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Speaker 2: I go Okay, so our girl Tessa who listens from.

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Speaker 3: Utah, who was a rock star on the cruise, Yes,

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Speaker 2: She was posting about how some dude was like coming

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Speaker 2: you're really not hurt?

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Speaker 3: Wow, Like you're really that angry. I'm you know, it

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Speaker 1: If you're you're a woman that people find attractive, then

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Speaker 3: And sometimes it's not like that.

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Speaker 1: But if you always use my method, it will never

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Speaker 2: Like, did you think that that was going to like

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Speaker 3: Or did you throwing up the bag?

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Speaker 5: So but they've always told me, is it can't be

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Speaker 5: You don't know me, so it can't be personal. You're

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Speaker 5: I don't think throwing someone's bag is ever the answer.

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Speaker 5: But I mean, if you're mean to me about the rejection,

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Speaker 2: And we all know Testa she's got she's got a personality,

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Speaker 5: You know, you should never throw someone's bag or be

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Speaker 5: overly rude on a rejection. Now they like I said,

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Speaker 3: I don't need your golden digging man anyway, but dump

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Speaker 2: Nobody knows how to regulate their emotions anymore.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I used to have a friend. I told you

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Speaker 5: That's great average, But he knew, yeah, I'm cold calling.

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Speaker 5: Well you've hurt me, You've hurt my feelings, and I

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Speaker 5: But I'm not interested. Isn't a feeling hurt her like you?

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Speaker 5: It's like someone going to asking you do you want to,

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Speaker 1: nothing is physical. Yeah, why do you touch you?

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Speaker 5: You can respond with equal or lesser value is what

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Speaker 2: Somebody would have to come and close my mouth. If

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Speaker 5: That's always a joke. Who has the relationship? Yes, and

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Speaker 6: There were times I thought I was like, man, we're

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Speaker 3: To go back to whatever I Hey, are you wenting

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Speaker 1: Not yet, by Tiffany, Bye bye right okay.

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Speaker 2: So Cheryl from the live stream, she said a guy

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I called it police. I have to call it,

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Speaker 5: Forty five percent adults say they don't know how to

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Speaker 3: They say, you have to stick to it every week. Friends.

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Speaker 5: Familiarity gets you to wear Oh I saw that guy,

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Speaker 5: Yeah for the last four weeks, let's talk to him

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Speaker 5: Younger people have never had to do it because of technology,

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Speaker 5: I'm not great at it. I'll be honest.

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Speaker 5: I said the same thing. I don't have a slot,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my wife kills me all the time.

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Speaker 5: She says, I don't foster friendships, and I don't, and

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Speaker 5: My two newest friends were because they are in relationship

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Speaker 2: Now, that's the same thing with like when I started

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Speaker 2: Long has it been, I mean, honestly one that I

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Speaker 4: I agree.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's why people are making friends with Chagibc.

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Speaker 3: It's right there. I get it. I get it.

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Speaker 1: So we want to find out from you. You know,

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Speaker 7: Probably not? Well, how's the say. I'm a New Yorker

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Speaker 7: and I think people in Orlando are pretty friendly.

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Speaker 8: So I guess I'll just tell you my last situation

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Speaker 8: where I met I probably seem to be friends. I

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Speaker 8: was at TG Max getting some stuff and then this

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Speaker 8: like lady was talking and she's like, oh this price

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Speaker 8: and blah blah blah, And I was like, don't you

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Speaker 8: love when that happened, so organically we just started talking.

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Speaker 3: Really it led to this whole converse.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it led to this whole conversation. We found out

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Speaker 8: that we both have only children son, Yeah, and collected

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Speaker 8: her number. Really, and we're meeting up this week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is so cool. That is so cool. Are

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Speaker 3: you new to the area? Is new area?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 8: No, my son is. But my son is seven, so

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Speaker 8: I've probably been here eight years now.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 8: It's like my second kind of tour being in Orlando.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but you met someone and he's like, hey, let's

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Speaker 1: get together. You look, I can tell in your voice

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Speaker 1: you're looking forward to possibly having a new friend.

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Speaker 8: Yeah. And I also it's it's also like she we're

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Speaker 8: talking about like sirtuality and religion because my parents are

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Speaker 8: two different religions. So I was like, I need something

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Speaker 8: for my son because.

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Speaker 6: We haven't really done much.

