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Speaker 1: On The Dave Ryan Show one on one point three

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Speaker 1: another fifteen minutes or so. I am in Colorado, and

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Speaker 1: you know, I usually come out here because we had

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Speaker 1: a house out here. It's nothing fancy. It's the house

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Speaker 1: that I grew up in and it's just kind of

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Speaker 1: like an escape in the woods with deer and things

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Speaker 1: like that. This time I came out here because my sister, Vivian,

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Speaker 1: who is I've got four sisters. Don't tell the other three,

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Speaker 1: but she is by far my favorite sister. I love

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Speaker 1: them all. But this is the thing about Vivian is

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Speaker 1: when I was a kid, she was the one who

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Speaker 1: always had time for me, always would get on the

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Speaker 1: older than me. Yeah, and she would, you know, take

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Speaker 1: me for a ride in the car. She would drive

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Speaker 1: me to school. I remember one time we were driving

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Speaker 1: to school and we stopped and we got a hershey bar.

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Speaker 1: Why remember you remember things like that? But I want

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Speaker 1: to tell you, I think it's very true you remember

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Speaker 1: little things, but what you really remember in life is

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Speaker 1: the way someone makes you feel. Absolutely somebody makes you

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Speaker 1: feel like you're important, and they make you feel like

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Speaker 1: you're loved, and they make you feel like you're worse.

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Speaker 1: And even at five or eight or six years old

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Speaker 1: or whatever, Vivian made me feel like I was fun

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Speaker 1: and loved or whatever. Oh God, I'm gonna get missy. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: So Vivian, fifteen years older than me, her her daughter

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Speaker 1: called and said a couple of weeks ago, said yeah, mom,

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Speaker 1: like fell and they found her on the floor and

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Speaker 1: we put her in the hospital and she's unconscious, and

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Speaker 1: then she would come in and out of consciousness, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I got to go out

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Speaker 1: and see her. And so I thought I'm gonna get

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Speaker 1: so on Friday, I said I'm gonna leave on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: I had such a cold come on Friday on Friday

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Speaker 1: that I almost didn't go. Yeah, I was like, I

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know, trying not to sneeze, and

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Speaker 1: so I get here and the cold, you know, kind

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Speaker 1: of become secondary, even though it's just awful. So I

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Speaker 1: go see Vivian on Sunday and she's in a rehab

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Speaker 1: center and I walk into her room. And this, let

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Speaker 1: me back up a little bit. She's been doing this

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Speaker 1: thing where she kind of pretends that she's sleeping, and

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Speaker 1: then she'll be totally lucid the next day. And then

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Speaker 1: nobody knows why. So I walk in the room. She

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Speaker 1: sees me, she goes, what are you doing here? And

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Speaker 1: I said, hey, sis, and she immediately went into the

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Speaker 1: I'm pretending I'm sleeping kind of a thing. And I

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Speaker 1: her hand, she kind of pulled it away, and so

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Speaker 1: I tried to rub her feet. She didn't like that.

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Speaker 1: And so she's a big Christian. So I got out

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Speaker 1: my phone and I looked up Bible verses for sick people.

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Speaker 1: You can google that. So I read her some Bible verses,

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Speaker 1: thinking maybe she would hear him somehow, And after about

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Speaker 1: and then I came back. The next day, she's sitting

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Speaker 1: She talks normally she's totally fine, and and she she

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Speaker 1: just seemed like a tired version of herself. Went and

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Speaker 1: saw Oh played the ukulele for her too. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: she loved that, she said, she did, Bailey. So I

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Speaker 1: looked up after and she's smiling. She said, I really

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Speaker 1: the same positive, you know, alert sister. Nope, she's doing

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Speaker 1: the I'm sleeping bit again. I literally stayed there for

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Speaker 1: about sixty seconds because what do you do. So that's

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Speaker 1: kind of the update with her. But on the other

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Speaker 1: side of the coin, we're moving her out of the

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Speaker 1: trailer that she's lived in. And I'm going to tell you,

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Speaker 1: the stuff that old people accumulate is astounding. And it

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Speaker 1: was also sad how dirty her trailer was. She lives alone.

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Speaker 1: And I don't mean like with food laying around, and

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Speaker 1: very long time, maybe maybe years, maybe ten years. I've

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Speaker 1: And then I'll wrap it up with this. So we're

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Speaker 1: cleaning everything out and we're loading up a big dumpster.

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Speaker 1: My kniece hired a dumpster, and we're throwing all of

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Speaker 1: her stuff, her recliner and her pots and pans, and

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Speaker 1: we were donating this and donating some of this, but

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Speaker 1: the stuff that's old that nobody wants, we're throwing in

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Speaker 1: the dumpster. And then there's a shed out back. I

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Speaker 1: It was about the size of a large bathroom act

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Speaker 2: Like not like outdoor tools, some oh okay okay.

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Speaker 1: But also boxes of stuff that mice had chewed through,

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Speaker 1: just thrown in like they had given up. And I

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Speaker 1: think it was her ex husband, because that's not Vivian.

