WEBVTT - Did Mojo Do The Right Thing? 

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it is Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>We got a break in and entering Christmas wish coming

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<v Speaker 2>up here in just a couple of minutes. Friday got

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<v Speaker 2>faced with a little dilemma. It's like a moral dilemma,

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<v Speaker 2>and I want to ask the listeners, what would you

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<v Speaker 2>have done if you were me? Okay, let me explain

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<v Speaker 2>this situation and you tell me what your thoughts are

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<v Speaker 2>on this. So this weekend, Chelsea and I were going

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<v Speaker 2>to go to Chicago to visit our son Jacob and

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<v Speaker 2>his boyfriend Chris, and we were taking them as part

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<v Speaker 2>of their Christmas gift to go see the Broadway musical Six,

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<v Speaker 2>which I've heard it so good. I had no idea

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<v Speaker 2>what it was about until I went in there, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I was there and I'm going this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hag so bad. I actually kind of liked it. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>explain that in a second.

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<v Speaker 2>So Chelsea and Jacob had been wanting to go see it,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was something that they both wanted to do together,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they let the two people in the relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with them, myself and Chris, be part of it and

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<v Speaker 2>to be part of a Christmas gift. We're gonna do

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<v Speaker 2>dinner and all this stuff. Well, Friday morning, during the show,

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea sends me a text message at about maybe like

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<v Speaker 2>six forty five. I am, hold on, let me read

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<v Speaker 2>the extual thing here, because it's you got to almost

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<v Speaker 2>hear the hair, the whole thing. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>She sends me back, look.

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<v Speaker 2>At this one. Stop texting me. Hold on a second, No,

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<v Speaker 2>some amazing Why are you bother me? Oh no, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not that one. Aren't there?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? Friday? Where's Fridays Friday? Oh? Here you go.

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<v Speaker 2>I am so sick. I have the worst sore throat,

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<v Speaker 2>horrible headache and body aches. And I said, o f

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<v Speaker 2>And I said, do you want to cancel? She says,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I got hit by a truck. I

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<v Speaker 2>am so sad. This is all I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 2>with Jacob, and I do not want to get him

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<v Speaker 2>sick before we're spending Christmas together. I really want him

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<v Speaker 2>to come to Florida. So she sends me this text

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, well, what do you want to do?

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't answer me, so I call her and this

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<v Speaker 2>is where I asked the listeners. Okay, I got to

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<v Speaker 2>be a good husband here. I got her very sick

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<v Speaker 2>wife at home, But I also have my son and

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<v Speaker 2>his boyfriend in a hotel room waiting in Chicago. So

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<v Speaker 2>I say to myself, well, what I'm going to do

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<v Speaker 2>is I'm gonna call Jacob and I'm going to see

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<v Speaker 2>what Jacob's response is to his mom's being sick, and

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<v Speaker 2>then say, yeah, you know, I know she feels horrible

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<v Speaker 2>because Chelsea was like really really sad.

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<v Speaker 1>She could hardly talk. She blames Kevin by the way, first,

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<v Speaker 1>did you text her? Yeah? I text her.

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<v Speaker 3>She texts me and asks me, when you got sick?

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<v Speaker 3>What did it start with? And I could tell by

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<v Speaker 3>the lining of questioning that it was a reason.

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<v Speaker 4>For it, and her symptoms were so.

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<v Speaker 3>I think her started with her throw hurting or started

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<v Speaker 3>with a headache, and then it went down knows and

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<v Speaker 3>then throwers.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so will you guys making out a jacoballs? So

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<v Speaker 2>I called Jacob up and he doesn't answer. So I

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<v Speaker 2>text him and said, because he's you know, he's uh,

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<v Speaker 2>Jacob's a psychologist, so he was in with patients. I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>call me when you get a chance. He calls me

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<v Speaker 2>right back. Within like ten or fifteen minutes. He says

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<v Speaker 2>everything okay, And I said, actually, mom is really really sick.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything's gonna be okay. She's just got you know, sore

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<v Speaker 2>throat and stuff like that. He's like, oh man, he

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<v Speaker 2>was like you he was bummed, and he said, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know, just you know, tell her, don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever the deal is, I said, let me ask you.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you be okay if I still came. He got

