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Our defense sometimes gets a 50 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 5: little laxadaisical, and we drop a game that we should 51 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 5: have won. This was my concern going into this game yesterday, 52 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 5: Orlando Magic. It wasn't even as close as this final 53 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 5: score is one twelve. They drop a game to the 54 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 5: Washington Wizards. Again just a poor defense, poor It seems 55 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 5: like they kind of took their u took these guys lightly. Yeah, 56 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 5: and you gotta remember it's still the NBA, and any 57 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 5: given night somebody can rise up and catch you sleep. 58 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 5: And today the Magic are going to be playing the nets. 59 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 5: They're in Brooklyn. That's a seven point thirty game. Speaking 60 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 5: of fun or neat things that happened with the NBA lately, 61 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 5: Russ wanting to do to hear this now. One of 62 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 5: the things that we've learned about Snoop Dogg, the artist 63 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 5: Snoop Dogg, is that he has a really cool kind 64 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 5: of way of sometimes calling different games. They've incorporated him 65 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 5: to do the Olympics a couple of times, he's done 66 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 5: a couple of different things where he's calling play by play. 67 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 5: This happened earlier in the week over the weekend actually, 68 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 5: and it's Golden State Warriors versus the LA Clippers. 69 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 3: It was about a day ago. 70 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 5: I apologize today or day and a half, and they 71 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 5: got him court side and he's doing the color commentary. 72 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 3: Now. 73 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 5: The action is kind of quick, but it's basically he's 74 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 5: getting ready to like he's watching as Steve Kerr, the 75 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 5: coach of the Golden State Warriors, gets into an altercation 76 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 5: with one. 77 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 3: Of the refs. 78 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 5: Right, and this is how it was from Snoop Dogg's perspective. 79 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 2: Coach of the ranks, all the way, good tanks, Oh 80 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 2: he win deck, Shignet, get off. 81 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 3: The wind deck, Shine, get in the backboard. Oh, look 82 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 3: at Steve Kerr, he's all away out here. Steve, don't 83 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 3: get thrown out. 84 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: Get him out of there, get there, back him up, 85 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: Beck him up, gp Beckuum. 86 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 3: Up Steve Rade. Steve Inglewood right now ingle War. 87 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 4: Team the Arizona wild Cat and came out and look 88 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:22,480 Speaker 4: at him. 89 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 3: You gotta love him, right. 90 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 6: I've got to see that replay? 91 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 3: Did you see? Also, Snoop Dogg was he was. 92 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 2: They were interviewing him at a football game and uh 93 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: and there was like a kickoff or something and during 94 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:41,239 Speaker 2: the interview Snoop Dogg runs out and catches the ball. 95 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, that was one of the Bowl games. 96 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 3: I mean, you gotta love that guy. 97 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 5: Right, He's just he's one of the cable streamers is 98 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 5: because of that audio right there, one of the cable 99 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 5: streamers is gonna grab him and have him do whether 100 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 5: it's NBA games or NFL games, but they're going to 101 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 5: corporate him into one of those. 102 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:06,039 Speaker 3: Broadcasts the Olympics. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean he's. 103 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 5: So Peacock will probably have him do more of that 104 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,039 Speaker 5: leading up to it. So again, a really funny moment. 105 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 5: I'm gonna show. We always have this argument and we 106 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 5: talk about this, uh that aliens are amongst us, and 107 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 5: Victor Wimbanyama, the seven foot seven, seven foot eight just 108 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 5: alien freak center for the San Antonio Spurs, did something 109 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 5: and I think I don't think he meant to do 110 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 5: this in the full view of all us regular humans. 111 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,359 Speaker 5: But so they're doing the warm up RUSS and sometimes 112 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 5: this happens, like you know, teammates or everybody's not paying 113 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 5: attention and like a few guys shoot the ball at 114 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 5: the same time and the balls get stuck in the net. 115 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 3: Right yeah, yeah, both both balls. 116 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 5: There was three of them, sometimes against three. Ryan's gonna 117 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 5: show us the footage. So this is a during warm 118 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 5: ups as they're getting ready to do to uh, you know, 119 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 5: play the game, balls get stuck in the in the 120 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 5: net and this proceeds to happen. 121 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 6: Boom, oh wow, kicks it, high kicks. 122 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 5: It, standing flat footed underneath the net. 123 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 3: How tall is the net? Do you know? 124 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 2: The rim is ten feet So his foot was able 125 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 2: to go up ten foot yeah and kick those balls. 126 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy. 127 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 5: But just the the athletic ability to do that and 128 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 5: just be able to that's just like you know, like 129 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 5: you saw the smirk on his face. 130 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 3: Like, what are you talking about? I do this all 131 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 3: the time, nothing to do. Yeah, it's no big deal. Yeah. 132 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 5: NFL news huge NFL news. Baltimore Ravens, how do you 133 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 5: feel about this? Baltimore Ravens have moved on from John 134 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 5: Harball after eighteen years as they're head coach. It's crazy 135 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 5: he got fired because their kicker. 136 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 3: Actually, it's not. 137 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: Really a fair It didn't look to me like a 138 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 2: fair firing a great coach. 139 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 3: I don't think this guy's going to be unemployed long. 140 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 5: No, but it's again what happened to on Harbaugh is 141 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 5: their their their world class kicker. Remember the guy that 142 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 5: they had a season or two ago. He got suspended 143 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:08,919 Speaker 5: from the league because he couldn't keep his hands to 144 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 5: himself at the massage parlors Man, so he had to 145 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 5: so he had to have this scrub kicker. And then 146 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 5: the scrub kicker misses a field goal at the end 147 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 5: of a regular time regulation versus the Pittsburgh Steelers, and 148 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 5: then he gets fired. 