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Speaker 1: The Minnesota goodbye. And today we're starting with random thoughts,

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Speaker 1: and this comes from Katie. It says, if heat rises,

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Speaker 2: Because they're above the cloud line.

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Speaker 1: Right, But as you get higher and higher, before you're

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Speaker 1: even above the cloud line, it's colder. Why, Bailey, Why science?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't have an answer for that.

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Speaker 1: Even though I am a meteorologist, I'm not, so I

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Speaker 1: don't know. If someone else wants to, we can google

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Speaker 1: Jessica Ranger. Jessica could tell us. We could also google

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Speaker 1: these things. I know, but I don't really want to

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Speaker 1: ask people to send in the answers because then we're

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Speaker 1: going to get a million of emails about this and

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Speaker 1: we can easily google. But Katie, that is a great question.

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Speaker 1: She has another one. Why do people with clearly clean

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Speaker 1: cars go through the car wash? Great question, Katie. I

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Speaker 1: don't get it because mine has to be absolutely filthy

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Speaker 1: for me to pay for a car wash. Yes, Like,

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Speaker 1: I need to figure out how my damn hose in

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Speaker 1: my backyard works because I have two different hoses in

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Speaker 1: one of them I know is back in like the

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Speaker 1: I can't figure out how to work it. So I

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Speaker 1: don't get that. I would never waste money on a

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Speaker 1: car wash unless my car was like clean. This is

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Speaker 1: one story I will tell you though. So when I

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Speaker 1: was twenty two years old, my friend won a trip

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Speaker 1: because it was important, and he took it through every

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Speaker 1: single day because it was important to him to keep

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Speaker 1: up a certain status of the way he like appeared. Sure,

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Speaker 1: so that might be why, kitty, if you have a

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Speaker 1: certain status you must uphold. Maybe that's why you're going

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Speaker 1: through the car wash to clean your car every day

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Speaker 1: when I started clean all right, Another random thought. I

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Speaker 1: What how is that possible? In my head, that should

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Speaker 1: have been about five point fifty. Oh, my gosh, that's

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Speaker 1: twelve bucks for an energy drink and a pack of gum.

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Speaker 3: I wonder how the I mean I get the like

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Speaker 3: the car packs of gum, like the big ones, like

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Speaker 3: the big shaky like container. Yeah, and that's like five dollars.

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Speaker 3: But one pack of gum. There's no way one pack

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Speaker 3: of gum is like fine, Katie.

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Speaker 1: I feel like they I would have demanded a receipt

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Speaker 1: or been like, no, take it back, I'm not paying

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Speaker 1: that much. I don't know, all right. And then last

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Speaker 1: one is for Dave. She wants to hear his take

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Speaker 1: on the jfk assassination, so I'll leave this in here.

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Speaker 2: He has a take.

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Speaker 1: He does have a take, so he is very fascinated

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Speaker 3: I have an answer about mountain Oh, the mountaintops are

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Speaker 3: at higher altitudes causes it to expand and cool adeabatically.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah I knew that. Yeah, yeah, we just like

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Speaker 1: we just didn't want to sound too smart. Oh when

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Speaker 2: This is a fun fact.

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Speaker 3: Air is primarily heated from below by the Earth's surface,

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Speaker 3: possess thinner air that retains less warmth.

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Speaker 1: That is, it is always interesting when you see like

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Speaker 1: a significant amount of snow melts quickly even though it's

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Speaker 2: So I will say I do like this word eightya

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Speaker 2: battic or eighty a bat a.

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Speaker 3: I've never heard that word in my lane either, but

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Speaker 3: I love as an adult having the opportunity to see

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Speaker 1: Thank you for the fun random thoughts, Katie. This comes

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Speaker 1: from our good buddy Dan from Apple Valley. He wants

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Speaker 1: to bring up spring break again, which, let me tell you,

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Speaker 1: I don't get sick of spring break stories, so feel

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Speaker 1: free to email those in It says twas spring break,

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Speaker 1: I was nineteen living with my roommate Rent free and

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Speaker 1: drove to South Padre made great time. I drove while

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Speaker 1: our lives. So I'm saying that spring break doesn't have

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Speaker 1: the right people. All right, my dart licking friends, this

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Speaker 1: is the thing. Like, it doesn't have to be expensive.

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Speaker 1: You can road trip, that's for sure. The thought of

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Speaker 1: the cars, three in the front, no, three in the back.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that sounds awful.

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Speaker 1: And then they all like shared one hotel room slept

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Speaker 1: out the floor. Like that's like the type of spring break.

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of people that did spring break

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Speaker 1: and I also knew a guy. Shout out Dylan if

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Speaker 1: he ever listens to this. I think this is true, Dylan.

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Speaker 1: I heard this from one of your good friends that

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Speaker 3: I know people who've done that, but it wasn't for

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Speaker 3: spring break. They like take out extra student loans so

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that makes kind of some sense. You're doing school, working,

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Speaker 1: all right, But like spring break you break. That seems

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Speaker 1: you could never convince me to go in more debt

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Speaker 1: Not stupid that, I take that back. College spring break

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Speaker 2: I know I wouldn't want to be six in a car.

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Speaker 2: I can do two and two.

