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Speaker 2: Kadin's gonna have to sit this round out, And because

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Speaker 1: You, Hello, John Jay and Rich listeners. I am Peyton's grandma.

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Speaker 1: I am the grandma to Dominique and Jalen. I am

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Speaker 1: high five time. Literally. We lived a very quiet life,

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Speaker 1: You don't want to know why we all broke up.

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Speaker 1: You know, you treasure relationships, you value me do?

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Speaker 2: family that is can help with drug rehabilitation stuff like

438
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 2: that with Uncle.

439
00:22:55,840 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: T and everything is Maddie sober now back sober to go.

440
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 2: She looks good.

441
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 3: She's working at the zips over off the Central.

442
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 1: Good for her.

443
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 3: Jalen saw her.

444
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 2: And said she didn't even recognize her.

445
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 1: Wow, that's wonderful. Yeah, I love Maddie, me too. I

446
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: love Maddie me too. That's one other beautiful thing about

447
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,160
Speaker 1: growing up with you kids in that house in Agrotopia.

448
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: So the eight or nine years that we were there,

449
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 1: Jalen would come down and early in the morning, he'd

450
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 1: get out of bed. He doesn't do that anymore. Well,

451
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: he does when he goes to work, but if he

452
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: doesn't have to get up, he's not gonna. But he

453
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 1: would come down and he and I would have breakfast. Well,

454
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 1: he'd have breakfast, I'd lay off the cereals or what

455
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: do you want to eat? And we'd have this we'd talk.

456
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: And so one day Miranda said, hey, do you want

457
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 1: to go someplace? It was early in the morning for

458
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: something at school. I don't remember what it was. Do

459
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: you want me to take you to school for this

460
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 1: morning pep rally or whatever the hell it was. And

461
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, no, Memy and I have our routine

462
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 1: and I'm not going to be the one to break.

463
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: It was so wonderful, you know, that was so so wonderful.

464
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: But that encapsulated, like I got to be a part

465
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 1: of your life. Although I can never ever ever chaperone

466
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: when your slumber parties. Again, we have to get into this.

467
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 3: We have to get in because that is wild.

468
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 2: I need. We were I think I was in the

469
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 2: fifth grade, fifth sixth grade, like I said, and didn't

470
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 2: move out until we were We didn't sell that house

471
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 2: until I was a sophomore in college.

472
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 3: So that's a lot of life to be lived right there.

473
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 3: So I'm curious.

474
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 2: To know, like what it was like kind of being

475
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: behind the scenes in the sense of like my mom

476
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 2: and dad being the parents and having to crack down

477
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: on certain things like that. Because my sister Dominique, I

478
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 2: mean dom by the time we moved into that house.

479
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: Was basically senior.

480
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,120
Speaker 3: I think she was there like her senior year.

481
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: Or maybe a junior, I don't remember.

482
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 3: Something like that.

483
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 2: She was going to Bash, a high school where I

484
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,959
Speaker 2: currently coach at, and she wasn't around for long, Like

485
00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 2: I just remember Don would come back very ever so

486
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 2: from college. Yeah, so it was really I mean Dominique

487
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 2: got into some trouble in high school and stuff like that.

488
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 2: I mean, she would like go and stay the night

489
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 2: at Blake's house. Blake is my sister's baby daddy.

490
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 3: For those that don't know.

491
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: But mercifully I was kept out of that loop.

492
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: She would go and spend the night at his house,

493
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 2: say that she was at another friend's house and all

494
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. She would go to parties, but

495
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 2: like I never really had when Dominique had a boyfriend,

496
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 2: I was. I mean, when Blake started coming around, I

497
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: was probably eight or nine. I was super young, and

498
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: I remember always telling myself, like, I'm never having a boyfriend.

499
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 2: My sister has a boyfriend and they're annoying and they're

500
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 2: always together and they always get in trouble.

501
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 3: I never have some boys.

502
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 1: But I have to interject right here, because when you

503
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 1: were three or four years old, Aunt two said, Peyton,

504
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: do you know what you want to be when you

505
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,239
Speaker 1: grow up? And he said, yes, I want to be

506
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: a mommy. And I want a whole lot of baby daddies.