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Speaker 1: It was just stacks thrown in like they've given up

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Speaker 1: on arranging it or organ They just would open the

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Speaker 1: can smell mice and you can see like the evidence

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Speaker 1: of mice for years and years. And we started to

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Speaker 1: clean it out and I thought, God, you can get

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Speaker 1: like a neurovirus or something from this. Yeah, So so

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Speaker 1: we called the eight hundred got junk, guys, this is

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Speaker 1: not a plug, and they came by within thirty minutes

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Speaker 1: and gave us an estimate. They're gonna come by tomorrow

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Speaker 1: and clean out the entire thing. Oh wow, that's five

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Speaker 1: hundred bucks. Maybe five hundred bucks. Wow worth it. So anyway,

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Speaker 1: I guess my point is that's kind of my story.

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Speaker 1: But it's just kind of sad because I just love

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Speaker 1: her so much and I hope she's around for a while.

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Speaker 1: Not really sure what the prognosis is. But also check

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Speaker 1: on your old people, you know, because if you haven't

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Speaker 1: been to grandma's house in a long time, or maybe

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Speaker 1: haven't been to your older sister's house. And by older,

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Speaker 1: you know, it depends, I mean whether she's sixty six

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it makes you.

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Speaker 1: Get older, get rid of your stuff as you get older,

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Speaker 1: so your kids don't have to go through it.

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Speaker 2: What they don't know what was wrong with her at all.

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Speaker 1: They really don't know. That's a good question, Bailey, They

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Speaker 1: really don't. They ruled out a stroke. They My niece

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Speaker 1: has a theory. She's pretty bright. She says, there's a

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Speaker 1: movie called Awakenings with Robin Williams where somebody did the

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Speaker 1: exact same thing and she's certain that that's what her

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Speaker 1: She'll and they haven't had a diagnosis, but she will

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Speaker 1: absolutely be her lucid, funny, conversational self, just a tired version.

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Speaker 1: And then other days she'll see you and pretend that

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Speaker 2: You don't think she's doing a bit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it could be that she's like, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to see anybody. Yeah, but if so, if she

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Speaker 1: just said I don't want to see you guys, I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, interesting, I tell.

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Speaker 1: You you know what. It's one of those things Vaunt

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Speaker 1: where normally I would have bitched and bitched all day

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Speaker 1: a recliner and microwaves and old pots and pans, and

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Speaker 1: I would have bitched and bitched. But when you love

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Speaker 1: somebody so much, it doesn't feel like a burden. Like

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Speaker 1: if Vaunt said, hey, will you come over and help

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Speaker 1: me move? I would have come over and helped him move,

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Speaker 1: but I would have bitched. I would have called Bailey

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Speaker 1: and Jenny and said, yeah, he's got so much crap

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Speaker 1: know that it's your bread and butter, thank you, But

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Speaker 1: what it's somebody you love, It's like it's a whole

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Speaker 1: different story. So anyway, that's kind of what's going on.

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Speaker 1: On KTWGB. Molly called a minute ago because Molly was listening,

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Speaker 1: was telling the story about my sister and why I'm

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Speaker 1: in Colorado because my sister is sick and they're not

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Speaker 1: sure why she's sick. And then you know, she's going

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Speaker 1: to move in with my niece, and so we had

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Speaker 1: to clean out her trailer, which was forty years of

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Speaker 1: accumulated stuff and a shed with rat infested might just awful.

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Speaker 1: And so Molly is on the phone with a kind

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Speaker 1: of I don't know a comment on that. Hi Molly,

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Speaker 1: what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 4: Just two things. First of all, I work in a

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Speaker 4: transitional care facility in Minnesota, and I just wanted to

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Speaker 4: say that. First of all, she's really lucky to have

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Speaker 4: either don't have anybody laugh or you know, they live

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Speaker 1: You know. I can see that, yeah, because there are

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Speaker 1: certain people in my family who would be like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got stuff going on. Yeah, and it's like they

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Speaker 1: stuff going on, so okay, thanks. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then secondly, I'm a therapist, so we you know,

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Speaker 4: come to have people do exercises, and a lot of

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Speaker 4: people do that bit of I'm suddenly asleep and they'll

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Speaker 4: kind of peek at you out of one eye, but

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Speaker 4: they're they're playing possome. I don't think your sister is

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Speaker 4: a lot of people do that for.

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Speaker 2: Us when week coming.

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Speaker 5: Why do they do that, well, because they don't want

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Speaker 5: to get up.

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Speaker 1: They don't want to get up, they don't start playing

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so they're.

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Speaker 1: Wide awake, they're watching something on TV and then you

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Speaker 1: come in to give them orange juice and an ensure

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Speaker 1: and they don't want so they pretend they're asleep.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, we come in to try to get them

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Speaker 4: off and do exercise.

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Speaker 1: Oh I got I see what you mean.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm here to rest.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to see you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I see interesting, Mollie. Thanks for listening, man, I

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Speaker 1: really really appreciate it. Thank you for calling in. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: It's it's an okay contest. You want to hear how

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Speaker 2: Can I try? Can I try?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead? Jenny? Okay, okay, not bad? Do you like contest?

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Speaker 5: Dave?

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Speaker 2: This is stupid?

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Speaker 1: No, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, yeah, it's okay, it's okay.

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Speaker 7: Did you come up with this while you were sleeping?

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Speaker 2: I never said it was a great contest. I said

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Speaker 7: Okay, don't hurt yourself, David, don't give yourself.

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Speaker 1: But you like the contest.