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<v Speaker 2>really excited. And Jacob and I do not have the

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<v Speaker 2>relationship that Chelsea and Jacob have. Chelsea and Jacob's relationship

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<v Speaker 2>is like they are in you know, is it a

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<v Speaker 2>sympatico you know what I mean? Like they are like

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<v Speaker 2>literally like how Kevin is with Josiah, how you are

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<v Speaker 2>with Lucy? How I am with Joe, you know, and

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<v Speaker 2>Luke we kind of you kind of have your your

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<v Speaker 2>kids that you're really close with. And he was he

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<v Speaker 2>seemed really excited. He goes, oh my god, that would

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<v Speaker 2>be so great. He goes, that would be cool, Chris,

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<v Speaker 2>and I will hang with you. And I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>And I was excited about that, but then I hung

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<v Speaker 2>up the phone and I go, I really feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm being a dick husband, because here she is, she

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<v Speaker 2>just got over being really really sick and then now

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<v Speaker 2>she's sick with this and I'm leaving her. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>out of town. She's got to take care of the dogs,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, which the dogs are a holes, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>why couldn't they be sick? And so we're going, so

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<v Speaker 2>going through this whole thing. So I kept asking her,

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<v Speaker 2>Am I okay? Am I okay? And she's like, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>go go go, So I go. And then I thought

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<v Speaker 2>to myself the whole weekend, I'm like, oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think she's happy with me, you know, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>you heard I don't think she's happy with me? Was

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<v Speaker 2>I was also calling her every five minutes because I

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<v Speaker 2>had guilt over the fact. I was did I do

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<v Speaker 2>wrong by going? Or should I have stayed with Chelsea

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<v Speaker 2>and just ate the hotel room for the night and

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<v Speaker 2>just gave Jacob the tickets to go with Chris and

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<v Speaker 2>one of his friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, one million percent, without question, made the right decision,

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<v Speaker 1>you think, so, yes, And by the.

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<v Speaker 5>Way, when you're sick, you want to be by like

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<v Speaker 5>at least me, I want to be by myself because

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<v Speaker 5>all I'm gonna do is sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>And you had a great weekend with Jacob.

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<v Speaker 1>I did have a great weekend with Jacob.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you made the right decision. But I do

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<v Speaker 4>know from what I've heard about people in relationships that

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<v Speaker 4>are getting therapy, they keep telling me that you're supposed

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<v Speaker 4>to make your spouse like priority.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, priority, get out of the house, so I can't

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<v Speaker 5>just rest.

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin was shaking his head over there, guys answering what

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<v Speaker 2>do you think was Chelsea alone?

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea had Luke at home. Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>The only reason I say you're not an AO, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's very tough for me to say that, is because

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<v Speaker 3>Jacob really wanted you to go. Yeah, if Jacob had

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<v Speaker 3>to said you know what, Dad, No, it's okay, moms,

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<v Speaker 3>and you were just like, no, I understand this is

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<v Speaker 3>important and you went, I'd be like, yeah, you come.

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<v Speaker 2>And honestly, that's how I felt like. If Jacob would

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<v Speaker 2>have done that, I would have not gone, because honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to drive eight you know, basically, it's

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<v Speaker 2>nine hours of driving, it's four and a half hours

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<v Speaker 2>therefore and a half hours back.

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<v Speaker 5>And it ended up being right.

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<v Speaker 2>But I but I will tell you it was really

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<v Speaker 2>fun to be able to just be me and I

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<v Speaker 2>and try to be more present. But also we spent

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<v Speaker 2>the day together on Saturday, just kind of hanging it

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<v Speaker 2>at Jake's uh and Chris's condo that they live in,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't ever get to go over there, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm never really.

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<v Speaker 5>There as a mom, like I love. I would love

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<v Speaker 5>the idea of like dad getting to spend quality time

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<v Speaker 5>with one of them. And I think that's really really important.

