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Speaker 1: It is Marcus in the morning, and it is time

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Speaker 1: once again for second date update. Let's bring our guy

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Speaker 1: Derek on. We can all console him in group for

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Speaker 1: getting ghosted on. Unfortunately you there, Derek, I'm here, Thanks

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Speaker 1: so much. Sure, So we want to talk about your

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Speaker 1: date with Alina. You were in Walnut Creek. I love

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Speaker 1: a good rooftop cocktail bar, and the weather has been

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Speaker 1: pretty spectacular of late, so I'm guessing that was pretty amazing.

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Speaker 2: It was so good. The vibes on the date were

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Speaker 2: really nice.

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Speaker 1: Tell me about it. What did you guys do, Like,

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Speaker 1: what did you talk about it? What kind of what

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Speaker 1: did you order?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, we got trouble fries and we split them, which

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Speaker 3: you know, feels like a little romantic.

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Speaker 2: I don't know exactly.

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Speaker 3: Well, also, like a girl who's willing to get fries

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Speaker 3: on the first date is like big green flag.

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Speaker 1: Sure, Okay, you know, we.

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Speaker 3: Got a couple of cocktails. Like, we hung out a while.

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Speaker 3: We talked about pets and jobs and you know, like

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Speaker 3: normal kind of date stuff. But kay, intimate, we hung

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Speaker 3: out for a while. We got a second rate. You

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Speaker 3: get to kind of looking out off the room top

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Speaker 3: at the lights below and hanging out, leaning on the

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Speaker 3: railing together, a little bit of touching, familiar and intimate

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Speaker 3: and like good good trust vibes.

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Speaker 2: A lot of eye contact.

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Speaker 3: And then at the end of the night she gave

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Speaker 3: me a hug, she said she had fun, and then

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Speaker 3: literally zero contact since.

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Speaker 1: Then she disappeared. Yeah, okay, well you ready to do this?

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go and try to figure out why

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Speaker 1: she ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, is this Selena?

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Speaker 4: Yes it is.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one one three.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Good morning from from where? So?

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Speaker 1: I work for Star one O one three. I do

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Speaker 1: the morning show. It's a radio station. Okay, three, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't suppose you listen to the show, do you?

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Speaker 4: I'm the Uh well, I listened to the music.

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Speaker 1: Okay, never mind that guy talking. I get it. I

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Speaker 1: get it. Uh hey, do you mind being on the

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Speaker 1: air with me for a minute?

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Speaker 4: What am I gonna do?

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Speaker 1: So we do a segment called second Date Update, and

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Speaker 1: we're trying to m we bring people back together after

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Speaker 1: maybe a first date misunderstanding, and so I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: broker a second date for one of our listeners. His

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Speaker 1: name is Derek. I'm wondering if you might be able

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Speaker 1: to talk about your date with Derek, like how did

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Speaker 1: oh he's been like you disappeared on him, like you ghosted,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just trying to figure out did he blow

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Speaker 1: it somehow or maybe you're just a busy lady. I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, he's very cute, like I was really excited

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Speaker 4: to go out with him, and like, yeah, I'm definitely

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Speaker 4: he's very good looking. And then he just had some

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Speaker 4: like weird habits.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this has been like a theme all for the

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Speaker 1: last two weeks. Tell me about Derek's habits. Maybe he'll

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Speaker 1: get in the Hall of Fame. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Okay, he he like smells everything. He like smells everything.

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Speaker 4: I'm not kidding.

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Speaker 1: He smells everything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he takes a big whish of his cocktail where

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Speaker 4: he like drinks it, and then he smelled the fies

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Speaker 4: like not just like casual smell, like a really big smell.

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Speaker 4: And then he even smelled the catch it. And then

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Speaker 4: he smelled the menu.

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Speaker 2: For real.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why the menu. And then I took

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Speaker 4: off my jacket and he came close to me and

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Speaker 4: he smelled me, and then he was like, oh, vanilla

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Speaker 4: that smells nice. It was just it was just weird.

