WEBVTT - Is It Cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it is Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a topic that I want to bring up,

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<v Speaker 2>and I want to ask listeners just to weigh in

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<v Speaker 2>on this. And if you have a question to add

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<v Speaker 2>to this. Once you hear me get going, feel free

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<v Speaker 2>to call in. You have an open airways right now.

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<v Speaker 2>And Lydia, if a text call me to nine five

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<v Speaker 2>five zero zero, that means they're on point with what

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<v Speaker 2>we're talking about here. Here's the topic. Is it cheating?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's weigh in a little bit here on

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<v Speaker 2>this one. Is it cheating if I let a gay

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<v Speaker 2>bestie see me naked?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, she's not even into you. What if he's

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<v Speaker 1>bye or she's by Mike?

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<v Speaker 3>I actually want to ask Wes that questions as I'm

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<v Speaker 3>on a group convo right now with my two gay

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<v Speaker 3>besties and Wes.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely if they buy, if they're oh, if.

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<v Speaker 3>They're bye, that's but that's not what to ask said,

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<v Speaker 3>all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>If I have a sex dream about another girl or

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<v Speaker 2>guy depending on.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't control your dreams unless you pray for the dream,

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<v Speaker 4>where sometimes I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Before I.

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<v Speaker 4>You have prayed to have a dream, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 4>let me have I've you praying for a certain dreams you.

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<v Speaker 1>Want, so you actually will literally say I want to

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<v Speaker 1>have a dream about blah blah blah. Yep, wow, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Pray for how long I want to sleep, how I

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<v Speaker 4>want the rest to feel when I wake up. That's

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<v Speaker 4>where we sturn. These four hours make you feel like

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<v Speaker 4>forty absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>What about you, Shannon? What do you think on that one?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it you think a dream wouldever constitute cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>Agreed? So it's so you're subconscious. I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I dream about stuff that I would never ever want

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<v Speaker 3>to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever been conscious in a dream though?

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<v Speaker 4>Like you you had the ability to make decisions even

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<v Speaker 4>though you knew you were in a dream.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had that happen? I don't necessarily know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>So, like, say you're in a dream, but you have

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<v Speaker 4>consciousness like you're in a dream. You realize you're dreaming

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<v Speaker 4>that happen. You know that you'll wake up, So everything

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<v Speaker 4>that's taken place in the dream is in reality. But

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<v Speaker 4>you're able to make decisions like you're conscious in the dream.

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<v Speaker 4>You never had that? That's list the matrix.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually it's a bad dream exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm like, this is going to be okay, you're

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<v Speaker 3>going to you're going to wake up.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it cheating? If I let a guy in front

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<v Speaker 2>of me in line at Starbucks pay for my drink,

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<v Speaker 2>You're just a whore?

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<v Speaker 1>That thing is? Our listeners probably agree with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I don't. I don't think it's right. But is it? Actually?

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<v Speaker 1>What about drinks at a bar too?

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't call that cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's what's cheating?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe not right?

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<v Speaker 1>It is flirting?

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<v Speaker 4>Cheating flirting, I say absolute. So if you know that

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<v Speaker 4>he's flirting with you by buying you a drink, how

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<v Speaker 4>is that not cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that's what I'm saying. Though maybe would be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so kind of you. I'm in a relationship. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you really.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to if if the guy then says or the

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like, if this is happening, say this happens

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<v Speaker 2>to my wife or whatever, and if the guy says, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>let's sit down and enjoy it together, absolutely, then then

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<v Speaker 2>that would scare me. But if somebody buys it is

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<v Speaker 2>basically the paid forward right.

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<v Speaker 3>When you first asked it, And that's why I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>his intention.

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<v Speaker 1>Is flirting with you and then let me drink.

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<v Speaker 2>How about if it's in your car where it happens

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<v Speaker 2>in the drive through and then he follows you home.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I'm just kidding, I'm just having that. Is it cheating?

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<v Speaker 2>If I follow my ex on Instagram just to see

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<v Speaker 2>what they're up to, it's not cheating, but it is

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<v Speaker 2>improper behavior.

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<v Speaker 3>Though, and to stop doing it because you're just making

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<v Speaker 3>yourself crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>That's cheating and you like them a little bit? Still,

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<v Speaker 4>Why why is it so definitive for you, Lydia?

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<v Speaker 3>Because I've dated guys who will follow girls on Instagram

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<v Speaker 3>while we're in a relationship, and I think that boundary

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<v Speaker 3>and that's cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's interesting though that sometimes you just want

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<v Speaker 2>to see if they're doing bad like you want to

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<v Speaker 2>you want that, or you're hoping that they're doing bad,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, Kevin praise for good sleep. We pray

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<v Speaker 2>for our access to have. By the way, when Kevin

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<v Speaker 2>says it's not cheating, but it reminded me of it's

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<v Speaker 2>not illegal.

