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Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's number one and only hit music channel ninety

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Speaker 1: three three FLZ. We Are the Joe Show unfortunately caught

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Speaker 1: another cheater with war the Roses Now started with an

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Speaker 1: electric toothbrush. Things got weird and you can listen to

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Speaker 1: everything up on our free iHeartRadio app. This was a

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Speaker 1: man who didn't have to have a job. His wife

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Speaker 1: completely took care of him. We'll see what happens, you know,

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Speaker 1: in the coming weeks, months, and year. The guy didn't

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Speaker 1: have a kid's nothing going on. He just got to

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Speaker 1: stay home, didn't have to do anything, all right, And

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Speaker 1: in no way do I want this to come across

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Speaker 1: like we are bashing anyone who doesn't have to have

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Speaker 1: a job, because once again, and I genuinely mean this,

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to panderr I come from a household

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Speaker 1: where my mom was blessed enough to not have to

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Speaker 1: have a job. Her job was completely taking care of

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Speaker 1: three boys who were getting suspended and doing a lot

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Speaker 1: of bad things and having to she like she never

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Speaker 1: missed any of our games. She was always there for us.

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Speaker 1: He's always there. Yeah, this guy's kind of the absolute

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Speaker 1: the guy I ain't got to do nothing but he's cheating,

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Speaker 1: and that to me, it just doesn't I can't comprehend that. So, Rachel,

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Speaker 1: you are here to say that you were the cheater. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and you were. You are a stay at home mom.

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Speaker 1: You were a stay at home mom and I.

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Speaker 2: Was back then, okay, And it was his idea for

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Speaker 2: me to be a stay at home mom. But every

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Speaker 2: chance he got it, like got he was thrown in

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Speaker 2: my face that I didn't work and I didn't help,

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Speaker 2: and I cooked, I cleaned, I took care of our daughter.

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Speaker 2: It was in order to save that money from daycare

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Speaker 2: and so she would be safe and raised by us

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Speaker 2: and not someone else. But he would any chance he

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Speaker 2: got he get on, he'd throw it in my face.

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Speaker 2: He made me feel so unappreciated that I did. I

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Speaker 2: cheated one time because I just wanted to feel like

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Speaker 2: I was appreciated. And I just wanted to feel something

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Speaker 2: because I was just put down all the time.

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Speaker 3: Were you caught?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: You are now people ever bold We're not even together anymore.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So this is a good situation.

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Speaker 2: No, no one knows my best friend, does anyone else?

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Speaker 3: Well? No?

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Speaker 1: Wow, what does that feel like? How long ago did

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Speaker 1: this happen.

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Speaker 2: Like ten years ago.

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Speaker 1: Ten years ago, you cheated on your husband, and ten

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Speaker 1: years later you just admitted it to the Joe Show

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Speaker 1: and all of Tampa Bay that that happened. You said

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Speaker 1: that out loud for the first time.

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Speaker 2: You just yeah, I feel a little better because I

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Speaker 2: always felt guilty and I don't know why, because.

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Speaker 3: Well, you cheated. I think that's probably why. It's why. Well,

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Speaker 3: it's not okay.

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Speaker 1: But with everything that he was doing, I mean obviously

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Speaker 1: and that we're not here to say it's okay to cheat,

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Speaker 1: it's definitely not.

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Speaker 3: But the things that led you to do that, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean I couldn't even go and do anything without having

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Speaker 2: to ask permission like he was going.

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Speaker 3: But I don't stand for tuna. But if I got

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Speaker 3: actually permission to do this and do that, oh baby,

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Speaker 3: And you're not making me feel wanted or you just

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Speaker 3: don't appreciate me. Yeah, I'm my step out.

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Speaker 2: And I worked full time the whole time I was

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Speaker 2: pregnant up until I had her, like works full time.

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Speaker 2: Everything else. It was his like him pushing me, no,

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Speaker 2: let's not pay for daycare. You stay home, like I

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Speaker 2: didn't even want to stay home, Like I like the work.

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed it because I got to spend quality time

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Speaker 2: with my daughter. But are you with the.

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Speaker 3: Guy that you cheated on him with? Now?

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Speaker 2: Okay, that was literally like some rands like it was.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't anything meaningful. Does that make sense?

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Speaker 3: When I said, yeah, okay, I had no idea it

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Speaker 3: was his brother. It was who isn't It was.

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Speaker 2: Just like on one of those like it wasn't tender

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Speaker 2: back then. Whatever, it was like plenty of fish or something.

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Speaker 3: I just made it.

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Speaker 2: I was done. I just deleted the app. I was like, okay,

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Speaker 2: I got my I just I got what I needed.

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Speaker 3: Problem, where did you go?

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Speaker 2: Oh god? I mean it wasn't nothing fancy. I met

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Speaker 2: him at a bar and we went back to his house,

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Speaker 2: and then I had to go home because I had

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Speaker 3: Oh man, unreal.

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Speaker 1: And when you walk through your your front door and

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Speaker 1: you get into the home, you pick up your baby,

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Speaker 1: what's going through your head? Uh?

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Speaker 2: I was just like you know what she was in

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Speaker 2: my mind? Sorry?

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Speaker 1: No, you're good. Hey, I mean listen, that's how you

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Speaker 1: uh you felt?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: Uh wow, Rachel. I appreciate you being so honest and

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Speaker 1: sharing your story.

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Speaker 3: You know, I love talking to teeters, catching them, and

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Speaker 3: I love getting in their head.

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Speaker 2: It's my only time I've ever done that because that's

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Speaker 2: not my that's not my style, that's not.

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Speaker 3: My m O.

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Speaker 2: Appreciate it all.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got no reason to cheat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I didn't even throw it in his face,

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Speaker 2: like I caught him like a couple of years later

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Speaker 2: cheating on me, and I was just like, Okay, we're done. Like,

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Speaker 2: but I never I could have thrown it in his face.

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Speaker 2: I could have. That's just not me, that's not my

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