149 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 3: Right, so does he? 150 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 5: Like Miami, I would you what Russell you're I I 151 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 5: am not joking when I say this. 152 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 3: If you're the Miami. 153 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 5: Dolphins, you get you are on a plane, you're whatever 154 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 5: it is, and you try to get in front of 155 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 5: this guy first. 156 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 3: Because just because. 157 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 2: They told McDaniel, you know, two days ago, hey we're 158 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 2: gonna keep you. 159 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 3: They can change their mind all one Hey we thought 160 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 3: about it. No. 161 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 5: No, if you're talking about a guy that can help 162 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 5: like recreate our create culture and create a different vibe 163 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 5: and create and and do all those things, dude, that's 164 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 5: your guy. 165 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 3: I would agree. 166 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 5: So, uh yeah, if you're the Dolphins. All right, so 167 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 5: there's six jobs that are open right now. Uh that 168 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 5: we know that they're looking for head coaches, who knows 169 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 5: what other jobs potentially? Uh you know that coach that 170 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 5: teams would back or fire their guy if they had 171 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 5: a shot at this guy. You know that the Las 172 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 5: Vegas Raiders are going to be your biggest competition to 173 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 5: try to hire this guy? 174 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 2: Is John Gruden going to the Tampa Bay Buccaneers? Oh no, 175 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: once again, you can't believe anything on Facebook. On Facebook, 176 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 2: and there was a thing and and and you know, 177 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 2: because I live out in that area, there were speculations 178 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 2: that that was some rumor that was going around. 179 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 5: I hadn't heard that yet. Research out and see what's 180 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 5: going on with that. But uh yeah, you're you're absolutely right, Russ. 181 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 5: If the Miami Dolphins would probably be doing themselves the 182 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 5: biggest of favors. I would agree if they were able 183 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 5: to get, you know, get in front of him and 184 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 5: pitch him and make him the the you know, sweetest 185 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 5: deal possible. So we'll see how that plays out. But 186 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 5: I can't imagine that that guy is going to be unemployed. No, 187 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 5: very long at all. 188 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 3: How crazy is it though? 189 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 2: You know when you're when you're Guy Belichick, when he 190 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 2: lost his job, you said, oh yeah, he's gonna get 191 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 2: a job right away. 192 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 3: Nobody wanted him. Well, he ruined, but he hurt himself. 193 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 5: All the shenanigans, the thing with his girlfriend, all this 194 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 5: stuff that's going on. He hurt him. He did this 195 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 5: to himself. Yeah, and so that. 196 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 4: And he's happier being around college girl. 197 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 3: And he's still he's still working for that college team 198 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 3: you never seen North Carolina. 199 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, so and then and they've done some things 200 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 5: to help tighten all that up. We'll see what that 201 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 5: what happens with that real quickly. 202 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 3: The last couple of. 203 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 5: Things, All Star voting is going on for the NBA 204 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 5: All Star Game. Our leaders are Luka Doncic and Jannis Antetokumpo. 205 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 5: They remain the top vote getters. And then just a 206 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 5: real quick uh kind of you know, good job on 207 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 5: you welcome or I just received an email Angel you 208 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 5: have been approved for the twenty twenty six Rolex twenty 209 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 5: four at Daytona International Speedway and uh them Cell Weather 210 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 5: Tech Sports Card Championship. So are you going to are 211 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 5: you racing, an accredited journalist, media credentials. Now, so all 212 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 5: you naysayers right here, you're a real sports, real sports 213 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 5: journalist when it comes to automotive as ms and all 214 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 5: that kind of stuff, and I've got my credentials for that. 215 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 3: I will also be credentials. 216 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll be also at the NASCAR, uh Daytona five 217 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 5: hundred as well. 218 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 4: Okay, so uh look at you best sports broadcast. 219 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: Do you need a wing woman? 220 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 3: And that's monster Sports. 221 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 4: Didn't even hesitate you, didn't even think about it. 222 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 3: He didn't even give it a thought. Do you like racing? 223 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 6: Yeah? 224 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, who's your who's your favorite who's your favorite favorite racer? 225 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 3: Who's your favorite racist? 226 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 6: Dale? 227 00:10:54,640 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 3: Dale? He's not been around for a while, Senor, I 228 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 3: know the great one currently. Who is your favorite? 229 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 7: Yes? 230 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 3: Driver? Jack Stevenson. Jack. 231 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:11,319 Speaker 2: You know he's up and coming. 232 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 5: Are the two new teams that are coming to Formula 233 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 5: one this season? They're going to be on the paddock 234 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 5: this coming season. There's two new teams. 235 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 3: He's sponsored by red Bull. 236 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 6: Nope, pretty great. 237 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 3: Red Bull's awesome. 238 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, red Bull actually developed an incredible supercar. 239 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 3: It's it's insane. But the answer that you're looking for 240 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 3: is Cadillac and Audi there. 241 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's what I know. 242 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 3: I could tell he was right on the tip of 243 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 3: your tongue. Yeah, Hey, coffee, still hitting me, doing me 244 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 3: a favorite? Go catch you. Ray. Trendley's out in the 245 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 3: in the red room. We need to go get him. 246 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 2: And uh, by the way, I've got all my Uh 247 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 2: what the Hell's Angel listened to on Friday? You can 248 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: hear what the Hill's Angel listening to? And next Friday, 249 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: Angel will be entertaining you and the DJ booth out 250 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:56,200 Speaker 2: at Tanners right before the wrestling events. So all of 251 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 2: you folks in uh in winter Haven that I meet 252 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 2: that like, Hey, I want to I want to Angel, 253 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 2: I want to see Daisy. 