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<v Speaker 4>It's frowned upon, like masturbating on an airplane exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it sounded like. Ok, this is a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it cheating. Oh, this is bad.

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<v Speaker 2>This is bad, because yes, is it cheating if I

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<v Speaker 2>talk to a coworker about problems in my relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, as long as you don't have your your

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<v Speaker 4>penis out.

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<v Speaker 2>But there's a lot of times where you're giving out

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<v Speaker 2>too much information.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you have to be very careful because that can

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<v Speaker 3>snowball very quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>My therapist Dennis thinks it's not proper. Agree is not cheating?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's probably not good for your relationship not cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>It can open the door.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's where it's at because if y'all build

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<v Speaker 4>an emotional connection chased, y'all, let's go out for drinks

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<v Speaker 4>and talk about our problems and one thing leads to another.

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<v Speaker 1>This next one.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, I want to hear some of yours,

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<v Speaker 2>and you guys, ask us your questions about is it

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<v Speaker 2>cheating and whatever? Maybe from your personal experiences eight four

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<v Speaker 2>to forur Mojo Live. I thought I thought right away

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<v Speaker 2>would get like calls of people commenting on all these ones,

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<v Speaker 2>because I know you're in your car or you're sitting

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<v Speaker 2>there wherever at work, and you got your ear pods

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like no, yes, no, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you're answering these things. This last one is a big one,

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<v Speaker 2>and this one is one where I sat there and thought,

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<v Speaker 2>what will they say to this? Is it cheating if

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<v Speaker 2>I let a person drive me home from the bar

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<v Speaker 2>because I can't get an uber? If you have if

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<v Speaker 2>you're out, if you're in a relationship and you're out

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<v Speaker 2>and you can't get an UBER and you let somebody

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<v Speaker 2>drive you home, like somebody that's you know that you

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<v Speaker 2>would trust to drive you home, stranger, stranger, a stranger

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<v Speaker 2>or or another or a guy that maybe you come

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<v Speaker 2>in contact with or grow you come in contact with.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it cheating just to let them drive you home?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm say no, I would have would.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to agree with you, but I have what

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<v Speaker 3>go ahead? No, I don't think it's cheating. However, I

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<v Speaker 3>would never do it, and Wes would be so upset

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<v Speaker 3>if I did do that.

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<v Speaker 4>That would be my question. Did you try to call

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<v Speaker 4>me first? Like are you reaching out to your spouse

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<v Speaker 4>before you just let the stranger?

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<v Speaker 3>And in the same vein, I would be so upset

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<v Speaker 3>if he got in the car, had some random girls

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<v Speaker 3>and he's intoxicated.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like it would be it would be one of

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<v Speaker 2>those things where if all you pulled into the driveway,

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<v Speaker 2>got out.

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<v Speaker 1>Of the car, came in, nothing happened, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>had to say to your.

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<v Speaker 2>Spouse if I'm questioning you, like like nobody's ever going

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<v Speaker 2>to believe that nothing didn't happen exactly, And it would

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<v Speaker 2>be weird when you say the next morning, hey, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>so how'd you get home to say to them, this

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<v Speaker 2>is how I got home?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see what Stacy has to say. Stacy, you have

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<v Speaker 2>a question or comment or complaint?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you got? All right?

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<v Speaker 5>Comment?

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<v Speaker 6>Chatting with a coworker about troubles in your marriage that

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<v Speaker 6>leads to cheating leads.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's why I said.

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<v Speaker 3>It can snowball no fast.

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<v Speaker 2>It can be bad, especially especially if you're not telling

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<v Speaker 2>the truth, you know what I mean, or or or

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<v Speaker 2>over exaggerating stuff, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot tell you how many times I have had

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<v Speaker 2>stories be told to me of guys going, yeah, they

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<v Speaker 2>told their they told their spouses that I was like

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<v Speaker 2>this horrible, horrible person, and then you find out that

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<v Speaker 2>they're having an affair with that person.

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<v Speaker 1>So that has happened before.

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, they com misbrate together and it leads one thing

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<v Speaker 6>to another. In my case, Yeah, knocked up.

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy.

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<v Speaker 2>All these ones that we asked about, obviously that was

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<v Speaker 2>the one that came to mind for you. Any of

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<v Speaker 2>the other ones pinpoint for you, like the you know,

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<v Speaker 2>letting somebody buy you a drink at Starbucks or following

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<v Speaker 2>your action on Instagram that got Lydia hot.

