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Speaker 1: We debuted it at seven forty yesterday and we will

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Speaker 1: take another guest right around six forty this morning, eight

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Speaker 1: hundred and four ow N ninety three ninety three. Can

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Speaker 1: you explain to me the text and the bar friend thing?

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Speaker 2: Ashley?

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Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, so you know I've been going to Jay

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Speaker 4: Alexander met a new friend at the bar and I

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Speaker 4: kind of I didn't go yesterday, but I do want

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Speaker 4: to go today. But when does he become I guess

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Speaker 4: awkward and weird when I send like emojii's or like hey, gir,

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Speaker 4: hey you want to link up? Because I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I literally just know her from that one moment. I

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Speaker 4: feel like Jed would have a better answer for this

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Speaker 4: because he actually goes out and meets strangers. Joe, he

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Speaker 4: just puts his hands in his pockets and uh, look,

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't be what do you mean? I want to know?

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Speaker 4: Like is it okay to you know, reach out and

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Speaker 4: like hang out with her at the bar? Like, Hey,

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Speaker 4: I'm going and meeting up? Do you want to meet

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Speaker 4: up today? Do you want to meet at ja Alexander?

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Speaker 3: For I not, I wouldn't use emoji's, that's for sure. No,

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Speaker 3: you can't use moji, But I'm.

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Speaker 4: Sad I can't text regardless, like can I text her?

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Speaker 4: Or is it weird?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: I I just start going.

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Speaker 5: No, that's like one of those relationships actually where you

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Speaker 5: have to let it develop on its own. It's better

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Speaker 5: like you got to meet a couple of times in

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Speaker 5: person to see how they actually are, and then you

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Speaker 5: can start she's the bartender.

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Speaker 4: No, she's just a girl that's a regular like me.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like, do I just continue to continuously go

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Speaker 4: to see her maybe four more times, and then start

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Speaker 4: texting her just say I'm going. You get what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Wouldn't do I just show up and hope she's there?

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Speaker 4: Or do I'm like, Hey, I'm actually gonna be here. Well,

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Speaker 4: because I've only been her going for you, yeah.

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Speaker 2: She might not want to, Like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: If I'm a regular and I'm going at a certain

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Speaker 1: time and I've gotten certain people I hang out with,

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Speaker 1: you know what, Well, what if she doesn't want to

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Speaker 4: Well, that's the thing I need to know if I

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Speaker 4: should text her? Do I just show up and hope

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Speaker 4: When I do get to the bar, she's like, hey, girl,

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Speaker 4: you should have text me and let me know you

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Speaker 2: I think it's more like an on the third date

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think you got to kind of casually run

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Speaker 1: into her a couple more times, and if.

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Speaker 2: You don't, then it's not meant to be. Not meant

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Speaker 4: Oh, she was really nice she loves the Joe Show.

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Speaker 4: That's one of the girls I made her down of.

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Speaker 2: The app she listens to the show.

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Speaker 4: Well, now she probably does.

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Speaker 2: Probably you don't even necessarily know if she doesn't.

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Speaker 4: Put The Joe Show on a pre set in Ninez.

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Speaker 1: You know, guys do this. I don't think women really

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Speaker 1: because they felt awkward. Sunny start to text them, and

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Speaker 1: like this is kind of crazy, like yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: those things happen that might be you.

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Speaker 4: No, it's definitely not. We've been listen I didn't go

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Speaker 4: Monday or Tuesday. In my head, this is how I think.

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Speaker 4: I know she's missing me at the bar. I know

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Speaker 4: she's like, I wish she came today. I would said,

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Speaker 4: that's why I feel I have not gone since Saturday.

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Speaker 4: she is a regular, she told me, and she said

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Speaker 4: what She's like, I come here all the time. Because

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, do you work do you? Because

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Speaker 4: she works from home, and I said do you come

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Speaker 4: I go, do you always get super? She named some

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Speaker 4: of the other items that she gets off the menu,

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Speaker 4: and I said, oh, okay, why are you laughing, Joe?

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Speaker 2: Because now you know her order too. I think I

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Speaker 2: think this crazy. I mean, I mean, I like.

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Speaker 4: That's how close we got to the bar. I was

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Speaker 4: there from one thirty until five.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you spent I'm telling you even we'll even put

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Speaker 1: it like this. Maybe maybe she did in that moment

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Speaker 1: think you were awesome.

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Speaker 4: Yeah she did.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you were a one night stand forget about it.

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Speaker 4: No, she was like, you're just like me.

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Speaker 2: Has she reached out and texted you?

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Speaker 4: She is not?

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Speaker 2: Wow, then there you go.

