1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Donnie money Man, any time to check up your financial 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: like you. This is the Bloomberg Market Minute on seven 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 1: hundred WLW. 4 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 2: Why would say good morning to Denise Pellegrini from the 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 2: Bloomberg newsroom in New York City. AMC planning to close 6 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 2: more movie theaters in underperforming locations. 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 3: That's right. 8 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 4: The movie theater chain has the option to renew or 9 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 4: terminate about eighty five leases a year. That's about ten 10 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 4: percent of its locations. Revenue and attendance fell in the 11 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 4: fourth quarter. For the full year, AMC does say its 12 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 4: sales climbed to a better performance than the domestic box 13 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 4: office as a whole, but the writing could still be 14 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 4: on the wall and it could be curtains for as 15 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,599 Speaker 4: many as eighty five leases this year as they continue 16 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 4: to shut the least profitable outlets. 17 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 2: Meanwhile, nothing better on the planet than a big old cheeseburger, 18 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 2: and McDonald's is getting ready to unveil its biggest US 19 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 2: burger yet. 20 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's heaviest burger ever. 21 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 4: There we go, and also the biggest in terms of 22 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 4: calories almost two though. 23 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 5: Oh bring that up then, East one. 24 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 3: Thousand and sixty. 25 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 4: Sorry, I shouldn't etcerate one thousand and sixty sorry per serving. 26 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 4: That is almost twice as much, I should point out 27 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 4: as the eleven hundred and sixty and two Big Macs. 28 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 4: So this thing is gigantic. It developed the sandwich in Canada, Germany, Portugal, Friends, 29 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 4: which apparently was a hit. It'll appear on US menus 30 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 4: starting next Tuesday for a limited time. Cheese, two quarter 31 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,399 Speaker 4: pound beef, blah blah blah blah, all the fixings. 32 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 6: Uh. 33 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 4: You know, Burger King has that maple bourbon barbecue. Shake 34 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 4: Shack has that big shack thing. So McDonald's now also 35 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 4: thinking big and we better be thinking big two we're 36 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 4: gonna eat one of those. 37 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 5: You better believe it. Okay. The stock futures this morning, Denise. 38 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 4: They're higher, Dow futures up one sixty s and P 39 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 4: futures getting twenty three, NESTAC futures up one twenty three. 40 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 4: Mortgage Bankers Association, by the way, says MORGAD rates have 41 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 4: fallen to the lowest since September of twenty twenty two. 42 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 2: Back over to you, all right, Dennise, Thank you very much. 43 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 2: You know, we love local companies here on the Morning Show. 44 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 2: Just love the stories right. We tell them frequently, and 45 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 2: we want to see them succeed. We want to do 46 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 2: well because there's a lot of hard work and a 47 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 2: lady who knows all about that. She is the founder 48 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 2: and the owner of Queens that is with a Z 49 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 2: Mixing and Company. Ashley Dipzinski, Good. 50 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 3: Morning, Good morning, Tom. 51 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 5: How are you. I'm doing great? You're doing all right? 52 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 3: I am Yes. 53 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 5: What is Queen's Mixing and Company? 54 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 7: So, Queen's Mixing and Company is a mixing company for beverages. 55 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 7: You can mix them in with basically anything alcoholic, but 56 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 7: the product doesn't come with alcohol in it. 57 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 5: Okay. That was one of the first questions they asked 58 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 5: you out in the hallway. There a minute to go. 59 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 2: Okay, So you have Bloody Marry Mix, for example, you 60 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:02,839 Speaker 2: have one with you right now? 61 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 3: That is correct? 62 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 6: Why? 63 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,639 Speaker 2: And you have others We'll get to those in a second. 64 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: What makes Queen's Mixing and Company Bloody Marry Mix different 65 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 2: than what I might make at home or pick up 66 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 2: somewhere else. 67 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 7: Well, the product actually has everything in it and ready 68 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 7: to go. So all you'll need is vodka, bourbon, whatever 69 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 7: you'd like to put in it. It is low in sodium, 70 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 7: so it's going to be a lot different than anything 71 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 7: on the market. I think I've cut the sodium in 72 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 7: half or most of them about more. 73 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 5: Well, it's more than half. So and some of your 74 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 5: other products. 