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Speaker 5: He's on the phone getting load the phones up.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna load the phones up with people who are

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Speaker 1: going to give us their best CARDI B. Do it

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Speaker 5: I used to have a button in my studio when

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Speaker 5: Oh, do you want to talk to some people and

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Speaker 2: What kind of okay they got?

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Speaker 1: Let's do? Okay, you gonna give us your best? And

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Speaker 1: Let me just tell you, I have to listen to

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Speaker 2: Everyone loves Bernie.

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Speaker 1: Nobody likes that.

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Speaker 7: I don't call the show Bernie calls.

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Speaker 1: I have to listen to. I indulge you in that

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Speaker 2: I told you.

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Speaker 7: Every day, David by letting you speak. Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 7: Who's on the phone, Jenny, take it away?

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Speaker 2: Correct? Yes, ma'am, Okay, we'll give us your best? Okay?

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Speaker 2: A long? Oh all right? Oh god?

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Speaker 5: Next up, we've got Mandy. Good morning, Mandy, good morning.

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Speaker 5: All right, Mandy, give us your best. Okay, okay, all right, okay.

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Speaker 1: Your thoughts they're tied.

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Speaker 2: You heard the contest, so give us your best. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 8: Oh oh, it was like a crescendo in there, a crescendo.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Stacy's up next, safe see take it away?

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Speaker 2: roll my tongue. The contest is. Next up is Larisa, Larsa, Larsa,

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Speaker 2: give us your best. Ok okay, okay, we had a

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Speaker 2: It's Amelia. Morning, Amelia. Make this one good girlfriend at home,

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Speaker 5: All right, all right, Dave, I'm gonna try to do

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Speaker 2: Okay, three two one?

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Speaker 1: Like what.

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Speaker 2: That? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: This is why Barrett Media named us the number four

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Speaker 1: morning show in America.

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Speaker 3: That's what.

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Speaker 2: That's why.

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Speaker 1: Because this contest was okay, Bailey, pick one, go.

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Speaker 7: Ahead, Bailey, Okay, I'm liking the one that had the

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Speaker 9: I think that is my Ryan Ryan Raya, Right, you're

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Speaker 2: Can you do out your old.

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Oh, I see I like that little crescendo in there.

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Speaker 5: Congrats Bailey, picures you are going to see Cardi b

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Speaker 2: Like tomorrow?

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Speaker 7: Is?

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Speaker 1: Just say it's gotta be tomorrow night, so we'll have

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't say this contest was great. I would say

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Speaker 7: Wow.

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Speaker 2: That means a lot. Do you get it? Do you

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Speaker 2: I get it?

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Speaker 1: I just.

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Speaker 2: We can't go from the okay contest?

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Speaker 1: It's a good bit, you know, guys. I'd like to

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Speaker 1: Do you get it?

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Speaker 5: Is busy with things, so I'm the only one here

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Speaker 7: Oh well, okay, Jenny, I'd actually I'd like to say

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Speaker 1: Oh sure, yeah, Bailey, go ahead?

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Speaker 2: Plethora.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes I question one day like hey, can you put

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Speaker 5: I usually trust him because he is a Marconi winning

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Speaker 1: I'm on theraflu I'm not myself.

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Speaker 2: I'm are you a little like drunken drunk off theraflu

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Speaker 1: You know what it's like when you have a cold.

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Speaker 1: Then you don't feel like like like half of your

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Speaker 7: It's one of your eyes going the other way, and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, let's go and do Dave's Dirt on

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Speaker 2: Dave Ryan Show one on one point three kd WB.

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Speaker 1: Gravis Kelsey, you might have heard his sign up for

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Speaker 1: another year with the Kansas City Chiefs. It's a one

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Speaker 1: And Travis actually credits Taylor for him deciding to stay

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Speaker 10: It's amazing to see her keep going to the table,

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Speaker 5: Well, I feel like with him assigning that contract, it

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Speaker 5: Taylor will get pregnant, but right quite Yeah, well speculation, Dave, Well,

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Speaker 5: you were going the last couple of days, we've been

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Speaker 5: talking a lot about this shooting that happened at Rihanna's mansion.

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Speaker 1: In LA that I don't know anything about it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, basically, a woman who needs some severe mental health

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Speaker 5: help shot at their home like ten shots with an

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Speaker 5: They were actually hanging out in an airstream camper they

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Speaker 7: So there's going to be a new Rapunzel live action movie.

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Speaker 7: We already know who Rapunzel is. Her name's Teagan Kraft.

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Speaker 7: You wouldn't know her if you saw but Milo Mannheim

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Speaker 2: He was in like the zombie movies, which is probably.

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Speaker 7: Gothel Who's going to be Catherine Hahn, and everybody loves

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Speaker 7: She did WandaVision, Agatha all along on Disney Plus.

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Speaker 8: So Alex Warren is doing his first ever open interview

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Speaker 8: about what happened during the Grammy. He's on the Colder

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Speaker 8: Daddy podcast. Here he has talked about his little mishap

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Speaker 11: It was horrifying. All week we rehearsing, it was perfect,

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Speaker 11: Twenty five seconds and I go, guys, something's wrong. Something

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Speaker 11: and I go, guys, I can't hear it. And so

440
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Speaker 11: they start someone was filming this backstage, like there's definitely

441
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Speaker 11: a video that exists. They're messing with my pack, messing

442
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 11: with my ears, so like it's your EARS's tears, it's

443
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,360
Speaker 11: your pack, it's your pack. Fifteen seconds, ten seconds, And

444
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 11: in my head, I immediately go, I look up in

445
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 11: the sky and I go, this is meant to happen.

