1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,279 Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah Tampa Accident Attorneys. 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: Eight hundred four. 4 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: Ohn, ninety three ninety three. That is eight hundred four 5 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: Ohn nine ninety three ninety three. Ashley has a request 6 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: for people to stop asking certain questions, this one specifically 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: about kids. 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, this one's about kids. 9 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: So eight hundred four oh nine ninety three ninety three. 10 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: If you're getting asked a certain question, you feel like, 11 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: you know what, that just shouldn't be a question that 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:37,239 Speaker 1: people should be able to ask. Uh, I'm curious what 13 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: that is because I don't want to get any awkward conversation. 14 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's the worst, especially when you go back 15 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 3: home and you're visiting family and all your friends are 16 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 3: married and have kids, and they're just like, are you 17 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,639 Speaker 3: gonna have kids? Like what's up? Yeah, you know, you're 18 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 3: just gonna be an aunt. Do you want a family? 19 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 3: Do you want to leave a legacy? And it's just like, WHOA, No, 20 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 3: I don't want kids. And then they're very shocked when 21 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 3: you say that you don't want them, especially the older generation. 22 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 3: They're just like, you really don't want to leave anything 23 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 3: for children, Like you're working as hard for yourself. Yeah, 24 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 3: I am my niece Madeline Harron Harrison. 25 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 2: They can get it. You have said before though that 26 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: you wanted kids. What changed? 27 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 1: Uh? 28 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 2: The economy? It's expensive to have. 29 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 3: Kids is And then I think about when I'm on 30 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 3: FaceTime with my sister and how she just wants a 31 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 3: moment to herself. She can never be alone, like going 32 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 3: to the bathroom they're right there, or even coming home 33 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,839 Speaker 3: after work and not being able to just relax. 34 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: I just like, oh I can't want one, Well I 35 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: would like one too, And I've changed my tune on this. 36 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: Where can we go? 37 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 3: Get one? 38 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 2: Gettie? 39 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: Do people ask you that yes, all the time you 40 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 1: and Sean have been together for what. 41 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 4: We celebrated our tenth anniversary last week? 42 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: Has it been ten years of asking? Has it even 43 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 2: been longer than that? 44 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: Like have you have you been always been asked like 45 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: when do you want to have kids? Like your whole 46 00:01:58,560 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: life or what? Yes? 47 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 4: And I field personally, I think that it's like twenty 48 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 4: twenty six And why are we asking when a mats 49 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 4: you know, I mean, if that if that's something that 50 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 4: they want, I think that that is incredible. But there's 51 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 4: like a stigma sometimes around you have to have kids 52 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 4: or you're just your life just means nothing. 53 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: But what if they're just curious if you want to 54 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: have kids, like you can not say something life. 55 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: Like pregnant. What if I say like, hey, do you 56 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 2: want kids? When are you gonna have kids? Why are 57 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 2: you asking me that? 58 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 4: That's a asking someone how old they are or how 59 00:02:31,760 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 4: much do you weigh? 60 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 5: Like what? 61 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? 62 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: Ooh, this is an interesting question because Celeste, And this 63 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: is why I want to do this is I don't 64 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: want to be caught and awkward conversations. And I probably 65 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: would definitely follow up, uh, you know with this type 66 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: of question after I ask about kids to Ashley specifically 67 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: because you're lesbian, and you say, hey, stop asking me 68 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 1: how I'm gonna have kids? 69 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 6: Well, yeah, so the first question is always hey, you know, 70 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 6: because they're my girlfriend and I have been together for 71 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 6: almost three years, but she's the first girl that I've 72 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 6: ever dated, So the question is always, oh, you always 73 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 6: say that you want kids? How are you going to 74 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 6: have kids? 75 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 2: Now? 76 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 6: And I'm like God, I just look at people like 77 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 6: are you are you okay? Because there's one way to 78 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 6: have kids or. 79 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 3: Here's another one since we do have another lesbian on phone? 80 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 3: Who's the man? Who's the woman in the relationship? We're 81 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 3: both women? Oh my god, are you stupid? 