254 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 3: I want to say. 255 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 2: We're all gonna be there next Friday. It's our first 256 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 2: trip to winter Haven. And literally just walked out in 257 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 2: the middle. I told her, I told her get Ray 258 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 2: because he's got sandwiches. All right, we'll be back. Don't 259 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 2: go anywhere. You're listening to the Match of the morning. 260 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 3: Oh I haven't I remember I say their names on the air. Well, 261 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 3: they said that could it says tell Ray? 262 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:47,439 Speaker 2: Jenzel and Amanda said you have been great for them. 263 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 3: Looking forward to mediation. 264 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 2: You're wonderful then, Alisa, they love. 265 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 3: You, Asa and Amanda. Yeah, how you doing? Ray Trentley, 266 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,719 Speaker 3: I'm doing well. How are you wonderful? 267 00:12:59,800 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 2: Man? 268 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 6: And uh you brought you brought Christmas gifts Christmas in January? 269 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:05,560 Speaker 3: Look at that. Because we didn't get to see you. 270 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, my calendar controls me. I don't really control it. 271 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 8: And so, uh, well, yeah you got it. 272 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 3: You got misinformation too. 273 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 2: They told you that we weren't on the the air 274 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: that week, and we were. Uh so everything got screw 275 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 2: But I did see you at the party with uh 276 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 2: with Mike the homebuilding. 277 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 6: I was gonna say it, it seems kind of awkward. 278 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 8: I don't know if you guys ever had like a 279 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 8: really bad breakup and you're like, oh I'm really sick, 280 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 8: I can't I can't go on this date or whatever, 281 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 8: and then like you see that person out later on. 282 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 6: That's kind of what happened. 283 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 8: Uh That Wednesday was like I was like, sorry, guys, 284 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 8: can't see you, And then I see that afternoon and 285 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 8: it's like, ah, I promise, I'm not dodging you. It's 286 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 8: not bad break up. It's uh yeah, it was just miscommunication. 287 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 8: I think it's a good way to put it. And uh, 288 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 8: I was bummed. And then because you know, my calendar 289 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 8: fills up. It's like it's it's like uh at a 290 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,319 Speaker 8: cup of water, Like as soon as you pull something out, 291 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 8: like the water fills it in. 292 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 3: And so yeah, you're a busy man. That's a that's good, 293 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 3: nothing wrong with it. 294 00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 2: Hey, where did you you got brought us sandwiches, which 295 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: you know that the way you know, that's the way 296 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 2: to make us happy. 297 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 3: Where did you get those? That's a great sandwich tanos? 298 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 6: I'm not pronouncing that corrects. 299 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, and we've had we've had their breakfasts before. The 300 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 5: sandwiches are the way to go, and it's been kind 301 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 5: of uneven with them, RUSS A couple times that we've 302 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 5: gotten it was really good. One of the last times 303 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 5: we got was kind of mid This is app Today's 304 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 5: are absolutely incredible. 305 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 6: Yeah. 306 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 5: And then if you live in like the Altamont area, 307 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 5: there's a where Wako Taco used to be. Yeah, they 308 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 5: took that space there really our glass our glass brewing. Okay, 309 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 5: so there's that spot that was Waco talk. I don't 310 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 5: know what happened those guys that love that place, but 311 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 5: now it's a Diino's that's in there. 312 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 8: Well, they had a really good gimmick too, because they 313 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 8: were getting the beer from Hourglass and they were doing 314 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 8: that that that cheer beer, that beer cheese. Uh yeah, 315 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 8: that was pretty good. But uh I didn't know that 316 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 8: they had moved into that spot. So that's good to know. 317 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, So how was your Christmas break? 318 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 6: It was good. 319 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 8: Actually took some time off during the holiday and spent 320 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 8: some time with the family and ran around with the kids. 321 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 8: Yeah so you say, you gross, but everybody got sick 322 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 8: except me, and I was so surprised by that. 323 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 4: Because you've been working out, you've got a better, stronger immune. 324 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 6: I think that's it the diet. 325 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 8: But I will tell you so, part of the reason 326 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 8: why I brought these sandwiches is there's a couple of 327 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 8: things that been really craving while I was on my diet, 328 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 8: and so like, I am Jeff's bagels, who somebody was 329 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 8: kind of delivering, So I really want some bagels. So 330 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 8: I had some bagels and then these breakfast sandwiches. Man, 331 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 8: I just yeah, I was craving them. That's super good. 332 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 6: Yeah. So, uh so that was what. 333 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 3: On the vacation how old are your kids again? 334 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 6: Eleven nine and seven. 335 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 2: So I'm thinking about this because I saw a story 336 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 2: this morning and it's it's one. It's a social media 337 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 2: thing where this guy actually, uh, this was on TMZ. 338 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 2: This guy goes on social media because you know, I 339 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 2: hate to admit this, but I can only spend about 340 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 2: ten minutes with my kids before I feel like I'm 341 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 2: wasting my time. I should be doing something else. And 342 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 2: I I know that's bad to admit this, but like you, like, 343 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 2: I don't really want to play all the games they 344 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 2: want to play like and and people are people are 345 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 2: coming at him, and then they talked to. 346 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 3: The psychologists, and the psychologists said, hey, he's just being 347 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 3: honest about it. 348 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 2: And people are afraid to be honest about their feelings 349 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 2: of it, and there are a lot of people that 350 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 2: feel that way. They just aren't built to play with 351 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 2: kids for five hours, and this guy was just being 352 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: honest about it. And they were sort of defending them, 353 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 2: and people were going back and forth about how crappy 354 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 2: is that? But are you good at playing with your 355 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 2: kids for more than ten to fifteen minutes? 