1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,920 Speaker 1: Marcus in the morning, we're doing second date up. They 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: let's say how to Ashley. Good morning, Ashley, Hi, good morning. 3 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 2: Hi. 4 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: So Ashley's in Berlin game and you met this guy 5 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: Ryan on Hinge. 6 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 2: I understand, so yes on Hinge. 7 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: Tell me about your date. I know you guys went 8 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: to dinner. Was it in Berlin game? I don't know 9 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: why it wouldn't be, but yeah it was. 10 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 3: Okay, we had dinner in Berlin Games and honestly, we 11 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 3: had a great conversation. Okay, there was a lot of laughs, 12 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 3: Like you know, it was very, very comfortable, and I 13 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 3: honestly was already thinking about like what would be next 14 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 3: after this, and it felt like there was a real connection. 15 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 4: For one, you. 16 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: Sound like the kind of lady that would text somebody 17 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: and not just wait for. 18 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 2: The next move. 19 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 20 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 3: I mean it's dating is hard out there, so if 21 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 3: you find someone you know, you want to like hold 22 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 3: on to it. 23 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: And he's disappeared, like he's gone ghosted. 24 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, so like he did not reply. I 25 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: haven't heard from him, and it was like really strange 26 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 3: because I felt like we really had this connection. It 27 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 3: felt like there was a spark and then he just 28 00:00:57,520 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: dropped off. 29 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: So why rude? Okay, yeah, well let me call him. 30 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: So just why don't we Why don't we regroup? 31 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 2: Take a deep breath. 32 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna wait a song, maybe two, and 33 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: then we will give Ryan a call and see what's 34 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 1: going on. 35 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thank you. 36 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 4: I appreciate it. 37 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,320 Speaker 2: You got it. We'll do it next. 38 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 1: Second date update Star one O one three variety from 39 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: the two thousands, the nineties and today it's Star one. 40 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:21,839 Speaker 2: O one three. 41 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. I've got Ashley on the phone. Ashley, 42 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: I want to thank you for being so patient. You 43 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: ready to make this phone call? 44 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 4: I am. 45 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 3: I really do appreciate your help. 46 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 4: Thank you. 47 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 2: You got it. 48 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: We're gonna call our guy Ryan here and see if 49 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: he ghosted on your date and if so, why go 50 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 1: ahead and mute your phone. 51 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 2: Here we go. 52 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 4: Okay, Hello, is this Ryan? Yes? 53 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: Hey Ryan, It's Marcus calling from ah from Star one 54 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: O one three. 55 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 2: Good morning. 56 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 4: Uh hey, what what what's do. 57 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 2: You listen to the show in the morning? 58 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 4: Uh? Not really? Okay, what's up? 59 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: You can't follow up? Did I win something with I 60 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: don't listen? That's just not that hurts my feelings. I'm 61 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 1: just kidding. 62 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 4: I'm just so used to these spam calls. 63 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 2: I was like, wait, what sure, I get it? Do 64 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: you have a second to be on the radio? 65 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 4: That's I guess. So that's that's kind of interesting. Yes. 66 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 2: So we're doing a dating segment right now. 67 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: It's called Second Date Update, and I wanted to ask 68 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: you about a date you've been on. I got your 69 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: number from one of our listeners. Her name is Ashley, 70 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: and she's feeling like maybe you ghosted after your date 71 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 1: together and she enjoyed your company. Do you remember this 72 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:42,639 Speaker 1: lady you took out their downtown? 73 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 3: Yeah? 74 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 2: It was did you did you ghost? 75 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 4: Yes? 76 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, because. 