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Speaker 1: Hey, we're on Tampa Bay's number one and only hit

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Speaker 1: music channel ninety three three fl Z and Ashley caught

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Speaker 1: me in action two nights ago at dinner.

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 3: You didn't speak up for yourself and you need to.

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Speaker 4: I thought this was gonna change once you hit thirty,

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Speaker 4: but I guess it's just who you are. We were

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Speaker 4: out to dinner and they were asking if you want

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Speaker 4: it sparkling or steal water. I said, still, Joe clearly

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Speaker 4: said it sparkling.

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Speaker 3: The guy's like, we kind of water. He's like, oh, sparkling.

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Speaker 4: The guy's grabbed steel and poured it in his glass,

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Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh, Joe's gonna say something, because he

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Speaker 4: clear as day said I want sparkling water. He just

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Speaker 4: sat there and just let him pour the water.

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Speaker 2: I did. I did say something when I said thank you,

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Speaker 2: that's it.

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Speaker 4: Well, you should have just said no, like I want

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Speaker 4: sparkling water, I didn't want steal and you sat there

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Speaker 4: and what he did do next He drink all the

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Speaker 4: water and then he goes and proceeds to grab the

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Speaker 4: sparkling and fors it.

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Speaker 1: Which honestly he helped me out because I could have

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Speaker 1: used a little bit more water, so I chugged the

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Speaker 1: water so I could get the other one.

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Speaker 4: Why didn't you feel comfortable speaking up at that moment

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Speaker 4: because he didn't even pour it yet it was literally

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Speaker 4: right in front of you.

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Speaker 1: Because because the other thing, too is I don't normally

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Speaker 1: go to restaurants where sparkling water is even an option.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, what's the big deal, I'll do my water.

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Speaker 4: You gave your you said what you wanted, and you

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Speaker 4: didn't get it. You should have said like, hey, no,

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Speaker 4: this is not what I want, but never be able

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Speaker 4: to do that you got. That won't change. You have

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Speaker 4: to gotta stick up for yourself. You stick up for

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Speaker 4: everyone on this show. You stick You speak up for

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Speaker 4: me a lot, and the fact that you won't speak

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Speaker 4: up for yourself in any situation is ridiculous. That's why

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Speaker 4: I make sure to do it when I know you

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Speaker 4: aren't doing it yourself.

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Speaker 2: Why would I?

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Speaker 3: Because you need to?

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Speaker 4: Uh, what are you gonna do when your kids out

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Speaker 4: on the playground and he's getting bullied?

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Speaker 2: Are you gonna just be like WHOA? He better figure

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Speaker 2: it out?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm not gonna speak up.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I want to make this very clear, for literally anyone,

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Speaker 1: anyone in my life that I respect and like I'll

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Speaker 1: go to war for. But myself I don't respect nor like.

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Speaker 1: Did you see me do that? I hope, yeah, I see.

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Speaker 1: I think it was unmasculated.

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Speaker 2: Because it is.

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Speaker 5: Well, let me just say this, Ashley, because I did

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Speaker 5: listen to the show all I was out last week.

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Speaker 5: The same exact thing happened last week. It's with him

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Speaker 5: and his piance. Listen when they had the manager come

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Speaker 5: up and yeah, because you didn't say the right thing,

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Speaker 5: you didn't stick up. You gotta speak up if something sucks.

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Speaker 5: People want to know if it's if you asked for

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Speaker 5: something and we're not asking you Joe to be a Karen.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, thank you, but I actually asked for

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Speaker 4: you know, sparkling, or hey, the fries are a little

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Speaker 4: not you know cold, or the fries are a little bit cold.

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Speaker 3: Can we get them you know a little bit more

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Speaker 3: warmer something.

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Speaker 5: Put them under the heat.

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Speaker 4: It's just the way you go with your tone and

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Speaker 4: delivery when you were receiving a service or product that

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Speaker 4: you're not happy about.

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Speaker 3: It's all in the tone and delivery, how you're talking

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Speaker 3: to them.

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Speaker 1: I said, oh yeah, I'll take sparkling please, and then

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Speaker 1: he picked up the The other thing too, is like,

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Speaker 1: we obviously did not pay for this week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah we did it.

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Speaker 1: Someone took are of us. They had bottled water bottle.

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Speaker 1: They wasn't like normal water.

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Speaker 2: It was bottled. So I can't waste that too. What

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Speaker 2: am I saying? I did not get that water?

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Speaker 4: You did.

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Speaker 3: But that's the thing, that's the thing. You didn't waste it.

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Speaker 4: You drank it and then you went and got what

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Speaker 4: you really wanted when you didn't have to do that

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Speaker 4: at all. You could have just spoke up and I

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Speaker 4: would have drank the still water. But you know, you

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Speaker 4: don't want to stick off yourself.

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Speaker 3: One day you will.

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Speaker 4: I want to know what is going to be that

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Speaker 4: moment where Joe is gonna have enough and he's gonna stand.

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Speaker 5: Up for old habits, thy hard Ashley, old habits thy hard.

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Speaker 3: Was he like this in school? Were you always one

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Speaker 3: sticking up for him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh yeah?

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Speaker 5: But not like to the point where if if we

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Speaker 5: had a run in at the restaurant, I would never

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Speaker 5: be like I would. I would turn around because I

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Speaker 5: would be waiting for Joe to say something to the

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Speaker 5: waiter because they had like fed up royally on our order,

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Speaker 5: I'd be liken't just say anything. They'd like a sour

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Speaker 5: crowd on your egg.

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Speaker 3: Right, it's all right, you know bad good.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't necessarily put it.

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Speaker 5: You gotta if you order something, they should fulfill the order.

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Speaker 5: And if they didn't politely let them know, let me

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Speaker 5: and then if they don't do it, then you have

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Speaker 5: me to be the king.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we should have that had