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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning, and it's back y'all. Second

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Speaker 1: date update.

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Speaker 2: Let's just bring holding on right now, get this thing rolling, Holden,

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Speaker 2: how are you either?

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Speaker 3: Hey, I'm good. I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I'm here.

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Speaker 2: Hey man, I want to help you out with this date.

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Speaker 2: I understand you've been ghosted. The info that I have

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Speaker 2: is that her name is Sabine and that you guys

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Speaker 2: met on Hinge. But let's roll through the date because

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Speaker 2: sometimes I can glean details and maybe we can figure

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Speaker 2: out why she disappeared on you.

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Speaker 1: So what did you guys end up doing? Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: we went out to dinner.

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Speaker 3: We had, you know, good conversation and lots of laughs.

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Speaker 3: I felt like we had enough in common that, you know,

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Speaker 3: this could go somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know what did you talk about?

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Speaker 3: We talked about you know, we love live music, we

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Speaker 3: love movies, we both.

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Speaker 1: Like hiking, we're both like going outside. Okay, and you said,

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Speaker 1: did you come to the city? Did I come into

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Speaker 1: the city? Yeah? Okay, And it went fine. Anything crazy happened, No, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean we were like, we left the restaurant and we

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Speaker 3: talked outside for a while, and it wasn't just like

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Speaker 3: a hug and goodbye kind of thing. It was like

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Speaker 3: we wanted to stay around each other, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I told her goodbye and I kissed her and it

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Speaker 3: was great.

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Speaker 2: You know, they asked you the same question I asked

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Speaker 2: the gentleman yesterday. Did she kiss you back?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, okay, yeah, no.

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Speaker 3: It was definitely a full on we both were into it,

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Speaker 3: you know, a great kiss. And then she asked me

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Speaker 3: to text her when I got home, which I felt

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Speaker 3: really like great about because that's like a good sign.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so you know I did. I did.

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Speaker 3: I text her and uh, you know, she texted me

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Speaker 3: back and that was great. But then like the next day,

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Speaker 3: she kind of got cold and the playfulness was gone,

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Speaker 3: you know, that flirtatious, that funness was gone, and she

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Speaker 3: kind of just kept their distance, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, what I'll do is I'll call her.

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Speaker 2: Well, have you kind of on standby listening in, So

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Speaker 2: just me your phone and we'll see if we can't

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Speaker 2: get some answers. I'd love to get you a second day,

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Speaker 2: all right, dude, go ahead and meet your phone.

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Speaker 1: Let's give her a shout. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Sabine.

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Speaker 1: Please this Hi Sabine. It's Marcus calling from Star one

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Speaker 1: on one three.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Good morning Marcus.

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Speaker 1: Hi, do you listen in the morning? Tell me you

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Speaker 1: listening in the morning.

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Speaker 4: I listen in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I love that about you. Hey, you want to be

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Speaker 1: on second date? Update?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I I guess I'm not terrible with the surprise.

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Speaker 1: Spoken like a woman who has accepted her fate. I

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Speaker 1: appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: Mm hm. So I'm assuming that Holden is listening.

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Speaker 1: He is Holden? Are you there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I'm here?

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Speaker 2: Okay, hello everyone? Hi, So Sabin, what did something happen?

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Speaker 2: How was the day for you?

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Speaker 4: Was a great date? It was everything I could want

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Speaker 4: in a date. We had great conversation, we had a

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Speaker 4: good meal. There was a good kiss.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And then right at the end, right as I am

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Speaker 4: getting in my car, Holden let me know that his

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Speaker 4: name is not Holden. His name is Bryce.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry what.

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Speaker 4: He apparently gives whitman who he meets for dates a

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Speaker 4: fake first name as a test or some kind of

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Speaker 4: protection for himself. But yes, So we went through. I

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Speaker 4: had a date with Holden, and then I found out

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Speaker 4: that Holden is Bryce.

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Speaker 1: His real name is Bryce.

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Speaker 4: His real name is Bryce. And did he tell me

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Speaker 4: any true the whole night, see, just making up everything

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Speaker 4: we talked about.

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Speaker 1: Sure, it was so weird, Okay, did you say something?

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Speaker 4: Honestly, at the moment, I couldn't even react. I just

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Speaker 4: kind of went along and left. And then I went

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Speaker 4: home and I sat there and I thought about it,

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Speaker 4: and it was just it was it was too much.

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Speaker 1: Okay, holding to you Bryce? Bryce? Should I call you Bryce? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What's happening?

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Speaker 3: All right? Well, I don't think there's anything weird or

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Speaker 3: shady about using a different name.

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Speaker 1: So, like a couple of years back, I had a

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Speaker 1: bad experience.

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Speaker 3: I met someone online and then she ended up showing

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Speaker 3: up at my apartment unannounced, and that was just really

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Speaker 3: weird to me. So then ever since then, I've just

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Speaker 3: used a different first name, and like that's for me

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Speaker 3: to until I feel comfort with the person.

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Speaker 1: And then I so is your whole background to lie

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Speaker 1: to or what?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: No, everything else I said on the date. You know

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Speaker 3: everything about my job, you know everything about my family.

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Speaker 3: Anything else that I was talking about is totally real information.

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Speaker 3: It's just the first name. Just the first name is

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Speaker 3: the only thing I changed. And I made sure to

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Speaker 3: tell her, like before the night was over because I

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Speaker 3: wanted to be honest, okay.

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Speaker 1: To being how does this sit with you?

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Speaker 4: I mean I get wanting safety and being cautious, but

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Speaker 4: as a woman, I have to think about my safety.

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Speaker 4: And I was on a date with someone who was

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Speaker 4: not even telling me his real name. No, it's okay,

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Speaker 4: so I go on a date. I tell my friends

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Speaker 4: I'm going on a date with so and so. I

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Speaker 4: didn't even have his real name, so that I'll hold

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Speaker 4: the safety thing. No, absolutely not okay, just thinking about

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Speaker 4: it now, it's just no, that absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: I just I can't believe that she doesn't understand.

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Speaker 4: Listen, I cannot be in a relationship with the man

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Speaker 4: who is so very comfortable just lying right from the jump.

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Speaker 4: What else? What else could he possibly be lying about?

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Speaker 1: No second date?

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Speaker 4: Then? No?

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Speaker 2: All right, hang on, I got to be honest. I

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Speaker 2: don't know where I'm at with this. Like my guy's

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Speaker 2: definitely got some trauma. But lying from the jump again,

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Speaker 2: like she said, is not okay. Any thoughts let me know.

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Speaker 2: Second date update