75 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 7: I do have a jalapeno pickle mixer that is launching 76 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 7: this month that is in presale right now. I have 77 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 7: a Dragon's Blood jalapeno simple syrup, and I have a 78 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 7: Queen's Banquet which is a marinate, so savory marinate as well. 79 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 5: For meat, et cetera. Yeah, you can use it as 80 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 5: a base, and so. 81 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 2: What would that give it a taste of? For example, 82 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 2: I mean, is there something like that I would think 83 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 2: to myself, Okay, it has a taste of. 84 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 7: Well, I mean, it just depends on what you're going 85 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,119 Speaker 7: to use it in. I mean people mentioned using it 86 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 7: with like cocktail sauces. You can also put it on 87 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 7: like meat loaf, any type of you know, chicken, and 88 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 7: use it as a chili base. It actually has won 89 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 7: a chili cookoff, so no kidding, Yeah about that, The 90 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 7: Bloody Marry mix did. 91 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 5: So that's really cool. 92 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 2: You know, we were talking about when you make a 93 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 2: decision to start something like this and you and your 94 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 2: husband have been very involved in this whole thing and 95 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 2: launching it from the ground up. You're literally going around 96 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 2: and when you and I were talking for a few 97 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 2: minutes in preparation of your visit here, today you're in 98 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 2: a ton of bars already, you're in restaurants. But at 99 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 2: the same time you're trying to build a business, and 100 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 2: so you're just walking into restaurants or bars and saying, Hey, 101 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 2: I think I got something that you got, but it's better. 102 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, that is correct. 103 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 7: I mean I think the product actually speaks for itself 104 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 7: once people try it, you know, I find the right 105 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 7: individual that needs to get it on the shelf, excuse me. 106 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 3: So they try it and they love it. I mean 107 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 3: it's pretty good. 108 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 2: So well, the thing that I like that you told 109 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: me I can't handle spicy foods. I love having a 110 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 2: bloody Mary from time to time, but oftentimes it's just 111 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 2: too spicy for me. But you're telling me your original 112 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 2: is not spicy, although you have one on the way. 113 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 5: That is correct. 114 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 7: So I plan on having a spicy launched before the 115 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 7: end of the year. This product, now, the Queen's Alixir, 116 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 7: is not spicy. All it needs if you want it 117 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,679 Speaker 7: to be spicy is a little bit of hot sauce, 118 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 7: or you can use any of my other products that 119 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 7: are Jlapena flavor. So every product that I have created 120 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 7: kind of across the board goes with any of my 121 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 7: other products that I will have launching. 122 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: The name of the company is Queen's and that's que 123 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 2: n Z Mixing and Company. Where the name come from. 124 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 7: So we live in the Queen City, yep. So I 125 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 7: wanted to tie that with the brand. And then the 126 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 7: original Bloody Mary is actually named after Queen Mary of 127 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 7: England from the sixteen hundreds. 128 00:05:58,680 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 5: You're kidding. 129 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 7: No, I wanted to put the royalty with the Queen City, 130 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,559 Speaker 7: and that's how the brand really came about. 131 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 2: And you're a Queen City gal, that's right. And you 132 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 2: went to high school where. 133 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 5: I went to Batavia. 134 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, I graduated from Batavia, the East Side. 135 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 2: Back before that whole area blew up. I mean, it 136 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 2: just seems like he continues to get bigger and bigger 137 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 2: and bigger. Yes, all right, how did you come up 138 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 2: with this idea? I mean, there are a million things 139 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 2: out there that most of us could go do, right, Yeah, 140 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 2: that's all this. 141 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 7: Well, I actually was on my way to San Francisco 142 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,839 Speaker 7: fifteen years ago to jump out of an airplane, and 143 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 7: I had my mother the whole time a nervous wreck 144 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 7: because that's what I was going to do. But I 145 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 7: had ordered a Bloody Mary and I tried it. It 146 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 7: was delicious, and I thought to myself, like, why can't 147 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 7: they all taste like this? So then I told myself, 148 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 7: when I get back home, I'm going to create this product. 149 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 3: No, and I'm going to make mine better than this. 150 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 7: So now I'm here fifteen years later, after working around 151 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 7: bars throughout the city and mastering this actual recipe. 152 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,480 Speaker 2: So were you actually you know, we have the guys 153 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 2: in from Montgomery in from time to time and they 154 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 2: talk about how their mom, you know, their sauce is 155 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 2: everywhere now right, how their mom would actually be in 156 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 2: that kitchen all day every day continuing to try and 157 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 2: perfect the way she wanted their barbecue sauce. Is that 158 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 2: what you've done? Basically when it comes to this. 159 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 7: A lot of different I've had a lot of different 160 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 7: flavors and they just weren't good enough for me, Like 161 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 7: it was still not what I was looking for. I mean, 162 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 7: I just wanted something at the time to be close 163 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 7: to what I had tried, but now I have something 164 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 7: that's better. So yeah, it's just a lot of continuing 165 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 7: to try to get it there. So you know, building 166 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 7: a recipe is not an easy job. 167 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 2: I would imagine it is a tireless job. Okay, let's 168 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 2: talk about ways that people can get your product. Try 169 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 2: your product. Let's start with your website. Where would somebody 170 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 2: go for that? 171 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 7: So it is Queensmixing dot com and that's Queens with 172 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 7: a Z right find us. Also on social media, so 173 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 7: Queens Mixing co that's Facebook, Instagram. And then you know, locally, 174 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 7: I'm in all the local liquor stores, lots of bars 175 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 7: and restaurants, and I mean we just continue to grow. 176 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 5: I mean, but you really want to grow this thing. 