WEBVTT - So…What Happened Between Chris & Lauren?

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<v Speaker 1>Variety for the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's

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<v Speaker 1>Star one O one three. It's Marcus in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>time once again for second date updates. Let's bring Lauren

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<v Speaker 1>on right away. Hi, Lauren, are you there? Hi? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm rereading your DM because I always like to. I

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<v Speaker 1>like to figure out if somebody actually got ghosted on,

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<v Speaker 1>or if there's a backpedal or just a stoppage of communication.

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<v Speaker 1>But you got fully ghosted, right fully ghosted? Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Chris. What did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 2>We went to get drinks Codey Little Spot, super fun.

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<v Speaker 2>It was really relaxed, I mean, just like great energy

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<v Speaker 2>in general. Everything felt like, I don't know, just like

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<v Speaker 2>the vibes are right. And we talked about our favorite shows,

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<v Speaker 2>what our ideal weekends were. Everything just seemed really aligned. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was feeling really optimistic about it, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I never heard from him.

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<v Speaker 1>Were your ideal weekends congruent? Like I know, sometimes a

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who's like I want to go out and do

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<v Speaker 1>stuff can't be compatible with someone who doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>leave the couch. And those those people either that or

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<v Speaker 1>they end up getting married. There is no in between.

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<v Speaker 1>Marcus in the morning. Yes, you're listening to second Date Update. Welcome,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for tuning in every morning. We've got Lauren

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. She is the Star. Hi, Lauren. Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't this feel like a little sitcom or something? It does.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like your this is your movie we're doing. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing Lauren today. I'll tell you what. Let's call Chris

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out why he ghosted on you. Okay, go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and mute your phone and let's give him a shout.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, here we go. You can listen in.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello. Hi, this is Chris, yes speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Chris, it's Marcus calling from Star one on one

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<v Speaker 1>three from the morning show. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I already know you're calling.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh shoot, you might as.

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<v Speaker 3>Well just bring Lauren on.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Hi, Lauren? Are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Chris? Is this where you tell me you listen every

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<v Speaker 1>morning that you were listening right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's a long time listener, first time on

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<v Speaker 3>the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we are, so you already know why we're here.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, let's get right to it. Did you ghost

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren after your date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? It was just a weird date, Like it started

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<v Speaker 3>off fine, but then she said something that kind of

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<v Speaker 3>caught me off guard. Okay, she started going all into

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<v Speaker 3>this astrology stuff and it's just such a waste of time.

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<v Speaker 3>And she's like, what day were you born? What time?

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't know what time I was born. She

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<v Speaker 3>thought that was completely crazy, and I was like, this

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<v Speaker 3>is not outs of years.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>She was putting it into an app and then asking

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<v Speaker 3>me specific questions, saying that she didn't want to waste

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<v Speaker 3>quote unquote emotional energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, are you guys? Are you compatible?

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<v Speaker 2>She said?

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<v Speaker 3>But for me, it's the zero.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to Lauren real quick. Lauren, what did the

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<v Speaker 1>app say? So?

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<v Speaker 2>I said that we were mostly compatible, like he said,

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<v Speaker 2>but he left out the part that said our communication

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<v Speaker 2>we would struggle with and so I try to have

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and Chris, how did this make you feel?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if you're reading something up like a newspaper mobile

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<v Speaker 3>app telling me about like you're gonna have a great day,

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<v Speaker 3>you're beware of people today, it's just bonkers to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm an adult with adult interest and like also,

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<v Speaker 3>like there's another thing that happened on the date a lot,

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<v Speaker 3>which was like, okay, she kept like straightening my napkins,

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<v Speaker 3>moving my glass lined up with the coaster.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, I mean like physically it just yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like she's physically reach over and move stepf on my

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<v Speaker 3>side of the table, which just felt like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I was quietly being judged or evaluated. And that doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>really feel like a date. That feels like I'm in

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<v Speaker 3>my boss's office getting put on a performance improvement plan,

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<v Speaker 3>which isn't a very fun feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren, what was the deal with that?

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<v Speaker 2>I was just trying to make sure things were balanced.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it showed that I cared and I was interested.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh it bothers me. Things are crooked. I'm sorry you

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<v Speaker 2>could have said something.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know when I said I wasn't really

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<v Speaker 3>a horoscope. You just insisted it was either your way

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<v Speaker 3>or the highway at that point, And you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't trying to get pickslift immediately, so I just figured

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<v Speaker 3>i'd be polite.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm starting to see why this isn't a match.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call no second date. You guys, Lauren, you

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<v Speaker 1>seem very sweet. I don't I don't think Chris is

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<v Speaker 1>your guy, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>That's actually what my astrology up sat it said.

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date, Hang on now, you're just being a jerk,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Second Date update right after seven, Right after nine,

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