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Speaker 3: With him in that area and all listen to TJ mag.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I love it Wow, Ray would do something like that, Max,

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Speaker 5: I see somebody talking, I'm moving away, fast, moving away.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 3: Paisley from Orlando, Good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 7: How are you guys doing.

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Speaker 3: What's your suggestion as an adult to meet new friends?

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Speaker 7: My suggestion is being open, kind of like what Karen

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Speaker 7: was saying to having new and random conversations. I found

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Speaker 7: that after recently moving here in January, the most like

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Speaker 7: eusiest conversations I've had with making friends is in random situations,

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Speaker 7: especially like out and about at like bars and stuff.

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Speaker 7: Or I go to Disney a lot because I have

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Speaker 7: an annual pass and just talking to people while in line,

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Speaker 7: and I've met a lot of my friends through that.

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Speaker 8: Really kind of awkward sometimes, Yeah, I like you see

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Speaker 8: a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 7: Ago, I met a girl and her boyfriend and we

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Speaker 7: actually exchange numbers and we have plans to go get

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Speaker 7: drinks and as.

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Speaker 3: You know, that's cool, Paisley, And it's cool that do

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Speaker 3: you think like that?

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Speaker 1: But if I met somebody like that, like they want

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Speaker 1: me to hook up with them, they swings, that's trying

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Speaker 1: to trying to swing with me. They would even know

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Speaker 1: that because you frequent swing your place as well. I

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Speaker 1: mean one time more than me just saying I.

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Speaker 3: Went once time, good morning, Oh good morning. I suggestions

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Speaker 3: of how to adult to me a new friend.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I just kind of want to second everything that

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Speaker 6: everyone else says. Just go out there, be yourself. It's

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Speaker 6: okay to smile at strangers. It's okay to give a compliment.

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Speaker 6: I'm also originally from New York and I've been in

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Speaker 6: Florida for about fifteen years, and I agree with the

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Speaker 6: first caller. You know, people down here are just a

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Speaker 6: lot more open and friendly. But I also made a

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Speaker 6: lot of friends in New York too. It just kind

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Speaker 6: of got to walk the walk, talk to talk nice,

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Speaker 6: give a compliment. I met a new friend a couple

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Speaker 6: of months ago. I just like meeting people and talking

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Speaker 6: to people. Everyone has a story. You know, we have

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Speaker 6: a lot more in common than we think we do.

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Speaker 5: You know, had to give it to you somehow smiled

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Speaker 5: at me, smiling right.

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Speaker 4: Wrong you?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, hey, how you doing? I didn't know you listened? Right?

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Speaker 2: Let's see here. A lot of people said that their

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Speaker 2: work people become that their their best friends, like their coworkers.

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Speaker 2: Several years I've become friends. I have good friends that

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Speaker 2: I've never met in person. I just talked to them

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Speaker 2: through like teams, which is really weird. Yeah, that's pretty

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Speaker 2: much a lot of people are just saying through work

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Speaker 2: and then through works coworkers and their friends.

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Speaker 1: I'm surprised the three calls that we had to say.

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Speaker 1: They're like, go out there and put yourself out there,

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Speaker 1: smile at someone, have a random conversation, which is all

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Speaker 1: things I don't do right.

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Speaker 5: Well, people, they said, and listen to the podcast. What

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Speaker 5: happens if you do that? And then they don't want

530
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Speaker 5: to be your friend? Can you throw their person?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely? Listen to the I mean that's rejected them with

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Speaker 3: your cigarette?

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Speaker 2: Why not?

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Speaker 3: Can I do that?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, well you're ugly anyway. Excel will Power by

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Speaker 5: Attorney Dan Newland in direct need to check. It's a

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Speaker 5: no brainer. Just called attorney Dan new and someone's at

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Speaker 5: book clubs. Yeah, and then they said they sign up

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Speaker 5: for a lot of events. There's tons of free events,

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Speaker 5: pop up workout classes. Uh, just seminars, pet events and

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Speaker 5: anything like that. Okay, but then when.

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Speaker 1: You do that, you have to talk to you put

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Speaker 1: yourself out there and talk to someone and you like.

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Speaker 1: The young lady at TJ Max said she's looking forward

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Speaker 1: to meet a brand new friend. That was pretty cool.

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Speaker 1: Sliber News, What's on the Way.

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