WEBVTT - Is It Cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it is Mojo in the morning. I got

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<v Speaker 1>a topic that I want to bring up, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask listeners just to weigh in on this.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you have a question to add to this,

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<v Speaker 1>once you hear me get going, feel free to call in.

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<v Speaker 1>You have an open airways right now. And Lydia, if

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<v Speaker 1>a text call me to nine five five zero zero,

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<v Speaker 1>that means they're on point with what we're talking about here.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the topic. Is it cheating? All right, let's weigh

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<v Speaker 1>in a little bit here on this one. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>cheating if I let a gay bestie see me naked?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, she's not even into you.

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<v Speaker 1>What if he's by or she's by?

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<v Speaker 3>I actually want to ask Wes that questions as I'm

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<v Speaker 3>on a group convo right now with my two gay

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<v Speaker 3>besties and.

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<v Speaker 4>Wes absolutely if they buy, if they're oh, if they're by's.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's not what you ask, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it cheating if I have a sex dream about

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<v Speaker 1>another girl or guy depending on.

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<v Speaker 4>Can control your dreams unless you pray for the dream,

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<v Speaker 4>where sometimes I do before I go, you have prayed

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<v Speaker 4>to have a dream, I'd be like Wednes, let me

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<v Speaker 4>have I've be praying for a certain dreams you want,

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<v Speaker 4>so you actually will literally say I want to have

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<v Speaker 4>a dream.

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<v Speaker 1>About blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yep, wow, I pray for how long I want to sleep,

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<v Speaker 4>how I want the rest to feel when I wake up?

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<v Speaker 1>That starting these four hours make you feel like forty? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>What about you, Shannon? What do you think on that one?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>I think a dream would ever constitute cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>Agreed? So it's so you're subconscious.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I dream about stuff that I would never ever want

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<v Speaker 3>to happen.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you ever been conscious in a dream though, like you,

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<v Speaker 4>you had the ability to make decisions even though you

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<v Speaker 4>knew you were in a dream.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had that happen? I don't don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 4>So I say, say you're in a dream, but you

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<v Speaker 4>have consciousness like you're in a dream. You realize you're

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<v Speaker 4>dreaming that happen. You know that you will wake up,

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<v Speaker 4>So everything that's taken place in the dream is in reality.

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<v Speaker 4>But you're able to make decisions like you're conscious in

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<v Speaker 4>the dream. You never had that? That's list the matrix.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually it's a bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Dream, exactly. Yes, I'm like, this is going to be okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to You're going to wake up.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it cheating? If I let a guy in front

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<v Speaker 1>of me in Lyne at Starbucks pay for my drink,

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<v Speaker 1>you're just a whore? Is that thing?

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<v Speaker 5>Is?

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<v Speaker 1>Our listeners probably agree with you? I mean I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's right. But is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually?

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<v Speaker 1>What about drinks out a bar too?

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't call that cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's what's cheating?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe not right?

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<v Speaker 1>It is flirting?

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<v Speaker 6>Cheating flirting, I say absolute.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you know that he's flirting with you by

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<v Speaker 4>buying you a drink, how is that not cheating?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Though maybe would be like, oh, that's so kind of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a relationship. But if you really want to

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<v Speaker 1>if if the guy then says or the you know, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if this is happening, say this happens to my wife

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, and if the guy says, hey, let's sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and enjoy it together, well absolutely, then then that

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<v Speaker 1>would scare me. But if somebody buys it is basically

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<v Speaker 1>the paid forward right.

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<v Speaker 2>When you first asked it, And that's why I was like, no.

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<v Speaker 1>His intention is flirting with you, and then how about

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<v Speaker 1>if it's in your car where it happens in the

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<v Speaker 1>drive through and then he follows you home. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just kidding, I'm just having that. Is it cheating? If

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<v Speaker 1>I follow my ex on Instagram just to see what

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<v Speaker 1>they're up to, it's not cheating, but it is improper.

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<v Speaker 3>Behavior though, and stop doing it because you're just making

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<v Speaker 3>yourself crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>That's cheating and you like him a little bit? Stih,

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<v Speaker 4>Why is it so definitive for you, Lydia?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I've dated guys who will follow girls on Instagram

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<v Speaker 5>while we're in a relationship, and I think that is

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<v Speaker 5>a choundary and that's cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think it's interesting though that sometimes you just

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<v Speaker 1>want to see if they're doing bad like you want

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<v Speaker 1>to you want that, or you're hoping that they're doing bad,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, Kevin, praise for good sleep. We pray

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<v Speaker 1>for our access to have. By the way, when Kevin

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<v Speaker 1>says it's not cheating, but it reminded me of it's

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<v Speaker 1>not illegal.

