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Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second

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Speaker 1: Date Update, because that's what we're going to try and

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Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called.

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Speaker 2: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 3: What a four to seven Kiss FM. John Jay and Rich,

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Speaker 3: It's time for second Ate Update. This where you meet somebody,

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Speaker 3: go to date, you have a great time. You expect

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Speaker 3: there to be a second date, and there isn't one.

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Speaker 3: So you come to us. We're gonna help you find

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Speaker 3: out why a second date didn't happen. Let's say hello

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Speaker 3: to Marley. Marley, good morning, you're on the air.

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Speaker 4: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: Why what's going on? Tell us a little bit about

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Speaker 3: your situation.

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Speaker 4: So I met this really cute girl and we went

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Speaker 4: out and had like a really nice date and I

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Speaker 4: don't know what happened because she just like ghosted me.

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Speaker 4: Had I just I'm totally mystified.

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Speaker 5: Here, what do you guys do on your date?

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Speaker 4: We went out to dinner. It was really cute. I

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Speaker 4: just thought she was the cutest.

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Speaker 3: Was there making out and nudity and spending a night

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Speaker 3: and all that good stuff.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, we didn't put that far, but I thought,

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Speaker 4: you know, down the road.

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Speaker 6: We were headed that way, so but.

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Speaker 4: She just like ghosted me.

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Speaker 5: So, well, how'd you guys know that we met online?

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Speaker 2: And so do you talk a lot before you ever

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Speaker 2: get together or you just meet and set up a

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Speaker 2: quick hang?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: We did.

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Speaker 4: We were we had like a really nice, like online

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Speaker 4: back and forth relationship, and we talked on the phone

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Speaker 4: a couple of times and that was great, and we

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Speaker 4: met up.

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Speaker 6: I thought it was great.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what happened. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like you can have so much chemistry

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Speaker 1: over a scream and then you get in person and

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Speaker 1: it's just like it just doesn't hit the same.

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Speaker 3: Is that because there's maybe like you're not attracted to

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Speaker 3: them in per se.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Girls are complicated in general, so when you put two

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Speaker 1: of them together in the dating world, it kind of

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Speaker 1: makes things even a little bit more chaos.

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Speaker 3: Like Moe them chewed weird or had like a weird

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Speaker 3: yeah tick bigs.

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Speaker 1: Do you have any of that?

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Speaker 4: No, not that I know of, mean, and I thought

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Speaker 4: she was attractive, so I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Do you have a hairy upper lip?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Do you have little teeth and big gums?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm cool, I look cute, I think.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, well we'll call her and find out

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Speaker 3: why she's blowing you off. What's her name, it's Emma. Okay,

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Speaker 3: hold on the line. We'll get Emma on and find

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Speaker 3: out why she's blowing you off. Second Date Update continues

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Speaker 3: next with John Jay and Rich, John Jay and Rich,

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Speaker 3: John Jane Rich. We are in the middle of second

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Speaker 3: date Update. You've got Marley and Emma.

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Speaker 2: Well, Marlee and Emma had incredible FaceTime chemistry and they

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Speaker 2: made up for dinner. Are they met up for dinner?

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Speaker 2: But that didn't go so well. So now the missing

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Speaker 2: Emma is the major dilemma. We shall find out why

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Speaker 2: this did not blossom into a romance.

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Speaker 3: Marlee. How long ago was his date?

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Speaker 4: Two weeks ago?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, so it's been a while.

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Speaker 1: At least it wasn't like last night.

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Speaker 2: And she's gonna be like, dude.

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Speaker 1: This girl is suffocating I know.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, we'll get her on the phone right now.

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Speaker 5: Hold on, Hello, Hi, is Emma there? Yes, hey, Emma,

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Speaker 5: my name is Peyton.

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Speaker 1: I'm with John Jay and Rich and we just wanted

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Speaker 1: to talk to on the radio really quickly. If you

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Speaker 1: have some free time this morning.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So Emma, as we all know, the dating world is

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Speaker 3: crazy right now, right sure?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So we got a call from somebody who said

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Speaker 3: that you two kind of hit it off and you

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Speaker 3: went on a date. They thought the date was great.

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Speaker 3: There isn't a second date. She hasn't heard from you.

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Speaker 3: She says, you're Ghostinger, and she came to us to

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Speaker 3: ask us if we could help dig around and find

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Speaker 3: out what she did wrong. So we're calling you about Marley.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, I'm like butterflies in my stomach right now?