356 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 6: It depends on the activity, I'll tell you. 357 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 8: So my youngest son is really into legos right now, 358 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 8: and so I'll build legos with him all day long. 359 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 6: That's easy. Nobody really talks. 360 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 8: You know, you can you can put on a movie 361 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 8: and you know, and kind of zone out. 362 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 6: So I don't mind that so much. But I'll tell 363 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 6: you my middle son, he's the nine year old. We 364 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 6: got him a laser tag game. 365 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, he's got two cousins and so we got eight guns. 366 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,520 Speaker 8: And we had some friends over and so we've got 367 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 8: all these little kids running around and they want me 368 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 8: to play with them, and I'm like, you know, that 369 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 8: seems like fun, you know, laser tag whatever. 370 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 6: I had all these little. 371 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:08,439 Speaker 8: Kids shooting me on my own team, and I was 372 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 8: so mad, and so I told the way this is 373 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 8: gonna sound terrible for me. This little five year old 374 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:16,639 Speaker 8: kept shooting me, and I was like, listen, dude, like 375 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 8: if you want me to be on your team, like yeah, 376 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 8: stop shooting me. 377 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 3: He's like, hey, you know, he doesn't understand that. 378 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 8: So then he shot me as I'm having this conversation 379 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:27,479 Speaker 8: with him, and I was like all right, dude, and 380 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 8: I shot him and I killed him and he was 381 00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:32,199 Speaker 8: out of the game. And then and then he cried 382 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 8: and I was like, well, this is what you get man, and. 383 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 5: Said exactly, teach him man. It should have been you 384 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 5: versus all the kids. 385 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 8: And so then I go talk to his dad and 386 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 8: his dad's like, why is he crying? And I was like, 387 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 8: he shot me, so I shot him back and he's like, 388 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 8: that's real mature. And I was like, somewhere you got 389 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 8: to teach these kids that, like, if you don't play 390 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 8: by the rules, like nobody's gonna want with you. 391 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 3: Dad to strap on. It's like you and I are 392 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 3: going to go now. 393 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 8: Yeah, he's a little bit bigger than me in laserdagh. 394 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 2: Look when I heard the story, I'm like, you know, 395 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 2: if I'm being honest, there were times that were things 396 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,920 Speaker 2: that I enjoyed doing with right, and some things Ryan 397 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 2: my son and not this right, and when he was 398 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 2: a kid, some things were like I'm not interested in 399 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 2: this at all. I'm forcing myself to About ten minutes 400 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 2: into it, I. 401 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 3: Was ready to be done. 402 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 2: And you don't say that out loud because it makes 403 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 2: you sound like a jerk, but you are. 404 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 3: Being a jerk. 405 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 5: But the flip side about it, and even with this guy, 406 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 5: this is the thing that I'm always worried about So 407 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 5: no one asked for this guy to post this. 408 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 3: No one asked this. 409 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 5: But when you put it out there, sure, right, then 410 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 5: you're opening yourself up to commentary, and so people are 411 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 5: going to judge you if you know, if if the 412 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 5: dude didn't want the smoke, if he didn't want the heat, 413 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 5: then keep it to you. 414 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 2: Just keep it quiet, like, oh, this is always due. 415 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 5: You talk to your inner circle, you talk to you 416 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 5: talk to a therapist or whatever. But again, going to 417 00:18:53,680 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 5: social media or going to any of these platforms and 418 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 5: sharing something like that, think. 419 00:18:58,680 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 6: You you are asking for it. 420 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, think that. 421 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 5: You're gonna get some constructive criticism or people are gonna 422 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 5: be on your side. No, so pipe down, like again, 423 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 5: you want to open up, you want to share that. 424 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 5: This is what comes back to you. If you don't 425 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 5: want that, they don't share it. 426 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 2: And I I agree with what you're saying there, but 427 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 2: it is a thing that people think. 428 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:17,840 Speaker 3: It's like, uh, you know, some. 429 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 2: People are built to play for you know, two hours 430 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:21,040 Speaker 2: with the kids. 431 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 3: Some people might not mean you know. 432 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 4: All parenting seems to be from a guy who doesn't 433 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 4: have kids, right, it's just lies, like it's it's it's 434 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 4: you're lying a lot and then then and that doesn't 435 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 4: surprise me. This guy would get dragged down because I'm 436 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 4: always surprised when people won't admit, and I know they 437 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,880 Speaker 4: do one percent of the time have a favorite kid, 438 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 4: but they'll never say it out. 439 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 8: Oh, I definitely have a favorite kid, and that's my 440 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 8: respect friendly race frendly. 441 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, I coming from I know the fact that I'm 442 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 5: the favorite. 443 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 3: Of course I have a favorite kid. 444 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I look at it different because a liar, I 445 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:50,879 Speaker 4: don't never know. 446 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 3: Everything. I look at it differently. 447 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 2: I've got a son who is a male, and I've 448 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 2: got a daughter, which is a female, and they're not 449 00:19:58,440 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 2: even the same. 450 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 4: Capable you're like that, you got your favorite son and 451 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,640 Speaker 4: a favorite daughter. No, you're a gun to your head. 452 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 4: You got two of them there, which one do you 453 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 4: like better? 