446
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:17,160
Speaker 2: I just go, let's do it.

447
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Speaker 8: I applaud him because I didn't know something was wrong

448
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,640
Speaker 8: until something was wrong, like when the performance started, because

449
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,120
Speaker 8: he said leading up to it, like everything was going wrong.

450
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Speaker 2: But when he started, he seemed like he was singing.

451
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Speaker 8: Fine, did it, but something was messed up until you

452
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 8: can actually hear what was wrong.

453
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Speaker 5: Right, You could tell that like he was messing with

454
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Speaker 5: and ears, but it seemed like he like.

455
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Speaker 2: Got on right away. But all of that happening behind

456
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Speaker 2: the scenes. Oh my gosh, terrifying.

457
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, he really handled it well. I mean he took

458
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 1: his eared things out and then he put it back in,

459
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,400
Speaker 1: and you could tell something was going on. You see

460
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 1: that once in a while, but he really handled it well.

461
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,600
Speaker 1: You might have heard about this story. There's a teacher

462
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,919
Speaker 1: that got killed in a toilet papering brak you.

463
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so sad.

464
00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:59,399
Speaker 1: He's a forty year old math teacher at a school

465
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Speaker 1: in Georgia. His name is Jason Hughes. And a bunch

466
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 1: of kids they thought that it'd be funny to come

467
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 1: on toilet paper's yard, and I think he's one of

468
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 1: those teachers that they like him. So they decided to

469
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Speaker 1: do it, and so he knew that they were going

470
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Speaker 1: to come. Somebody tipped him off, so he ran outside

471
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,199
Speaker 1: to try to act like he was catching him in

472
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 1: mad and apparently he slipped on the wet ground, fell

473
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Speaker 1: into the road in front of a car, and they

474
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Speaker 1: ran over him. Yeah, Now the kids stopped because they

475
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 1: weren't there maliciously. They stopped, They tried to render aid.

476
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 1: They called nine one one. They took this guy, Jason Hughes,

477
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Speaker 1: to the hospital and he died.

478
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Speaker 2: Wow.

479
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 1: And it's just a horrible thing. And you think about

480
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 1: these like sixteen eighteen year old kids that did this,

481
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 1: and they just they got to live with that. The

482
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Speaker 1: family says the teens meant no harm and that the

483
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Speaker 1: teacher loved these kids. They're urging the prosecutors not to

484
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Speaker 1: pursue charges and just saying that punished the students would

485
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Speaker 1: go against his lifelong commitment to supporting young people. And

486
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: it's just, I mean, just such a horrible thing, just

487
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 1: such a weird freak accident. It's that time of the

488
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: year when you know school is getting closer to be

489
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 1: in the end and it's the warmer weather, so people

490
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Speaker 1: are not doing stupid stuff like t peen houses and

491
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: things like that, and it's harmless, you.

492
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Speaker 5: Know, Yeah, I think I run it was like kind

493
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 5: of part of like their senior pranks that.

494
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 2: They were doing and stuff.

495
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 5: And I know it's so sad, but like I do

496
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 5: applaud the family for not wanting to press charges to

497
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 5: those kids because yes, like you said, Dave, it was

498
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 5: such a freak accident.

499
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Speaker 1: And yeah, it's just one of those things where it

500
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: was meant to be just harmless. So anyway, that is

501
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Speaker 1: wrapping up the dirt. On KDUBUB, We're gonna get right

502
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: into group therapy on the Dave Ryan Show. This is

503
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: somebody who wrote in and said, hey, I need some help,

504
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 1: and we said, well, let's get you on the radio

505
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 1: and we will help you on the radio. That's kind

506
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: of what we do. Let's get started with group therapy

507
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Speaker 1: on kd.

508
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Speaker 2: W B kd W b Ryan Show.

509
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Speaker 1: Get somebody on the phone who is needing some help,

510
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: and this is I've got it here. It is Justine. Justine,

511
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 1: I've got your email in front of me. And it

512
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 1: starts off by saying, I got to tell you guys,

513
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: I've listened to the show every day on the iHeartRadio app,

514
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 1: followed immediately by the Minnesota Goodbye. I'm from Boston and

515
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: I really want to visit Minnesota someday just because of

516
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,400
Speaker 1: you guys. So, first of all, that's really cool. How

517
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 1: did you find our show all the way in Boston?

518
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 3: You know, I was back when I had a really

519
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 3: boring guest job and I'm like, I need something to

520
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 3: listen to. You guys were in the top five and

521
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,199
Speaker 3: this was probably fifteen years ago now and I've been

522
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 3: listening ever since.

523
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: Well, thank you very much. And it's funny because Justine,

524
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: we'll get to your question in a second, but you

525
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 1: would not be the first person who wants to visit

526
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 1: Minnesota based on the fact that you listen to the

527
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 1: Dave Ryan Show on KTWB. If you come come to

528
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: the State Fair, I will buy you cheese curds and

529
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: a corn dog. Okay, Oh, I'm in You've heard of

530
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: talk about cheese curds, haven't you.

531
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Speaker 3: I have I've never had them before.

532
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 1: No, they don't have them in Boston. They don't have

533
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: them in Boston.

534
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't exist there.

