jedes. Some 56 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:03,679 Speaker 1: people's advice might be don't share your location? Will you 57 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: be sharing your location? And other relationships? 58 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 2: I don't actually do well because I have no problem 59 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 2: with somebody knowing where I'm at, especially if I'm in 60 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 2: a loving yeah, and friend girlfriend, she's part of that 61 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 2: friend category. 62 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 6: Why wouldn't she go out with you guys? Does she 63 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 6: not like that? 64 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 7: No? 65 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 5: No, not no, not necessarily. 66 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 2: It was she had some other things going on with 67 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,639 Speaker 2: her family that she had to take care of. So 68 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: it is one of those things where I just went 69 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 2: out with the boys, I got a little too carried away, 70 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 2: and you know, just yeah, that's it. What do you 71 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 2: feel like, I'm not being honest right now, Joe, can 72 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: I be honest? 73 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 5: Go ahead? 74 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 6: And I hope you don't mind them and say this. 75 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 5: Go ahead. 76 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 6: I think you just sharing your location until further until 77 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 6: further notice. 78 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,840 Speaker 4: Especially a significant other. I mean, I understand why people 79 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 4: do that, but it just. 80 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 7: You don't. 81 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 3: Just because you don't share your location doesn't mean you're 82 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 3: not being honest. 83 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 4: Like what happens if you're like, hey, I'm at Walmart baby, 84 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 4: and then you she checks your location, You're a target? 85 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 4: Like excuse me for running the target right after I'm. 86 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 3: Running the jargon next day, RelA. I just think it 87 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 3: can get you in a lot of trouble. 88 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 7: Hi, Holly, Hi, how are you Holly? 89 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 8: Happy Year? 90 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 7: Oh? 91 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 8: I love you guys too. I feel bad for Jed. 92 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 8: I feel like his heart is broken. I met his 93 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 8: fiance on the cruise and she was pretty, but she 94 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 8: was she she was kind of self absorbed. 95 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 9: From opinion. 96 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna I disagree with that. 97 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 6: We're gonna try to get them back to wait, we're somewhere. 98 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,359 Speaker 9: I'm going with this. The people that are self absorbed, 99 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 9: because I've been self absorbed sometimes if people don't tell 100 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 9: us the truth or whatever, we think it's all about 101 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 9: us and we just back off on the other person. 102 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 9: But once Jed gives her her space and he proves 103 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 9: the reason why he said what he did or did 104 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,119 Speaker 9: or whatever, and if she really loved them, they'll both 105 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 9: they'll be absorbed in one relationship. I mean, like being one, 106 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 9: you know, I mean first impressions. I'm sorry. I didn't 107 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 9: mean it like anything bad by that. I didn't know. 108 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 9: Well I got that voice. 109 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 7: Maybe I had, and I didn't. 110 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 9: I don't have any long idlan tees in me, so 111 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 9: I don't know. I feel bad for dead and I 112 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 9: really think that she loves him, I really do. 113 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: Hopefully our dump buttons still worse than all right, Holly, 114 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: I love you, I love you. 115 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 6: Thank you for calling back. 116 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:13,039 Speaker 10: Is it Doron, Yes, it is Hi, god Mon, I'm 117 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 10: doing pretty good. My kids are going to be so 118 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 10: upset that I actually got through and they're not in 119 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 10: the car with me. 120 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 6: Well, call back tomorrow with them in the car. 121 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 7: Okay, yes, when school starts. 122 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say so that. What are they 123 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: in Hillsboro County schools? 124 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 10: They're at Trinity School for Children. Yep, Hillsboro. 125 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 6: You look at them. Go I'm jealous of that. So 126 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 6: what do you say? What do you think about Jen? 127 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 10: You know that I guess something like this. Everybody makes mistakes, 128 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 10: and I feel like that's not the biggest mistake in 129 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 10: the world for her to dump you. I'm like, when 130 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 10: you get married, you go through bigger things, like you apologize, 131 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 10: you owned it. Why did she have to dump you? Like, 132 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 10: it's not that serious, It's not that big of a deal. Yes, 133 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 10: it is. You shouldn't have lied, but at the same time, 134 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 10: you should be able to work through things, and you 135 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 10: want to be with someone that you can work through 136 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 10: things with correct. 137 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: But also I think it was just it was just 138 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 2: it's like little yeah, it's like little things of dishonesty 139 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 2: where I think and it's yes, and it's and it's 140 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 2: hard to recover from that when you've done it. You 141 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 2: know too, And this is probably second or third Yes, Ashley. 