507
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 1: I want that, Yes you did.

508
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 3: I want a whole lot. I want a whole lot

509
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 3: of babies with the whole.

510
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: Well, the baby daddies. You call them baby daddies, And

511
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 1: so here you are, four years old. I want ten

512
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: babies with ten baby daddies or whatever wants the baby daddies.

513
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 1: That's the time much adorable.

514
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: For one, I don't want a baby daddy, and for two,

515
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 2: I definitely don't want lots of them.

516
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: Well, you know what it was? It was key too

517
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: because your mom her answer to that question when she

518
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: was about that same age as somebody said what do

519
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: you want to be? And she said, I want to

520
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 1: be a team mother. Well she said team t E

521
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: A M. And I thought she said T.

522
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 2: E E M, and I went she did mark off

523
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 2: the team pregnancy or teen mother?

524
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: She was nineteen when she was nineteen, that's okay, but no,

525
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 1: she said, mother, that's all she curs.

526
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,439
Speaker 3: I think I'm the oldest by far to not have

527
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 3: any kids.

528
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: But that's okay. Hey, it's good, it's it's really good.

529
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 2: I just want to be married. We'll probably wait out

530
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 2: a couple of years for sure, but we'll figure it out.

531
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 1: I didn't even have my wisdom teeth yet, you know,

532
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 1: I was. I was just a baby.

533
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 2: So MEMI, so tell us, like, tell me some of

534
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,760
Speaker 2: the things that you remember, like being in the background

535
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 2: of like did mom ever come to you and be

536
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 2: like WTF?

537
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 3: Like what do I do here?

538
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 1: You know, I tried really hard to recognize that that

539
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm the grandparent and the parents were all in the

540
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 1: same house, and I needed to make sure that I

541
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: did not offer advice or anything unless I was requested.

542
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: So I really stayed out of your of their business

543
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,280
Speaker 1: as far as raising you can. And but there were,

544
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: you know, there were times where you involved me. Dominique.

545
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,959
Speaker 1: You said was had problems in troubles. You were the

546
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: biggest trouble.

547
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 3: I disagree.

548
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 1: You know, well, I can only say that you had

549
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: a slumber party and you guys, that's when you guys

550
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: were down in the basement. Ye we were, and the

551
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,919
Speaker 1: kids were in the basement, and and I was in

552
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,440
Speaker 1: the middle. I always stayed in the middle. I were there.

553
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: And then that slipped, you know, once or twice where

554
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: the parents were in the bo.

555
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 2: Because Jalen was scared. Once Dominique moved out, Jalen was

556
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 2: too scared to sleep in the basement alone.

557
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's the reason you guys wanted to wound

558
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: up upstairs. But anyway, so you have a slubber party,

559
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: and and uh you said, I went downstairs and I said, okay, kids,

560
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: I'm going to go to bed. It was like eleven

561
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: or whatever. It was. Everybody good, everybody's fine, Yeah, you're

562
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: watching a movie in that movie room and that in

563
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: a room, and everybody was doing good. Everybody had food

564
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: and whatever. Then apparently when I went upstairs to go

565
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: to sleep, which I slept through you guys rating Dominique's

566
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: bar and stealing all the vodka and tequila, everybody got

567
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: stinking drunk. I did not, Well, you might not have.

568
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, but all the kids

569
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: are there, and then I guess a few of them

570
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: decided they would post selfies topless, ye or whatever. I

571
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 1: don't say.

572
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 2: No, what happened was, oh my god, So things were

573
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 2: starting to get weird. I remember being at that sleepover,

574
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 2: and I remember it was like two of my friends,

575
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 2: and then there was another girl that went to school

576
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: with us, but she wasn't really like our friends were.

577
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,239
Speaker 2: I think we were freshmen in high school. We were

578
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 2: freshmen in high school. And I remember thinking like, oh,

579
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: things are getting weird over here, like I'm not really

580
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 2: liking the and I didn't like it because I was

581
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 2: at my house. But it's also one o'clock in the morning.

