1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: I have an interesting decision to make. So somebody messaged 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: me on Instagram last night, or maybe it's it doesn't matter, 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: and they said, Okay, Dave, my husband is having a 4 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: birthday today Wednesday. We're going to a certain restaurant. And 5 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: I asked my husband, who would you like to have 6 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: dinner with, if you could have dinner with anybody, and 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: he said Dave Ryan. Oh okay, Wow, that's very flattering 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: and interesting. And she says, so here I go. We're 9 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: having dinner at this restaurant at seven o'clock on Wednesday night. 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: Here is your invitation to come join us for dinner. 11 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,480 Speaker 1: She said, you'd miss one hundred percent of the shot 12 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: you don't take. So here is me taking a shot. 13 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:43,319 Speaker 1: And I'm actually considering it. And I told Susan, I said, 14 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 1: that's very flattering. Yet at the same time, it's a 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: little bit weird. And I'm very flattered. But if I 16 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: took them up on it, I'd feel a little bit 17 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: like like I got hired, you know what I mean. 18 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, like you're an escort, got a work Yeah. 19 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: And it's like I'm sure they'd buy me dinner or whatever, 20 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: and and and Susan's like well, let's go buy and 21 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: we'll get dinner first, and then afterward we'll go over 22 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:10,759 Speaker 1: to their table and say hi. And I'm like, I'm 23 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: surprised she was up for it. Yeah, but and so 24 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: I'm not complaining at all. But I'm definitely one of 25 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: these people that once I leave the station, I don't 26 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: need attention. Once I leave the station, I don't need 27 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: to go home or be Dave Ryan down at cub 28 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: or Buyer Lee's or you know, Dix. I'm just you know, 29 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: your neighborhood guy, and I don't need to be Dave 30 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 1: Ryan after hours. Does that make sense? 31 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 3: Absolutely? I fucking loved being in Morocco knowing not a 32 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 3: single person there or would ever know who I am, 33 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 3: Like they're not, and not that I care that people 34 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 3: like never ever. I love it. I love meeting people. 35 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 3: But there is just like a weird pressure when you're 36 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 3: out and someone's looking at you and you're like, is 37 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 3: it because I have a big piece of spinach in 38 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: my teeth? Or do you know who I am? 39 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? I know somebody who And this was really this 40 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: seemed kind of very odd to me. It was Super 41 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: Bowl Sunday. So they went on Facebook and they said, Hey, 42 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 1: if you want me to come to your super Bowl party, 43 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: message me and I'll come to your super Bowl party. 44 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: And sure enough they did. They found a random person 45 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: on Facebook who said, yeah, come to my super Bowl party, 46 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: and they did. And to me that was like, man, 47 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: I don't need that kind of attention. 48 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: Yeh. 49 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: I can spend Super Bowl Sunday, you know, by myself 50 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,239 Speaker 1: or you know, with my friends or family or whatever. 51 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: But I think some people in our business really love 52 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: that attention. 53 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 2: Shaking hands, kissing babies, all of that jazz. 54 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 1: We went to see Martin Short at a casino one time, 55 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: ten fifteen years ago. 56 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 2: I thought, you hated him. 57 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: I don't like him, but don't I didn't mind him. 58 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: I don't like him in only murders in the building 59 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: because he's just over the top annoying. But you know, 60 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: we got invited or whatever, and the casino said, hey, 61 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 1: it's free, come on down. So we went and we 62 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: had a great time. Afterward, we were in the hotel 63 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: restaurant and Martin Short was having dinner with someone and 64 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: he was talking so loudly like he wanted everyone to know, 65 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's Martin Short over in the corner, 66 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: and I thought, here is a guy who loves being 67 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: noticed and famous. And again, like Jenny said, I don't mind. 68 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 1: I was at the gym last night. A woman says, 69 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: she says, Hi, are you Dave Ryan? And I said yeah. 70 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: She said I didn't know whether I should say hi 71 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: to you, or whether it's rude, or whether I'm interrupting 72 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: your workout and I said no, And I said no, 73 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: you're being terribly rude. And she laughed, and we talked 74 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: for probably fifteen minutes. 