177 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 2: I mean you got to start right the old adage 178 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 2: about you know, you got to crawl before you walk, 179 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: that kind of thing. Yeah, show the restaurants. You'd love 180 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 2: to be in more restaurants, bars, liquor stores, et cetera. 181 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 2: But I mean you're thinking like Kroger grocery stores coast 182 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 2: to coast, right. 183 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, absolutely, I actually am in some grocery stores, but 184 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 7: I'm thinking, you know, I've got a bigger vision for 185 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 7: this product. I have an entire line coming out and 186 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 7: I would like to see this go nationwide. 187 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 2: So when you say entire line coming out, at least 188 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,480 Speaker 2: you know what are you thinking about in regard to that. 189 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 7: So, I have a margarita mix that I'm launching right 190 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 7: before Sinco to my own. Okay, I'll have a pina colada, 191 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 7: a spicy or a spicy bloody Mary, and then we'll 192 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:54,400 Speaker 7: have a spicy margarita as well. 193 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 2: Now it's Queen's. But you also have something called Kings 194 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 2: with a Z Blade. 195 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, so actually the label of that is my husband 196 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:04,239 Speaker 7: and because. 197 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 5: My eyes actually looked like that due to ye he does. 198 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 5: He's Superman. 199 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 7: So yeah, he he does a lot around the house, 200 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 7: you know, because I'm out selling constantly. I mean I'm 201 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 7: doing a lot of it by myself walking in and 202 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 7: you know, delivering the product and the marketing behind it. 203 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 7: I mean, I do have a great team that helps 204 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 7: me out. But you know, in honor of him doing 205 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,719 Speaker 7: all the house thing being you know, super Dad, I 206 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 7: wanted to come out with a product that represents him 207 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 7: and give him that. 208 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:36,320 Speaker 5: I asked you off the air. 209 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 2: You know, the first one of the first things that 210 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 2: comes to my mind when I think about starting something 211 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 2: like this and all the hard work and the idea 212 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 2: and the hours in the kitchen and trying to perfect this, 213 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 2: saying so on and so forth. But now you got 214 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 2: to produce a product. Where do you go to produce 215 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 2: the product? 216 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 7: So I have a manufacturing company that's in Wheelersburg, Ohio. 217 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 7: So the nice thing about my product is not only 218 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 7: am I local, but it is made here in Ohio. 219 00:09:57,960 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 5: All that. 220 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been a ride. Let me just tell you that. 221 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 2: Okay, So one more time we talked about finding you 222 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: on social media and on Instagram was Queen's and again 223 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 2: please remember if you're logging on or looking this up, 224 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 2: it is Queen's with a Z mixing company and you 225 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 2: are on Instagram and Facebook, and you know what, We 226 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: talk about it all the time. We love having local 227 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 2: business owners here in the Morning show to tell their 228 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,960 Speaker 2: story how they got this thing started. Yours is unbelievable, 229 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 2: going to jump on a plane, but continued success because 230 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 2: we're really excited for you and hopefully this will bring 231 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 2: you some more business. Being here on the Morning show 232 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 2: with us today. 233 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 7: I would love that and the opportunity is it's awesome Okay, 234 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 7: nice to see you. 235 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 3: Yes, you two, thank you so much. 236 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 5: Eight twenty. 237 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 2: Let's check in the very latest on what's happening on 238 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 2: the roadways, Chuck Ingram, it was dicey early. 239 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 8: Are we getting any better? I'm starting to see some improvements. Okay, 240 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 8: spend seventy five. You're just a bit slow now approaching 241 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 8: two seventy five and to Sharonville. Then slow again through Lachland. 242 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 8: But that was due to a broken down that was 243 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 8: in the left lane near Gobrath. That's now over on 244 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 8: the right shoulder, so that's going to help this From 245 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,160 Speaker 8: the u SEE Health Traffic Center and you see Health 246 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 8: they never miss a beat. 247 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 5: Your heart shouldn't either. 