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Speaker 1: three three f l Z. It's the Joe Show. And

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Speaker 1: Jed wants to know when he should bring up that

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Speaker 1: he wants to get back with his X or what exactly.

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Speaker 2: I think that if you're both meeting up with each other,

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Speaker 2: I think there's some feeling there that you want to

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Speaker 2: get back together. But I just want to know, like,

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Speaker 2: when is that conversation had? Because she's either going to

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Speaker 2: come over tonight or she's going to come over on Thursday.

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Speaker 1: What was that look for Joe? She's coming over on

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Speaker 1: a school night. Yeah, you guys already back together.

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Speaker 3: A conversation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you have to have that conversation first,

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Speaker 2: But I don't know what when when? It is just

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Speaker 2: from what everything that I've read, and I know Katie

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Speaker 2: and and Ashley don't like what I read, which is fine,

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Speaker 2: but it says usually around the third meetup is when

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Speaker 2: you should should be like, Hey, what's the she should.

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Speaker 1: Bring it up? I should not bring it up.

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Speaker 4: Well, that whole third day thing already is out the

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Speaker 4: window because you guys bake cookies together. Yeah, so like

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Speaker 4: you've already pushed past that step.

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Speaker 3: But go ahead, Katie, I say.

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Speaker 5: The sooner the better, I say, do it tonight. I

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Speaker 5: say you initiated. Okay, grab the bull by the horns. Okay,

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Speaker 5: you know that you both want to get back together,

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Speaker 5: So don't let us turn into a situation whip going

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Speaker 5: to I.

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Speaker 1: Don't want it to. I'll drag it out, the bad

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Speaker 1: old situationship. I think that you don't bring it up.

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Speaker 1: I agreet Joe when she brings it up. You changed

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Speaker 1: the subject before you even that will keep you, no,

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Speaker 1: And then you start having her second guest, well what's

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Speaker 1: going on?

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Speaker 4: And then she wants that's what we call playing mind games.

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Speaker 4: No one wants to plays past that. No mind games.

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Speaker 1: Well no, she guys. Let's hear Joe out there. I'll explanation.

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Speaker 1: JAD has her over for dinner. She's going to bring

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Speaker 1: it up somehow. He needs to neglect it and act

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Speaker 1: like it's maybe neglect's not the word, but like he

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Speaker 1: he he ignores it. He he acts like it's not no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you just stay in here. I'll pick up the calls

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Speaker 1: blind you kind of just like you know, hey, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to talk about like us in the future, and

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Speaker 1: you're like, oh yeah, hey, real quick, what seconds exactly

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Speaker 1: sound well? Hear me out. She starts to think that

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Speaker 1: you don't really care or something's going on. Things will

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Speaker 1: probably lead to your room at some point when you

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Speaker 1: open up the door, flowers be my girlfriend. He's not

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Speaker 1: expect She wouldn't even expect like that. I don't think.

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Speaker 3: Something that I would do.

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Speaker 2: That's like.

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Speaker 1: They've already been together, and I don't know if we

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Speaker 1: is this a breakup or a break? If they get

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Speaker 1: back together, it's just a break. They were on a break.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's a break.

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Speaker 1: Then do you have to have that conversation or are

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Speaker 1: they back together? They've already done the most emotional thing

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Speaker 1: that they could do, which was make sweet love until

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Speaker 1: the morning.

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Speaker 4: You still have to have that conversation and reassurance say hey,

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Speaker 4: we're doing this again. Because if I'm a woman in

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Speaker 4: my head, I'm still thinking like, well, we didn't have

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Speaker 4: a conversation of being back together, then we're not together.

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Speaker 4: I don't care what we're doing. If they're still hanging

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Speaker 4: out and sleeping together.

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Speaker 5: There has to be words. Yeah, And so she doesn't

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Speaker 5: think it's just physical, right.

