WEBVTT - Pulling a Stranger Into Your Fight

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's Mojo in the morning show.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so much fun having Jacob and his boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 2>Chris my son and his boyfriend hanging out with us.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to tell you, I am absolutely in love

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<v Speaker 2>with their relationship. As a dad, there is nothing that

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<v Speaker 2>will make you happier than when your children find somebody

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<v Speaker 2>that treats them as good as you treat them.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm getting a little cloudy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Chris is a wonderful guy, and Jacob is wonderful

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<v Speaker 2>to him.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Chris has a podcast that he does, and

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<v Speaker 2>he does also a he does technical or he writes

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<v Speaker 2>reviews on tech products and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like he's a really good kid.

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<v Speaker 2>And when he came into the studio to see our

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<v Speaker 2>studios for the first time because it was his first

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<v Speaker 2>time visiting us in Detroit. They live in Lincoln Park

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<v Speaker 2>in Chicago. He came in the studio, he lit up

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<v Speaker 2>and it was really cool to see how excited he

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<v Speaker 2>was when he got around all the equipment and stuff

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<v Speaker 2>like that. But we were having a conversation through the

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<v Speaker 2>weekend and one of the things that they gave me

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<v Speaker 2>as a potential topic is something I wanted to bring

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<v Speaker 2>up right now. I asked him if they ever fight,

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<v Speaker 2>and Jacob said, oh, yeah, we're not. You know, we're

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<v Speaker 2>not like any you know, crazy relationship that won't admit

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<v Speaker 2>to it, especially being in a same sex relationship. I

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<v Speaker 2>got to be honest with you. You know who fights the

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<v Speaker 2>most out of any couples the lesbians?

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<v Speaker 1>Women. I found this. Did you see this statistic? No,

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<v Speaker 1>there's like light in me.

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<v Speaker 2>There is a statistic that I might get the number

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<v Speaker 2>wrong by like a point or two, that says that

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<v Speaker 2>sixty percent of lesbian relationships, more than fifty percent of

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<v Speaker 2>lesbian relationships end up in divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>How about a sixty nine?

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<v Speaker 2>It may maybe it was wild that that. So they

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<v Speaker 2>showed that they they end up being divorced the most.

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<v Speaker 2>Then hetero sexual relationships end up in divorce the second most.

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<v Speaker 2>Gay relationships between a man and a man, they are

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<v Speaker 2>the least likely to end up in divorce.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what the problem is? Women? You see that point?

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<v Speaker 1>Too many talking too much.

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<v Speaker 2>So Jacob and Chris, we're telling me a story about

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<v Speaker 2>the fight that they got into one time and they

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<v Speaker 2>had to take an uber and Jacob was so mindy

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<v Speaker 2>to make his point that when they got into the

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<v Speaker 2>uber Jacob, who is a therapist, that's what he does

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<v Speaker 2>for a living, ask doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>The doctor asked.

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<v Speaker 2>The uber driver for advice, and I thought, that is

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<v Speaker 2>the funniest thing. How many times have you guys, ever

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<v Speaker 2>been out in public in a fight with your significant other,

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<v Speaker 2>your partner and you end up fighting only to have

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<v Speaker 2>complete strengths get involved in your argument.

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<v Speaker 1>You are I am for that.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, it's an honest party that doesn't have any affiliation.

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<v Speaker 1>They can't pick a side.

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<v Speaker 3>They just have to go based on either our arguments

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<v Speaker 3>or the facts that are presented.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think it depends on how you frame it too, though,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you bring it up to someone else and

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<v Speaker 1>the way you frame it to them, then they're usually automatically.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, hey, excuse me, and it's you like settle a

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<v Speaker 3>debate real quick, like that's.

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<v Speaker 1>How you gotta do. That's how I feel like.

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<v Speaker 4>I do this all the time on the show with Wes.

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<v Speaker 4>Unfortunately our listeners always choose west to side, but we

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<v Speaker 4>do do that a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Has that ever happened to it?

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<v Speaker 2>We have any Uber drivers that are listening that have

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<v Speaker 2>ever been driving for a couple that's fighting with each other,

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<v Speaker 2>and you had to like deal with the fighting and

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<v Speaker 2>give advice.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to call us up and tell us.

