Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. We are doing second date
Speaker 1: update right now. If you go on a date and
Speaker 1: you feel like you're getting ghosted, I will call your
Speaker 1: date and just try to figure some things out. Let's
Speaker 1: go ahead and get started. Let's bring Brian on the call.
Speaker 1: Good morning, Brian, morning. Hey dude, let's talk about your date.
Speaker 1: Tell me about Chloe. Well, Chloe was great.
Speaker 2: I mean, we met for coffee and Walnut Creek. We
Speaker 2: had a good conversation, it was flowing, the bogs were there.
Speaker 2: It was just a really good first date and I
Speaker 2: just felt like it nailed it, you know.
Speaker 1: Okay, So what has happened since the date?
Speaker 2: Well, you know, I thought, like, like I said, that
Speaker 2: there was a good enough connection to ask her out again.
Speaker 2: But you know, when I did after the date, she
Speaker 2: just never responded. She totally ghosted me.
Speaker 1: Okay, I would love to get you a second date, obviously,
Speaker 1: but let's try to get you some answers. Did anything
Speaker 1: weird happen? I've started asking recently just because people leave
Speaker 1: stuff out.
Speaker 2: We were there, it was a coffee date and we
Speaker 2: were just talking back and.
Speaker 1: Forth with coffee.
Speaker 2: I don't feel like anything weird.
Speaker 1: Happened about to make that phone call. We're going to
Speaker 1: call his date Chloe and try to figure out why
Speaker 1: she ghosted after there. It was a coffee date. What
Speaker 1: could possibly go wrong? Brian? Go ahead and meet your phone.
Speaker 1: Let's give her a call. Go ahead and listen in
Speaker 1: all right, here we go.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, is this Chloe?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Who's calling Chloe?
Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three. Good morning,
Speaker 1: Good morning.
Speaker 3: How are you good?
Speaker 1: Do you listen in the morning to the show?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I do, I do listen.
Speaker 1: Fantastic. We're doing second date update right now. Does that
Speaker 1: mean anything to you?
Speaker 3: Yes? It does? Okay, Yeah, so you're calling about Brian.
Speaker 1: I am, and he probably on the phone at the
Speaker 1: same time.
Speaker 3: Brian I was assuming so.
Speaker 1: Bridy there. Yeah, all right, yeah, let's do this, you guys.
Speaker 1: This should be easy. Hey, Chloe, did you did you
Speaker 1: go start our guy here after your date?
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, but I have a good reason, Like, okay,
Speaker 3: dating is so weird because you never know if someone
Speaker 3: is just weird in some way, Like I thought, he
Speaker 3: was perfectly nice, he was cute, he has a good job, whatever,
Speaker 3: and he admitted that he practices handshakes every day, not
Speaker 3: just one, but several types of handshakes.
Speaker 1: Like hand like actual handshakes yeh.
Speaker 3: Like he has a networking handshake or wedding handshake, a
Speaker 3: job interview handshake, and then what he calls his high
Speaker 3: value first impression handshake. I mean, don't you think that
Speaker 3: sounds weird? I thought he was joking.
Speaker 1: That sounds like a ted talk or something. Was it
Speaker 1: what I learned?
Speaker 3: Brian?
Speaker 1: Are you serious with this?
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I don't feel like that's the super
Speaker 2: weird thing. We all meet people every day. We all
Speaker 2: have handshakes when we meet people, especially new people in
Speaker 2: person impressions or everything.
Speaker 3: Okay, but this is a little obsessive. You know. He
Speaker 3: made me try the handshake again during dinner, like halfway
Speaker 3: through the date. I was like, try what he said,
Speaker 3: I want to try our handshake again. And he demonstrated
Speaker 3: the proper grip and said that the web of your
Speaker 3: thumb should touch each other first and that communicate confidence.
Speaker 3: And he told me to squeeze about ten percent. Firmer,
Speaker 3: I mean, does this sound for real? It's so weird?
Speaker 1: Brian? What is this about?
Speaker 2: Well? I felt like her handshake could use a little work,
Speaker 2: you know, I mean it was fine, but I was
Speaker 2: just trying to coach her. You know, that's honestly ultimately
Speaker 2: what I want to do. You know, I want to
Speaker 2: get into coaching. Do talk, so you know, I've been
Speaker 2: practicing doing handshakes like you said, I do practice every day,
Speaker 2: you know, different types of handshakes depending on the top.
Speaker 3: On your date, on your date. I wasn't applying for
Speaker 3: a management position. I was just trying to like drink
Speaker 3: my latte. You know, Like if you're all about first impressions,
Speaker 3: that's fine. You don't teach your date how to shake hands.
Speaker 3: It's not very romantic either. Do you get that well?
Speaker 2: I mean I wasn't trying to be romantic. I mean,
Speaker 2: I mean I didn't think you did a bad first impression.
Speaker 1: I just felt like you.
Speaker 2: Would enjoy learning about how to improve it.
Speaker 1: Ran you're on a date, Like how, Brian, are we
Speaker 1: on a date or is this one on one coaching? Like?
Speaker 1: How are you not trying to get romantic on a date?
Speaker 2: No? I mean like I was just trying to get
Speaker 2: along and tell her something that could benefit her life, like,
Speaker 2: you know, especially on just a first date. Like I'm
Speaker 2: not saying she made a bad first impression. If I'm
Speaker 2: meeting someone, I love feedback that allowed me to grow
Speaker 2: and improve and.
Speaker 1: To that you're literally for that.
Speaker 3: I did not need advanced handshake theory training in a date.
Speaker 3: This is weird. You need to understand that different settings
Speaker 3: are for different things. Like this is not the way
Speaker 3: you're going to get dates, right.
Speaker 2: See. I feel like most people really don't understand how
Speaker 2: important body language is and how much a weak handshake
Speaker 2: can tell.
Speaker 3: It's not really appropriate to teach your female date about
Speaker 3: handshakes and give that kind of feedback.
Speaker 1: It's weird, right you guys, Hey, you guys, Hey, hang on,
Speaker 1: hang on you too, hang on hey Chloe. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: going to go ahead and go ahead and let him go.
Speaker 3: Okay, good, thank you. You see what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm so sorry. Thank you for listening. Every morning.
Speaker 1: I'll take care of you. Don't need to date whatever
Speaker 1: that was. Hang on for me, bro wow okay uh.
Speaker 1: Second date update