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Speaker 1: And I don't want it to be just about this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: change my name to a woman's name in your phone

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Speaker 1: for have your phone up while you guys are eating dinner,

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Speaker 1: have me call you everr look and be like what

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Speaker 1: the heck? Ignore it and go I don't have time

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Speaker 1: for other women anymore. It's just you know, zuch. Then

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Speaker 1: it proves that you really want her and no one

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Speaker 1: else but I.

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Speaker 2: But okay, initiated, So let's let's go through this whole

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Speaker 2: thing again.

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Speaker 1: Joe.

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Speaker 2: This is your your just stole right, so have her over.

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Speaker 2: She starts bringing it up, ignore it, flowers the balloons,

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Speaker 2: and then and then pretend put your name is like

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Speaker 2: what Joseph?

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Speaker 1: And then.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you're saying they're separate from each other. Don't

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Speaker 2: do it all and wrap it up in Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: Either you have a woman call you and you ignore

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Speaker 1: it and go, I don't have time for them anymore.

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Speaker 1: I'm here for you.

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Speaker 4: And she's probably gonna be wondering how long has he

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Speaker 4: been talking to these other women?

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Speaker 1: Good?

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Speaker 4: Now, she's not gonna trust you.

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Speaker 3: So do exactly what Katie said.

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Speaker 1: She can't think that because what if? What if she

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Speaker 1: was talking to you.

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Speaker 3: I know how you know, I know she.

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Speaker 4: If she was blowing, if she was doing what she

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Speaker 4: was doing while you were on break the communication.

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Speaker 1: She was not a trust me, but I thought she

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Speaker 1: didn't really hit you up at all for like a

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Speaker 1: string of a couple months.

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Speaker 3: It was, but she was checking for you.

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Speaker 1: I mean she was looking at I mean my Instagram. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: well everyone goes on social media. Yeah, but I'm just

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Speaker 1: saying there is a chance that she was talking to

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Speaker 1: someone else. So Jed needs to make it seem like

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Speaker 1: he was talking to other people.

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Speaker 4: Now, when you love someone, you're just gonna be all in.

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Speaker 4: You're not going to play the game. So Jed, do you,

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Speaker 4: like Katie said, you have her over like you plan

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Speaker 4: on it, and then you and and she had the conversation.

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Speaker 3: You need to bring your flowers though.

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Speaker 1: Let me put it to you like this, what, Joe,

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Speaker 1: did you get Chipotle a lot last week?

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Speaker 3: I did not?

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Speaker 1: Did you get Chipotle yesterday? I did? Have I've been

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Speaker 1: talking about getting Chipotle like every day. Jed has no

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Speaker 1: Joe has Are you kidding me? Have I been talking

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Speaker 1: about it? As Jed? Yes, two people who really wanted

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Speaker 1: did Katie say, hey, I kind of want to try Chipotle.

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Speaker 1: She did know she took a picture of q Dobin.

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Speaker 1: Do you mean delicious? Do you mean to tell me

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Speaker 1: that because the group was talking about how we wanted something,

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Speaker 1: that made you want something even more to the point

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Speaker 1: where you went and got it.

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Speaker 3: No, it's not that deep.

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Speaker 1: But to make therefore make yourself seem like you're wanted

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Speaker 1: by a lot, and then that you're turning it all down.

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Speaker 5: For her, that's a turn off for her. I don't

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Speaker 5: think he wants to take that chance.

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Speaker 1: Why would that be a turn off?

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Speaker 4: Because I don't want anybody that everybody's like all over

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Speaker 4: that's kind of just gross. And then it's just like,

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Speaker 4: are you even like understanding out with these other girls?

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Speaker 4: Hanging out with these it's called my games. We don't

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Speaker 4: like women don't like mind game. That's the turn off part. Well,

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Speaker 4: so if you wanted and you really want to be

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Speaker 4: with her forever, if you see this woman as your wife,

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Speaker 4: you won't play my games.

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Speaker 1: Ask Joe question, did you well? I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm getting too personal with this,

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Speaker 2: but did this ever happen with you and Alyssa and

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Speaker 2: you did it and it worked like where I asked.

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Speaker 1: You had a bunch of other speak from experience. You

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Speaker 1: know I didn't do that.

