1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah, Tampa Accident Attorneys. Hello, we're live on 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: ninety three three fl Z. A happy moment, truthfully, and 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: I will say this happened about a week ago, about 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: a week ago, a week ago, and I did get 6 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: an update. This is awesome. Arden and Trey, they'll come 7 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: on the show later. They're gonna talk about where they're at. 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: But Trey is making massive leaps to now be honest 9 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: and not be so ashamed. 10 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 2: Of his f up. 11 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people have actually screwed up 12 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: the way he has. But a wife concerned about her 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: husband cheating, she got in contact with us. It was 14 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: all over like taxes and how they've got a tax guy. 15 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: He went to her and said, listen, I'm gonna handle 16 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,239 Speaker 1: my own taxes this year. I've been together for more 17 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: than ten years. 18 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:52,919 Speaker 2: Nine years. 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: They've been doing their taxes together. He's like, I'm handling mine. 20 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: His wife goes, well, what. 21 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 2: About my stuff? And he goes, nope, in on the 22 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: mine and you do that, thank you? What is he hiding? 23 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 2: What's going on? 24 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: She's with us? Now my husband's cheating. I think we 25 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: call him he's not cheating, he's just gambling. Last year, 26 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: embarrassed about it a little too much sports gambling. 27 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: Didn't want her to know. That's why. 28 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: Eight ninety three, you thought your partner was cheating, but 29 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: they were actually doing something. Now, So Alexa, you Hi, 30 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: you were with someone who had two phones and that 31 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: was freaking yet, well. 32 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,639 Speaker 3: Multiple devices? Yeah, and I found them and I asked 33 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 3: why it wasn't brought up, and they were embarrassed because 34 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 3: they wanted to have multiple accounts for a game on 35 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 3: their phone. 36 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 2: What was the game? 37 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 3: It's a Pokemon game. 38 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: Hey, you got to catch them all? 39 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 3: Well, I thought I did, right. 40 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: And you still with them or her? 41 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: Oh? 42 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm still with them. Yeah, and it was a 43 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 3: learning curve, but there's still obviously issues go on going 44 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 3: about learning transparency through embarrassment. So I can totally relate 45 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 3: to her. I get it. 46 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 2: And what is he so embarrassed about? 47 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: Well, I mean a grown ass man, sorry I bleep up, 48 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 3: a grown man playing a game on the phone and 49 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 3: then hiding stuff because he's just. 50 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm a grown ass man who plays 51 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: with lightsabers. So yeah, if your man ever wants a friend, 52 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: it sounds like I've got a new friend and we 53 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: don't have to hide anything. 54 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 3: I don't know. Two guys playing with lightsabers weird? 55 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 2: You know what weird? 56 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: Sounds like Alexa and Ashley have made friends, and I'm 57 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: gonna make friends too. Alexa, thank you for calling in 58 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: and in sharing your similar story. 59 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 2: I have a good Thank you, Alexa. Real quick on 60 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 2: this question, Yeah. 61 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: Is he cheating? Do you think he's cheating? I'm talking 62 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: about Tree? Do you think Trey was treating on Arden? No? 63 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 3: I mean based on his reaction and that I'm genuine 64 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 3: like okay coming forward and here it is like that 65 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: that same kind of vulnerability is what I experienced, So 66 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: I don't think. 67 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 2: So, yeah, check this out. 68 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: Someone does think that he might actually be cheating, then 69 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 1: thank you, Alexa. Marie. You are not fully high. You 70 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:31,399 Speaker 1: were not fully convinced that now he's not cheating? Why 71 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: is that now? 72 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 4: So first, let me just pre emphasis with one thing. 73 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 4: I shared two things in your show. With these situations, 74 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 4: I've been through the most severe cheating scam I ever 75 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 4: earned you want to hear. And then I became a 76 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 4: crisis counselor and mostly focused on folks and domestic violence 77 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 4: and cheating. And I can tell you is my own 78 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 4: personal experience and from my training, that he first of 79 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 4: all needs to show her his paperwork he did his 80 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 4: gambling to prove to her that that's exactly where this 81 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 4: money went. It does happen a lot of women. We 82 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 4: go into denial, don't want to believe that our partner's 83 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 4: going to lie to. 84 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 5: Us and be that deceptive. 85 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 4: It does happen because they become very good at lying 86 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 4: and hiding things. 