75 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: Oh nice. 76 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: And I said, so what do you come to the 77 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: gym for? And she's like, well, I'm turning fifteen next year. 78 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 1: Shout out, Jamie, if you're listening, I'm turning fifteen next year. 79 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: And I just want to, you know, kind of get 80 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: some of my old me back and muscles and you know, 81 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: fitness and whatever. And we just talked for like ten 82 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: or fifteen minutes, and I said, I'm really glad you. 83 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: I said, you gave me a break from my working out, 84 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: so I really appreciate it. So don't get us wrong. 85 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: We really appreciate when people want to acknowledge us, but 86 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 1: I don't need it. Yeah, you're not whereas what's. 87 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 2: That tinker Bell she needs applause to live? 88 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: Is that a true story? 89 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, like she dies and then you have to 90 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 2: clap your hands and she comes back to life. So 91 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 2: people say like, I'm not tinker Bell, I don't need 92 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 2: applause to live, or they'll say I am tinker Bell, 93 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 2: I need applause to live. Now. 94 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: In your passion, which is performing like improv and theater 95 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: and things like that, you probably run across that a 96 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: lot where it's like some tell me about it. 97 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 2: Just like there's especially musical theater people. I would say 98 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 2: those people are definitely need applause to live type people. 99 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 2: So I mean I go to I go to a 100 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:48,720 Speaker 2: lot of shows and everything, and I was just at 101 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 2: one on Monday called Musical Mondays, where it's essentially just 102 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 2: like a musical theater like cabaret type show, and tons 103 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 2: of musical theater people show up because it's Monday, and 104 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 2: so you don't have shows on Monday. So they all 105 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: show up and they all sit like right in the front. 106 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 2: They all are always like, Hi, oh Hi, what have 107 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 2: you got lined up? 108 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 1: Oh, it's so nice to see Oh my gosh. 109 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 2: And I just said quietly because I don't need to 110 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 2: be a part of that. Also, they don't know who 111 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 2: I am, even though I know who they are. 112 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: But I'll stop you for a second. But you're more 113 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: famous than anybody in musical theater. Well, there I said it. 114 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: You are. You're on a big, giant radio station. Sure 115 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: you there might be somebody who is like the lead 116 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 1: in Fiddler, and they might think they're really fucking huge. 117 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: But you're on a big radio station. But you are 118 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 1: more well known and probably more interesting than the woman 119 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 1: who played the lead in Fiddler on the Roof. 120 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: If they don't know who I am, though, then it 121 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 2: doesn't even matter, like I could be. 122 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: They do, but they don't want to admit it. 123 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 2: I don't think they know who I am. 124 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: Can't fair enough. 125 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 2: I just think like if you if you're in a 126 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 2: group of people that and no one knows who you are, 127 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: even if you are justin Timberlake, if no one in 128 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 2: this group knows who you are, you're nobody. 129 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: It's very well said. I mean, we could go to 130 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: Albert Lee, where the signal doesn't reach and the local 131 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: garbage hauler is more important than we are. Because you 132 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 1: don't know who we are. I'll just tell you a 133 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: little bit of a story where I kind of wanted 134 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,799 Speaker 1: people to know who I am. There is a Colorado 135 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: Broadcasters Club, like former radio and TV people in Colorado, 136 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 1: and so some friends of mine said, Hey, I used 137 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: to work in Colorado radio, so come to our next lunch. 138 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: So I went to their lunch and a few of 139 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: my friends know that, like, hey, I'm in a giant 140 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:35,000 Speaker 1: station in Minnesota and I've won this award and this 141 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: award or whatever. But the rest of them they didn't know. 142 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: And I'm looking around the table going these people were 143 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: like part timers at the jazz station, or this guy 144 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 1: was a camera operator over at Channel eleven. They're really 145 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: not a big deal, I thought, Because this is me. 146 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: I thought, I'm a way bigger deal than these people, 147 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 1: but they don't even know it. And I wasn't going 148 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 1: to stand up and go in case you don't know, 149 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 1: go ahead and google me. It's rand WB. But I 150 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: also didn't mind because they just treated me like everybody else. Yeah. 151 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 2: I think the only time I ever want to be recognized, 152 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: like explicitly is if I'm on a date