582
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell these girls they have to go.

583
00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna go wake you up. Like, I'm just

584
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 2: like okay, guys, like I'm going to bed. I wake

585
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 2: up the next morning, they're like sick. I'm like, what happened?

586
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 2: Come to find out, they raided Dominique's. They went into

587
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 2: Dominique's closet, which I'm sure I showed them, you know

588
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 2: what I mean, I'm sure I probably and there was like, well,

589
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 2: I'm sure I said something, and then yeah, I remember.

590
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 2: I actually didn't know until the following Monday. I got

591
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 2: called into the principal's office because they didn't go to

592
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 2: the same school as as I did. They went to

593
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 2: like Perry or something, but they were my friends from

594
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 2: middle school. And yeah, I got called in the principal

595
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 2: office because there was a picture of them talkless in

596
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 2: my room, and apparently that they that this picture got

597
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 2: sent to some boy that they liked, and then that

598
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: picture getting circulated.

599
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 3: It was this whole thing. I almost got suspended.

600
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 2: I was like, I swear, I have no idea what

601
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 2: is going on here?

602
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: Well, I have to tell you I found out about

603
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: it a little earlier than you did, because about five

604
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: thirty in the morning, somebody's banging on the front door

605
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: and it's the mother of one of the kids that

606
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: are in the basement, apparently hungover, saying you will never

607
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: watch my child. They will never come over here again.

608
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: Because I saw that and I said, oh my god,

609
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: I'm where were you?

610
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 2: I remember I wrote a letter because they lived in

611
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 2: our neighborhood. She was someone that we went to school

612
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: where we were going to school in Chandler, but lived

613
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 2: all the way out where we were in Gilbert.

614
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 3: It just happened by chance that we lived in the

615
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 3: same neighborhood. I remember I.

616
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 2: Wrote a letter to her mom, like please, I'm so sorry.

617
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 3: I didn't know, like this is my friend. I never

618
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 3: got anything back.

619
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: She ended up transferring schools, like I think, she ended

620
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 2: up homeschooled, and.

621
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 3: Then that was it. But now she's like married and

622
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:00,040
Speaker 3: has a kid and whatever she's.

623
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: I used to walk my dog by by their house

624
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: because Zagaratopea is really small, so I used to walk

625
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: bus to grals and uh. I can remember her being

626
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: up on the mom being up on the porch, the porch,

627
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: and she'd flipped me off.

628
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, no way, okay, no, that's actually really honey.

629
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 3: I wish you would have told you more.

630
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 2: But that's funny that you say that, because there's something

631
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 2: a little off about that family.

632
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 1: So the fact, yeah, she was very they were very odd.

633
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: But there was also another time. There was another time, uh,

634
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: where you and Jalen had a party when your mom

635
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 1: and I wered of town. I guess your dad might

636
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: have been with us, And when I got home, I thought,

637
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: I said, something's wrong.

638
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 3: So that was when I went you dad, and mom

639
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 3: took me to you taught the.

640
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: Oh, so it's just so that's what you were with us.

641
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: So I was with you and Jalen was supposed to

642
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: be staying at Dominique.

643
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 2: Exactly and kind of how that happened and is Jalen

644
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 2: told me because Jalen was a junior in high school

645
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 2: going into his senior year. Was the summer going into

646
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 2: his senior year, and yeah, and I remember Jalen told

647
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: me he was going to have this party and I

648
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 2: was like, okay, well, I'm gonna send Kelsey and Haley,

649
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 2: my two of my best friends. I said to make

650
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 2: him check on the house to make sure you guys

651
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 2: don't burn the house down. So my two friends sat

652
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 2: outside of the party the entire night while all this

653
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:26,480
Speaker 2: chaos was going.

654
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: So you knew that there was a party. Well what

655
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: turned out? So we get home and the house is

656
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: is there's just something wrong? Like everything was clean. So me,

657
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: I went right out to the trash, can you know,

658
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: to see what's in the you know, what's in there? Right?