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Speaker 1: Did you did you? Did you ask him about it?

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Speaker 4: Yes? I did ask him about it. And then he's like,

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Speaker 4: sent is information?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, maybe he's just I mean, maybe he's just

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Speaker 1: a passionate guy.

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Speaker 4: Maybe, but I don't when you're with someone that just

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Speaker 4: smelling everything, it just feels kind of weird. You know, like,

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Speaker 4: what if you're making out with him, is he just

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Speaker 1: I mean possible? Okay? Was that was that it?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 4: And then this is what else he did, which was

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Speaker 4: really this is what really stilled the bill. I just

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Speaker 4: did not want to see him again. He said he

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Speaker 4: had created a fake dating profile to see if his

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Speaker 4: girlfriend would match it. He was dating this He's not

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Speaker 4: dating her anymore, but he was dating this girl and

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Speaker 4: he created a fake dating profile to see if she

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Speaker 4: would like match it.

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Speaker 1: Oh, right now, I got questions. So here's part of this, Elena,

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Speaker 1: is that Derek is actually listening right now. I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to create like a teachable moment situation. And Derek, are

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Speaker 1: you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I'm here. What's up? Elena?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Hey, Derek, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I am?

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Speaker 2: I'm all right. Thanks for checking in this.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions now, Derek, So let's

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Speaker 1: we could start with the smelling thing. I sort of

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Speaker 1: get it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry that weirded you out so much. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I just like to be aware of kind of what's

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Speaker 3: going on. It's like like three awareness and it's knowing

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Speaker 3: your surroundings.

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Speaker 1: And right, but the maybe.

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Speaker 4: I like to know what.

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Speaker 3: I'm dealing with, you know, like what's what to expect

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Speaker 3: from the restaurant. And Okay, I thought I was complimenting,

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Speaker 3: you know, I thought like you smelled really good and

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Speaker 3: that's important to me.

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Speaker 1: And I thought I was just expressing that let's move on,

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Speaker 1: to go ahead.

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Speaker 4: I felt like I was dating my dog. It was

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Speaker 4: just weird.

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Speaker 1: What about this fake dating profile, like you mean, like

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Speaker 1: on Tinder or something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and like I'll own that that was not a

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Speaker 3: good move. That was a long time ago, and I

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Speaker 3: was I was insecure and I was just like doubting

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Speaker 3: if she would, you know, be faithful.

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Speaker 2: And I did this thing that I'm not proud of.

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Speaker 3: I thought I mentioned it as like a you know,

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Speaker 3: here's who I've grown out of being.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I just felt like he built it you know,

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Speaker 4: like he was just trying to trapp her. I felt

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Speaker 4: like he had some insecurities going on.

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Speaker 3: I definitely did then, Like, I'll own that that was

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Speaker 3: not cool and it's not something I would do, but

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Speaker 3: the man I am today?

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Speaker 1: Can we salvage this?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: What if Derek can you? Can you simmer down on

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Speaker 1: the sniffing?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I could tone it back, So Elena, now back to you.

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Speaker 1: If he tones down the sniffing, can we give him

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Speaker 1: a break? You guys seem to like each other. He

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Speaker 1: is devastating and good looking, you said, so I wrote

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Speaker 1: it down. Can we get a second date?

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Speaker 4: If he tones down the sniffing thing, then I'm willing

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Speaker 4: to go on another second date. And he can't be weird.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with Derek's passionate. Hold on, I'm not

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Speaker 1: even ready for this. We have a win? Are you

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Speaker 1: kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Right now?

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Speaker 1: Where is the cow bell of destiny? Thank God? What

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Speaker 1: a way to start the week. You guys are cute,

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Speaker 1: all right, Derek. Number one rule, don't make it weird. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna.

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Speaker 2: Try to make it weird. I won't make it weird.

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Speaker 1: I promise perfect, all right, you guys hang on the line.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna be repeating that up until the date. I

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Speaker 1: won't make it weird. I won't make it weird.

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Speaker 2: Well cute, it worked.

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Speaker 1: A second date update