with regular guy. 153 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: I have yet to be recognized, and I want somebody 154 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 2: to walk up to me so bad and be like, 155 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: excuse me, aren't you Bailey because they think it'll make 156 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 2: me look cool. 157 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 3: I the second date I had with the guy that 158 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 3: I've been seeing, someone came up to me because we 159 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 3: were on a popular patio somewhere and they're like Jenny, 160 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 3: and I was like, yeah, and I think she had 161 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 3: had a couple of cocktails already because they want to 162 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 3: celebrating her birthday. She's like, I knew it was you. 163 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 3: I saw your hair and like, I think we had 164 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 3: just gotten done. Also talking about like what it's like 165 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 3: to be on radio and just like the public part 166 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 3: of it. And then she's like, are you too on 167 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 3: a date? 168 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: Oh? 169 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 3: Then I was like and she's like, I know you are. 170 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 3: I listen to the show and I was like, okay, whatever, 171 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 3: So yeah, I mean shout out to her. I was 172 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 3: happy she said hi. It was just like crazy timing 173 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 3: with her saying that or coming up and saying hi, 174 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 3: and then I'm just. 175 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: Talking about, well, my thing is if we are important 176 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: enough for you to come up and say hi, then 177 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: you are important enough for me to spend a minute 178 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: or so saying hello to yeah, Because if I'm not important, 179 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: if you recognize because you used to listen in nineteen 180 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: ninety eight, and you're like, oh, that looks like Dave Ryan, 181 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: then I'm probably not that important to you. Then don't. 182 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: Then don't come up. You know what I mean. But 183 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 1: if we are, if you listen daily and you listen 184 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,559 Speaker 1: to our show and you know Bailey and vont and Jenny, 185 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 1: and you know my dog's name, then we appreciate you 186 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 1: so much. Please feel free to come up and say hi, 187 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 1: and I will be more than happy to like chat 188 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: with you, probably to the point. And I told Jamie 189 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,959 Speaker 1: last night, I said I talked too much. You're probably 190 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 1: going shit. I should have never said hi to Dave Ryan. 191 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: The motherfucker won't shut the fuck up. And she laughed 192 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: and Jamie, she's actually very funny. Okay, so there's that. 193 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: Let's get into the emails and see what we got. 194 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 1: Here we go. Question for Jenny, it's from a guy. 195 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 1: My girlfriend has not posted me on Instagram and we've 196 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 1: been together for six months. She still has pictures of 197 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: both her ex boyfriends, and I know for sure that 198 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: she posted them sooner than six months. I've never posted 199 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: someone on Instagram myself. Did you what do you think. 200 00:09:12,920 --> 00:09:18,079 Speaker 3: Jenny, I think that there is a new digital age 201 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 3: where if you remember the article that went viral like 202 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 3: a couple months ago where it said having a boyfriend 203 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 3: is embarrassing, Now, yes it's not. It was a very 204 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 3: clickbaity article, but it had a lot to do with 205 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 3: the fact that what happens is women will post their 206 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 3: significant other on social media and next thing they know, 207 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,319 Speaker 3: they have other women coming out of the wood. Would 208 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 3: work being like, oh, I'm sleeping with that person or 209 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 3: oh I dated that person or whatever it is. And 210 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 3: so I think like a lot of people hold off 211 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 3: posting their partners because they're they just want to make 212 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 3: sure you're like so into each other, you're definitely not 213 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 3: seeing anyone else, Yeah, stuff like that. And I don't know, 214 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 3: I mean, like it takes me a long time to 215 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 3: post someone. And I get where you're coming from because 216 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 3: you said that she posted the other guys soon. But 217 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 3: I just think it's a little bit different nowadays because 218 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 3: I mean, there's just so much cheating out in the world, 219 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 3: and a lot of it revolves around social media. So 220 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 3: there's like a little bit of fear to post someone 221 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 3: for the first time. Like Sydney that used to come 222 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 3: on our show. She was like habitually dating just piece 223 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 3: of shit men who always she would find out after 224 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 3: like she hard launched them on social media that they 225 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 3: were sleeping with other people or dating a bunch of 226 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 3: other people, and so she kind of like held off 227 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 3: then ever posting guys for a long time because she 228 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 3: was like, I'm sick of this shit, you know. 229 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 2: See, I interpreted the whole like having a boyfriend is 230 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 2: embarrassing in like a different way where it's like, oh, 231 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: I've curated my like single independent woman lifestyle and now 232 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 2: I have a boyfriend and that's embarrassing, Like, oh, so 233 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:44,960 Speaker 2: I'm not going to post him because then that'll like 234 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 2: kind of tarnish the brand of like single, independent, strong woman. 