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<v Speaker 2>It's frowned upon, like masturbating on an airplane.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, that's what it sounded like. OK, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a good one, is it cheating. Oh, this is bad.

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<v Speaker 1>This is bad because is it cheating if I talk

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<v Speaker 1>to a co worker about problems in my relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, as long as you don't have your your

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<v Speaker 4>penis out.

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<v Speaker 1>But there's a lot of times where you're giving out

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<v Speaker 1>too much information.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you have to be very careful because that can

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<v Speaker 3>snowball very quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>My therapist Dennis thinks it's not proper.

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<v Speaker 2>Agree, is proper not cheating?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's probably not good for your relationship not cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>It can open door.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's where it's at because if y'all build

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<v Speaker 4>an emotional connections, y'all, let's go out for drinks and

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<v Speaker 4>talk about our problems and one thing leads to another.

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<v Speaker 1>This next one. And by the way, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear some of yours, and you guys ask us your

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<v Speaker 1>questions about is it cheating whatever? Maybe from your personal

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<v Speaker 1>experiences eight four to forur Mojo Live. I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>thought right away would get like calls of people commenting

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<v Speaker 1>on all these ones, because I know you're in your

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<v Speaker 1>car or you're sitting there wherever at work, and you

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<v Speaker 1>got your ear pods and you're like, no, yes, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. You're answering these things. This

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<v Speaker 1>last one is a big one, and this one is

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<v Speaker 1>one where I sat there and thought, what will they

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<v Speaker 1>say to this? Is it cheating if I let a

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<v Speaker 1>person drive me home from the bar because I can't

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<v Speaker 1>get an uber? If you have if you're out, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a relationship and you're out and you can't

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<v Speaker 1>get an UBER and you let somebody drive you home,

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<v Speaker 1>like somebody that's you know that you would trust to

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<v Speaker 1>drive you home, stranger, stranger, a stranger or or another

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<v Speaker 1>or a guy that maybe you come in contact with,

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<v Speaker 1>or girl you come in contact with. I'm is it

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<v Speaker 1>cheating just to let them drive you home? I'm say no,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have would I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Going to agree with you, but I have a thought ahead. No,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's cheating. However, I would never do it,

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<v Speaker 3>and Wes would be so upset if I did do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be my question.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you try to call me first?

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<v Speaker 4>Like are you reaching out to your spouse before you

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<v Speaker 4>just let the stranger?

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<v Speaker 3>And in the same vein, I would be so upset

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<v Speaker 3>if he got in the car, had some random girls

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<v Speaker 3>and he's intoxicated.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like it would be it would be one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things where if all you pulled into the driveway,

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<v Speaker 1>got out of the car, nothing happened, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>had to save your spouse.

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<v Speaker 2>If I'm questioning you.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, nobody's ever going to believe that nothing didn't happen exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>and it would be weird when you say the next morning, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, so, how'd you get home to say to

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<v Speaker 1>them this is how I got home. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see what Stacy has to say. Stacy, you have

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<v Speaker 1>a question or comment or complaint. What do you got?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 5>Comment?

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<v Speaker 6>Chatting with a coworker about troubles in your marriage that

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<v Speaker 6>leads to cheating leads Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I said. It can snowball no fast.

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<v Speaker 1>It can be bad, especially especially if you're not telling

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<v Speaker 1>the truth, you know what I mean, or or or

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<v Speaker 1>over exaggerating stuff. You know what I mean. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>tell you. I cannot tell you how many times I

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<v Speaker 1>have had stories be told to me of guys going, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they told their they told their spouses that I was

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<v Speaker 1>like this horrible, horrible person, and then you find out

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<v Speaker 1>that they're having an affair with that person. So that

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<v Speaker 1>has happened before.

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<v Speaker 6>They com miserate together, and it leads one thing to another.

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<v Speaker 6>In my case, Yeah, knocked up.

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<v Speaker 1>Stacy. All these ones that we asked about, obviously that

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<v Speaker 1>was the one that came to mind for you. Any

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<v Speaker 1>of the other ones pinpoint for you, like the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>letting somebody buy you a drink at Starbucks or following

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<v Speaker 1>your acc on Instagram that got Lydia hot.