659
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: Where's the beer and whatever? Nothing?

660
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 3: It's clean and Catholic kids will it's.

661
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: Clean, you know, I said, okay, great. So when I

662
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: wound up going to bed that night, I pulled back

663
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: my blanket and I couldn't see the imprint of two

664
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 1: heads and two bodies like two on my pillow and

665
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: on the sheets, and they are in a clothes embrace.

666
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:09,760
Speaker 1: And I'm like, Jayleen, they dad, get here right now.

667
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 1: And it turned out that it was that they'd had

668
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 1: a party. And then, of course, as soon as we

669
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: knew there really was one, then it was the barf

670
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 1: by the toilet and around his office there was a

671
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 1: sign that Jalen left on the door that said don't

672
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: come in hear my mother's office, that kind of stuff.

673
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: So he really thought it well, you know, thought it

674
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: through pretty well. But what the best thing in the

675
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: whole world was when I went to go to bed

676
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 1: that night, I reached I open up the drawer in

677
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: my bathroom where I keep my toothbrush, and I used

678
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: to bust. I used to brush my dog's teeth every

679
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,800
Speaker 1: single day, every morning, every night, my beautiful bust and

680
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: girls got his teeth brush by me and I look

681
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: and somebody's taken a buster's toothbrush and a freaking brushter

682
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 1: teeth that I'm like.

683
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 3: It was so beautiful.

684
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:07,879
Speaker 1: No, no, I didn't discipline him. That wasn't my job.

685
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: That was your parents. And I don't know what they

686
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: did to him. Same with you with your party. I

687
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:15,240
Speaker 1: don't know what they did, but I am but I

688
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: was able to say, hey, Jalen, tell whoever was sleeping

689
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 1: in my in my bed last night or the night

690
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,439
Speaker 1: before and they brushed their teeth with my dog's tooth

691
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: thrust It was worth it. But you know, you got

692
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: in trouble with me, like there was missing alcohol so

693
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: I had when when I divorced from Grants from the

694
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: third one, he didn't drink, so I never drank. So

695
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: I didn't drink for fifteen years. So the first thing

696
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:45,919
Speaker 1: I did when we got the house is your mom

697
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 1: and I I said, we're going to total wine, no more.

698
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 1: And I think I spent I think I spent like

699
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: fifteen hundred bucks. I bought everything booze, and some of it,

700
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: like I just gave away the last of it because

701
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 1: I'd never even touched it, because I don't even drink

702
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: that much. Was just the freedom of that. But I

703
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: went ahead and had all of that alcohol, and then

704
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: it kept like disappearing. But only the stuff like that

705
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 1: was good, you know, not the cream dement and I

706
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: don't know all that crea. It was because because you

707
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: went to a party. I was watching the alcohol. You

708
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: told me, I think it's Grandpa Larry. Grandpa Larry was

709
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: here last week. Well somebody said, blamed it on uncle

710
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 1: Larry or Grandpa Larry. And so when I You're going

711
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: out to the party and I was watching the booths,

712
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: your mom or dad were out in the car or something.

713
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I feel like you have a skewed

714
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 3: version of.

715
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 1: What this was. Well whatever, and they anyway, they found

716
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: some alcohol with you and they said, look what we

717
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: got from Peyton. I opened up the bar to put

718
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: the bottle back, and there was like another bottle or

719
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 1: two missing. So I ran outside. They were already gone,

720
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: and you were in the car and I said, hand

721
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: me your purse, and you said, why mamme, mom already

722
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: got the alcohol. I said, hand me your purse, and

723
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 1: I reached into your person. There was a bubble of

724
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: boots and I pulled no. Yes, that happened at the

725
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: end in the driveway at Agritopia, and I said, have

726
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 1: a good time and don't drink and drive.

727
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 2: And that was I don't remember that I remember that

728
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 2: story happening. I remember it was three of It was

729
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 2: me and two of my teammates who.

730
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 3: Also played basketball for Dad and so.