235 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 2: And that's how I feel usually where it's like, oh, hey, friend, 236 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 2: I haven't seen in a while, just so you know, 237 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 2: I have a boyfriend now. When I've like created this 238 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 2: whole like I don't need anybody kind of brand. 239 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: I think that's fucked up. And I'm gonna tell you 240 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: why we all want someone, Well, yeah, we all want 241 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 1: and to pretend that we don't want someone, And I'm 242 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: not saying every there's a lot of people who are 243 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 1: single and happy. And I know several women who are 244 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: wonderful and they're like, I don't want a boyfriend. And 245 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: it's like, but we all want generally someone to you know, 246 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: share our day with, or to make us feel adored, 247 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 1: or to make us feel attractive. And I think that's 248 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: where a lot of people is, Like I know so 249 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 1: many people who they don't want a boyfriend so they 250 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: can say, look at me, I've got a boyfriend. They 251 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: want a boyfriend or a partner so they can you know, 252 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: cuddle with somebody under a blanket and watch rom coms. 253 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I would argue that if you are posting 254 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 3: your partner, like pretty quickly you are doing, you are 255 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 3: having a partner because of that, like look at me, 256 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:50,079 Speaker 3: look I have a bos. 257 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: I would agree, Yeah, I think so. Yeah, I don't know. 258 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know if you said his name, 259 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 3: I can't remember what it was. But Michael, okay, Michael, 260 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 3: I would say, don't be concerned about it. And unless 261 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 3: you like in a year, she's still like not posting 262 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 3: a single thing, like if she's not even posting maybe 263 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 3: a story with you, then maybe that's and there. 264 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 1: Is something to that It's like I've known God, I 265 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 1: don't remember exactly who, but I've worked with people on 266 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 1: this show who are like, yeah, don't mention that I'm 267 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: seeing some guy. And the reason was because she was 268 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: still seeing another guy and she didn't want people, you know, 269 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: she didn't want guy number one to hear about guy 270 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: number two on the radio. And I don't remember all 271 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: the details, but I don't remember exactly who that was either, 272 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: So I will tell you this. It was not Fallon, 273 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 1: but I don't remember who it was. Okay, next one 274 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: kind of a weird one, but we'll read it anyway. 275 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: Anonymous want to bring up that. On Monday, during the show, 276 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: Jenny mentioned how the Weekend made history on Spotify, and 277 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: Vont talked about how the Weekend is underrated. But not 278 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: even two months ago, Vont talked on the Morning Show 279 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: and his own podcast, Monday Morning Commute how the Weekend 280 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: was overrated and didn't get the hype about him. I 281 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,320 Speaker 1: love you, Vont, but please pick aside and stay there. 282 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: Sorry if that's snarky, but I had to say something, 283 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 1: l ol. Love y'all. Happy New Year. Do you remember 284 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 1: any of that? You don't listen to Vont's other podcast. 285 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 3: No, I don't, but she I think they said that. 286 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 3: He said it on the show too. I think Vont 287 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 3: likes to contradict things a lot, just to be contradictory. 288 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 1: I guess what I was gonna say. 289 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I think he says some things just to 290 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 3: like stir the pot, which is why he has his 291 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:33,199 Speaker 3: feature of monsters the pot, and he doesn't necessarily always 292 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 3: mean them. And then he forgets what he said, and 293 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 3: then he actually says what he feels, which is that 294 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 3: the weekend is underrated. 295 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 1: So I get that, And I think sometimes Vont and 296 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 1: I both get to do the polar opposite of something 297 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: just to keep it interesting. And it's kind of like 298 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 1: my theory goes like this, Like on Friends, if everybody 299 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: was as goofy as Phoebe, or everybody was as nerdy 300 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: as Ross, or everybody was like bro ish as Joey, 301 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,959 Speaker 1: the show would have been stupid. Yeah, And that's why 302 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: there's so many different opposites on Friends or any classic 303 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: TV show. And kind of like on our show, if 304 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: everybody on the show agrees, I'll throw something out there stupid. 