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<v Speaker 2>And I will say this, in our relationship, mine and Jacob's,

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<v Speaker 2>it would not be anything if it wasn't for Chelsea

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<v Speaker 2>when Jacob was younger, saying to me, you need to

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<v Speaker 2>find something that you can have with him, and for

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<v Speaker 2>us it's always been like scary movies. This was pretty

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<v Speaker 2>wild to go see, although Jacob was upset because he

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<v Speaker 2>said that I was looking at my phone NonStop.

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<v Speaker 1>During the during a musical.

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<v Speaker 2>During the musical, I didn't I didn't have it on

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<v Speaker 2>or anything like that, but I was looking at it

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<v Speaker 2>to see what the time was.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Sarah? How you doing good? How are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>Did did I do wrong? Or what do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I the a hole? As Kevin says, You're not.

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<v Speaker 6>The a hole. I think the fact that you feel

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<v Speaker 6>like you're an a hole. Says enough that you're not

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<v Speaker 6>an a hole and speaks to the fact that you're

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<v Speaker 6>a good husband. You asked Chelsea over and over again

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<v Speaker 6>if it was okay, you were considerate of her, and

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<v Speaker 6>the fact that you feel so guilty about it, I

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<v Speaker 6>just think shows that you're a good husband, because there's

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<v Speaker 6>a lot of guys that would just go not even

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the fact that I feel guilty about it is

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that I've done wrong a lot in this relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, Like I have not chosen

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea to be the priority in a lot of our relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>and I feel like this could be considered one of

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<v Speaker 2>those same times, and I, you know, that was like

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<v Speaker 2>my biggest thing. And then the other thing too, is

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want it to become Sarah one of those

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<v Speaker 2>things where it was like, oh good, we're not going,

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<v Speaker 2>and then it makes it look like I don't care

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<v Speaker 2>about Jacob, like I wanted to make the effort to

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<v Speaker 2>go so that.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you think Chelsea would speak up and tell you

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<v Speaker 6>though if she was upset about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, now she would, I think after this whole thing,

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<v Speaker 2>but I do really think. I think she would have

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<v Speaker 2>told me ahead of time and she didn't want me

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<v Speaker 2>to go. Now, I will say this, she did say

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<v Speaker 2>that the dogs were total pain in the ass. And

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<v Speaker 2>why didn't Luke belp with the dogs? Well, I think

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea didn't want Luke to get sick, so she was

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<v Speaker 2>staying away from Luke.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is true though Luke should have helped you

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. I think, Marcia, what's up?

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<v Speaker 7>You know what? Sometimes things happened.

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<v Speaker 6>I think your wife gets sick only.

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<v Speaker 7>So you can spend time with your son and Chicago.

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<v Speaker 2>Marcia think, Marcia, you know what? Thank you for saying that,

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<v Speaker 2>because honestly, it was a really cool weekend. We had

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<v Speaker 2>really an awesome time.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, one thing, it would have been great if you

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<v Speaker 6>had got the dog, got them a whole hotel, whatever

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<v Speaker 6>you do with your dog.

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<v Speaker 2>If I if I euthanized them, I should have euthanized them.

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<v Speaker 1>This would be the reason to put them down. I

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<v Speaker 1>should have.

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<v Speaker 6>My heart.

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<v Speaker 1>I should have put him down. What's up, Mike? How

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<v Speaker 1>you doing I'm doing fine?

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing good? Mike? This has turned into

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<v Speaker 1>a version of am I the a hole that was

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<v Speaker 1>just the a whole move. But what are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>Speak on it?

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<v Speaker 7>Mike?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think I'm an a hole for what I did?

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<v Speaker 1>I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta stick with your wife. Sorry, m m M, Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't happen to be a guy trying to hit

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<v Speaker 1>on my wife, are you?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm just making sure on that one there.

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<v Speaker 2>So I should have stuck with the be home with

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<v Speaker 2>my sick wife, and she's my priority over my sons.

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<v Speaker 7>In my opinion.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, my wife used to be Uh, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>She's kind of sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>Right there with you? Let's hear what she says?

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<v Speaker 6>Actually, my wife agrees with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, do you have an imaginary wife? I can't hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Where is she at? Uhwe honey? Where you at?

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<v Speaker 2>Sweetheart?

