Speaker 1: Variety for the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's
Speaker 1: Star one O one three. It's Marcus in the morning
Speaker 1: time once again for second date updates. Let's bring Lauren
Speaker 1: on right away. Hi, Lauren, are you there? Hi? Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm rereading your DM because I always like to. I
Speaker 1: like to figure out if somebody actually got ghosted on,
Speaker 1: or if there's a backpedal or just a stoppage of communication.
Speaker 1: But you got fully ghosted, right fully ghosted? Okay, let's
Speaker 1: talk about Chris. What did you guys do?
Speaker 2: We went to get drinks Codey Little Spot, super fun.
Speaker 2: It was really relaxed, I mean, just like great energy
Speaker 2: in general. Everything felt like, I don't know, just like
Speaker 2: the vibes are right. And we talked about our favorite shows,
Speaker 2: what our ideal weekends were. Everything just seemed really aligned. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and I was feeling really optimistic about it, and then
Speaker 2: I never heard from him.
Speaker 1: Were your ideal weekends congruent? Like I know, sometimes a
Speaker 1: somebody who's like I want to go out and do
Speaker 1: stuff can't be compatible with someone who doesn't want to
Speaker 1: leave the couch. And those those people either that or
Speaker 1: they end up getting married. There is no in between.
Speaker 1: Marcus in the morning. Yes, you're listening to second Date Update. Welcome,
Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in every morning. We've got Lauren
Speaker 1: on the phone. She is the Star. Hi, Lauren. Hi.
Speaker 1: Doesn't this feel like a little sitcom or something? It does.
Speaker 1: It's like your this is your movie we're doing. We're
Speaker 1: doing Lauren today. I'll tell you what. Let's call Chris
Speaker 1: and figure out why he ghosted on you. Okay, go
Speaker 1: ahead and mute your phone and let's give him a shout.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. You can listen in.
Speaker 3: Hello. Hi, this is Chris, yes speaking.
Speaker 1: Hey Chris, it's Marcus calling from Star one on one
Speaker 1: three from the morning show. Good morning.
Speaker 3: I already know you're calling.
Speaker 1: Oh shoot, you might as.
Speaker 3: Well just bring Lauren on.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Hi, Lauren? Are you there?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 1: Chris? Is this where you tell me you listen every
Speaker 1: morning that you were listening right now?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: You know it's a long time listener, first time on
Speaker 3: the radio.
Speaker 1: Here we are, so you already know why we're here.
Speaker 1: I mean, let's get right to it. Did you ghost
Speaker 1: Lauren after your date?
Speaker 3: Yeah? It was just a weird date, Like it started
Speaker 3: off fine, but then she said something that kind of
Speaker 3: caught me off guard. Okay, she started going all into
Speaker 3: this astrology stuff and it's just such a waste of time.
Speaker 3: And she's like, what day were you born? What time?
Speaker 3: And I don't know what time I was born. She
Speaker 3: thought that was completely crazy, and I was like, this
Speaker 3: is not outs of years.
Speaker 1: I don't understand.
Speaker 3: She was putting it into an app and then asking
Speaker 3: me specific questions, saying that she didn't want to waste
Speaker 3: quote unquote emotional energy.
Speaker 1: Okay, are you guys? Are you compatible?
Speaker 2: She said?
Speaker 3: But for me, it's the zero.
Speaker 1: Let's go to Lauren real quick. Lauren, what did the
Speaker 1: app say? So?
Speaker 2: I said that we were mostly compatible, like he said,
Speaker 2: but he left out the part that said our communication
Speaker 2: we would struggle with and so I try to have
Speaker 2: a conversation about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, and Chris, how did this make you feel?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Like if you're reading something up like a newspaper mobile
Speaker 3: app telling me about like you're gonna have a great day,
Speaker 3: you're beware of people today, it's just bonkers to me.
Speaker 3: Like I'm an adult with adult interest and like also,
Speaker 3: like there's another thing that happened on the date a lot,
Speaker 3: which was like, okay, she kept like straightening my napkins,
Speaker 3: moving my glass lined up with the coaster.
Speaker 1: And uh, I mean like physically it just yeah.
Speaker 3: Like she's physically reach over and move stepf on my
Speaker 3: side of the table, which just felt like I don't know,
Speaker 3: I was quietly being judged or evaluated. And that doesn't
Speaker 3: really feel like a date. That feels like I'm in
Speaker 3: my boss's office getting put on a performance improvement plan,
Speaker 3: which isn't a very fun feeling.
Speaker 1: Lauren, what was the deal with that?
Speaker 2: I was just trying to make sure things were balanced.
Speaker 2: I thought it showed that I cared and I was interested.
Speaker 2: Huh it bothers me. Things are crooked. I'm sorry you
Speaker 2: could have said something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know when I said I wasn't really
Speaker 3: a horoscope. You just insisted it was either your way
Speaker 3: or the highway at that point, And you know, I
Speaker 3: wasn't trying to get pickslift immediately, so I just figured
Speaker 3: i'd be polite.
Speaker 1: So I'm starting to see why this isn't a match.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call no second date. You guys, Lauren, you
Speaker 1: seem very sweet. I don't I don't think Chris is
Speaker 1: your guy, that's.
Speaker 3: That's actually what my astrology up sat it said.
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