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Speaker 3: I would love I never got to go on like

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Speaker 3: Like last summer, mea and two of my friends drove

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Speaker 3: But I'd love to like drive, I'd love to do

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Speaker 2: And I don't have the time to do any of that. No,

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Speaker 1: Do you want to quit your job and just live

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Speaker 1: a lot of work on her. Okay, so you better

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Speaker 1: start youtubing shit, babe, you better start learning how to

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Speaker 2: Can I paint it yellow? It already is like a yellow.

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Speaker 2: It's that is not a yellow color, little yellow.

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Speaker 1: It's like a tan. It's like a hideous tan. I know,

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Speaker 1: email comes in from Thurston. It says, Hi, everyone heard

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Speaker 1: from November. A couple of observations. Some creative programs have

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we will get into one more email.

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Speaker 1: Here it says thank you, thank you. I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 3: See, someone else is texting me today saying it's out

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Speaker 1: This is an email Dave had had it opened from

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Speaker 1: You're doing great, Bailey, thank you. The same email area

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Speaker 1: so Bailey is friend Katie cap Yeah, like all of

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Speaker 1: these crazy questions not crazy, honestly, Like, in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: really good questions to ask someone when you're dating. A

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Speaker 1: lot of people find that to be invasive some of

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Speaker 1: the questions. Other people are like, but that just comes

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Speaker 1: with time. It feels unnecessary that you have to ask

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Speaker 1: these I feel like I'm on the side of go

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Speaker 1: for it, ask these questions. However, I am not following

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Speaker 1: my own rules here because I have not asked most

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Speaker 1: of these questions myself, But yeah, Bailey, do you want

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Speaker 1: to say some of them?

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Speaker 2: So here's some of them.

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Speaker 3: Do you have a mental timeline of when you want

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Speaker 3: Do you want kids? How many kids? What if those

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Speaker 3: kids can't biologically be yours? Blah blah blah, et cetera,

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Speaker 3: et cetera. How much money do you make, do you

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Speaker 3: receive an annual raise? How was how long was your

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Speaker 3: last relationship, when was it? What religion are you?

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Speaker 2: Et cetera. So those are all like the deep, heavy.

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Speaker 3: Hitting questions that we talked about it when we did

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Speaker 3: talk about it on air. I believe my boyfriend heard

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Speaker 3: me or I mentioned it to him and he was like, Oh,

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Speaker 3: I'm totally willing to answer any of those questions if

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Speaker 3: you have them for me, and I'd be totally comfortable

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Speaker 3: answering those. And I don't think we really did talk

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Speaker 3: about any of them except for like how much money

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Speaker 3: do you make? And like the rays and what you

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Speaker 3: haven't in savings and all of that stuff we asked.

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Speaker 3: We talked about that stuff. But I still don't know

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Speaker 3: if this man wants kids or not. I feel like

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Speaker 3: I probably should ask. So, you know, you guys have

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Speaker 3: not been dating that long. No, I think you're putting

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Speaker 3: too much pressure on yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well, this person continues to say, I

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Speaker 1: have another question I think should be added to that list.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they say, I know many people in their

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Speaker 1: sixties who are getting divorced because they had very different

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Speaker 1: expectations of what retirement would look like. For example, maybe

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Speaker 1: the woman stayed home to take care of the kids

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Speaker 1: while the man pursued his career. Now that her job

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Speaker 1: is done, she wants to start a career or explore

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Speaker 1: NUA ambitions, but the man is ready to retire and

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Speaker 1: slow down. She expected support for her next chapter the

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Speaker 1: same way she supported his, and they're suddenly on top

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Speaker 1: totally different pages.

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Speaker 2: Interesting.

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Speaker 1: I truly know a lot of people whose marriages are

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Speaker 1: or maybe ending because of this or similar issues. So

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Speaker 1: in addition to questions like do you want kids or

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Speaker 1: where do you want to live? I think what does

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Speaker 1: retirement look like to you is a really important one

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Speaker 1: to ask early on. Thanks again, and seriously, thank you

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Speaker 1: for fixing the podcast order. Y'all are amazing, thanks for reading,

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Speaker 1: And this comes from Nickiddy. I gotta be honest, that

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Speaker 1: would be like one of the last things I would

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Speaker 1: think of at this point in my life because, like

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Speaker 1: I'm not, retirement is so far off in the horizon

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Speaker 1: that I wouldn't even like consider that.

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Speaker 3: Right well, Like, I think it's a really good question,

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Speaker 3: especially if you're dating maybe like closer to retirement age.

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Speaker 3: But like right now, I feel the same way where

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Speaker 3: I don't know what I would want to do for

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Speaker 3: retirement because I don't know what my whole life has

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Speaker 3: looked like. I mean, maybe by the time I retire,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be so tired by like doing all

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Speaker 3: of the stuff that I've been doing, so I'd really

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Speaker 3: like to just chill for a year or chill for

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Speaker 3: the rest of my life, Like, who knows, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: That's a great question though.

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Speaker 1: So add that to the list of things that Bailey

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Speaker 1: already said, what this retirement looked like to you? All Right,

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Speaker 1: that's going to do it for today's Minnesota Goodbye. Dave's

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