535
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 8: They are life changing as somebody that's also not originally

536
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 8: from here.

537
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Speaker 1: Girl, Justine, what's going on. Let's let's hear what your

538
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: question is for people to help you sort out.

539
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 3: Okay, So, to keep it short, my pretty much my

540
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 3: whole adult life, I've kind of dated toxic losers. And

541
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 3: then I met who was not at the time, my husband,

542
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,959
Speaker 3: and he's a nice guy, great guy, and I'm at

543
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 3: this age I'm like, all right, I'm ready to settle,

544
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 3: get married, have kids. I'm with this good guy, so

545
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 3: he's the one.

546
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:36,439
Speaker 2: Let's do this.

547
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 3: So we get married, have our daughter. Thing. You know,

548
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,880
Speaker 3: life was crazy with a newborn, and then things start

549
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 3: flowing down and I realized, you know, I'm paying the

550
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 3: majority of the bills while finding Keino tickets everywhere, new

551
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 3: golf clubs getting shipped to the house. The sex was

552
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 3: so boring. So I gave it a couple of years

553
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 3: to try to fix it. Nothing changed. I leave. That

554
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 3: was six months ago. We separated, living separately. Now, Okay,

555
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 3: so finally, So.

556
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: Just basically based on what you said, like the financial problems, gambling,

557
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,199
Speaker 1: keeping expenses secret from you, golf clubs delivered to the

558
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: house when you know that you're kind of like stress,

559
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: you know, stress a little bit. Financially, Yes, sex life,

560
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: which is very important, was either boring or non existent.

561
00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 1: And so six months ago you're separating.

562
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 3: Exactly, okay, Okay, So then I decide, okay, I'm ready

563
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 3: to get on some dating apps. See what's out there.

564
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 3: Havn't dated in ten plus years. And this is if

565
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 3: you saw the options on the dating app. This is

566
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 3: not a flex. But I woke up to over three

567
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 3: hundred messages the other day and I'm scrolling through them. Horrible,

568
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 3: not a single option that I would be interested in.

569
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 3: So anyway, I guess my question is can I go

570
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 3: back and have a very boring, okay life and have

571
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 3: my family back together? Is that sustainable?

572
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Speaker 2: Okay?

573
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Speaker 5: So are you you're selling communication and whether you're not

574
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 5: technically ex husband yet but like separated husband.

575
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 3: Yes, we're actually better friends now than we have been

576
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 3: in a very long time. We still talk every single day.

577
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: A lot of people say that, yeah, boy, I don't know.

578
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: I think that counseling is the key here. I think

579
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: because you could go back and people go, man, the

580
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 1: grass wasn't always greener on the other side, but then

581
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: they go back and it's still you're you're gonna the

582
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: sex life is probably not likely to change. Either you

583
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: have chemistry or you don't, and you really cannot. You

584
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: cannot change somebody's chemistry. You can be like, let's try

585
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: something kinky and they'll be like, I'm kind of tired,

586
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 1: and then you can, you know, talk about finances. But

587
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: finances is kind of like a personality trait. If somebody

588
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: is shy, it's hard to make them not shy. I

589
00:27:55,880 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: would my opinion. No, that's my opinion, but that's just me.

590
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 1: I want to hear what people think. I want to

591
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 1: hear what Jenny thinks, and Bailey and vont two and

592
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: especially you, especially if you've been in this situation where

593
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 1: you said, man, I'm done and you separated, you were

594
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 1: left and you're like, I'm lonely. There's nobody out there.

595
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: I want to go back. Did it work out when

596
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: you went back? Call us at six five one nine

597
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:21,919
Speaker 1: eight nine KWB or send a text to KATWB one Jenny,

598
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,719
Speaker 1: you've been in relationships and gone back, and what what

599
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: do you think?

600
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

601
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 5: I mean if you you haven't technically gone out on

602
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 5: dates yet, have you? I have not?

603
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 2: That's true, Okay, I.

604
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 5: Think like you're you're in the phase of like having

605
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 5: been in a serious relationship for a while and being

606
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 5: like terrified of having to go through the boring like

607
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 5: what's your favorite color and what do you want to

608
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 5: do with your life conversation?

609
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so like that part sucks. Don't get me wrong,

610
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 2: that part really sucks.

611
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 5: But once you get past that part, if you're connecting

612
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 5: with someone, you you start to like get back into

613
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 5: the groove of like, Okay, I could do this. So

614
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 5: I think that you're kind of scared to put yourself

615
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 5: out there in that way, and like I get what

616
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 5: you're saying. Well, the dating apps, Oh they're rough, Yes,

617
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 5: I get it they are. Yeah, I get that, but

618
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 5: like you can't look past financial issues are huge. In

619
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 5: my opinion, that is like such a deal breaker for me,

620
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 5: just because I'm very.

621
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: Good with money.

622
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 5: But you just can't have like mediocre sex the rest

623
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 5: of your life, Like would you even do none?

624
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 2: Can you give me on a scale of one to ten?

625
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 2: Like where we're rating this.

626
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 3: I mean of the four Yeah, you mean.

627
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: Something, but it's yeah, I mean you know what chemistry is,

628
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: and you know what chemistry is not okay, Bailey anything.