731
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 2: But we all played basketball together in high school and

732
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:36,399
Speaker 2: we were going to some party. And it wasn't even

733
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:37,919
Speaker 2: a party now that I think about it. We were

734
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 2: just going to go and sit at the dump right

735
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 2: off of McQueen and Jermaine.

736
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 3: Right at Tumbleweed. Right over there they have the dump.

737
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:49,919
Speaker 2: And I remember I remember vividly going into Dominique's room

738
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:53,319
Speaker 2: and stealing her like cherry bottle of sarac It was

739
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 2: like this huge bottle of sap, and I remember I

740
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 2: put that in my backpack, and then I remember I

741
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 2: went to the garage and I grabbed all the beers

742
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 2: I could grab, and then I grabbed all of the

743
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 2: squirt like sodas in the bag, and I remember when

744
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,720
Speaker 2: I left, Dad and Mom pulled up as we're walking

745
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 2: out of the house and they're driving up, and I

746
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 2: remember being like, oh my god, we're about to get

747
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:15,760
Speaker 2: busted right now.

748
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 3: So we walk in.

749
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 4: Dad goes, hey, stop, stop where you're going and I

750
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,839
Speaker 4: was like, oh, somebody snitched on us, because we knew

751
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,720
Speaker 4: we hadn't invited one of our teammates to this party

752
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,280
Speaker 4: and she was upset, so we knew that she probably

753
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,839
Speaker 4: told her mom, and her mom probably told mom.

754
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 2: Is how we ended up piecing it all together. And

755
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 2: they pulled out the bottle of sarak and then I

756
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 2: remember Dad was like, what else is in here? He

757
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 2: could hear all the cans, and he pulled one out,

758
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 2: and by the grace of God, he pulled out the

759
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 2: squirt and.

760
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: Didn't pull out the beer.

761
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 3: And I remember being like, see, I told you, it's

762
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 3: just squirt.

763
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 1: And then and then Dad.

764
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 2: I remember it was us three, and he goes, what

765
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 2: do you think I should do right now?

766
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 3: Genuinely, what do you three think I should do right now?

767
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 2: Remember my two other friends, they were like, please tell

768
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 2: our parents.

769
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 3: Coach show. Please don't call our parents.

770
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: I would have said, give me back the vodka.

771
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,920
Speaker 2: I told God, I said, I said take the alcohol and.

772
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 3: Let us go to the party. That's what you should do.

773
00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 3: And he said okay.

774
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 2: He said, but next practice, you guys are conditioning until

775
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 2: you puke.

776
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 3: And we ran.

777
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,919
Speaker 1: We ran. That was bad.

778
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 3: I don't remember you catching me with it.

779
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, so there was there was more.

780
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 3: That's funny.

781
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: Anyway, it was. It was good. It was wonderful to

782
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,720
Speaker 1: be with all of you guys as you were growing

783
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 1: up and and occasionally, you know, we only had one

784
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: fight the whole time too.

785
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 3: Right when we moved in. I remember you so upset.

786
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:47,760
Speaker 2: I remember you threw the map quest directions away.

787
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: It was that was a violent reaction. I wear a

788
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: printed map.

789
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 4: Quest in and you were like, I can't do this.

790
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 3: I don't even remember why we were fighting.

791
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,280
Speaker 1: I don't either. I know it's I know it's something

792
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 1: we were going someplace, and I know it was something

793
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: very very small. But you know what, that was the

794
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: best thing that ever happened. It was about a year

795
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: in I think, and then we never had another argument

796
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: because we decided right then and there. If things are

797
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: kind of getting on your nerves. You just have to say,

798
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: like the first thing you asked me about advice, You

799
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 1: just have to communicate. It's really important because because that

800
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: keeps you know, that keeps everybody on the same the

801
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: same wavelength.

802
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 3: Perfect. Well, this was a good little chat, Sash.

803
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 2: Thank you on the podcast that was very longer than

804
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 2: what we had planned.

805
00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:40,839
Speaker 1: I know, I thought we wouldn't be able to build

806
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: the fifteen minutes, so you okay by listeners and John

807
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:46,760
Speaker 1: Jay and Rich