248 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 8: If you have signs of cardiac rhythm disorder, don't wait 249 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 8: to be seen. Schedule online at u sehealth dot com. 250 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 8: Northbound seventy five really improving quickly. At one point over 251 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 8: a half hour delay, now under ten minute delay between 252 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 8: Buttermilk and downtown. Northbound fourth seventy one continues slow from 253 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 8: just above Grand and southbound seventy one. Heaviest between Peifer 254 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 8: and Redbank. Chuck Ingram News Radio seven hundred wlw. 255 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 2: OUR WCPO nine First Warning four cast, presented by Jennifer 256 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 2: ketch Mark. It's going to be a beautiful day today, sunshine. 257 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 2: We're up to fifty two degrees. Now there is a 258 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 2: chance we get some light snow tonight, believe it or not. 259 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 2: When you go to bed, it's still going to be 260 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 2: in the mid forties, but it's coming in very late, 261 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:09,720 Speaker 2: so that could affect our morning commute Manyama. But then 262 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 2: about the middle of the day, all that's going to 263 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 2: blow out of here and we're looking at another sunny, 264 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 2: beautiful day forty seven, so a little cooler tomorrow than today. 265 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 2: But starting Friday, man, we're really warming up. It is 266 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 2: going to be an awesome Friday and Saturday. Friday sunshine 267 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 2: looking at fifty five degrees. Saturday sunshine, we're looking at 268 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 2: sixty degrees. 269 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 5: How does that sound? That sounds real good? 270 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 2: All right, A twenty eight on the Morning Show, seven 271 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 2: hundred WLW. Good morning to you. Hope your Wednesday is 272 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 2: off to a great start. Let's make it a great day. 273 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 2: And now thank you to Ashley Dibzinski from Queen's Mixing 274 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 2: and Company for stopping by today. We always love the 275 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 2: stories of local companies and thanks so many of you. 276 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 2: Not only companies, but charities next week. Just touch base 277 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 2: yesterday with the guys and gals over there at help 278 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: Squad and all the incredible work that they do. They 279 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 2: have a big event coming up in a few weeks. 280 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 2: We're going to talk about that on Tuesday of next week. 281 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 2: But thank you. I think that it's so important for 282 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 2: us to do whatever we can to help. 283 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 5: Somebody like you. 284 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 2: Maybe you've started a company and you're trying to get 285 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:32,319 Speaker 2: out there and get the word out there and start 286 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 2: the thing from the very foundation. 287 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 5: So that's good stuff. Okay. 288 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 2: I get told all the time by my wife that 289 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 2: I need to watch my tone. I mean the words 290 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 2: get a little dicey a lot maybe for you, but 291 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 2: I'm not going to speak for you. I'm only going 292 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 2: to speak for me. Sometimes the words didn't mean to 293 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,319 Speaker 2: say that, didn't mean for that to happen, didn't mean 294 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 2: for the tone to be like that. So we started 295 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 2: last week our series with pastor Chad Hoven on the Tongue. 296 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 2: The Tongue Series. Today, we're going to talk about our words. 297 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 2: Are we using them to build others up and to 298 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 2: bring them joy, or more times than not, are we 299 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 2: using our words like a machete and to tear people down. 300 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 2: We'll talk about that next eight thirty seven hundred WLW 301 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 2: Bunny money. 302 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 1: Raise your arms and shout hop Yeah, it's money time. 303 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 1: This is the boon bird. 304 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 4: Moneys of Americans who currently don't have access to them. 305 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 4: There could be some new initiatives as well. Crude oil 306 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 4: getting this morning after President Trump said i RAM has 307 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 4: resumed its pursuit of sinister nuclear aims. AMC plans to 308 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 4: close more movie theaters, potentially in underperforming locations, the chief 309 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 4: financial officer telling investors there's an opportunity to keep closing 310 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 4: under performing theaters. The movie chain has the option to 311 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 4: renew or terminate just about eighty five leases a year, 312 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 4: about ten percent of locations. And McDonald's getting ready to 313 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 4: unveil its heaviest burger ever, the Big Arch, also the 314 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 4: biggest in terms of calories, almost one thy sixty per 315 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 4: serving almost twice as much as the eleven hundred sixty 316 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 4: and two Big Max. 317 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 3: The Big archburger will appear. 318 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 4: On US menus starting next Tuesday, after getting unveiled overseas first, 319 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 4: including in Canada and some European countries. USA Today says 320 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 4: the Big Archburger could set you back ten to eleven 321 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 4: dollars from boom Berg. I'm to these Pelgrine on news 322 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 4: Radio seven hundred WLW. 323 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 3: I Sa Minutte on seven hundred WLW. Good morning investors 324 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 3: this morning. 325 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 4: Are President Trump's plans to tweak and add to a 326 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 4: plan that would create retirement accounts for millions. 