629
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 7: So the thought that I have is she's so she's

630
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 7: talking about how they're separated now, but that they're getting

631
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 7: along really well, and it's like, oh, maybe this wasn't

632
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 7: so bad in the first place. But I think it's

633
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 7: because you're both you're both communicating with the idea that

634
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 7: you're not getting back together, and that's why the communication

635
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 7: is going better, because you are like separate technically quote

636
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 7: unquote single people, even though you are technically still married.

637
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 7: But if the plan is to not be married anymore,

638
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 7: it's like you kind of have this mindset of, Ooh,

639
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 7: I'm not married to you anymore, so you don't bother

640
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 7: me as much anymore, or I like you better now

641
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 7: because I'm not tied to you. And so I think

642
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 7: that's probably a part of the reason why it's going

643
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 7: so well, because you don't have that pressure of you know,

644
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 7: making your marriage work looming over top of you. Okay,

645
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 7: And then for like, okay, I was just on dating

646
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 7: apps not that long ago, and yes they are terrible,

647
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 7: and I just did dating apps for I don't know,

648
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 7: like six or seven months out of the year.

649
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 2: But like, prior to that.

650
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Speaker 7: I just decided to, you know, cultivate my own happiness

651
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 7: in whatever way that worked out for me, and obviously

652
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 7: it's gonna be different for you. But like, how can

653
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 7: you make your life happy without dating, because then you

654
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 7: might end up meeting someone organically, but if not, you'll

655
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 7: end up falling a little bit more in love with

656
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 7: yourself by doing things that you like to do versus

657
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 7: going on dates and being miserable going on dates.

658
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 2: Because it's truly I kind.

659
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: Of running out of time a little bit. I'm gonna

660
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: get right to some of the text messages here. Yeah,

661
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: she basically was you know, she broke up with her husband.

662
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: How long were you married? Like ten years to your

663
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: husband and you get a daughter? How old your daughter? Okay,

664
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 1: everything's great except he's financially irresponsible, there's no sex life,

665
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: and you're like done, I'm out of here. I don't

666
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: want to live like this. But now you're kind of like,

667
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: look through the dating apps. You're not finding people. They're

668
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: finding you three hundred people, but you look through all

669
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: that's awesome, but here's some text messages. Don't do it.

670
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: You're not giving dating enough time, not giving any not

671
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: giving any of it anytime. I left a marriage of

672
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: sixteen years, I'm engaged to a wonderful man. Now it

673
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: did take three years though another one one hundred percent

674
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: it can work. I was with my husband for eight years.

675
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: We separated and legally got divorced. We were apart for

676
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: two years and so coparing it great. We ended up

677
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: getting back together now eleven years. One hundred percent. It

678
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: can work. It takes some work, like sex therapy and

679
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 1: marriage therapy. Here's another one says if the sex is

680
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: a boring is a boring four now, it's going to

681
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: become less and less as the years go by.

682
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 5: We do have some people on the phone here, Dave,

683
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 5: who want to talk with that real quick?

684
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: So Mike is on the phone. First.

685
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Speaker 5: Mike, you talked about you've been separated from your wife before.

686
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 12: Yeah, my wife and I separated at year seven for

687
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 12: eleven months and it's worked. At Alansan. We have been

688
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 12: together now for twenty five years. I mean we've been

689
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 12: together for thirty years but married for twenty five and

690
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 12: it has been absolutely amazing after we got back together,

691
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 12: so we haven't had any issues. We hardly ever find

692
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 12: it's been. It worked all great for us.

693
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 2: What did you do differently?

694
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 12: To be honest, I started going to church, gave my

695
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 12: life to Christ, and I think that's what heal our marriage.

696
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: That good for you, you know what good for you?

697
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: If that worked for you, then that was a big deal.

698
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 1: So thank you, Mike, appreciate that.

699
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 7: All right.

700
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 2: We also have Jody on the phone, Dave.

701
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: All right, Jody, so what do you want to tell

702
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: Justine who is thinking about getting back with her husband

703
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 1: despite of the gambling, despite of the finances in despite

704
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: of the lack of the bedroom stuff.

705
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know. I was married for twenty

706
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 6: seven years, just went through a divorce two years ago.

707
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 6: Trying the apps.

708
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 7: It's horrible.

709
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 6: All my married friends don't have any single people to

710
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 6: set me up with. Yeah, yeah, I would just say

711
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 6: stick it out and work on it. I think big

712
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 6: problems can be worked through if you stick it out,

713
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 6: even if it's a little bit longer than possible. And

714
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 6: to get older sex and sex, so I mean, you

715
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 6: should be able to tell them what you want and

716
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 6: sometimes it doesn't work. But I don't know, I would

717
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 6: say stick with you, keep trying. It's not good for

718
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 6: the I mean, everybody, my kids want me back, so

719
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 6: want me back together too, So it's hard.

720
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 2: On everybody, do you want to get back with your husband?

721
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 6: I would it would not be like things would have

722
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 6: to change. Yeah, I mean I would never go back

723
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 6: to my old way it was.

724
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 8: Yeah, would you know.

725
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,120
Speaker 6: Things would have to change on both sides. I mean,

726
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 6: I'm definitely responsible part two for the divorce. I had

727
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 6: to quit drinking, But I just wish that like he

728
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 6: would have hung on because things change and things get

729
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 6: better and people. I don't know. I just think it's

730
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 6: really hard out there, and if you did it for

731
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 6: that long, there's something there anyway.

732
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 13: I don't know.