454 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 2: It's it's like comparing an apple and an orange. They're 455 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 2: two different, they're both fruits. 456 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 3: Russ. 457 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 4: It's very easy to compare apples and oranges. You say 458 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 4: that if you said it's like comparing apples and in 459 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 4: a roll desk. 460 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 3: You like red apples more? Do you like green apples more? 461 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:26,640 Speaker 4: Let's do with the grandkids we got not which when 462 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 4: you like met well. 463 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 2: Because I talked to him. I mean I talked to 464 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:33,639 Speaker 2: him and Ray is not old enough to talk to 465 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 2: me yet. So I'll honestly answer that saying on. 466 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,920 Speaker 1: The way to school right now, their hearts So. 467 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 2: She's like to even speak English one and a half, 468 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 2: I can't. We're not even Yeah, that's different my son, 469 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 2: my daughter is. 470 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 4: I think, like, again, I don't have kids, but I'm 471 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 4: speaking from no experience, but I do think it's okay 472 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 4: for parents to express these things because I think other 473 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 4: parents are feeling it and they feel. 474 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 6: This level of shame. 475 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 4: They're like, I'm not supposed say I'm not supposed to 476 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 4: feel like this, and and and I don't think that's better, But. 477 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 3: What's what purpose does it serve? 478 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 6: Every parent? 479 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 3: And this is the thing. 480 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,400 Speaker 5: Just because he doesn't admit it to you doesn't mean 481 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 5: that it doesn't happen. He just knows better not to 482 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 5: say it out loud. There's some things that you. 483 00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 4: Don't say it to the kid though, No, but it 484 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 4: just even not my favorite. 485 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 5: But even putting that energy out there, you don't want to, 486 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 5: you know, you don't want to entertain that. So that's 487 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 5: what I think. What what you're hearing is that most 488 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 5: parents are like, you know what I do. I'm not 489 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,600 Speaker 5: going to tell you, m Yeah, I think more parents 490 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 5: are are willing to concede that. 491 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,439 Speaker 6: Okay, that makes you don't really a favorite a favorite 492 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 6: because he talks about him all the time. 493 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 5: As being the only woman in the room. 494 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 3: Right now, I'm going to say, I don't know that. 495 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 6: Assume gender. 496 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 3: You don't know my pronouns. I'm going to assume it's 497 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 3: a man thing. You guys didn't birth the child. 498 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 6: You know, you don't do you know em? 499 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 3: So I'm going to say, so you. 500 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,760 Speaker 2: Can play with the kid for hours and hours and 501 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 2: hours and it doesn't bother you. 502 00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, we just because you're a child. 503 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:04,360 Speaker 8: Mentally, I also feel weird sometimes playing with kids, Like yeah, 504 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,439 Speaker 8: like I feel like a uncomfortable and awkward as you 505 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,160 Speaker 8: can when you're playing with a child. 506 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 6: You're like at some point, like when does this get weird? 507 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:13,720 Speaker 3: I see? 508 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:18,440 Speaker 4: I hate I hate exist because like kids are so fun, 509 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Like if it was if 510 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 4: it was socially acceptable all day with kids, like it's 511 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:26,639 Speaker 4: so fun and the terrible people ruined it, and. 512 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 5: You can if you have established a relationship with young 513 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 5: kids and everything, you can absolutely have a responsible uh 514 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 5: mentor mentee kind of mentor kind of relationship. 515 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 4: With I'm always like people gonna think I gotta you 516 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 4: get five minutes. 517 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,679 Speaker 3: That's you know, no one's thinking that. 518 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 4: I don't know. I hear from a lot of dads 519 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 4: and if they bring their kid to the like it 520 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 4: seems like it's a dad and a kid at the park, 521 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 4: they'll get like. 522 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 3: I don't believe that. I think that's I don't get that. 523 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 8: So if I have my kid with me, I feel 524 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,399 Speaker 8: a little bit differently. But when I when I was 525 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 8: with my my my kids cousins and one of them 526 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 8: is little, like you know, waist height, and he gives 527 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,640 Speaker 8: me a hug, and I'm just like, dap me up, bro, 528 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 8: Like I'm not looking for a hug because I feel 529 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 8: I feel weird about so, like I don't like. 530 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 2: I like with my grandson, I'm good for half hour, 531 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:20,400 Speaker 2: half hour playing with trucks and everything. 532 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,400 Speaker 3: I'm good after that, I'm like, Okay, I gotta go now. 533 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 6: I feel that though, yeah, I get that. 534 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,960 Speaker 5: That's but that's realistic though in your stage of life, 535 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:29,120 Speaker 5: that's absolutely. 536 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 6: Realistic stage of life. 537 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:33,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, it would be unrealistic to expect Russ Rawlins. 538 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 3: To play truck. 539 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 6: Nap. 540 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 3: That wouldn't be realistic. 541 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:43,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, you got to get your yogurt, You got to get. 542 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 3: Salad, salad. Yeah for sure. 543 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 6: I almost got you the salad for breakfast this morning, religious. 544 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 3: Because that sandwich is the deal. Yeah, that's good. 545 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,560 Speaker 4: The great question, Russ, who is the executor of your will? 546 00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 4: If you were to pass that's one of your kids. 547 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 3: Be your wife. I forgot right, Ray would know he did. 548 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 3: I don't remember every kids. 549 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 6: I think it was. 550 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 8: I think it was Mary Ellen, and then Carla and 551 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 8: and then one of your kids. I don't remember which 552 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 8: one it was was the backup. We should probably look 553 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:21,880 Speaker 8: at that and update that though. 