82 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 6: You know what my response is to that? Always, I'm like, 83 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 6: neither one of us. 84 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 4: Is a guy. 85 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 6: I said, she's a girl because you know, my girlfriend 86 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 6: is the more mass presenting one. Yeah, And they're like, oh, 87 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 6: so is she like the guy? And I'm like, no, 88 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 6: she's a girl. 89 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: Right, if I wanted to date a guy with dated guy, 90 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 2: I really do you know? What? Can I ask? 91 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: Which one in the relationship plays softball? Let ask that that? 92 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god? 93 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: All right, Well, see I've been taking notes in the background. 94 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 2: Is because I asked all these questions. 95 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 3: These are all the questions I'm time of Joe asking me. 96 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 6: Hey, don't ask these questions. 97 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'm not going to. I'm not going 98 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: to so last, thank you, thank you so much. We 99 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: love you, Raffie, you say it. Just take my kids 100 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: for a couple of days and then I won't be 101 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: asking for any of them. 102 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 7: How's it going? 103 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: What appen? 104 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 5: So? 105 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 7: I'm I hate when my kids are they're being well behaved, right, 106 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 7: and then somebody comes up to me and they'll be like, well, 107 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 7: I like how they're well behaved. Are they all yours? 108 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 7: Last time? Last time somebody said that, I was like, no, 109 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 7: I rented one one. 110 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 3: Them. 111 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 7: But yeah, that that drives me crazy, Like you know, 112 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 7: those are things you shouldn't be asking. 113 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 2: Ask that. 114 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 7: I don't know because I have four kids and I 115 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 7: guess to them as it's a lot they go high. 116 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:08,279 Speaker 2: Something or have they ever asked? 117 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 3: Do they all have to say? 118 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 2: Mom? 119 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 5: Yeah they do. 120 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, they they actually have asked that. I don't even 121 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 7: I don't even answer them. I just look at them. 122 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 2: Good for you. Yeah, but. 123 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: Raffie of the best, lovy man, miss you by the way, hanging. 124 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 2: Out with Hey Tyler, Hey, y'all, how are you? 125 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 6: Tyler? 126 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 2: Tyler? What question do you not want to be asked? 127 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 5: I've been honestly, were just recently I've been hearing it, 128 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 5: just when are you gonna have kids? Yeah? I guess 129 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 5: it's hard because some people really struggle. Their circumstances don't 130 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 5: always allow for kids, even though you want them. But 131 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 5: it's it's tough, man, that's very tough. 132 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: Meanwhile, they're selfish people like Ashley who won't have a kid. 133 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 3: Everybody same thing with pets, adopt don't don't make I 134 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 3: don't think don't make them. 135 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 2: In the bedroom. 136 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: I hope you're not with pets. That's a good point, so, Tyler, Yeah. 137 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 2: Very true. 138 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 3: A lot of women can't can't. 139 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: By the way, I don't know if Alyssa and I 140 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: can't have kids. I don't know you don't, so like 141 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:28,600 Speaker 1: I probably you know, I don't mind the question right now, 142 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: but I probably won't like the question. 143 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 2: Yeah we can't. 144 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, when you find out. Yeah, thing is when you 145 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 5: know and nobody else knows, and you kind of have 146 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 5: to just kind of keeping it, you know, on the low. 147 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 5: It's it's hard, especially when people ask questions, and it 148 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,600 Speaker 5: can get very emotional because you. 149 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: Really want a baby. 150 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 3: You pay me three hundred thousand dollars, I will hang 151 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 3: a baby. 152 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, I'll keep that in mind. 153 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 2: I'll talk about. 154 00:06:55,520 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: Finances because I'm here, Tyler, will we'll talk to you. 155 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:03,799 Speaker 2: It'll be funny. 156 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 8: In ten months we're going to revisit this topic because 157 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 8: Joe's going to get the question. 158 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 2: Why are you guys gonna have kids? Listen? Could you man? 159 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 8: We get interns, Yeah, we got on layaway somewhere. 160 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 2: That's when I was in the studio. Well, it's Joon. 161 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 1: Like you're taking away to the mispronounced their name, you 162 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: miss spelled it. This portion of the Joe Show podcast 163 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: is powered by Fair and Farah, Tampa accident attorneys.