327 00:15:55,200 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 2: We started this series two weeks ago and it's the 328 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 2: tongue series. So in part one you made sort of 329 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 2: the analogy, the picture if you will, about the tongue 330 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:15,360 Speaker 2: as a bucket to the well of your heart. Recap 331 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 2: that if you wouldn't mind before we move on to 332 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 2: issue number two here with the tongue. 333 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, well, I of it think we have a tongue problem. 334 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 6: But if the tongue is more like a traditional old 335 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 6: fashioned well where every time you're talking is because you 336 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 6: drew out of a deeper source that I'm saying a 337 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 6: tongue problem is really a mouth problem. So if you 338 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 6: think about you're, well, you know what kind of bitterness 339 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 6: do I have in me? Am I am I sleeping? Well? 340 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 6: I'm just am I talking out of my own tiredness? 341 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 6: Am I talking out of my own anger? My talking 342 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 6: about my own hurts instead of just working harder to 343 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 6: try and tame the tongue and keep your foot out 344 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 6: of your mouth, how do I get myself to a 345 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 6: healthier place where I'm drawing out of my heart my 346 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 6: thoughts as a healthier place. So what comes out of 347 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 6: me is an expression of what's That's kind of what 348 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 6: we started two weeks ago. 349 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 2: Okay, let's pick it up now from there, And the 350 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 2: opening sentence of part two of our series is the 351 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:16,320 Speaker 2: tongue is a source of life or death depending on 352 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 2: how we use it. And look whether you're talking about 353 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 2: the way you speak and the language you use with 354 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 2: your spouse. 355 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:26,640 Speaker 5: So this could be for men or women. 356 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 2: This isn't just for men or your kids, or your 357 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 2: co workers or your friends. 358 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 5: You have a choice. 359 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 2: Are you giving life with your tongue or tearing people 360 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:41,719 Speaker 2: down with your tongue? 361 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, we've all been on the receiving end of it too. 362 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 6: You've had a surprise moment where somebody with it's your 363 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 6: spouse or your boss or a colleague, notice is something 364 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 6: you did and you've been doing it for a while, 365 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 6: but you're like it's suddenly being noticed. You just fill 366 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 6: the whole room gets filled with life. If you've got 367 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 6: a department where somebody leads a department that they're encouraging 368 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 6: the people, affirming people, catching people doing something. Well, if 369 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 6: you're head parents who had a tendency to notice all 370 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 6: the good things you did, rather than you get a 371 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 6: report card with mostly a's in one C and all 372 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 6: they want to talk about the C. So we need 373 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 6: to talk about the C. But what does it look 374 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,439 Speaker 6: like to walk into a room and say how do 375 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 6: I give life? I mean, the tongue is designed to 376 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 6: be a lego builder more than a machete, And so 377 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,439 Speaker 6: you walk in a room and say, hey, there's pieces 378 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 6: all over the place. How do I, like legos build 379 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 6: someone up? And that's an analogy using the Bible edifying 380 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 6: to build someone up? I come into a room, most 381 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 6: of us have a tendency to think about ourselves. What 382 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 6: are people thinking about me? What are people saying about me? 383 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 6: What if I came in with the mindset well, how 384 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 6: can I leave this place a little bit more built 385 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 6: up than I am? How can I encourage put courage 386 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,439 Speaker 6: into somebody? How can I affirm? And that is the 387 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 6: motif the Bible uses of life and death, which is 388 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 6: even throughout the hebrewscriptures, it says, you know, are you 389 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 6: giving words of life or words of death? And you've 390 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 6: seen it, You've seen a place where you, you know, 391 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 6: the life gets sucked out of somebody. We say that 392 00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:05,159 Speaker 6: because of what they said, how they said it, the 393 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 6: way they said it. On the other hand, you've seen 394 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 6: somebody who came in with their shoulders kind of down 395 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 6: a little bit, and because of a word, because of 396 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 6: a comment, because somebody looked them in the eye and 397 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 6: just affirm something, even their posture changes. And yet we 398 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 6: often that we've all not done that right. I've used 399 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 6: my tongue as a machete. I've had, you know, seen 400 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 6: tears in my daughter's eyes because I was too sarcastic, 401 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 6: or I wasn't a sensitive to the situation, or you know, 402 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 6: I've seen my wife you just react because of the 403 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 6: tone I used, or the self righteousness in the way 404 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,120 Speaker 6: I spoke. And so really, I think that life death 405 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,119 Speaker 6: motif is to acknowledge. Man, I've used my tongue as 406 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 6: a machete today, Sometimes intentionally I'm unhurt or anger. Sometimes 407 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 6: I've used it just out of inexperience. Man, I grew 408 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 6: up seeing the tongue use as a machete, And honestly, 409 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,640 Speaker 6: it can be hilarious to see people