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Speaker 7: Where should I start? What do you guys want to know?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so she says that you're Ghostinger. Are you can?

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Speaker 3: Do you admit your Ghostinger?

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Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know if I would call it

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Speaker 7: a full ghost We only went on one date, but

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Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, I haven't responded.

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Speaker 3: Where.

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Was it something about her look? Was it something she

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Speaker 3: did like walk us through things? What do you what?

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Speaker 3: Where did the red flags pop up for you? And

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Speaker 3: what were those red flags?

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Speaker 7: I mean, the date went really well. I thought she

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Speaker 7: was really cute and like, I think we had a

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Speaker 7: lot of fun. But I am just like really particular

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Speaker 7: about hygiene stuff, and during the date, she like kept

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Speaker 7: biting her nails and then she would like grab chips

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Speaker 7: and like we have like a you know, dip on

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Speaker 7: the tape, and it was just like really grossing me out,

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Speaker 7: like the way she was going back from like putting

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Speaker 7: and I and then at the end of the day

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Speaker 7: she tried to kiss me, and I was just like

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Speaker 7: I just can't, Like I don't know, it just really

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Speaker 7: grossed me out and I didn't want to embarrass her

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Speaker 7: if I didn't say anything. And then yeah, I just

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Speaker 7: never responded.

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Speaker 3: Okay, biting nails, I get right, that always grosses me out.

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Speaker 3: Were they with her fingernails like all down all you

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Speaker 3: could see the whole chewed nub thing or was that

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 7: That hard?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I said, that's hard to see, Like I feel

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Speaker 1: like you're talk to someone like, I mean, no offense

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Speaker 1: to the nails, nail binders.

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it happens, but yeah, I get it.

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Speaker 3: Also, you get it both ways.

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Speaker 7: I get yeah, yeah, I mean it feels like so

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Speaker 7: particular and like bitchy of me. But this was what

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Speaker 7: the deal breaker was, but I don't know, it just

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Speaker 7: grossed me up. It's like sometimes you just get like

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Speaker 3: Like that and then you can't let it go in

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Speaker 3: first state too.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if you're gonna if you're gonna bail out

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Speaker 2: over something that is small, a first date's probably a

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Speaker 5: To do it, right.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's not like we had, you know, confessed our

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Speaker 7: love for each other, so it seems like a good

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Speaker 7: moment to dip out.

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Speaker 3: Would you be opposed to us bringing her onto this

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Speaker 3: conversation and you're talking to her right now? It's too

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Speaker 3: late because she's she's actually listening right now. Marley, there

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Speaker 3: you go, you your little fingernails.

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Speaker 6: Hey, oh my god, I I I don't even have

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Speaker 6: to say. I just like that's how I deal with

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Speaker 6: my anxiety. And I was really nervous. So god, I

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Speaker 3: That's why I did it.

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Speaker 7: I totally get like having a nervous like twitch or whatever.

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Speaker 7: But yeah, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I should have said something,

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Speaker 7: I guess in the moment, but I don't want to

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Speaker 4: So now I'm so sad because that, like I feel

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Speaker 4: like I should just like examine my life choices now

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Speaker 4: because I really was excited about this date and I'm

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Speaker 4: sad that's what ruined it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: You guys feel like gys would like hang out again,

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Speaker 1: like now that you got the first date out of

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Speaker 1: the way, and maybe Marley isn't going to be as

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Speaker 1: nervous anymore.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't star.

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Speaker 6: What were you gonna say, I'll put I'll.

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Speaker 4: Put like stuff on my nails to.

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Speaker 5: Make me not buy them.

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Speaker 7: I feel like I need a little time because I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 7: I'm so caught off guard now. I feel like really

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Speaker 7: embarrassed for being so like blunt about it with them.

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Speaker 7: And I don't know, I don't know if I can

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Speaker 7: see you face to face after this. M so sad.

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Speaker 7: I mean it's more just my own like embarrassment. But yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: Okay, can you are you eating chips right now? Sounds

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Speaker 3: like you're eating chips me. You bite your nails right now?

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Speaker 3: I feel like there's something in your mouth when yours down, You're.

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Speaker 4: I have like I'm like chewing gum because that's like

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Speaker 4: my nervous like mouth.

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Speaker 3: Thing right, chewing gum, bite your nails. I get it double? Okay,

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Speaker 3: well we'll let you both go. Then there is Well,

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Speaker 3: thank you both for going on the air with us.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: No second date though, No, I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: Okay, no problem that second date. Update with John Jay

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Speaker 3: and Rich