733
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 1: I wonder if dating apps have made it harder for

734
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: everybody because it's so it's like a convenience store of hookups.

735
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: It's like it's I mean, I've never done it before.

736
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: It's it's it's like I don't need to work to

737
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 1: get to know you when maybe, like you, I can

738
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 1: just meet you on the dating app. I don't know.

739
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 2: I think it's up.

740
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 5: But there's too many options because of dating apps, Like

741
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 5: think about back in the day, like Dave, you have

742
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 5: the option of having people call into the hotline at

743
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 5: the radio station to meet ladies, but like most people

744
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 5: just eat meet people organically that's how it was back

745
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 5: to the day. Now you can go on your phone

746
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 5: and go on five different dating apps and talk to

747
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 5: ten different people at a time, and you think the

748
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 5: grass is greener. Like you meet one person, you're like, nah,

749
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 5: I kind of like doing but it wasn't that great,

750
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 5: and then you invest no time into that.

751
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's the consensus. Then is the consensus for

752
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,879
Speaker 1: Justine to not go back to her husband? I say

753
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: me personally, I say no. I say, it'll be wonderful

754
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 1: and it'll feel good for a little bit that you're

755
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 1: back together. He will revert to his old ways. He'll

756
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 1: promise they'll change. People change, not a lot. I'll repeat that,

757
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 1: people change, not a lot, and then you'll be dealing

758
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,440
Speaker 1: with the same stuff that you did. I know it's

759
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: hard out there, and I know it's tough, but if

760
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: you can financially afford to do it and you're comfortable,

761
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 1: I would say move on.

762
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 2: That's me jeh see. I'm more on the side.

763
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,720
Speaker 5: After hearing some of these people's experiences after being married

764
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 5: and getting back together, I would say, like, give it

765
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 5: a try. If you haven't done all the things that

766
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 5: people have suggested, which is sex, therapy, marriage counseling, marriage counseling.

767
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 5: Obviously he's got to get his gambling back, like in order.

768
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 5: That's like a hard like you got to get this

769
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 5: figured out and if he is able to. I do

770
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 5: agree with Dave that, like, yes, people change a little.

771
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 5: I think people change a little bit more than what

772
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 5: Dave thinks they do.

773
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: But I don't agree people change not a lot, A little,

774
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:40,879
Speaker 1: not a lot Bailey Quick.

775
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 2: I mean it seems both.

776
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 7: So like if if they do go through the work

777
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 7: to make it better, then yeah, you could go back

778
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 7: and have that life again, hopefully with some change. And

779
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 7: if not, I think like being single is not necessarily

780
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,879
Speaker 7: the worst thing in the world if it's better for

781
00:36:59,200 --> 00:36:59,959
Speaker 7: your heart.

782
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: A lot of people that are single and happy. Yeah,

783
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 1: it's like they can get up when they want, they

784
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: can go to bed when they want, they can make

785
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: French toast at noon if they want to, you know

786
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: what I mean. There's a lot of people that are

787
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: sappy with that vaunt it's the last word on this one.

788
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

789
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 8: I just think that if you are questioning whether or

790
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,439
Speaker 8: not you should be with him, maybe put a pause

791
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 8: on it, try out the dating apps, and then if

792
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 8: not it's totally okay. And I don't want to say this,

793
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 8: but like it's okay to be on your own.

794
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: Well, say you must be hot af to get three

795
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:30,879
Speaker 1: hundred you know, likes or whatever in one night.

796
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 2: Three hundred.

797
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 3: I don't know if you saw the options saying exactly.

798
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 2: Show you what dating apps are like once you get

799
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 2: three hundred. Damn, oh yeah, you get a ton Yeah.

800
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 1: Justine, thanks for being on kt w BE. I really

801
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Thanks for listening all the way from Boston.

802
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: If you come to State Fair, we're buying you cheese,

803
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: curage and a corn dog. We'll see you this summer. Okay,

804
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 1: on a stick.

805
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 3: I'm holding you to it.

806
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:00,359
Speaker 1: Thank you. Just if there's anything you need to write

807
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 1: to us about, send us an email to Ryan's show

808
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: at katiewb dot com. Love to get you on. We

809
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: call it group therapy because other people have been through

810
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 1: the same thing. Coming up, we've got a little game

811
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: of Name that tune. And also we've got I think

812
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: we're working on more cardib tickets for you. We're working

813
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: on that. Hang on right now. Though I've missed you, vont,

814
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: I haven't seen you since last week. It is time

815
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: for vont to stir the pod, vont.

816
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 13: It's all you cut the crap. Guys, Bacon is overrated,

817
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:37,320
Speaker 13: so overrated. Oh no, I'm not saying bacon isn't good.

818
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 13: I'm just saying it's very overrated.

819
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 8: And that means nothing because I love me some chicken wings,

820
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 8: but you can throw grilled chicken in the garbage.

821
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: But bacon, first of all, it's very inconsistent.

822
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 8: It's either as crispy as a potato chip or it's

823
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:49,320
Speaker 8: as floppy as a wet napkin.

824
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 2: Let's just be real. He's right, yeap, Yeah, it ruins

825
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 2: other foods.

826
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 8: I think when bacon went mainstream, like not just the

827
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 8: breakfast food, when did okay go on? When they started

828
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 8: putting bacon on bacon, mac and cheese, bacon donuts, Bacon

829
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 8: and doughnuts are.