554 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 3: Probably Ryan, you like him better, that is him better 555 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,879 Speaker 3: and if you let him execute at the will. 556 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's that's pretty much like, Uh, she's busy, 557 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:32,880 Speaker 4: she's got. 558 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 3: Two kids, she's very busy. 559 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 8: We probably should look at it though, because we've got 560 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 8: a lot more grandkids since the last time we did that, 561 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 8: and you know, it's probably time to look at it, and. 562 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 3: We could do that again. 563 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, by the way, Friendly Ray Trendley uh, he is 564 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 2: does family law if you need to get hold of 565 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 2: him for family law. 566 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 3: Oh. Here we are, at the beginning of the year. 567 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 3: A decided to get divorced. 568 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 6: Right, it's that time. 569 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 3: All right, new year, let's get new year, new new life. 570 00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 8: Let's get you know, everybody starts hitting the gym getting 571 00:24:59,400 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 8: ripped again. 572 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 6: And I mean, look at Ryan. You know he's getting 573 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:02,919 Speaker 6: better shape. 574 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 8: I've noticed that he keeps like pointing out things so 575 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 8: he can flex his triceps. 576 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 4: I really like this shirt you got me, but my 577 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 4: arm's gotten so big I can't I can't take. 578 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 3: The sleeves off. Just cut him off, dude. What's on 579 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 3: that shirt? 580 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 6: Album cover shirts? 581 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:20,199 Speaker 1: Fan? 582 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 4: Dude, I get more compliments on this shirt than no Sure, 583 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:23,919 Speaker 4: thank you. 584 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 2: We gotta take a little break. We'll come back with 585 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 2: Friendly Ray Trendley. Don't go anywhere. You're listening to the 586 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 2: Man of the Morning. Welcome back to the Monster's Morning. 587 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,959 Speaker 2: He's already one on four point one broadcasting live on iHeartRadio. 588 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 2: I'm Ross Rolands. Oh that that croquetta was good. 589 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that's one of my favorite kind of things. 590 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 5: Just dishes or items to either procatas are absolutely I 591 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:05,320 Speaker 5: could eat a whole plateful most things. 592 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 2: I'm so relieved that my new Year's resolution wasn't. 593 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 3: To uh. 594 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:14,160 Speaker 2: Because I've been I've been eating salad just because right. 595 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 2: But then when we come in here, I don't have 596 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,399 Speaker 2: to say no to something like that, because that was 597 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 2: that was great. Thank you, ray Trainling, Hey, friendly ray 598 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,879 Speaker 2: Traindler here with us by the way, and uh, you 599 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 2: know it is divorced season. 600 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,359 Speaker 3: You know what I was gonna tell and I won't. 601 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 3: I won't say exactly who, but someone I had just 602 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 3: said to you recently they've made up and they've decided 603 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 3: not to get a divorce. 604 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 6: She was much sweeter than you made me think. 605 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 2: Well no, no, no, she is very sweet. But but anyway, 606 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:44,359 Speaker 2: there's other things. But but no, she's sweetest can be. 607 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,679 Speaker 2: I love them to death, both of them. But this 608 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 2: is about the fourth person I've sent you where we're 609 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 2: getting divorced and then after either talking to you or 610 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 2: some time goes by, they decided not to divorce. How 611 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:59,400 Speaker 2: often do you deal with that? And is it as 612 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,679 Speaker 2: a lawyer, is it considered a little bit of a 613 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 2: waste of time? You send a talking to these people 614 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 2: for a long time and then they don't actually go 615 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 2: through and and you you, you're spinning your wheels trying 616 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 2: to help them. There's no they're not paying anything. And 617 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 2: then and then they decide to get back together. 618 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 8: I think the reason why I'm good at what I 619 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 8: do is because I love what I do and I 620 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 8: love problem solving, and so I just kind of go through, 621 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:25,639 Speaker 8: you know, issues with folks, and sometimes that leads them 622 00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:29,160 Speaker 8: down a path of reconciliation. And I don't think it's 623 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 8: a waste of time at all. I think that that's 624 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 8: a great thing. 625 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 3: You know, legitimately makes you happier, Like i'mssing out them no, no, no, 626 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 3: no at all. 627 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,200 Speaker 8: And you know, I think that like a good energy 628 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 8: kind of thing, right absolutely. 629 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 3: You know. 630 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 8: I think that the more we can do to put 631 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 8: other people's needs ahead of our own, I think the 632 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 8: better our world would be. And I think that's my 633 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 8: way of doing it a little bit. So, you know, 634 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 8: just kind of problem solve with people. And if we 635 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,639 Speaker 8: have a resolution that's outside of lawyers and outside of 636 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 8: the court, I'm going to always look for that. Yeah, 637 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 8: And if there's one that you know, it's like, hey, 638 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 8: you really need this and we gotta we gotta get 639 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 8: you know, going and help you out. 640 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 6: I'm here to do that as well. 641 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 7: You have a client and it's a husband and wife. 642 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 7: They're getting divorced, and you're on one side and you're 643 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 7: in the you're in the deposition room, and you're like, God, 644 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 7: I wish I had the other one. 645 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,000 Speaker 3: Oh, I'm sure that happens a lot, right. 646 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 6: I will say that my job is a zealousy advocate client. 