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<v Speaker 6>Now following on social media, I think that's cheating that

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<v Speaker 6>that also can lead to stuff. But buying a drink,

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<v Speaker 6>buying a simple coffee, that's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a nice gesture. Yeah, what if you guys drink

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<v Speaker 1>out of one straw together?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely not, that's gross.

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<v Speaker 1>The social media thing is hey Jennifer, what's up? Hey

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<v Speaker 1>you guys? Good morning, good morning?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So is it cheating when you're partner that's the

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<v Speaker 5>coworker of the opposite sex and the weeks the messages.

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<v Speaker 1>Because your phone's a little echoy, what does say?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh sorry? Hold on? So is it cheating when your

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<v Speaker 5>partner is texting a coworker of the to suck and

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<v Speaker 5>delete the messages going on?

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<v Speaker 1>That is a little shady. Did that happen in your

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<v Speaker 1>personal life?

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<v Speaker 5>A lot shady. Uh. Yeah. It was a reason why

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<v Speaker 5>we broke up in October because he was hiding text

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<v Speaker 5>messages deleting them. We were on vacation and she was deleting.

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<v Speaker 5>She was texting him, and he was deleting the messages

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<v Speaker 5>and he was saying he was saying like, oh, it's

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<v Speaker 5>about work, and I said, well, if it's about work,

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<v Speaker 5>and keep the message so I could see it. And

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<v Speaker 5>then he was like, well, it's just because you're crazy,

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<v Speaker 5>and I know you're gonna start an argument.

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<v Speaker 1>When we start calling you crazy. Is when you got

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<v Speaker 1>to realize that there's something going on there.

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<v Speaker 2>And read the deleted messages then oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, did you know you could read the leader.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, so this was his second time being caught doing this,

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<v Speaker 5>so he learned how to delete from recently deleted.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I found out.

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<v Speaker 5>I found through his phone records.

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<v Speaker 6>Wore they were engaged.

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<v Speaker 5>We've been together five years, so there's still deep Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You dumped him.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you guys broke this is a pattern we did.

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<v Speaker 5>We did break up in our Cobra, but we got

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<v Speaker 5>back together. And yeah, it's been rough, like we've been

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<v Speaker 5>working on it.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's you deserve better, man, I don't know real

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<v Speaker 4>believe meso.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's crazy. You need to hear.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll be tough. It'll be tough in the short term,

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<v Speaker 3>but this is the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you right now? You at work? It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like it's loud. Yeah, I wor go talk about this

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<v Speaker 1>to the hottest guy in the office and just have

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<v Speaker 1>an affair with him.

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<v Speaker 5>I work with all females.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, send me on Instagram. We'll go out after link after.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Hang on the lawn, Haley, Haley, what's yours? The cheating?

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<v Speaker 1>If your spouse hugs a coworker of the opposite sex

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<v Speaker 1>because they won't see them for a week they're going

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<v Speaker 1>on vacation, that's hugs. The mojo's cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody in this room, we hug all of you.

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<v Speaker 1>What what is I I'm kind of wondering what exactly

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<v Speaker 1>is going on? Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>This happened to my friend about a year ago. She

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<v Speaker 5>was just concerned that she basically just didn't want her

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<v Speaker 5>man touching.

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<v Speaker 6>Another female, just touching, you know, being.

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<v Speaker 2>A coworker, you were the eight hours.

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<v Speaker 1>With them a day, so she was being a little parentally.

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<v Speaker 1>How long was the hood. Yeah. How long was the hug?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it more of an embrace?

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<v Speaker 2>Was the rubbing of the back?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was an embrace.

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<v Speaker 1>Then there's something. There might be something to it. If

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<v Speaker 1>it's lingering, if it's long, and if she's not hugging

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<v Speaker 1>everyone else, only he could exactly, then there's something. Give

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<v Speaker 1>that little slut hooge not good.

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<v Speaker 6>He called him out for it, and there was like

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<v Speaker 6>a little fight, but they he just communicated like it

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>She's just a coworker.

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<v Speaker 6>But well the situation of like him not going to

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<v Speaker 6>be there for a week, is this a little weird

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<v Speaker 6>for her?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Just for I'm going to miss you for that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that as an excuse. What do they do

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<v Speaker 1>for a living? I want to know where where is

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<v Speaker 1>all this cheating going on?

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<v Speaker 5>They worked at the They worked at a gym, and

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<v Speaker 5>this worker was a trainer, so she was in her sports.

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<v Speaker 2>You missed a lot of details when you first told

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<v Speaker 2>us this story.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for the call, Haley, Yeah, no problem. Bye.