305 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 1: If everybody agrees that chicken wild Rice is the best 306 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 1: soup there is. Well, then it's boring, So one of 307 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 1: us on the show will take the polar opposite and 308 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 1: be like, oh god, no it's and Vont's really good 309 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: at doing that. Yeah, he is all right. Next one 310 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: from our friend Mike. He says, is there's something left 311 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: over from twenty twenty five that will you will do, 312 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 1: accomplish or fulfill in twenty twenty six, And off the 313 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 1: top of my head, the only thing that I can 314 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: think of that I want to do is kind of 315 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: really not a leftover. But Jenny brought this up the 316 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: other day when we made New Year's resolutions for each other, 317 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: climb a mountain in Colorado or somewhere that's not Pike's Peak, 318 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: and so I really want to do that. So I 319 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: think next year, instead of climbing Peak for the third time, 320 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: I will probably get do some exploring and find another 321 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: peak that's challenging but doable. You guys have anything that 322 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: comes to mind, Yeah. 323 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 3: Mine would be to build out my van a little 324 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 3: bit more, because that was originally going to be a 325 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: plan when I had a partner, and that obviously was 326 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 3: no longer, so then I jumped into remodeling my kitchen instead, 327 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,800 Speaker 3: and that's a project I can only do when it's 328 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 3: nice weather out, so like I'm currently at a stalemate 329 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 3: waiting till it's nice again to do anything with the van. Really, 330 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 3: so it's kind of a leftover from twenty twenty five 331 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 3: is to I really just want a sink. That's all 332 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 3: I fucking want is something. 333 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: That seems like a pretty crucial thing. 334 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 3: I deal with no shower, I can deal with no 335 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 3: toilet and all that, and I don't want to have 336 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 3: a bunch of stuff in there because I like to 337 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 3: have the space that I have, but I just want 338 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 3: some running water, because that's just the most complicated part 339 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 3: of like cooking and doing dishes afterwards, or simply needing 340 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 3: to wash your hands real quick, and say I got 341 00:15:58,160 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 3: to get a big jug out, or I got to 342 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,000 Speaker 3: get my plant spray, or I used to shower out 343 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 3: like all that stuff. 344 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: There is a thing, and my dad had one in 345 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: his camper van. It was not a real sink, but 346 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: it was a bladder with a nozzle on the end 347 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: of it. You've seen those, right, Yeah, Okay, I was 348 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: going to suggest that, but apparently you've heard of it. 349 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 1: I remember very clearly that being used for maybe drinking water, 350 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: but he put a little bowl underneath the other something 351 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 1: for washing your hands. And we went elk hunting one time. 352 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 1: Cleaning the elk, you get this disgusting, fleshy meat smell 353 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: on your hands, Okay, And I remember trying to walk 354 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 1: and I can still smell it. And this was in 355 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: high school, trying to use that little bladder trickling water 356 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: to wash the elk stink off my hands, and it 357 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: was just Bailey, it was just all nasty. 358 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 3: You learned really quickly when you don't have access to 359 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 3: running water that's like a faucet level of the like 360 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 3: the stream of the water, how much that matters, Like 361 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 3: the trickle of that To try to wash your hands 362 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 3: of something so aggressive, it's just like it's so different 363 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 3: than just being like pop your hands on her wristinkt such. 364 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 1: A luxury, It really is such a luxury. Okay. Last 365 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: one this is from Ali. I'm writing to answer your 366 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 1: question if little girls still practice song and dance routines. 367 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:19,160 Speaker 1: And we were talking about this because I think Jenny 368 00:17:19,200 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 1: brought it up, like you and your friends would practice 369 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: a spice girl routine or was it Bailey? 370 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:24,719 Speaker 2: Bailey kind of brought up the question, Yeah, that like 371 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 2: so Jenny said that she used to like listen to 372 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 2: the Spice Girls and come up with like a little dance. 