142 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 3: Can I ask why you're why you aren't honest with her? 143 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 2: What makes you I don't because I'll be honest with you. 144 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 2: I was out with my friends that night until like 145 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 2: four or five o'clock. So what my my thing is? 146 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 10: Darn. 147 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 2: The reason I'm saying all this is because I feel 148 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 2: a complex inside me, which is super bad and I 149 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 2: need to self reflect and really work on myself with this. 150 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 2: But I get super self conscious of letting people down, Okay, 151 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 2: and I feel like in ways and even and this 152 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 2: is not just one off with my girlfriend. It's been 153 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 2: with Joe, It's been with Ashley, It's I'm sure Katie, Katie. 154 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 2: I'm sure Katie's experienced it and so way, shape or form. 155 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 3: Don't you understand what you're saying. 156 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 4: You don't want to let us down, but don't you 157 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 4: feel like you would let us down once we find 158 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 4: out the line? 159 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 10: I know? 160 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 5: And that's why I. 161 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 3: Think just going into it just being honest. 162 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 4: I'd rather be honest and than be upset with my 163 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 4: honesty because now I have to apologize for a line, 164 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 4: and then I have to get you to trust me again. 165 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 3: There is potential of you, you know, getting her back. 166 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 3: You just have to. 167 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 4: You gotta be honest, right, Yeah, I'm just telling the truth. 168 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 10: I'm like, you know, just say it and just not 169 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 10: care about I mean, care, but don't care about what 170 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 10: people think. I mean. It's like I'm being honest. I'm 171 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 10: going here, I want to go here. I don't want 172 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 10: to do it. 173 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:43,839 Speaker 6: You know, so I don't know, because if. 174 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 10: You feel like you guys should be able to work 175 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 10: it out. I mean, you know, especially if that's something 176 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 10: that you're gonna work on. 177 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 3: If you told her the truth, what would have happened? 178 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 5: I think we'd still be together. 179 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 3: But what her reaction would have been, I'm saying what 180 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 3: she would have like. 181 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 2: Okay, they would have been like what the hell are you? 182 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 2: Tru would have been like I think upset and that 183 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 2: I was hanging. 184 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 4: Out with the boys, Like yeah, you would argue for 185 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 4: a little bit, you know, you make up and you 186 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 4: move on. 187 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 3: That's off really quick. 188 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 4: I think this generation, myself included, we don't give ourselves 189 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,119 Speaker 4: grace when it comes to messing up in relationships. 190 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:18,199 Speaker 3: It's just like one and done. 191 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 4: Whereas our parents, I feel like they go through things 192 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 4: and they understand like, hey, no one's perfect. I'm gonna 193 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 4: work through this and we're gonna work through it together, 194 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 4: Whereas this generation we don't want to work through it 195 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 4: because we have social media and it's just like I'll 196 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:32,439 Speaker 4: just go on to the next person, but this one 197 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 4: bus the next fifteen coming. 198 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 10: Yeah right, that's exactly right. Thank you guys for letting 199 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 10: me share my thoughts. 200 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 6: I love you, Thank you for you. 201 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 10: Okay, I'm calling tomorrow with the kids. 202 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: We're picking you up right away. Let's put a note 203 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 1: on the phones to make sure we picked her on up. 204 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: We'll talk to you later. Jad and his uh, his girlfriend. 205 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 1: Unfortunately they broke up, and we're talking about how Jed 206 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: lied and he was out till when he said five 207 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 1: am to be honest, talk about ruining the next day. 208 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: I'm exhausted. The next day, I'm out till ten pm. 209 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: I'm exhausted the next day five am. Crazy Katie. Katie's 210 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: on the show now, Katie Summers. As you hear all 211 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 1: of this, are you disappointed in Jed? 212 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 6: No, because I. 213 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 11: Feel like he's being very honest with himself. I like, 214 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 11: I don't know, true, but sometimes it takes a second. Also, 215 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 11: he's a pisces man a second, so I kind of 216 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 11: process it and think about it, and I don't know. 217 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 3: I thought, you guys are really good together. So I 218 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 3: have hope that you're gonna work it out. 219 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 5: We'll see. I don't know, I lie, I do. 220 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: It happens. You don't mean too, but it happens. I 221 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: promise you though. Yeah, the moment you're honest about stuff. 222 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 1: I've told my fiance things I want to tell her, 223 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: but I gotta tell her because if I lie and 224 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: I get on and when you lie to I don't 225 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: know if you feel this way, but literally, the whole 226 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,319 Speaker 1: entire time now, the moment I lie in the back 227 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 1: of my head, I'm going I'm stressing about it, and oh. 228 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 6: My god, when I see him again, they're going to 229 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 6: figure it out. 230 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: I hope they don't figure it out, and that then 231 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: you're you're letting yourself down, right, because you're gonna be 232 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 1: freaking out. I think if you stay inside and just 233 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: play Fortnite with Emily, you say, don't give up. Jed 234 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: sounds like he's giving up on this relationship. Don't give 235 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: up though. 