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<v Speaker 1>Sweetheart? Where you at? Yeah? Hi, hi wife? What did

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<v Speaker 1>you want to what did you want to say? Mike's wife? Which?

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<v Speaker 1>What's Mike's wife's name?

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<v Speaker 6>Laura?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, la, Laura? What are you? What are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 7>Well? I just think you she's gonna be homesick anyhow.

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<v Speaker 7>So the kid wanted to go.

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<v Speaker 2>So, okay, let me ask you, is this guy just

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<v Speaker 2>trying to cause problems in my relationship. I don't think so, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>is he a good guy?

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<v Speaker 1>Is Mike a good guy?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely, he's the best. All right, that's great? Hold on

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<v Speaker 1>a second, hold on, Kevin wants away? And what did

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<v Speaker 1>you want to say, Kevin?

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<v Speaker 6>I think Selsea would be just.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay this guy, Kevin listener, Kevin, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, Mike.

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<v Speaker 7>I think I think Selsea would be just fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah. I say that because my father passed

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<v Speaker 1>away few years ago. So for me, I would die

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<v Speaker 1>for my dad to call me one lafet time to

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<v Speaker 1>me that.

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<v Speaker 7>You know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you you never know when the last moment

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to have a time to spend time with

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<v Speaker 2>your kid. I want to make make every moment good.

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<v Speaker 1>Facts. Yeah, no, you made a good movie.

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<v Speaker 2>And thank god I came home and Chelsea was was

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<v Speaker 2>you know, alive and everything was good.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Joni? How you doing good?

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<v Speaker 5>How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you know that reference that's crazy? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Jony?

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<v Speaker 7>I have a quick question for you, Mojoe. Why do

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<v Speaker 7>you think you were the a whole for doing what

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<v Speaker 7>you did?

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<v Speaker 2>Because because in the past my relationship with my wife,

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<v Speaker 2>I have not made her the priority, and I felt

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<v Speaker 2>like it was another one of those moments where in

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<v Speaker 2>the past it's been worse moments, and that I started

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about that as I was driving. As I got

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<v Speaker 2>to zeb Rhoades exit there, marian R, I'm like, God,

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<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't I should just turn around. And then I thought,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, Jacob was so excited when I talked

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<v Speaker 2>to him. And Jacob does not seem like the type

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<v Speaker 2>that would not tell me the truth of his excitement level.

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<v Speaker 1>No, like that was the thing. So that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>felt that way.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, all right, as a mother of three boys, and

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<v Speaker 7>if I were ill and I would be so thankful

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<v Speaker 7>that my husband did that for my son because of

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<v Speaker 7>how you say your relationship is with the other two

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<v Speaker 7>and not him for you. That was amazing that you

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<v Speaker 7>did that for him and his boyfriend. I think that's

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<v Speaker 7>a beautiful thing that you did.

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<v Speaker 1>So we had a great time. A Yeah, we had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time.

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<v Speaker 2>We had a great time, and I love Chris and

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<v Speaker 2>it was so much fun getting a chance to hang

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<v Speaker 2>with those guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It was wild.

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<v Speaker 2>I will tell you I have one thing though, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna bring it up as a topic later this week.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm I think I'm allergic to my my

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<v Speaker 2>grand dog. They have a dog together, and that dog

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<v Speaker 2>made me itch and scratch. It's I don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>it like it looks like a mutt. You don't like

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<v Speaker 2>any dogs. No, but I started itching and it's cratching.

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<v Speaker 2>I had hair all over me. I was like what,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was there. I was taking it like a champ.

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<v Speaker 2>I was sneezing and I thought I was getting sick

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<v Speaker 2>from Chelsea's room.

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<v Speaker 7>Know.

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<v Speaker 1>Their house is clean, Believe it or not. Their house

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<v Speaker 1>is clean.

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<v Speaker 2>They've got a little couple too many figurines and things

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<v Speaker 2>like they like you. They have like they have like

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<v Speaker 2>crazy stuff all over the place. Talk about Joe and

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<v Speaker 2>his Star Wars stuff. These guys, Oh my god, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like crazy. But but they're cute. They're they're they're they're

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<v Speaker 2>two good, good guys. I love them all right,