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<v Speaker 2>Or have you ever been out in public and somebody

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<v Speaker 2>like butts into your business? I remember one time it was.

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<v Speaker 2>I called it, like we talked about home alone. I

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<v Speaker 2>called it the home alone moment where you know how

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<v Speaker 2>in home alone is like the nice lady that's in

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<v Speaker 2>Central Park ends up helping the birds. Yeah, the bird

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<v Speaker 2>lady becomes like Kevin's friend or something like that. Like

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea and I were out and I remember we were

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<v Speaker 2>getting into like a little bit of a spat with

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<v Speaker 2>each other, and this old woman who was like missus

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<v Speaker 2>doubtfire comes out of nowhere and.

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<v Speaker 1>Goes, you too should know.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, she had like kind of an

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<v Speaker 2>old lady voice, and she was wearing like one of

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<v Speaker 2>those old lady dresses and stuff like that. I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 2>if I lifted the wig off her head, it would

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<v Speaker 2>have been missus doubtfire. And she kind of settled our

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<v Speaker 2>argument with each other, and she basically told me you're

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<v Speaker 2>a pain in the asta and be nice and basically

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<v Speaker 2>gave us advice.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so funny because.

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<v Speaker 2>You never know, when you're going to be the blessing

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<v Speaker 2>to somebody's day.

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<v Speaker 1>This woman was a blessing for us.

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<v Speaker 4>It's also so much more productive. I think you need

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<v Speaker 4>a third person. Yeah, I mean that's where that's why

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<v Speaker 4>therapists are so And have.

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<v Speaker 2>You ever had this happen to you? This has happened

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<v Speaker 2>to me and Chelse two. We're in a restaurant and

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<v Speaker 2>we're hanging out, like wherever Cony or something, and we're

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<v Speaker 2>kind of not good with each other. And then you

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<v Speaker 2>look over and you see that old couple sitting in

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<v Speaker 2>a booth and you see the love that they have

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<v Speaker 2>still for each other. Yeah, and you're kind of like,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, this is gonna be us one day, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, Or it's not gonna be us if we don't resolve.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be me and a twenty year old.

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<v Speaker 2>But eight for fur Mojo Live eight for four six

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<v Speaker 2>six five six five four eight. The text is nine

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<v Speaker 2>five to five zero zero. Has a stranger ever had

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<v Speaker 2>to like give you any kind of relationship advice or

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<v Speaker 2>gave you, you know, have you ever pulled a stranger

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<v Speaker 2>into your your fight?

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<v Speaker 1>Janine? What's going on? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 6>When my daughter was little, going to be forty. I

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<v Speaker 6>had been in a store with her and she was

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<v Speaker 6>mouthing off to me, and she was telling me she

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<v Speaker 6>wanted candy. So I took two fingers and I smacked

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<v Speaker 6>her across the face. So I look up and this

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<v Speaker 6>lady comes around the aisle looking at me like she's

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<v Speaker 6>gonna give it to me. And I turned to her

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<v Speaker 6>and I said, if you say one more to me,

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<v Speaker 6>if you're next, because I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Not doing that, Janine. That's not where I thought. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I want to say anything to

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<v Speaker 1>Janine might get to no offense. I didn't get two fingers.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't, I didn't. All Right, what a first call

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<v Speaker 2>to take on this one?

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<v Speaker 1>Amy? Are you there? Amy, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 7>I just texted then, and I promise I will not

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<v Speaker 7>say backwards on the radio. But very very uncomfortable situation.

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<v Speaker 7>A friend of mine from high school. I ended up

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<v Speaker 7>introducing her to her husband and they were married for

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<v Speaker 7>a long time. Then went and played cards with her

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<v Speaker 7>and her husband. Everything seemed to be fine. They got

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<v Speaker 7>into an argument and she called him an effing midget,

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<v Speaker 7>oh like with force, and we just sat there full Yes,

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<v Speaker 7>he was shorter than her, but it was so uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 7>We just sat there and didn't know what to do,

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<v Speaker 7>and I just wanted to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>Again. This is not where I thought this topic was

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<v Speaker 1>going to go.

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<v Speaker 2>I was looking for wonderful moments where a stranger came

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<v Speaker 2>in and helped you out. This that was not it. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so far, I'm over two on calls. Let's see what

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<v Speaker 2>three has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Lydia, Hi, Lydia, Good morning, guys. Morning.