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<v Speaker 6>Now following on social media, I think that's cheating that

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<v Speaker 6>that also can lead to stuff. But buying a drink,

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<v Speaker 6>buying a simple coffee, that's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a nice gesture.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what if you guys drink out of one straw together?

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<v Speaker 7>Absolutely not, that's gross.

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<v Speaker 1>The social media thing is hey, Jennifer, what's up? Hey guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, good morning?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So is it cheating when you're partner che's the

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<v Speaker 5>coworker of the opposite sex and the weeks the.

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<v Speaker 2>Messages acause your friend's a little echoy?

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<v Speaker 1>What does say?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh sorry, hold on, So is it cheating when your

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<v Speaker 5>partner is texting a coworker of the opposite sucks and

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<v Speaker 5>delete the messages going on?

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<v Speaker 1>That is a little shady. Did that happen in your personal.

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<v Speaker 5>Life a lot shady.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. It was a reason why we broke up in

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<v Speaker 5>October because he was hiding text messages, deleting them. We

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<v Speaker 5>were on vacation and she was deleting. She was texting him,

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<v Speaker 5>and he was deleting the messages and he was saying

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<v Speaker 5>he was saying like, oh, it's about work, and I said, well,

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<v Speaker 5>if it's about work, then keep the message so I

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<v Speaker 5>can see it. And then he was like, well, it's

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<v Speaker 5>just because you're crazy, and I know you're gonna start

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<v Speaker 5>an argument.

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<v Speaker 2>When we start calling you crazy is when you got

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<v Speaker 2>to realize that there's something going on there. Read the

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<v Speaker 2>deleted messages then, oh yeah, did you know you could

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<v Speaker 2>read the leader.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, so this was his second time being caught doing this.

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<v Speaker 5>He learned how to delete from recently deleted Okay, I

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<v Speaker 5>found out I found through his phone records.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow we're engaged.

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<v Speaker 5>They were engaged. We've been together five years, so there's

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<v Speaker 5>still deep Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You dumped him. I thought you guys broke this is

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<v Speaker 1>a pattern we did.

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<v Speaker 5>We did break up in our Cobra, but we got

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<v Speaker 5>back together and then yeah, it's been wrough, like we've

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<v Speaker 5>been working on it, but it's you.

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<v Speaker 1>Deserve better, man. I don't know for real, believe me. Lso, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy. You need to hear it. It'll be tough.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll be tough in the short term, but this is

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<v Speaker 3>the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you right now? Are you at work? It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it's loud.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm at work.

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<v Speaker 2>Go talk about this to the hottest guy in the

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<v Speaker 2>office and just have an affair with him.

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<v Speaker 5>I work with all females.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, send me on Instagram. We'll go out after link after.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang on the lawn. Haley, Haley, what's yours?

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<v Speaker 4>The cheating?

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<v Speaker 7>If your spouse hugs a coworker of the opposite sex

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<v Speaker 7>because they won't see them for a week they're going

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<v Speaker 7>on vacation.

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<v Speaker 1>That's hugs. The mojo's cheating. Everybody in this room, we

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<v Speaker 1>hug all of you.

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<v Speaker 7>That what?

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<v Speaker 1>What? What is I I'm kind of wondering what exactly

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<v Speaker 1>is going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh.

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<v Speaker 7>This happened to my friend about a year ago. She

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<v Speaker 7>was just concerned that she basically just didn't want her

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<v Speaker 7>man touching another female, just touching, you know, being a

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<v Speaker 7>co worker, you eight hours with them a day, So

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<v Speaker 7>she was being a little parentally.

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<v Speaker 1>How long was the hood? Yeah? How long was the hug?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it more of an embrace? Was the rubbing of

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<v Speaker 1>the bag? It was an embrace? Then there's something.

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<v Speaker 2>There might be something too, if it's lingering, if it's long,

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<v Speaker 2>and if she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Not hugging everyone else could exactly, then there's something. Give

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<v Speaker 1>that little slut hook. Yeah, not good.

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<v Speaker 7>He called him out for it, and there was like

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<v Speaker 7>a little fight, but they he just communicated like it

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<v Speaker 7>wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just a coworker.

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<v Speaker 7>But well the situation of like him not going to

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<v Speaker 7>be there for a week, is this a little weird

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<v Speaker 7>for her?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just for I'm going to miss you for that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that as an excuse. What do they do

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<v Speaker 1>for a living? I want to know where where is

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<v Speaker 1>all this cheating going on?

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<v Speaker 7>They worked at the They worked at a gym, and

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<v Speaker 7>this worker was.

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<v Speaker 5>A trainer, so she was in.

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<v Speaker 1>Her sport brawl.

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<v Speaker 3>You have missed a lot of details when you first

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<v Speaker 3>told us this story.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for the call, Haley.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no problem.

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<v Speaker 7>Bye.