236 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,160 Speaker 8: Hey guys, no, don't give up on it, because honestly, 237 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 8: at the end of the day, if it was meant 238 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 8: to be, she's gonna come back. 239 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: You're right, But but I can't give up false hoape Emily. 240 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 2: If somebody unilaterally ends a relationship, I can't be the 241 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 2: one chase, you know, chasing and seeming desperate. 242 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,080 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it's desperate chase than you want. 243 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 11: That's what I'm saying like would you fight for her? 244 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,720 Speaker 11: And to ask you this before, like would you fight 245 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 11: for her? I feel like she's worth it, don't you? 246 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: I believe so, Yes, You're not gonna fight for it 247 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: because that's stupid book. 248 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 5: It's not because of the book. 249 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 2: It's about the It's about the principle of if somebody 250 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 2: no longer wants to be with you, you can't control their mote. 251 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 2: You can't control how they feel and their emotional feelings 252 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 2: towards you, like you have to let those feelings come 253 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 2: to fruishing on their own. What you going back and saying, oh, 254 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 2: please take me back. 255 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, sorry, pase take me back, but you can 256 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 4: do small jos. 257 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 1: Zach Zach, you were caught in the same position. Your 258 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: girlfriend caught you lying yes, how did you get her back? 259 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 7: So it actually happened on R's Day. 260 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 12: We would just having to dinner and she told me, 261 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 12: can I see your phone? And I kind of like 262 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 12: had the table like yeah, and what was that? She 263 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 12: saw me like liking some of my female female friends 264 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 12: photos because they do cosplay, and then she saw that 265 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 12: I saved some of photos. So we were had an 266 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 12: argument and we talked and she said like, this is 267 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 12: the second time we did this, and she was ready 268 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 12: to like walk out the door, but I was like, 269 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 12: you know, it was kind of fighting for her not 270 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 12: to leave, and we talked about it for like all night, 271 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,000 Speaker 12: so finally were just like, hey, let's just go to 272 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 12: bed and you know, I'll change. 273 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 7: And she just. 274 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 12: Didn't say anything the rest of the night. So the 275 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 12: next morning we're just a little awkward. We just like 276 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 12: went to work, didn't say anything, not until like during work. 277 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 12: I finally texted her and hey, I'm so sorry, I 278 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 12: want to change. I probably shoot, this will never happen again. 279 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,079 Speaker 12: And then, like I told her, I did let it 280 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 12: all my social media, so I'm no longer like going 281 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 12: to have those impulses to like like or stay those photos. 282 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: Why is it that women in cosplay are hot and 283 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: can't control themselves like thou to get him broke up? 284 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 4: Again? 285 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 12: Like I told you, like nurse these days, they're hot, 286 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 12: and I'm like, I don't. 287 00:13:54,720 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 2: Know, why get yourself in more trouble, Zach. 288 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: We'll talk to you. Uh, we'll talk to you later, 289 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: and uh, best of luck. And you know, with all 290 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: the hot women doing pad. 291 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 12: Anymore, Oh my god, Yo, my man, I don't even 292 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 12: think you want to hear this like. 293 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 7: This, but you know I like that. So I feel 294 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 7: like it's it's so minute as that. It's not like 295 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 7: you was teating or got caught texting women or doing 296 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 7: something wrong. It's siting as minute as that was, of 297 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 7: course to say I don't want to be with you. 298 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 7: No more like sometimes people just look for reasons. 299 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 4: No no no no no no no he you. 300 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 7: Get the Britney fis no no no no no no 301 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 7: no no no. But he man, we need to got 302 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 7: my homeboy said no. 303 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 3: No, you said it was just this one time. I mean, 304 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 3: Jed was honest. 305 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 4: He said I have had, you know, small little lives 306 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 4: that led to this. So it was more so just her, 307 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 4: you know, pocketing all these lies and it got to 308 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 4: that last one. 309 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 3: She's like, I can't, like I can't. 310 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: How often are Jewels and I playing Fortnite and then 311 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: you tell us you can't play for some reason. But 312 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: you're learning to us about what you're doing. You're going 313 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 1: to be honest about what I'm doing with you. 314 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 2: It's pretty yeah, kind honestly, sometimes I don't want to 315 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 2: play with you. 316 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 3: A lot of jad a lot of jadd. 317 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 6: A, man, I'll talk to you later. 318 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 4: So your New Year's resolution in twenty twenty six is 319 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 4: to be more honest. 320 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 2: That's certainly one of them. It's certainly one of the 321 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 2: many all works out there. Yeah, water finds its levels 322 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 6: And if it doesn't, someone's gotta be single.