87 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 5: So in order to really give this guy a clear slate, 88 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 5: I would suggest that she go ahead and say, okay, 89 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 5: show me where you did your gambling and where the 90 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 5: money went, so that he's all clean and clear, because 91 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 5: if he can't show her that, then she needs to 92 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 5: dig deeper. 93 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 4: Men men do hide this. 94 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 5: It's a fact. 95 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 4: It's one of the ways they get away with it 96 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 4: because they sound like I'm innocent and you know, declaring 97 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 4: my wrongdoing and I'm telling you the truth. And sometimes 98 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 4: they get pretty good at that. So I'm not saying 99 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 4: I'm not saying he cheated because maybe he didn't, but 100 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 4: because he was deceptive to that degree with money like that, 101 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 4: and that's where it all starts. She needs to say 102 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 4: show me, don't tell me me, show me the money. 103 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: You're thinking to show me the money. I was thinking 104 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 2: to show me the carfax. 105 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I hope and I hope and pray that 106 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 4: you know, this is he's being so full and honest. 107 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 4: But you know, best liars, they can be very convincing, 108 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 4: especially when a partner wants to believe that. You know, 109 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 4: we all want to believe they're being honest and true. 110 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 5: Exactly. 111 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 4: Can't fall for it. You fall for it once, you're 112 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 4: going to get scammed a second time, for sure, Marie. 113 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 2: I always appreciate you calling in. 114 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: It's it's not not even necessarily funny, it's just something 115 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: I always think. I always thinking we're about to hear 116 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: Marie's take, like whenever I see your name, I want 117 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 1: to beat you up quick. 118 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 2: So thank you. 119 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 4: I have I have had personal experience with this and 120 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 4: as a trained professional to deal with this. So I 121 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 4: just want to save other women from going through what 122 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 4: I went through. So there you go, have a good day, 123 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:54,679 Speaker 4: and let's hop him, pray he's. 124 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 5: A good guy. 125 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 1: We're going to get him on again. So thank you, Marie, 126 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: and maybe maybe call in and talk to him. To 127 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: I'll have you will bring like you could put a 128 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: light in his face and be like, all right, show 129 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:10,720 Speaker 1: me that money. 130 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 4: I have a good one, you too. 131 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 2: One last thing, one last thing. 132 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 1: Let's end it with this, because uh, you say, hey, Haley, Hi, 133 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 1: tell you love you love how this ended? You? 134 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 2: Really? Do you? You say this? 135 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: And this was handled in a mature fashion, And thank 136 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 1: god we didn't catch a cheater this time. 137 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a it's refreshing after a while to see 138 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 6: a really good end in especially right before Valentine's Day. 139 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 2: I didn't think about that either, you know what, Actually 140 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 2: I thought about that. That's why I played. I did. 141 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 6: I just I love how it ended. I love how 142 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 6: like unlike other war the roses in the past. Like 143 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 6: he was like, hold up a second, and he talked 144 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 6: to Harden and he was just like you can hear 145 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 6: the hurt in his voice. He's like, you think I'm cheating? 146 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 6: Like he was generally like shocked about that because he 147 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 6: didn't understand how she perceived it until like later in 148 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 6: the conversation and he's like, Okay, yeah, I can see 149 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 6: why she thought I was cheated. There was no profanity, 150 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 6: no accusations, towards her and like, that's a very mature relationship. 151 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 6: And based on her response, it seems like gambling was 152 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 6: always an issue in the past, so she wasn't shocked 153 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 6: to hear that. 154 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh Haley, thank god, thank god. I'm sure we'll 155 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: probably have more cheaters on next week. But right, Haley, 156 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: We'll talk to you later. 157 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 6: I love you, Love you guys too. Have a great day. 158 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 2: You too, you too. 159 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: Listen back to it on our free iHeartRadio app. Already 160 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: one of the most stream moments ever. I am interested 161 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: to see what the app is like, because you know, 162 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. When we play the ones that 163 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: we don't catch cheaters, people tend to turn their radio off. 164 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 2: Is that weird? We want drama? I know, we We'll 165 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 2: see what happened. I'm sure that this one was streaming. Well, 166 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 2: maybe they want love because you know, a long time 167 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 2: days Saturday. 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