647 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 8: No matter how I feel about them as a person, 648 00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:29,879 Speaker 8: there are sometimes where my client is not always in 649 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:34,119 Speaker 8: the right, and I don't navigate that. I find a 650 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 8: way to defend them or justify their behavior. And we've 651 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 8: got one going on right now, and I want to 652 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 8: talk about too much. 653 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 6: We've got a court date coming up very soon. 654 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 8: But you know, we don't have any real legal defenses 655 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 8: so much as we have kind of an equity argument, 656 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 8: which is like, hey, this guy's been doing about as 657 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 8: good as anybody could do in his shoes. 658 00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 6: Has he done everything right? 659 00:28:58,600 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 5: No? 660 00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 8: Definitely not. And I think what you do is you 661 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 8: own it right. You say, Okay, I've made mistakes, I've 662 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 8: done things that I shouldn't have done, and then you 663 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 8: address it and say, but here's what I have done 664 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 8: and in a matter of equity, we don't think that 665 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 8: that should be the consequence. 666 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 667 00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,360 Speaker 6: So you now if you are you're in one of 668 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 6: these situations. 669 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 4: I mean it with being a lawyer is how much 670 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 4: of it is the client's always right and you have 671 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 4: to go with what they're doing? Or is it like no, 672 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 4: this is this is my strategy has proven friendly race strategy. 673 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 3: That's where're going. 674 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 4: I mean, can somebody be so difficult that they can 675 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 4: like change how you're doing it? 676 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 8: So I like to think that people hire me because 677 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 8: they trust me and they want a good outcome and 678 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 8: they trust it I'm going to get them a good outcome. 679 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 8: I will tell you that I am not the lawyer 680 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 8: that you go to if you want to just be 681 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 8: told what you want to hear. And I tell people 682 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,640 Speaker 8: that before they hire mess Hey, hey, just listen, Like, here's 683 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,000 Speaker 8: how I operate. I'm going to tell you what I think, 684 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 8: the good, the bad, and the ugly. I'm always going 685 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 8: to start off with the bad before we get to 686 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 8: the good, because I need you to hear that first first. 687 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 6: And and I'm not. 688 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 8: Everybody's cup of tea, Like I will be very hard 689 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 8: on you if I think you're doing something that you 690 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 8: shouldn't be doing, I'm going to coach you through it. 691 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 8: And my goal isn't to punish you or shame you. 692 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 8: My goal is to help you win. And if you 693 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 8: don't have a goal of winning, probably don't hire me. 694 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 8: If you want to lose your case, the case on 695 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 8: your own, cause. 696 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 3: He'll shoot a five year old that's not played by. 697 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 6: The rules, a five year old crime, just to teach 698 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 6: them a lesson. 699 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 2: And that little bit of petty is what you really 700 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 2: need to be. 701 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 3: Good, I think. So I'm here for that, Palia. But 702 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 3: here's the thing. 703 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 2: You also have the reputation of And I've heard people 704 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 2: talk about you and other lawyers like, well, this lawyer 705 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 2: is going to bleed you dry for everything and raise 706 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 2: the kind of lawyer that is going is going to 707 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 2: want to come to some sort of a fair conclusion. 708 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, absolutely, you know. 709 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 8: Here's here, here's the biggest problem with lawyers and perception 710 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 8: of lawyers, other than the fact that lawyers sometimes deserve 711 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 8: their bad reputations, but it's the problem of your deal 712 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 8: with some of the worst things in life, and you're 713 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,920 Speaker 8: also being charged for that, right, So it's like I'm 714 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 8: being charged to suffer, and I think that my responsibility 715 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 8: as a lawyer is to figure out a way to 716 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 8: end that suffering within the parameters of my client sets. 717 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 8: So if my client's like, hey, I just want a 718 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 8: fair outcome, that maybe the best outcome, Like, we're gonna 719 00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 8: find what that fear outcome is and we're gonna try 720 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,240 Speaker 8: to resolve it as quickly as possible. But there's I 721 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 8: like to use the Space Shuttle analogy, Like there's that 722 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 8: like window where like the Space Shuttle has to re 723 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 8: enter Earth's atmosphere to land in the Atlantic Ocean and 724 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 8: otherwise it like ends up in Europe somewhere, right, And 725 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 8: so there's kind of like this like little window that 726 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 8: happens in family law and divorce cases, in really any 727 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 8: case where there's this window of opportunity to resolve your case. 728 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 8: And sometimes it's waiting for that window. It's waiting for 729 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 8: that opportunity for the other side to be willing to 730 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 8: be reasonable, waiting for the other side to be willing 731 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 8: to accept that the facts aren't as good as they 732 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:56,080 Speaker 8: think they are. And sometimes that requires some like depositions 733 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 8: and legal maneuvering, some motion practice. Sometimes it just requires time. 734 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 8: You know, people have heated emotions, you know, and do you. 735 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 3: Ask do you ask them, hey, have you really thought 736 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,520 Speaker 3: about this? Are you really sure you want to do this? 737 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 2: Because like I said that, there's been four people I've 738 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 2: sent you and they were pretty sure when they called you, 739 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 2: and then they change their mind. 740 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 8: I think it depends on the reason for the divorce. Sometimes, 741 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 8: like again, I'm not here to judge you and say 742 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 8: it's a good reason. 743 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:20,880 Speaker 6: For a divorce or batteries and for a divorce. 