373 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:34,439 Speaker 2: And that's like what I remember from being a kid 374 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 2: and being younger is that you would go over to 375 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 2: your friend's house and then you would want to convince 376 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 2: their parents that you could have a sleepover. So you 377 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 2: would create like a full choreograph number to whatever hit 378 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 2: song you wanted to choreograph a number two, and then 379 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 2: you would go and you'd show them and you'd be like, hey, 380 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 2: we want to sleepover. We prepared this performance for you, 381 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 2: and now we will do it. Thank you, and like 382 00:17:57,040 --> 00:17:59,320 Speaker 2: do this whole song and dance. And now I wonder, like, 383 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,439 Speaker 2: do care still do that? 384 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: Allie says yes. My daughter is seven and a half 385 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 1: and at a recent played eight, she and her friend 386 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: spent hours making up a routine to a K pop 387 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 1: demon Hunter song and then performed it for us parents. 388 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: It was very cute hours and she's seven and a half. 389 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: Can you imagine how seriously you take that at seven 390 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 1: and a half? Yeah, because you really think you're doing 391 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 1: pretty good. You're really good. 392 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 2: I remember sitting and watching my she's not my real niece, 393 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 2: my fake niece. When she was like ten, she'd be like, 394 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 2: hold on, I want to do this dance for you. 395 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 2: Can you just like sit and watch me? And she 396 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 2: would just go on and on and on, and it 397 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 2: wasn't like good, but she was putting her all into it. 398 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 2: So I would sit and entertain it because it's at 399 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 2: least funny, like what. 400 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 1: Sure, and it's increag. You got to encourage them because 401 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:47,199 Speaker 1: you do so good. I remember when I was a kid, 402 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 1: boys probably do that, but we did not. We put 403 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:53,119 Speaker 1: together a play like a comedy play, yes, when I 404 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 1: was probably in second grade or so, and we called 405 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 1: it the Hippie Hour, and we spelled our oh you 406 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,959 Speaker 1: are because we didn't know how to spell. And so 407 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 1: my friend's mom comes in the bedroom sits on a 408 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 1: chair like she's in the audience, and we hadn't practiced, 409 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 1: and we had lived through it, and I still remember 410 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 1: her looking her. She looked tired, she looked disheveled, she 411 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: looked really bored, and we kind of ad lived our 412 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:19,719 Speaker 1: way through a couple of funny things and then she's like, 413 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: you guys, let me know when you practice more, and 414 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: I'll come back so on a side note, says Ali. 415 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: When I was little, my friends and I pretended to 416 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 1: be the Spice Girls. I was always scary Spice and 417 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,399 Speaker 1: I also remember memorizing all the lines to the cheers 418 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 1: from Bring It On and performing I Love Rock and 419 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: Roll from the Britney Spears movie Good Times Crossroads. Question 420 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: for you all, sorry if you've already done this. If 421 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 1: you had to pick a word of the year for 422 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:50,640 Speaker 1: twenty twenty six, what would it be? Please explain. I'm 423 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,160 Speaker 1: gonna guess she means a word of the year from 424 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, because I don't know what the word 425 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 1: of the year would be yet for twenty twenty six. 426 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 1: I haven't had time to think about it. 427 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 3: I have an answer for this because I did an 428 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 3: exercise over the holidays that kind of involved this. I 429 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 3: would say that mine is resilience because I just feel 430 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 3: like I went through a pretty big life changing event 431 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 3: I didn't see coming in twenty twenty five, and I 432 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 3: got through it, and. 433 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 1: I, well, you're gonna tell us what happened anyway, because 434 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: everybody asked me all the time, everybody what happened with Jenny? 435 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 1: What happened? What happened, and I'm like, I don't know. 436 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: She won't tell us, So I make up stories and 437 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: I say that the guy was a drug mule. Yeah, 438 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 1: and he got arrested. He's now in Stillwater. So but anyway, 439 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 1: you had a bad year. 440 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 3: Resilience, Yeah, resilience just because I got through the year. 441 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 3: And I mean, I'm not going to sit and say 442 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,920 Speaker 3: that I'm like so great now. I'm not. I still 443 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 3: struggle with things. But I also like did a lot 444 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 3: of shit to like make myself feel better. I didn't 445 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 3: just sit around and lay around. I started remodeling my kitchen, 446 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 3: I got out in the van. 447 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: Still, you've done so amazing with that