830
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 2: So guy, That's what I'm saying.

831
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 8: When you took the novelty, yes, you took the novelty

832
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 8: out of it, bacon, chocolate, bacon, chocolate covered bacon, what

833
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 8: are we.

834
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 2: Doing with people?

835
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 8: And that's when it became overrated and locate I prefer

836
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 8: sausage a little more than bacon every now and then,

837
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 8: said no one.

838
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 2: I used to be.

839
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 1: One of the joys of bacon is the varieties of bacon.

840
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: There's the stuff that sticks straight out when you hold it,

841
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,439
Speaker 1: it sticks straight out. There's the other stuff that's got

842
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: the bubbly white part in there, this kind of limp

843
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:41,959
Speaker 1: and it's kind of flaccid and fast. The fatty stuff. Yeah,

844
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,479
Speaker 1: but that's a joy too.

845
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:45,280
Speaker 2: I think about bacon.

846
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 1: Some people like it really crispy, so it sticks straight out,

847
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: and you never know exactly. You go down to Perkins,

848
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 1: you never know what you're gonna get. But usually it's perfect.

849
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 2: And I don't want to leave it up.

850
00:39:58,680 --> 00:39:59,799
Speaker 8: I don't want to leave it up the chance that

851
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 8: I've have somebody like, yeah, can I have bacon, like

852
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 8: a list of My girlfriend love her to death, but

853
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 8: she eats the potato chips bacon.

854
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:06,359
Speaker 2: It's like crispy, and I'm like.

855
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 8: Please, just a little less on the leave it on

856
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 8: the stove a little less longer.

857
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:12,399
Speaker 2: She pretty much wants it burned.

858
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 8: Yes, she loves eating stuff, just extra crispy chicken wings,

859
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,320
Speaker 8: like all that stuff, just cooked little more, and I'm like,

860
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 8: please don't. But I just can't leave it up to

861
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 8: anybody to make the bacon that I want to and again,

862
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 8: like I said, just the different types of bacon.

863
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: One of the.

864
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 8: Joys of things in life is that it's not oversaturated.

865
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 8: Too much of anything is not good. So you got

866
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 8: all these options for bacon at.

867
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Speaker 2: The state Fair. It's just like, well, I don't even

868
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 2: I don't even want it that now anymore. You know,

869
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,879
Speaker 2: bacon ice cream is bacon, is bacon on a stick

870
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 2: at the State Fair?

871
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 4: Good.

872
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 2: I've never had it.

873
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 7: I've never had it either because I'm mad because it

874
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 7: took over the good cheese card stick.

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Speaker 2: Hold your grudge. I can't grudge Dave.

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Speaker 5: Have you have I what had the bacon on a

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Speaker 5: stick at the safe Fair?

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Speaker 1: The big fat bacon.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what it meant. Yeah, big feah No, I

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Speaker 2: know I never have that.

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Speaker 1: It just it's like I don't want to waste my

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Speaker 1: calories on a piece of fat. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I like baked.

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Speaker 7: Like if I go to a buffet, like a breakfast buffet,

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Speaker 7: and they have bacon, that is the majority of my

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Speaker 7: plate because bacon tastes so good and the smell of

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Speaker 7: bacon is perfect. And I agree that like Crispy Krispy

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Speaker 7: bacon is gross and super floppy bacon is gross, but

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Speaker 7: I think more often the bacon is cooked the right way,

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Speaker 7: so I'm gonna eat it. Yeah, every opportunity I will

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Speaker 7: eat it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for staring the pot. We appreciate that. Some

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Speaker 1: comments here agree. I love bacon, but I don't put

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Speaker 1: on my cheeseburger the bacon overtakes the cheeseburger. Another one,

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Speaker 1: This is one time I agree with you want.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, a lot of people put bacon on like on

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Speaker 8: a cheeseburger. Cheeseburger is already pretty. I think they're already

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Speaker 8: the moderate level of unhealthy that they need to be.

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Speaker 8: You don't got to put bacon on it.

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Speaker 2: Put the bacon. What in the world kind of bacon

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Speaker 2: have you been eating? This is a text message.

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Speaker 8: Let me guess the stuff that they microwave at hotels

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Speaker 8: and bring out to Continental free breakfast. You need yourself

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Speaker 8: some thick cut bacon that's cooked to perfection on a

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Speaker 8: black stone. Never had that, so yeah, maybe I am

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Speaker 8: missing out Why I need a text and said why

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Speaker 8: need it here?

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Speaker 2: Don't don't make me come down there. Yeah, come down

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Speaker 2: here and set you straight.

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Speaker 8: The giant Sorry, last text the giant bacon Everything section

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Speaker 8: at the Yellow Barn.

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Speaker 2: Giant bacon everything section at the Yellow Barn?

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Speaker 1: Is that the fair?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? It must. It is a yellow building. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 2: never had it. Yeah, Vonstar's the pot.

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Speaker 1: All right, think about appreciate that. Let's play a song

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Speaker 1: because we are at the top cities number one hit

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Speaker 1: music station. We play a song where you come back

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Speaker 1: with name that tune and we'll do it next on

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Speaker 1: on A one point three, Katie, how will you do?

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Speaker 1: The theme?

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Speaker 2: Today?

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Speaker 1: Is well, I'll tell you next on Katie WB