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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning, and we are doing second

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Speaker 1: date update. Basically, you go on a first date. If

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Speaker 1: you get ghosted, you call me first, and then we

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Speaker 1: call your date together and see what's up.

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Speaker 2: Evan knows the assignment. Evan, are you there.

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Speaker 1: I'm here, Hey, dude, I want to talk about Marisol, obviously,

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Speaker 1: tell me about Yeah, tell me about your date.

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Speaker 3: Sure, I thought Marathon and I had a really great date.

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Speaker 3: It was in downtown on that creek. We met at

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Speaker 3: a like a you know, like a little small cozy

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Speaker 3: curry spots near Broadway Plaza.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and I was worried.

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Speaker 3: Might be aggressive for a first date, but like, we

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Speaker 3: both love it and we love spicy food. So you know,

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Speaker 3: we're laughing, and she starts laughing because the restaurant gives

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Speaker 3: everyone these DIBs to wear. Okay, Well, she didn't the curry,

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Speaker 3: and she was joking that she felt like she was

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Speaker 3: about to use the lobster. And you know, but it

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Speaker 3: was great, and Marisol was really funny. She was curious.

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Speaker 3: She was asking me a lot of questions about my job.

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Speaker 3: I restore the chitch motorcycles.

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Speaker 2: Man that is very specialized.

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Speaker 3: Niche. Yeah, and at one point, she even pulled out

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Speaker 3: her phone and she showed me pictures of the scooter

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Speaker 3: that she used to ride around in college. So we

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Speaker 3: were laughing about.

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Speaker 2: That, and it's basically a motorcycle, right.

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Speaker 3: Hyeah, sure, I love it. But we're teasing each other

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Speaker 3: and the conversation just never stalled. And then about halfway through,

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Speaker 3: she excused herself to go to the bathroom, and she

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Speaker 3: came back and then something shifted. I don't know what

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Speaker 3: it was. She was quiet, finished her food pretty quickly,

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Speaker 3: and she started glancing all the time at her phone,

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Speaker 3: and then the date was done pretty much soon after that,

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Speaker 3: and we hugged outside and everything just felt different. I

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Speaker 3: texted her the next day. Yeah, I said, I had

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Speaker 3: fought and suggested that we maybe try to hit up

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Speaker 3: the night market in the city the following weekend. And

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Speaker 3: I never heard back total Radsylon.

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Speaker 2: So we have a big clue here.

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Speaker 1: So something happened during after before directly before the bathroom break.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's call her and find out. Maybe she can

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Speaker 1: give us a clue. So, as you know, I'll have

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Speaker 1: you mute your phone you can listen in and we'll

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Speaker 1: give her a shout and see I'd love to get

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Speaker 1: you a second day, but let's get some answers.

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Speaker 3: Fair, okay, fingers crossed?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's try to figure this out. Go ahead

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Speaker 1: and mute your phone. I'm gonna give her a call

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Hello, Hi, is this Marisol.

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Speaker 5: May? Ask who's calling?

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Speaker 2: It's It's Marcus calling from Star one oh one three.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Do you listen to the show in the morning by chance?

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: We do a segment on the show called Second Date Update,

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Speaker 1: and it's about kind of a dating segment. We're trying

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Speaker 1: to bring people back together after maybe a potential misunderstanding.

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Speaker 1: I understand you've been on a date recently that gentleman's

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Speaker 1: feeling ghosted. I'm wondering if we can talk about your

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Speaker 1: date with Evan. Do you have a moment to be

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Speaker 1: on the radio? Sure, okay, I'm just trying to figure

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Speaker 1: out did you ghost on Evan?

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Speaker 2: And if so, what did he do wrong?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I did. I didn't feel I don't know.

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Speaker 5: The vibes were definitely there. I definitely had a good

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Speaker 5: time on the date.

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Speaker 1: But if I may according to him, everything was cool.

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Speaker 2: And then I guess he like went to the bathroom

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Speaker 2: and his mind.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if this is in his head, but

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Speaker 1: he's thinking the vibe changed after you got back from

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Speaker 1: the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Did that happen?

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Speaker 5: Yes, that's that's true.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I came back from the bathroom and I was walking

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Speaker 5: up to the table and I saw him on his

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Speaker 5: phone looking down and smiling. And as soon as he's

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Speaker 5: looked up and saw me, he like quickly put his

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Speaker 5: phone away. I mean, I don't know about you, but

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Speaker 5: like he had to be texting another girl. He was smiling.

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Speaker 5: He was surprised when I came up and he had

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Speaker 5: to quickly put it away, like that's hiding something, right.

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Speaker 2: But up until that point it was cool. Like is

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Speaker 2: he a good guy? Did he seem like a good guy?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? No, of course, yeah. I up until that point,

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Speaker 5: I was having a good time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So part of this is I've got Evan listening

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 2: He's on the line. Evan, are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, you left that part out. This could have

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Speaker 1: been a lot shorter phone call. Tell me you weren't

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Speaker 1: on another dating app or something.

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Speaker 3: No, So that's so funny. So while she was in

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Speaker 3: the bathroom, my younger sister was texting me, and she

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Speaker 3: was asking if the date was going well, and she'd

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Speaker 3: been hyping me up all week because I haven't gone

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Speaker 3: out on many dates lately. I was sending a message

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Speaker 3: back to her saying she's great, don't jinx it, And

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Speaker 3: right as I hit send, Marisol walked back to the table.

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Speaker 3: So like, I flipped my phone over because I didn't

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Speaker 3: want it to like seem rude that I'd been texting

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Speaker 3: at all.

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Speaker 5: Sure, so why didn't you just kind of say that,

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Speaker 5: you know, if I sat down and you were like, hey,

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Speaker 5: sorry about the phone thing. It's my sister. I don't know,

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Speaker 5: Like it's not that I don't believe you, but it's

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Speaker 5: just like I don't know. I kind of wish you

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Speaker 5: had just communicated that with me.

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Speaker 3: You know, you're right, and that was absolutely my bead.

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Speaker 3: I should have said something. And meanwhile, like I'm sitting

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Speaker 3: there like I didn't know why everything changed and why

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Speaker 3: the energy dropped, So I thought I must have said

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Speaker 3: something wrong.

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Speaker 1: So is it really possible, Evan, that you panicked because

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Speaker 1: she's so beautiful?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, look at me. I'm helping.

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Speaker 5: I could have asked too if I was so worried

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Speaker 5: about it. So, I mean, it's not all you.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I had a panic and I shouldn't have like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I shouldn't have pretended that I was hiding something.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you guys are cute. Can we please

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Speaker 1: have another a second date? Marisol? Can we do this again?

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Speaker 1: He really likes you and I really like you, guys.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to be there.

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Speaker 5: I yeah, I think clearing that up like has definitely

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Speaker 5: helped and changed my mind. I'd love to do another

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Speaker 5: date and you know, renew that excellent Marcel.

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Speaker 3: Can you promise me that this time? If my sister

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Speaker 3: texts me during the days, will you help me respond?

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Speaker 5: Oh geez, yep, I think I can do that.

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Speaker 2: I tell her you're having an amazing time. All right,

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Speaker 2: we get to ring the cow bell of destiny. Hang

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Speaker 2: on you, guys, I believe we want to.

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Speaker 1: Magic has happened officially, all right, fantastic. I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: for you guys. Hang on, you love birds. I want

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Speaker 1: to way to end the week. Second date update