cut other people down. 410 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:56,879 Speaker 6: And one since you're supposed to not you know, you 411 00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 6: supposed to condemn it, but you also go, boy, that 412 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 6: was really cool the way that guy commanded this presence, 413 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 6: the way he took control of the room. And so 414 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 6: we had these bad habits, and we saw the upsides 415 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 6: of the bad habits, but we didn't see the downsides 416 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 6: of the bad habits. And often a win in the 417 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 6: moment is a pretty tragic withdrawal from the relationship. And 418 00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 6: the same leader or boss or manager you had that 419 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 6: had a quick whip and would you know, make something 420 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 6: sarcastian meeting. It might have been a good laugh for 421 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 6: a moment, but eventually all the good people eventually don't 422 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 6: want to work there. You don't want to work in 423 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 6: a place where there's machetes running around because if somebody's 424 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 6: going to talk about a colleague that way when they're 425 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 6: not in the room, you kind of wonder whether they're 426 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 6: saying about me or I'm. 427 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 2: Not there, sure, you know, and I want to circle 428 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 2: back to something here in a second, but you know, 429 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 2: it's almost like you'll hear oftentimes I've heard this with coaches, 430 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 2: but there are people in life in general that this 431 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,239 Speaker 2: is hell true. But you know, it's sort of like 432 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 2: the analogy of it. If you walk in a room 433 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 2: and there's some trash in the room, right, why not 434 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 2: leave it better than when you walked in. Now look 435 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 2: in no shape or form, because you know, knowing your personality. 436 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 2: I mean, look, we're not saying you can't when you're 437 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 2: hanging out with your buddies, that you can't give them 438 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 2: a hard time and rib them and take shots at 439 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 2: him and that kind of thing. That's not what we're 440 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 2: talking about here. We're talking about words that you can use. 441 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 2: And you gave I thought a really interesting sample of 442 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 2: something that your son remembered that you never even remembered, 443 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 2: of a way that you referred to him many many 444 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 2: years ago, as an illustration of how long something like 445 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 2: that might actually harbor in somebody. 446 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was the Allison Wonderland movie coming out with 447 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 6: Johnny Depp, and in one of the scenes, he just 448 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 6: turns his kid says he'll be a mumbler. And so 449 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:45,640 Speaker 6: I was trying to help my son be a little 450 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 6: more confident on the phone back in the days like 451 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,360 Speaker 6: eight or whatever it was, and I said, hey, trying 452 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 6: and articulate, trying to speak up, and you know, he's 453 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 6: getting better at it. And so as you got a film, 454 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 6: I said, don't be a mumbler. And so that was 455 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 6: kind of like a shorthand to say it. But man, 456 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 6: that I found out ten years later that it stuck 457 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 6: with him again. He was very much gracious and accept 458 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 6: in my apology. But I didn't even realize that was 459 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 6: the case. But to your point too, I do think, yeah, 460 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 6: we live in a culture that's obsessed with being obsessed 461 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,399 Speaker 6: with being offended. And one of the things I love about 462 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 6: being a gen xer. And I don't know if this 463 00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 6: is true across the board, but certainly as a gen xer, 464 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 6: one of the ways as guys you show affection is 465 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 6: you harass each other. And of course there's times that 466 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 6: you cross the line as other times that you you know, 467 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,359 Speaker 6: pushed a little too hard, a little too sarcastic. But 468 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 6: often as guys, we show affection by ribbing each other. 469 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,640 Speaker 6: And there's certainly times that you know, hey, I look 470 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 6: too far, Hey sorry, man, I did anything by that 471 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 6: I've done that meetings recently after a meeting, Hey, I 472 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 6: didn't mean to come across that way once, you know. 473 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 6: I appreciate that we clarify anything, But I do think 474 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,919 Speaker 6: in a culture that's kind of racing to see who 475 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 6: can be the most offended, suddenly everything becomes way too 476 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 6: overly sensitized and way too overly offended by. But I 477 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:05,160 Speaker 6: do think if that death life motif is correct, then 478 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,879 Speaker 6: what that means is the set of like, I'm a 479 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,360 Speaker 6: bad person, I need to get better and try harder. 480 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 6: If it's a life source and I got a dead 481 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 6: spot in my heart, I got a dead spot in 482 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 6: my mouth, I got a dead spot in my thoughts, 483 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 6: then I don't need to go from bad to good. 484 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 6: I need to go from death to life. And the 485 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,159 Speaker 6: problem is I'm not a good life source, right. I 486 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,399 Speaker 6: can't produce life. So I need a life source to 487 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 6: produce life in me. And so God says he's the 488 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,439 Speaker 6: ultimate life source. So if you find yourself using your 489 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 6: tongue in a way that is honestly producing a lot 490 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 6: of dead stuff, you find yourself got of being a 491 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 6: bit of a zombie in the way you're using your tongue. 