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Speaker 4: I know it's been two days and I feel like

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Speaker 4: she usually goes on Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: So you have not texted her.

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Speaker 3: I have not.

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Speaker 4: I'm nervous. This is a stranger.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't text her.

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Speaker 2: She could be waiting by her phone, or she could

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Speaker 4: I just show up.

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Speaker 2: You never know.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm going to show up today. I'm going to

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Speaker 4: show up at one thirty. Hopefully you're listening.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I hope so.

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna tell you because you've never been ghosted,

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Speaker 1: you know, when we do left on Red, You've always been.

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Speaker 4: The one to be like, I've never got the bar,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna get a shot if I'm not of myself.

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Speaker 1: Or like what if you get to the bar and

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Speaker 1: she's there, and like, you know, she could be in

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Speaker 1: the back and this is just me and maybe it's

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Speaker 1: because I've been ghosted and all of that, and I

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Speaker 1: just automatically assume that no one wants to be around me.

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Speaker 2: But I wouldn't even want to go when she goes.

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Speaker 1: Why because then then you would, you know, you might

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Speaker 4: Near her and she Oh, I am gonna sit near her.

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Speaker 1: She might not want to sit near you. She might

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Speaker 1: be like this a girl that grabbed my phone and

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Speaker 3: He's right, Ashley, Yeah, because I run the same thing

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Speaker 3: with being a regular at a couple of establishments. And

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Speaker 3: there are times where you know, I'll have their phone

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Speaker 3: they won't.

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Speaker 2: You might look the other way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't you change the channel too to watch the

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Speaker 1: Wildcats game?

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Speaker 4: She might be this woman like is so bold she

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Speaker 4: needed to change. Somebody need someone like me. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: go today. I'll let you guys know how it is.

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Speaker 2: Please do I'm.

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Speaker 1: Gonna you just don't walk in there and be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you didn't order the soup again?

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Speaker 2: What's going on? You can't?

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Speaker 1: You know, There's certain things that I'd probably be careful

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Speaker 1: about saying all right.

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Speaker 3: And don't be like, hey, do you want a shot?

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Speaker 4: That's just it doesn't I'm gonna have a shot if

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Speaker 4: she don't show up, Like if her name is like mine,

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Speaker 4: and if it's like her name is Joseph, her name

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Speaker 4: is Crystal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So her name is Crystal, right, don't call her Chrissy.

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Speaker 4: Like, don't Chris.

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Speaker 2: You can't know.

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Speaker 4: You can't nickname her.

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Speaker 1: No, you can't nickname her until you're like the third date.

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Speaker 1: I think that this is it was me. If it

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Speaker 1: was me, and I do everything wrong. But if this

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Speaker 1: to date, I don't. I think that I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: just show up there when she's there.

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Speaker 4: I gotta show it when she's there.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is destiny. We are meant to

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Speaker 2: be friends.

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Speaker 4: I wish I know what car she drove, because then

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Speaker 4: I can just drive by. You know what I'm saying

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Speaker 4: is this is how you find friends after thirty Joe.

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Speaker 1: You just scout out. You don't even have to find

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Speaker 1: out her car. Why don't you just every day you

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Speaker 1: leave here? Well, no, you wait in the parking lot, okay,

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Speaker 1: and the moment you see her walking, maybe you like

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Speaker 1: lean back in your chair and you keep your hat down.

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Speaker 2: And then when you see her you.

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Speaker 1: Get out of the car and you're like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is crazy.

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Speaker 4: It was destiny. Like you said, I'm gonna have a

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Speaker 4: new friend.

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Speaker 2: Now, you know the thinking, but behind a guy, I.

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Speaker 4: Do yes without being ghosted though, because I'm not going

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Speaker 4: to get ghosted today, I refuse. I'm not going today.

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Speaker 4: I feel like she'll be there on Thursday, Friday. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but you'll I'm and go the same.

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Speaker 1: Hell, God, what if you find out she's like a

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Speaker 1: fake regular?

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Speaker 4: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: What if she so told.

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Speaker 4: You never coming back again?

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Speaker 2: What if you ruined her regular ship? What if she's.

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Speaker 4: Not at all? We shared a glass of wine together.

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Speaker 2: You shared a glass of wine.

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Speaker 4: Use she purchased a glass of wine and he gave

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Speaker 4: her too much. She was like, you want something, and

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Speaker 4: she poured some in the glass from me. We are

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Speaker 4: just like, I mean this point, you're like, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Blood sisters, We're literally gonna put them I don't know,

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Speaker 4: slid on our fingers.

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Speaker 2: Yes, what b brothers?

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Speaker 1: You know? This portion of The Joe Show podcast is

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