744 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 8: But if it's like, hey, we've got differences of opinion 745 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 8: on how we spend money. Have you had that conversation 746 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,000 Speaker 8: about how you want to spend money? Have we talked 747 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 8: to a financial advisor, I'm like, coming up with a 748 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:30,959 Speaker 8: good strategy you both can agree on. 749 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 6: And maybe you. 750 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 8: Want to travel and they want to make sure that 751 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 8: there's money left over. Maybe it's just it's an informational 752 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 8: gap and and so just kind of depending on where 753 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 8: they're at, they can figure a lot of this stuff out. 754 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 6: On their own. They don't need me to be in 755 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 6: the middle. 756 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 8: And I always kind of joke with people like, you 757 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 8: don't hire a lawyer to make your life less complicated, right, 758 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 8: Like you hire a lawyer because you know, you need 759 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 8: a tool for a job, just like you need a 760 00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,120 Speaker 8: hammer to nail it, you know, to hammer and nail in. 761 00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 8: That's what a lawyer is there for. And so they 762 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 8: just trying to help them find the right tool for 763 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 8: the right job. 764 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 2: Hey, and I was thinking about you this morning because 765 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 2: I I saw a story about Nicole Kidman and what's 766 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 2: the country guy, peth Urban, and they announced they were 767 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,000 Speaker 2: getting divorced and it's already done. And when it's already 768 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 2: got done, like she has like all the custody of 769 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 2: the kids, like almost like I don't, and I don't 770 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 2: think he sees him like ten percent of the time. 771 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 2: And I guess from his side, well, I'll be traveling 772 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 2: a lot or whatever. That's quite unusual, isn't it. 773 00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 8: It's more unusual now than it used to be. And 774 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 8: I think, you know, I'm not here to say what 775 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 8: happened or didn't happen. 776 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, And we don't know. 777 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 8: You know, I know that he struggled with addiction if 778 00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 8: she's in the past, and he does have a career 779 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 8: where he travels a lot. And I tell people, you know, 780 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 8: more than like the the concept of equal parenting is 781 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 8: a good one, and I think that there's some really 782 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 8: good science behind it, but logistically what actually works, right, 783 00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 8: you know, I joke with my wife that if we 784 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 8: ever got divorced, she'd have the kids the majority of 785 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 8: the time, because I don't love my kids, correct, but 786 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 8: because I have a very demanding job and if I 787 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 8: have to work, I have to work, and so you know, 788 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 8: the good news is for her, I'd give her a 789 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 8: bunch of money to take care of the kids. But 790 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 8: you know, it's just logistically, sometimes it doesn't work out. 791 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 8: And if he's still wanting to tour and he still 792 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:17,760 Speaker 8: has to make money, because I think he isn't. 793 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 2: Unusual to put it on paper like that, though, like 794 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 2: like so he doesn't That sounds like Russa maybe, and 795 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 2: you could voice this ray. 796 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 5: It sounds like when it comes Because when I see 797 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 5: a divorce come together that quickly, that fast, this seems 798 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 5: like some of that stuff was already pre arranged. So 799 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 5: that stuff was already in the paperwork I talked about 800 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,160 Speaker 5: that it was a pre nup or something. 801 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, I think we we're seeing more and more and 802 00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,240 Speaker 8: I see a lot more in my practice people choosing 803 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 8: what's called a collaborative divorce, which is basically a confidential 804 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 8: divorce conversation that happens outside of the courts, And basically 805 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,319 Speaker 8: the only thing that the world knows, the public knows 806 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,920 Speaker 8: is that follow judgment was entered. Everything else is confidential, 807 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,839 Speaker 8: And so we see more and more stuff like that 808 00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,320 Speaker 8: happening and people choosing privacy over these really big public 809 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 8: displays of litigation. And so my guess is you're right 810 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,360 Speaker 8: that a lot of stuff was happening behind the scenes, 811 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,839 Speaker 8: that they had worked out some of these agreements beforehand. 812 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 8: And you know, we saw it with Tom Brady and 813 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,480 Speaker 8: Jaseelle bunched in who which I don't know if you 814 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 8: guys saw she's now pregnant from the Judo instructor, and 815 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,720 Speaker 8: Tom Brady posted like, you know, a very like petty congratulations. 816 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 8: Somebody to see who's ex girlfriend? 817 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 6: He was out really young the New Year's Yeah, like 818 00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 6: a twenty three year old. He's doing all right. 819 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,399 Speaker 3: You can't leave your chick around that doing it at all? 820 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 3: He'd be okay, I would be. 821 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 6: I wouldn't be upset with a little Tom Brady. 822 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 3: Baby. 823 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 2: You know what we haven't talked about, you know, what 824 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:41,320 Speaker 2: we stopped talking about. 825 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 6: I don't know what you're gonna talk about. 826 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:46,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, now like the last two months of the season, 827 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 2: Like I don't I didn't text you about the Dolphins. 828 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 2: You don't text me about the Dolphins. We act like 829 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 2: they don't even live. We haven't even brought it up. 830 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 6: There's always next September. 831 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 2: So we talked about that quickly, and then I got 832 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,840 Speaker 2: another story that I that I I thought, maybe you 833 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,319 Speaker 2: can chime in if you want to sound good. All right, 834 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,919 Speaker 2: it's a friendly ray Trendy one firm forlife dot com. 835 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,880 Speaker 2: That's one firm forlife dot com. If you need to 836 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 2: get hold of him, if you're going through divorce, he's 837 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 2: the guy you want to talk to. He'd be glad 838 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 2: to help you out, and he he doesn't try to 839 00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:15,240 Speaker 2: make it difficult. 840 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 3: I try not to, all right, you're you're listening to 841 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:17,920 Speaker 3: the March of the Morning.