stuff. You really have. 448 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 3: I really tried to like keep moving on in life. 449 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 3: So I feel like resilience was my word for twenty 450 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 3: twenty five. 451 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: I really like that because you a lot of people 452 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: when something bad happens, and I've been guilty of this. 453 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: Something bad happens and you just sink into the couch 454 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: and then you watch something and then it's like, you 455 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:09,399 Speaker 1: know what sounds good, pizza roles, So you make a 456 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,360 Speaker 1: big bowl of pizza rolls and then you sink into 457 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:14,199 Speaker 1: the couch deeper than you take a nap and then 458 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 1: you wake up and you and so I really admire 459 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: you because I think a lot of people you have 460 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: busied and preoccupied your mind with something productive and meaningful. 461 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, And I'm not gonna lie and say 462 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 3: that I didn't experience that. I experienced that for probably 463 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 3: a month, but then I knew I had to like 464 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 3: keep living on living my life. It was just like 465 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 3: a month of like I didn't know what my life 466 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 3: was because it just changed in the blink of an eye, 467 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 3: like the future. I thought, what happened? 468 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: Anyway, Shut the fuck up, I'm just trying to make conversation. 469 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,120 Speaker 2: Words. I can't. I literally just looked it up because 470 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 2: I can't think of one word. But like, I had 471 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 2: to figure out what I accomplished in twenty twenty five 472 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,919 Speaker 2: because it didn't really feel like anything that I usually 473 00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 2: did as an accomplishment. But if you could make one 474 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 2: word putting yourself out there into one word, I would 475 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 2: say I put myself out there because I The only 476 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 2: thing I did differently in twenty twenty five that I 477 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 2: don't normally do is I went on seven I dated 478 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 2: seven different men. I went to like ten different pitch 479 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 2: of friend events, which are singles events. I did single 480 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 2: stuff like all year in order to find somebody to love. 481 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: So I think that was an accomplishment, even though it didn't. 482 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 1: It in a moment. Oh absolutely. 483 00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 2: And that's like after going from like a relationship that 484 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 2: was four years and then not anymore. So then it 485 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: was like, well, okay, I don't want to do this 486 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 2: trash for the rest of my life and just be alone. 487 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 2: So I yeah, put myself out there, if that was 488 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 2: a word. 489 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that. 490 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 3: I was just thinking about you the other day, Bailey, 491 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 3: just because of like hearing the updates with regular guy, 492 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 3: and I was like, man, Bailey didn't even want to 493 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,719 Speaker 3: get on a dating now. No, I didn't have that stuff, 494 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,719 Speaker 3: and now look at it. I was just so happy 495 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 3: for you. 496 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: Peak behind the Curtain. The only reason I got the 497 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 2: freaking dating app was because we had like this coach 498 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 2: guy say that that would make some really good content 499 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 2: and I was like, fine, I'll download the dating app. 500 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:13,160 Speaker 2: Remember that consultant, Yeah, yeah, yeah, your the single thing. 501 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 2: People love the single thing. And I was like, yeah, 502 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 2: I was thinking about downloading hine. 503 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: He's like, do it. 504 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,239 Speaker 2: We want to hear all about every hinge date you've 505 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,679 Speaker 2: ever gone on. And it was cute because too I 506 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 2: got to like kind of do it with Katie Cap 507 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 2: And now she's got a boyfriend, so like, yeah, we 508 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 2: like we did the same We had essentially the same year, 509 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,160 Speaker 2: so like we went on a bunch of hinge dates. 510 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 2: She went on eight billion more than I did, and 511 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 2: we went to a ton of those pitch of friend 512 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,680 Speaker 2: events and it worked out for us, I guess. 513 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 3: And you forget that you went on the Date Night podcast. 514 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,360 Speaker 1: And I did go on the Date Night podcast. 515 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 3: It was so fun. 516 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:42,880 Speaker 2: Man, that was fun. 517 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 3: Well I was fun mineus how that ye treated you? 518 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 1: But whatever? 519 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 2: Who he's He told me he wasn't attracted to me 520 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 2: and he had to like go out of his way 521 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 2: to tell me that he picked He didn't pick me 522 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 2: because I wasn't attractive. 