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Speaker 2: So did you do the flowers and balloon compilation like

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Speaker 2: you suggested to me?

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Speaker 1: Just now you know what I did do? So you wait,

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Speaker 1: so wait, hold on.

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Speaker 2: You just told me, Joe that you want me to

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Speaker 2: do all these things and you've never done them.

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Speaker 1: Your well, no, you know what I did do You

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Speaker 1: could do this? You want to steal this? This is

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Speaker 1: pretty good. Okay. The first time she ever came over, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she came over. Is she could? She could tell you

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Speaker 1: guys about this. This actually happened. When I got her,

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Speaker 1: brought her upstairs to my apartment, opened up the door.

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Speaker 1: Frank Sinatra was playing. I had candles lit, I had

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Speaker 1: fresh pasta. We had a pasta dinner, all different types

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Speaker 1: of pasta from Bella's. I seriously, I did this.

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Speaker 3: I believe you.

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Speaker 1: And the next thing, you know, she can't wait. She's

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Speaker 1: been stuck with me. No point in jazzk to be

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Speaker 1: studio one night and we were drinking and then I

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Speaker 1: was like, hey, me and you. It was on like

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Speaker 1: a late Friday night. Yeah, her to this studio.

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Speaker 3: Why are you doing? Yeah? So, will you have a

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Speaker 3: girlfriend by monday?

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Speaker 2: I will let you know, Ashley. I will let you

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Speaker 2: know how this evening goes, and then we'll talk about

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Speaker 2: it tomorrow morning.

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Speaker 1: He does what I do. I have a wife by monday.

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Speaker 3: You'll be divorced tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Sidebar. You know what kind of sucks. Three months ago,

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Speaker 1: we could have done this topic and I could have said, well,

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Speaker 1: there's one person in here who's engaged, take my advice.

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Speaker 1: I can't even do that anymore.

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Speaker 4: Engaged here yeah, yeah, to engage people now Acnically.

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Speaker 1: She's the expert. Yeah, she's the expert.

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Speaker 2: Can follow miss Summers because she's not always right, but

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Speaker 2: she's never wrong.

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Speaker 1: I got you, best of fly, thank you. He'll have it,

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Speaker 1: by the way, just side bet with us three day.

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Speaker 1: What do you think he's gonna have a girlfriend tonight? Tonight?

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Speaker 4: Definitely if she comes over tonight, if not Friday night.

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Speaker 1: Should be yourself at the end of the sess.

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Speaker 3: I know, Wait, what did you tell him himself? He said,

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Speaker 3: always you're not yourself when here with her.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying, instead of taking all of our advice.

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Speaker 1: Just do it. What is your plan? Then?

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Speaker 4: What is your plan?

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Speaker 1: Walk us through?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's sitting at dinner right now, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: Talk to him.

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Speaker 2: So Joe has Frank Sinatra playing right. I'm not a snatch,

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Speaker 2: no no, no, no more of a I'm a a. I'm

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Speaker 2: the grateful Jed. You know I'd like grateful dead music,

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Speaker 2: So probably have some of that with joh Mayor in

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Speaker 2: the background.

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Speaker 1: I'm making her some faith.

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Speaker 3: Is a wonder.

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Speaker 1: We'll have some.

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Speaker 2: We're doing some really hand crafted ramen tonight, so I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna have like a gourmet style ramen with vegetables in

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Speaker 2: a nice soft.

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Speaker 3: And she's not making you make this food this time.

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Speaker 2: So she helped me last time. My goal is to

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Speaker 2: teach her more. I think that's a good bonding experience.

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Speaker 3: Can you just cook for tonight?

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Speaker 1: Can she just do it with me? No?

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Speaker 3: Not, tonight's special. You're trying to get a girl for her, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: camp for her. Have it already laid out, please just tonight.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but she's got to buy the ice cream.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we wanted equality.

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Speaker 1: The cream, Queen.

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Speaker 2: No, I go to the Strahan's over off of Ault

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Speaker 2: nineteen stretches I don't know if it's straw on stretched,

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