WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Terrible Thomas 

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date up date module in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>While you're not getting a call back after you went

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<v Speaker 2>on a date, we're going to find out right now

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<v Speaker 2>Thomas is not only not getting a call back, it

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<v Speaker 2>seems like he's even been blocked. But Thomas, you guys

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<v Speaker 2>went out and then did you go back to your

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<v Speaker 2>place or her place afterwards?

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<v Speaker 3>We came back to my place after.

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<v Speaker 2>Game, and you guys had I understand sex afterwards too.

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<v Speaker 3>We fool around like a little bit for a first date.

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<v Speaker 3>So definitely, yeah, I actually I don't want to air

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<v Speaker 3>her dirty laundry, but we didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>We've definitely fooled.

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<v Speaker 2>Her out, and you're not hearing back from her and

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<v Speaker 2>you're wondering what's going on and feeling like you've been

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<v Speaker 2>blocked by her. Megan is on the phone with this

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<v Speaker 2>staff right right now. Thomas, say hi to Megan.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, I guess Megan.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm doing good.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess so, Megan.

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<v Speaker 2>This is something we do on our show, and Megan,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, is a listener of the show, and

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<v Speaker 2>we love that you listen to us.

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<v Speaker 1>So you've heard this before. The second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>For anybody else that has never heard this, where we

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<v Speaker 2>will call the person that is not returning phone calls

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<v Speaker 2>after the date and find out what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Megan.

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<v Speaker 2>Thomas contacted us and said that he wanted to know

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<v Speaker 2>what's happening. Are you cool or are you just busy

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<v Speaker 2>right now and just not you know, call him anybody back?

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<v Speaker 2>Or are you ghosting Thomas?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean it's a little awkward, I guess, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm really sorry, But yeah, I just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 4>call him back.

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<v Speaker 1>And why why?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, we didn't went on a date and we

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<v Speaker 4>were doing things and she told me that I needed

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<v Speaker 4>to get some tips from other people from my like

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<v Speaker 4>from my sister, tips on you know, tips on like

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<v Speaker 4>things in bed and things.

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<v Speaker 5>He made that comment to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know after.

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<v Speaker 2>Thomas, what Timas, what do you mean by that she's

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<v Speaker 2>got to get tips?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, first of all, I am of all the reasons

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<v Speaker 3>why I thought I wasn't getting a call back, this

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<v Speaker 3>is not the one I expected to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know what the ones that you did

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<v Speaker 1>want to there? But go ahead?

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<v Speaker 3>What what?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 1>What were tips?

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<v Speaker 2>Meaning?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? Just tips are like an understatement in a weird

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<v Speaker 3>also kind of a euphemism. Things to do with I

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<v Speaker 3>she had. I don't know she hasn't been with the

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<v Speaker 3>man in years or has never done these things. And

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<v Speaker 3>certain phrases for certain things in bed are not literal.

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<v Speaker 3>They're just names for the act. It's not how you

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<v Speaker 3>perform them.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Guys, how about you teach her?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's bad. You didn't need to bring my sister

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<v Speaker 4>into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what did he say?

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<v Speaker 4>He said, I need to get pissed them my sister.

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<v Speaker 4>But he doesn't even know my sisters.

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<v Speaker 1>They're jokes. They're jokes. That is not a funny joke.

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<v Speaker 3>If you want to be dating around you probably should

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<v Speaker 3>go in and prepared.

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<v Speaker 1>It's on.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm on it like I'm trying to help you out.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not trying to be just a total twoshbag. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>trying to just this is. Maybe do some research, maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>Go in with some effort. It's not you, But let

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<v Speaker 1>me break it to you. You sound like a total

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<v Speaker 1>everything you said, well.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of expect I do my part, I do

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<v Speaker 3>my research. Play of it, might I say, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I expect my kind of reports to do the same.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think.

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<v Speaker 3>That's that much. I'm glad I know that this is

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<v Speaker 3>why I didn't get the call back, And I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's that's fine now that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I real Megan.

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<v Speaker 2>I I'm sorry that you had to deal with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry that he said that stuff to you. But

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<v Speaker 2>I and I want to bring this up. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think that if I was with a girl on a

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<v Speaker 2>first date and we were falling around, that I would

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<v Speaker 2>sit there and say to her, you're not very.

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<v Speaker 6>Good, or you need to ask your sister for tips

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<v Speaker 6>or anybody like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that would be the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I would honestly think that maybe her uncomfortability is

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<v Speaker 2>that it's the first time that they're together and she's

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<v Speaker 2>just trying to get to know them, and maybe you're

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you're not making her feel comfortable, and that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 6>But by the way, I don't think you should ever

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<v Speaker 6>say it like that, Like I think, to Anna's point,

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<v Speaker 6>just got I'd guide somebody, show them, tell them what

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<v Speaker 6>you like, but don't say, hey, you should probably you know,

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<v Speaker 6>watch some porn, learn some things, and then come back.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I ask this question though, just to answer that

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<v Speaker 2>would it be bad for a guy to do that

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<v Speaker 2>to a girl though and guide them to do something

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<v Speaker 2>or do they look like they're being coached me through misogynistic.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, but I don't take it that way. Like,

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<v Speaker 5>if there is something that my husband likes, I want him,

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<v Speaker 5>but even when we're dating, I want I want him

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<v Speaker 5>to show me so that I know, like that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good for him, you know, promised land Amanda.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Hi?

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning to everyone except for this this thing, this

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<v Speaker 4>thing that calls himself a man.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of out there. Yeah, no, this poor girl.

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<v Speaker 4>How do you go on a gate and say that

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<v Speaker 4>you hook up on the first day?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, whatever, that's what you say to her?

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<v Speaker 1>Girls, you poor thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't you ever talk to this thing that calls me

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<v Speaker 4>self a man again?

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<v Speaker 6>Because that is so disrespectful.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Amanda for the call. What's up, Cheryl, Hi?

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<v Speaker 6>Hi, good morning, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>He says he does his research before and all that.

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<v Speaker 4>I bet his research.

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<v Speaker 1>Is porn probably or hands on experience.

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<v Speaker 2>I think honestly, that would be just as offensive too,

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<v Speaker 2>if you need to watch more porn to say that

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<v Speaker 2>to her, I think that would be just as bad

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<v Speaker 2>as saying you need to ask your sister, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah?

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<v Speaker 6>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi?

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<v Speaker 6>So good morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just wondering if he did not like the

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<v Speaker 4>way she performed the things that she was doing, why

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<v Speaker 4>would he want a second date with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is he so worried about a second date?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a really good point, Yeah, Thomas, why why if

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<v Speaker 2>she was that bad, why would you want to be

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<v Speaker 2>going out again?

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<v Speaker 3>There also is something to be said about the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that we were doing these things on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>So basically, you just call her.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you didn't know what you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Really, she could?

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<v Speaker 1>These callers need to do more. Do more research on

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<v Speaker 1>how to call and talk to people kindly, is what

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<v Speaker 1>my ex I say everyone situations, research, are your feelings

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<v Speaker 1>her talents? Yeah? Hold on, Dustin, what did you want

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<v Speaker 1>to say?

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<v Speaker 3>I was wondering where your researches?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it a blow up doll her?

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole? What's up? Nicole?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi? So okay, people like this guy right here is

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<v Speaker 4>why women are becoming gay day by day. Just be honest.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I still my husband, I'm dating a woman now,

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<v Speaker 4>But people like you guys the reason why we have change.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks Thomas, than we appreciate you. They're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>learn second date updates This is the home of the

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<v Speaker 1>dirty on the thirty throw Back throw Down, the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, and more than roses. This is Mojo in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning.