1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Have you been in this specific situation, situation, or position. 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: I got shamed, and I am starting to actually feel 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 1: pretty bad about it, to the point where I feel 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 1: like I need to go back to this place. I'm 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: not going to say their name, just in case someone 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: doesn't agree with what they did to me. I'm starting 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:21,760 Speaker 1: to think that maybe I should have been shamed for this. 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: By the way, Joe Show's on ninety three to three 9 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: fl Z. But I was checking out of this certain 10 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 1: place and they asked me if I wanted to round up. Okay, 11 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: the thing is, I don't know. I have never rounded up. 12 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to round up. 13 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: I don't yeah for who the the for you or 14 00:00:55,600 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: the charitable cause. Oh, you're saying you. I even felt 15 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 2: bad there when he said that, because I'm thinking, oh god, 16 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 2: she does agree. 17 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 1: So do you not say yes this person? This person? 18 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: Literally I go, I'm good. They go, you may be good, 19 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: but not everyone. 20 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 3: Geez. 21 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 4: I know, literally, you may be good but. 22 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 5: Not any Yeah, I want to say you said I'm good. 23 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 5: That's kind of just like dang bro, I kind of 24 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 5: sut youself. 25 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 4: I sat there. 26 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 6: I was. 27 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: At first like there was a part of me that 28 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: was like clap back, go nuts, have a public crash out. 29 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 4: Oh come on. I loved to be there for that, 30 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 4: Joe do it. 31 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: But that was maybe two percent of the rest of 32 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: me was just going, oh shoot, did I mess up? 33 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: And I thought about it. I almost changed like the 34 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:57,919 Speaker 1: radio station to my iPod and played Hello Darkness smile 35 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: because that like the only thing that I should be hearing. 36 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: I really felt like, really bad that I didn't und 37 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: up give. 38 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 4: Has anyone ever been shamed for that? 39 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, oh yes, especially when any restaurant or it 40 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 7: could be whatever grocery store you go to. They always 41 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 7: love to hide behind the children, And I think that's 42 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 7: the most disgusting thing ever, because they're like, oh, do 43 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 7: you like to round up to a dollar today to 44 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 7: donate to kids with that so and so cancer hospital 45 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 7: or whatever. No, I don't, do you see my bill? 46 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 7: You think I want to give you another dollar? Absolutely not, 47 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 7: And they shame you and it makes it and that 48 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 7: to me is disgusting. Now, there's certain causes where it's like, okay, 49 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 7: you know, like veterans some kind of soft too, because 50 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 7: I've had several family members so that like certain things 51 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 7: like that, I feel I feel inclined to donate to 52 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 7: because it strikes a personal course. You do give it sometimes, 53 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 7: but I but the worst is when I'm saying the 54 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 7: shaming of the kids. 55 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, see, I think it's twenty twenty five. If I 56 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 5: want to donate to someone, I'm gonna donate to their GoFundMe. 57 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 5: I'm not going to donate to the grocery store because 58 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 5: nine times out of ten are they really giving that 59 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 5: money to the people who actually needed And at least 60 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 5: I know that if I'm donating to Cancer Society, I'm 61 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 5: donating to a friend who maybe has cancer, or know 62 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 5: someon WOUE with cancer, a family member or something. 63 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 3: I'd rather do that. The grocery store is like. 64 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 5: Come on, like, what is it? What's the next holiday? 65 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 5: Breast cancer Awareness Month? Right, Uh, they're gonna probably be 66 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 5: asking for donations for that. Oh my goodness. The one 67 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 5: that really gives me anxiety though, going to a grocery 68 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 5: store and they're shaking the bell the Salvation arby ones. 69 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 3: Because it's like your dressed up, you know, and it's 70 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 3: just like, oh my goodness. It's always either. 71 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 5: An old man or an old woman out there just 72 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 5: hanging out, just trying to get some change. 73 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 4: Did you ever have to do it? 74 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 5: I did the same, and I was just like, I 75 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 5: feel so bad, dude. 76 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 4: I did it, I said, we actually probably. 77 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 2: Did it together or in the same scene, in the 78 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 2: same city. 79 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: And I think I got like the least amount of 80 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: money ever in the history of a ring beller. 81 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: I don't think. 82 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 5: I would rather donate to a specific group that I 83 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 5: know is actually going to use the money. Like I 84 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 5: don't know what these grocery stores or these other establishments 85 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 5: are using the money for. 86 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 3: So if I want to donate clothes, I'm going to 87 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 3: go to the. 88 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 5: Salvation Army or what is the one up the street 89 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 5: that I go to for women with domestic of violence. 90 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 5: I'll drop it off there, or like I said, I'll 91 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 5: There's gofundmes that people post on Facebook and Twitter all 92 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 5: the time. 93 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 3: If you want to donate, donate directly. 