492 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,919 Speaker 6: You've tried harder to make it better, but it's not working. 493 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 6: Trying harder is probably not going to get it done. 494 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 6: Instead of you to say, man, I need a life 495 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 6: source beyond myself. So like right before I'm about to speak, 496 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 6: I showed up a quick prayer. God, I need you 497 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 6: to give me your perspective. Quick prayer. God. I need 498 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 6: some life breathed into the situation right now. Hey, my 499 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 6: wife's listening. I'm starting to get defensive, it's starting to 500 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:01,439 Speaker 6: get angry right now, God helped me life source. I 501 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 6: need your life to be able to listen before I react. 502 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,120 Speaker 6: Just those little short I call them popcorn prayers, Little 503 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 6: quick popcorn prayers in a situation, and think about like 504 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:11,919 Speaker 6: with a cell phone, Like we'll even say, hey, I 505 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 6: can't hear you right now, or can you hear me now? 506 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 6: I'm in a dead spot. So if you're in a 507 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 6: dead spot with a cell phone, what do you do? 508 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 6: You don't go, I'm gonna try harder to make the 509 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 6: cell phone work. I need to move to a better 510 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 6: spot to get better reception. So as you see yourself 511 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,880 Speaker 6: with you know some dead spots in your communication, dead 512 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 6: spots in the way you're using your tongue in a 513 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 6: destructive way. I'd just encourage you. You know, wherever you 514 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:35,680 Speaker 6: are in your relationship with God, whether you call the 515 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 6: Higher Power or your follower of Jesus as I am, 516 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 6: you need to get to a better reception. Or I 517 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 6: have access to someone else's self control because mine's run out, 518 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 6: someone else's compassion because mine's run out, someone else's peace 519 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 6: and joy because mine's run out. How do I organize 520 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 6: my life to say? How can I throw up maybe 521 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 6: two or three quick prayers in a given day about 522 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 6: to go in to this meeting? God give me the 523 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,880 Speaker 6: wisdom not to say everything the minute it comes into 524 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 6: my head. I let me make sure I assess the 525 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 6: situation before I respond to it. Okay, And that can 526 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 6: be just a really practical way to deal with that 527 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:09,360 Speaker 6: in a given day. 528 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,879 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a stained glass side of it. Okay, A 529 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,919 Speaker 2: lot of people out there understand that. Let's just assume 530 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 2: for a second we move into the plane glass side. Okay, 531 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 2: is there something is there? 532 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 5: I mean, is it? 533 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 6: Is it? 534 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 5: Something? Is easy? 535 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 6: You know? 536 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 2: When I hear somebody tell me take a breath and 537 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: count to ten. You and I both know that in 538 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 2: theory that sounds great, but when you're engaging. That's why 539 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 2: I like to pop up thing because that can take 540 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 2: two seconds. But you know, but but I mean, do 541 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: you recommend like, hey, just take a breath. Take two breaths, 542 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:47,399 Speaker 2: count to five. What would you suggest before? Because you 543 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 2: know when something's about to come out? Right, most times 544 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 2: you do. 545 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, And I would say, typically what happens, it's 546 00:25:55,000 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 6: trigger than talk, triggered by that eventger by what you said, 547 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 6: trigger by what I thought you said. And so it's 548 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 6: trigger talk. So I would say on the plane clift side, 549 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 6: I want to try and recognize that it actually goes 550 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 6: trigger thought talk. So I'm having a thought. My wife 551 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 6: is communicating something. I could be totally innocent, Like my 552 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,399 Speaker 6: wife when we were first married, would say I think 553 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 6: I heard a sound in the car. I quickly would 554 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 6: react with no, I think it's fine. Should what do 555 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 6: you think it's fine? He's saying, I didn't hear something. 556 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,120 Speaker 6: I heard something. I didn't recognize that I actually had 557 00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,120 Speaker 6: a thought that I didn't know it no I had, 558 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 6: which is trigger. My wife says it's a sound in 559 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 6: the car. The thought I didn't realize I had was 560 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 6: oh my goodness, I wish I'd made more money so 561 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 6: we didn't have such crappy cars that are always breaking down. 562 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 6: I don't really have the budget to fix this. Whatever 563 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 6: it is, it's going to be killer for our budget. 