523 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 3: But mind you, they they had the absolute best date. 524 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,400 Speaker 3: Because you watch people go on like three dates, it's 525 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 3: like a live podcast. Okay, So I went and Bailey 526 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 3: was the first one and everyone like rated her the highest. 527 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that was the favorite. 528 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 3: I'll feel bad if this girl ever hears it, but whatever, 529 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 3: but he picked the girl who I thought was the 530 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 3: least entertaining. She didn't have much to say. She just 531 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:20,120 Speaker 3: there wasn't much going on up there, honestly. 532 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 2: But she's prettiest one. 533 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:24,480 Speaker 3: But see, and I didn't even think that she was like. 534 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 1: That, Well it's all subjective. Yeah, no, I get that. Okay, 535 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 1: that was fun though, And. 536 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:33,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, what was your word? 537 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: Thank you for asking? That's what I was waiting for. 538 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:36,360 Speaker 1: I didn't know it. I was going to see whether 539 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: you noticed or not. I would say meaningful. And then, 540 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,480 Speaker 1: and the reason I chose that was when this question 541 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 1: was first asked, what would the word of the year 542 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: be in twenty twenty five? I thought it meant like 543 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 1: six seven or you know, something like what's a trendy word? 544 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 1: But but I like Jenny's yours is resilient, So I 545 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 1: would say meaningful. And I think you get to a 546 00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 1: point in your life where it's like I want to 547 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: have do something that's me meaningful. And I look at 548 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:06,479 Speaker 1: this show sometimes from two different perspectives. I look at 549 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,439 Speaker 1: it as like we do these silly things, we do 550 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: War of the Roses, and it's not to me, it's 551 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 1: not meaningful. It's just like a silly thing. Whatever we do. 552 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: Think fast and it's silly and it's not meaningful. We 553 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 1: do Dave's Dirt and it's silly and it's not meaningful. 554 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: But the meaning for me comes in not for me Dave, 555 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 1: but for the people who listen to the show. And 556 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 1: that's where it becomes meaningful. And what do I mean 557 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 1: by that? I mean that people who are having a 558 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 1: bad day, or are lonely, or maybe just broke up 559 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,760 Speaker 1: or lost their mom or their dog is you know, 560 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: sick or whatever. War of the Roses, Dave's Dirt and 561 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 1: Think Fast become meaningful for you. And don't get me wrong, 562 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: it's not meaningless for me. I just don't care about 563 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,239 Speaker 1: War of the Roses, you know what I mean? Does 564 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: that make any sense? And I don't care about War 565 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: of the Roses? 566 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:57,879 Speaker 2: You don't have a horse in the race? 567 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 1: I don't, and and I don't care about Think Fast. 568 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: I don't go God, you know, I'm really oh man, 569 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,919 Speaker 1: Think Fastest. It's an epic part of my day. But 570 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: where it becomes meaningful is for the people who listen. Because, 571 00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: unlike I think a lot of entertainers, if you want 572 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,840 Speaker 1: to call us entertainers, I don't get a kick out 573 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: of being Dave, Ryan, I get a kick out of 574 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 1: you appreciating the show because I think in our life, 575 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: what do we all want mean? Yeah? What were you 576 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 1: going to say, Bailey? Money? Fair enough? Fair enough? But 577 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: I think at the end of your life, or you 578 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: know you, at whatever point in your life, you want meaning. Well, 579 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: you want to be a meaningful parent or a meaningful friend. 580 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,640 Speaker 1: You know, you don't want to get up and change 581 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: your kid's diaper at one o'clock in the morning, give 582 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:50,480 Speaker 1: them a bottle, no, but you need to because it's 583 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: you've got to have meaning. You don't want to go 584 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 1: to your kids' sports games every fucking weekend, but you 585 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,959 Speaker 1: want your kid to remember Mom went to my soccer 586 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: games or my hockey games. So it's meaning doesn't make 587 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 1: any sense? Yeah, okay, good, I like that. 588 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 3: I think that's a great word for you, Dave, Thank you, and. 589 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 1: That is going to do it. What is your word 590 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,880 Speaker 1: for twenty twenty five? But I think it's a better 591 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: word for twenty twenty six And maybe that's what she meant. 592 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 1: So thank you Ali for that very meaningful email. Send 593 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 1: your email. Whether it's meaningful or stupid, we don't care. 594 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: We would just love to hear from you, Send it 595 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: to Ryan Show at kadiwb dot com.