94 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: Hey, Melissa Bhi, So you used to work at the 95 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: grocery store. You say you you know you never shamed 96 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 1: anyone and all of that, So thank you, because I 97 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 1: really did feel bad yesterday. 98 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 4: It wasn't at a grocery shouldn't feel then? 99 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: How often what was the frequency of people actually rounding up. 100 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 8: It's depended on. 101 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 9: The story I worked in for one, you know, where 102 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 9: I worked the clientele. But a lot of people do 103 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,279 Speaker 9: round up or donate the dollar, five dollars, ten dollars whatever. 104 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 9: So they they would, but there were days that no 105 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 9: one would, which is fine, And I agree with what 106 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 9: Ashley said. You don't know if it's ever going to 107 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 9: where it's supposed to go, and the grocery store gives 108 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 9: it to who it's supposed to go to, but you 109 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 9: don't know what the actual charity is doing with that money. 110 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: Interest, So okay, And what what was like the biggest 111 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: day that you would get the donation? Probably like Friday 112 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: with Payday? 113 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:49,280 Speaker 9: Ah, yeah, probably, you know, and and yeah and around holidays, yeah, 114 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 9: and a little bit more during the holidays. 115 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:59,159 Speaker 1: I'm taking. Actually I've taken so I can give. Yeah, 116 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: so I can get for gifts for my friends and family. 117 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 1: Alica do is the same thing. 118 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 4: Right, Alyssa, I try. 119 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: Alyssa, You're the greatest. Thank you for calling in, Nicole. 120 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 9: What's up? 121 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: What up? You say that there was a skit? What 122 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: do you mean a skit? Like you talking about SNL 123 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: or something. 124 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 8: Well, I don't know if it was s no, I'm 125 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 8: getting old and my brain kind of sucks me too. 126 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:29,239 Speaker 8: But I vaguely remember there being a skit where someone's 127 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 8: that like a cash register and it's like, do you 128 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 8: want to donate a dollar today to help sit kittens? 129 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 8: And the guy hits no. Then it's like, so you 130 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 8: hate kittens, you walk to kill kitten and it like 131 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 8: pressures him but it's hysterical. 132 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: Wait, there was a South Park episode that did this. Yeah, 133 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 1: it was like you you have to take the money 134 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: out of a starving children's mouth. My god, Like, if 135 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: you don't want to donate, you have to take the 136 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: money off of like, you know, out of a starving 137 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: kid's hand or something like that. It's like take the 138 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: food out of his hand, take the food. 139 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 4: Out lad Danika, good morning. 140 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: You got asked to donate in a fast food line? 141 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 4: Did you say yes or no? 142 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 10: I said no. 143 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 8: I was using my app for just a free coffee. 144 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 10: And they'm like, do you want to round ups than 145 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:20,239 Speaker 10: your cellar? I'm like, no, no, thank you, not today, 146 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 10: and she's like really, I'm like yeah, I'm sure. 147 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 4: Wow. 148 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: So this is at least maybe a rarer occurrence, but 149 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: still an occurrence, that happens. I'm not happy to hear 150 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: that you went through that, but honestly I am because 151 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: now I don't feel as bad did you when you 152 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: drove away where you're like, uh, shoot. 153 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 10: No, I drove around and I drank my coffee with 154 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 10: my head held high. 155 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: Okay, beautiful, all right, maybe I need to do that. 156 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: Thank you, Danika Jase. Last one you say, don't feel 157 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: bad one more time. I got shamed at the grocery 158 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: or I got shamed at his store. I got it 159 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: was not a grocery store. 160 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 6: So I go to pet Smart all the time, and 161 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 6: at the checkout they'll always ask you, you know, you 162 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 6: want to donate a dollar for this or for that. 163 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 6: So I have a friend that works at like a 164 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 6: big corporation store like that, and they said, in the 165 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 6: beginning of the year, they donate a certain amount and 166 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 6: then at their registers they try to make that money 167 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 6: back on the donation. So that's really what you're donating to. 168 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 3: That's actually genius. I'm not gonna lie I. 169 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 6: Doing this, will donate pets Martle donate two million in 170 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 6: the beginning of the year and then on their thing 171 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 6: before you go and check out, So as you know, 172 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 6: if you want to donate. But they're just trying to. 173 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 3: Make they're trying to reach their goal, to get their 174 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 3: two mil back. 175 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 4: Is the greatest it is. 176 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 3: I do like pet smart and they're not the only 177 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 3: ones doing it. 178 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: Go in there for the smells, Jace, we'll tie Jase, Jason. 179 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 1: We'll talk to you later. Hey, are you wearing white shorts? 180 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:53,959 Speaker 1: By the way, Yeah, you see his. 181 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 4: Wiener No big enough. 182 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 3: You do have a story shorts. All those are little 183 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,079 Speaker 3: lemon They're cool. 184 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 4: I wish I could pull off white shorts.