77 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 4: Like, well here's the thing I mean, actually she seemed 78 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 4: all right for a minute, but like I want to say, 79 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 4: like it did get kind of weird at a certain point. Okay, Well, 80 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 4: it seems like she has this thing with chairs, because 81 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 4: like I don't know what the deal was, but before 82 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 4: we'd sit down, she would like test them, what do 83 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 4: you mean? Like every chair she would press down on 84 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 4: the seat, give it a little wiggle, sit, stand back up, 85 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 4: then try the next one. And then at one point 86 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 4: she even asked the server. She was like, hey, do 87 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 4: you have anything with a little more lumbers support? Like 88 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 4: I remember this specifically because I was just kind of 89 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 4: intrigued to her. I was like, what is she doing? 90 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 4: You know? Ok So, then like I just sat there 91 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 4: waiting while she auditioned furniture. And then that's when I 92 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 4: stopt her and I'm just like, hey, like, I don't 93 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 4: think you need to be doing this, like, and she 94 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 4: just I don't know, she just was stuck on like 95 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 4: trying these chairs and auditioning. I just didn't understand it. 96 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: Okay, got it heard. So here's the other part of this. 97 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: I've got Ashley actually listening right now, and I'd love 98 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: to bring her on. 99 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: Huh, Ashley, are you there? 100 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here. I'm confused. I mean, I was just 101 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 3: trying to be comfortable, and it like didn't really take 102 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 3: that long. It took like a few minutes to pick 103 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 3: a chair, So I mean, what am I going to 104 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 3: sit somewhere for like an hour or two, like uncomfortably, 105 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 3: Like why wouldn't I want to be comfortable? 106 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 4: Well? Actually, hey, but I mean it took like five 107 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 4: minutes to just pick a chair, Like that doesn't make sense. 108 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 3: Five minutes two hours of comfort does make sense? 109 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:53,919 Speaker 4: No, I mean, like they're all restaurant chairs. It shouldn't 110 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 4: be that that complicated, Like didn't They're not all the 111 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 4: same though, They're not all the same summer little holl 112 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 4: Some of them like lean a little too far back, 113 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 4: some are wobbly. One was directly under the air vent. 114 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 4: I would have been frozen. 115 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 3: At the end of the night. Yeah, so I mean, 116 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 3: I mean they're different. 117 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 4: But you switch chairs like three times before we even 118 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 4: order drinks. I mean, I get it if it's vit 119 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 4: a booth thing or not, but. 120 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 2: It's like Goldie Locke. 121 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 3: Rather I be uncomfortable all. 122 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 4: Night, I would rather you just pick a chair and 123 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 4: trust the process, right, Okay. 124 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 3: I mean the fact that I'm just a little bit 125 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 3: more specific about being comfortable is like an inconvenience to you. 126 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 4: You're just being high maintenance. That's the problem. Like it's 127 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 4: no much. 128 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 3: Wow, I mean it's just basic standards. I really, it's 129 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 3: not high maintenance. 130 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 4: It's turning dinner into a showroom, is what it is. Like, 131 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 4: It's not in a showroom. 132 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 3: You think it's on a show. I just wanted to 133 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 3: be comfortable. I did not think being comfortable would be 134 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 3: this much of a problem for another person. 135 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: Okay, you guys, let's take a step back real quick. Look, 136 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: the lady's comfort is important. How do I does it 137 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: really take this long? Ashley? 138 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what long means. This isn't 139 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 3: like a big deal. Like if I sit down and 140 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 3: I'm not comfortable, I'm gonna be like, can I move 141 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 3: to a more comfortable seat? It's very normal. I just 142 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 3: I'm kind of I don't understand where the problem is 143 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 3: that I wanted to be comfortable. 144 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 4: It just seemed OCD Like I spent the first ten 145 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 4: minutes watching you compare chairs, like like a comparison shop, 146 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 4: Like I don't know what it was. It was just 147 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 4: confusing to me. 148 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 3: Now it's five minutes, Now it's ten minutes. I think 149 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 3: you're exaggerating a little bit. I tried a few chairs, 150 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 3: they weren't comfortable. I found a comfortable chair and we 151 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 3: had a great night. Like I had a good time, 152 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 3: didn't you? 153 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 2: Maybe if you try again. 154 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 4: Man, No, I don't. I don't think so. This just 155 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 4: doesn't seem I don't want to do that again again.