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<v Speaker 5>So, as an uber driver, I have to say it

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<v Speaker 5>is undoubtedly more uncomfortable when people are arguing in my

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<v Speaker 5>back seat than it is if they're making out.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, so if there's PDA going on in the

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<v Speaker 2>back seat, that's not that uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>But if they're arguing and there's all.

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<v Speaker 5>This tension and raised voices, and then when somebody asks

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<v Speaker 5>for my opinion, honestly, I'm.

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<v Speaker 8>Gonna go with whoever's name the ride is in because.

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<v Speaker 1>Increased chance ofship. I never thought about that. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have to like physically look at your your

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<v Speaker 2>app to see who it was they called?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I mean, honestly, you kind of know by the name,

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<v Speaker 5>or you know whoever speaks first.

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<v Speaker 8>Is normally the person that's taking charge with the ride.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, you know exactly. That's interesting. All right, we

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<v Speaker 2>got another uber drive around with us. Have you had

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<v Speaker 2>to do uber therapy, Kerrie?

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<v Speaker 9>Yes, I have, And I usually go with the wife

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<v Speaker 9>side just and kind of ease the husband to the

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<v Speaker 9>wife side so he don't get in too much trouble

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<v Speaker 9>on him getting on nookie later.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, So I kind of get this idea that

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<v Speaker 2>you're you're.

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<v Speaker 9>Wife happy life.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, she might be right, you know, but if she's wrong,

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<v Speaker 9>she's kind of still right.

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<v Speaker 2>I like you you should make sure that they give

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<v Speaker 2>you a good tip after one of those kind of rides.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Cheryl? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 8>Mo Joe?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, you know dang well that it's gonna be Chelsea

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<v Speaker 5>with a twenty year old Mae.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to see Chelsea dating a younger guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to tell you that that would be That

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<v Speaker 2>would be so much fun.

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<v Speaker 7>It's gonna be a lot fun for her.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, well, she looks way younger than I than

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<v Speaker 2>than than I am, So I feel like when I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sitting with her at a booth, people already think that I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>The sugar Daddy. What's up, Suzanne? I.

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<v Speaker 8>Good morning, Good morning. My husband and I recently last week,

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<v Speaker 8>we're out having a glass of wine and we did

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<v Speaker 8>get the little snit at the bar quietly, and I

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<v Speaker 8>was asking him to take it home with me and

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<v Speaker 8>deal with it there. And next thing I know, our

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<v Speaker 8>ex mayor from our town walked up interrupted and said,

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<v Speaker 8>in case you're having an argument, I wanted to show

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<v Speaker 8>you my new puppy.

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<v Speaker 1>What and he had a puppy with him.

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<v Speaker 8>He had a puppy with her. Oh, and she said

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<v Speaker 8>in case you're in said, in case you're having an argument,

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<v Speaker 8>let me show you my new puppy.

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<v Speaker 1>And what did it do? Did it make you guys happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did you guys just know?

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<v Speaker 8>I stared at her, like, are you insane?

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<v Speaker 9>That?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow? What town do you live in? What town?

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<v Speaker 8>Is this the salt Colorado?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Colorado? Wow? That's wild they saw Colorado. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>he just wanted to the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>But she knew even though you thought you were quietly arguing, Suzanne,

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<v Speaker 2>she knew that there was something going on in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Between the two of you.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, I give it to her. Yeah for sure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>it could have been obvious. I'm not not disagreeing.

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<v Speaker 2>My favorite is to go to part and other couples

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<v Speaker 2>are arguing because I think what it ends up happening

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<v Speaker 2>is that it brings Chelsea and I closer together because

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<v Speaker 2>you start seeing other couples like that where they look

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<v Speaker 2>like they don't even talk to each other, and I

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<v Speaker 2>look and I go, well, at least we got a

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<v Speaker 2>better relationship than they.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, you know what I mean there?

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<v Speaker 8>Honestly, I yes have commented on that. For sure, we

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<v Speaker 8>were that other couple that night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thank you for the call. I appreciate it, Susan.

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<v Speaker 8>I know I have called. I've been lucky enough to

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<v Speaker 8>call many times, and I enjoy you all every morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We love you. Thank you, thank you. Thanks guys, take

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<v Speaker 1>care