564 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 6: I'm reacting. I wasn't even really reacting to what my 565 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 6: wife said, or even reacting to the car itself. I 566 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 6: was reacting to some internal like frustration that man, I 567 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,840 Speaker 6: always feel it fixing the car. So what you want 568 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:57,360 Speaker 6: to do is you want to say there is a 569 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 6: trigger thought talk. I don't always recognize that before I talk. 570 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 6: I've already thought my wife is attacking me, and she's like, 571 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 6: what am I doing attacking me? And of course she'd 572 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 6: probably your your wife, and you could probably do a 573 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,159 Speaker 6: better job of wording it's better. But I need I 574 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 6: need to create some space. I think that's what i'd recommend. 575 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,919 Speaker 6: I need to create a pause in my in my 576 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:22,439 Speaker 6: process or space to let another voice speak in, another 577 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 6: thought come in. So think to yourself when you're about 578 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 6: to speak. I just went from trigger to talk in 579 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,119 Speaker 6: like half a second. I want to try and get 580 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,640 Speaker 6: even one second in there. I'm about to gossip. I'm 581 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 6: about to try and get control. I'm trying and win this. 582 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,639 Speaker 6: What if I had a thought to say listen first, 583 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 6: just that I want to get just enough and say 584 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,160 Speaker 6: listen first. May there's enough legitimate things to get angry 585 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 6: about in life. We often get angry at misinterpretations and miscommunications. 586 00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 6: So just real quick, you say to yourself, don't react 587 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 6: until you make sure you know what they're saying. You know, 588 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 6: So trigger thought, talk and if you can create that 589 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:03,159 Speaker 6: space and that pause, that's where and that's where breathing 590 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 6: can help. That's where walking away can help. But even 591 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 6: a quick prayer can help. But really I'm trying to say, 592 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 6: I want to engage the rational part of my brain 593 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,520 Speaker 6: into that moment when the emotional side of my brain 594 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:16,200 Speaker 6: has taken over. Because emotional side goes trigger, I'm under attack. 595 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 6: I'm either gonna fight or I can fight. I gotta 596 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 6: smack back at you. Let you know you can't talk 597 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,159 Speaker 6: to me that way. I gotta win this argument. So 598 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,720 Speaker 6: that's the main thing I would say, move from trigger 599 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 6: to thought to talk and trying to create. 600 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:32,119 Speaker 2: That instead of fire. Aim ready, Okay, yeah right right, Chad, 601 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 2: thanks as always for your time. Well that part three, 602 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,199 Speaker 2: The tongue as a puzzle we'll look forward to that 603 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 2: next week. 604 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 5: I hope you have a great rest of your day. 605 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 5: Thank you. 606 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:41,840 Speaker 6: That's good. Tuck you soon, all right. 607 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 2: Eight fifty three. Let's check those roadways. I mean, people 608 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 2: can get triggered. I think there's a whole lot of 609 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 2: bad language. Maybe this morning going on shot. 610 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 8: There probably was because there were an awful lot of 611 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 8: jams earlier. I don't think so much now. This from 612 00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 8: the UC Health Tramphing Center. You see health they never 613 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 8: miss a beat. Your heart shouldn't either. If you have 614 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,520 Speaker 8: signs of a cardiac rhythm disorder. Don't wait to be seen. 615 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 8: Schedule onlind at uc health dot com. Southbound seventy five 616 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 8: is the last of the slow going. That's in and 617 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 8: Adam Lachlan and nextra three to four minutes. We'll do 618 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 8: the trick northbound seventy five pretty much clear out of 619 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 8: Earl Ainger into downtown. Same for northbound fourth seventy one. 620 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 8: Chuck Ingram News Radio seven hundred WLW Right WCPO nine 621 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 8: First Warning Forecast presented by Jennifer Ketchmark Man. 622 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 2: It's a good one. I mean it's a really good one. 623 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 2: Today we're looking at sunshine. We're up to fifty two 624 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 2: degrees tonight. If you're out and about, you know, get 625 00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,920 Speaker 2: home from workout for a walk, it's still going to 626 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 2: be in the mid to upper forties. Now overnight there 627 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 2: is a chance we get some light snow, very light, 628 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 2: but it could affect your commute to school, work, et cetera. Tomorrow. 629 00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,959 Speaker 2: But that's in the morning, because by lunchtime it's going 630 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 2: to be sunny and fifty or forty seven degrees. I'll 631 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 2: get to the fifties here in a minute, because that's 632 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:13,720 Speaker 2: coming on Friday, Friday sunshine high at fifty five Saturday sunshine. 633 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:20,680 Speaker 2: We're getting up to sixty degrees on Saturday. We might 634 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 2: next week, you know, continue in the forty degree range. 635 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 2: But let's really enjoy today, Tomorrow, Friday, Saturday, thank God, 636 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 2: going to. 637 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 5: Be beautiful, beautiful days. 638 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,920 Speaker 2: Scott Sloan of course, is coming up here at nine 639 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 2: o'clock and then Willie's back today. 640 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 5: You'll be here at high noon. 641 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 2: I talk all the time about the difference in your 642 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 2: life if you go get a shelter dog or cat. 643 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 2: No matter how crummy your day is, there's always a 644 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 2: happy face waiting for you to get home.