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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of Tell You what parents are

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Speaker 1: supposed to ask for permission of their baby before doing this?

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Speaker 2: Now, Sam, Yeah, to change their diapers. That's apparently what experts,

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Speaker 2: quote unquote experts are saying that you should do all

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Speaker 2: because of consent and you want to teach your baby

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Speaker 2: boundaries and how they need to be the ones to

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Speaker 2: say that it's okay for them to be touched in

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Speaker 2: any way. And I understand what people are trying to

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Speaker 2: achieve with this, but it's so silly and there's just

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Speaker 2: so many, so many ways that this is dumb.

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Speaker 3: But this is hours after you have a child, and

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Speaker 3: you're about to have a child. Your du day is today.

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Speaker 1: You can have a child later today, maybe tomorrow or

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Speaker 1: ra sometime very soon, and you are supposed to before

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Speaker 1: you change the diaper, you are supposed to ask that

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Speaker 1: tiny little six pound seven pound thing or whatever it

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Speaker 1: may be. Yeah, it's like nothing, baby, Sorry, I underested

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Excuse me? Can I change your diaper? Or do you wait? Even?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, first of all, babies don't understand just when

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Speaker 2: we're talking to them as soon as the born, So

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Speaker 2: there's that issue, and so you're supposed to read their

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Speaker 2: body language. I guess, but can you imagine how confusing

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Speaker 2: it would be. You just busted out of the birth canal,

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Speaker 2: and now all of a sudden somebody's asking you questions.

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Speaker 2: You're just discombobulated and confused, and there's bright lights everywhere,

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Speaker 2: and you're over stimulated because you've been in basically, yeah,

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Speaker 2: your entire existence, you've been in a sensory deprivation tank,

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Speaker 2: and all of a sudden you were getting poked and

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Speaker 2: prodded and asked questions and you don't understand words. That's

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Speaker 2: gonna be so frustrating.

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Speaker 1: Do they think that babies come out of like literally

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Speaker 1: come out of the canal? And yes, that that that

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Speaker 1: thing right there. Thanks for using those big technical words

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Speaker 1: like that.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's they're not speaking.

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Speaker 1: No, No, we are not supposed to ask permission of

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Speaker 1: our babies before we change diapers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're supposed to read their cues, their body language

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Speaker 2: or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Talk back in the iHeartRadio apps to.

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Speaker 4: Tell me some guy from some place thinks that we

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Speaker 4: should probably ask them, Hey, what are your pronouns too?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yes, your pronouns? Are they ba?

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Speaker 1: Ba?

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Speaker 3: Are they baby?

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Speaker 4: Or are you just a little baby baby who can't

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Speaker 4: say a word, so that don't make any sense. Yes, hey,

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Speaker 4: can I ask you to change your diaper? Screw you doctor.

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Speaker 5: This morning. I'm an infant teacher, and we narrate everything

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Speaker 5: we tell the babies because well, it teaches consent. It

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Speaker 5: also teaches them vocabulary, and as they get into a

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Speaker 5: toddler stage, when you ask them things, you give them

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Speaker 5: choices to get to the same end result that obviously

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Speaker 5: that you need to get to. So it helps us

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Speaker 5: vocabulary and autonomy.

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Speaker 4: That helps in a day.

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Speaker 2: I think that talking to your baby and your toddler

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Speaker 2: very very important, for sure, because how else are they

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Speaker 2: gonna learn how to communicate? Definitely, But I don't know

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Speaker 2: about asking permission to do something that would otherwise be neglectful.

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Speaker 2: That you will kind of automatically talk to your kid

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Speaker 2: and almost ask for their consent anyway while you're changing

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Speaker 2: their diaper.

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Speaker 1: It's so dumb, but you'll be like, Hi, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to change your diaper, No, sweetheart, Okay, Okay, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't remember doing that, but I get it.

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Speaker 2: I totally get it. I talked to my dogs in

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Speaker 2: the same way I ask my dogs do you need

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Speaker 2: to go potty? They don't really understand what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they do. They know the P word.

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Speaker 2: Well, eventually you say it enough.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but when they're Chris, you know who this is

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Speaker 4: and you asked for it, asking your baby if you

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Speaker 4: can change their diaper? Are you kidding me? Don't forget

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Speaker 4: to tell your child that they have a choice whether

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Speaker 4: they want to be a boy or a girl. Would

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Speaker 4: these people stop? Oh m g.

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Speaker 3: Oh what does that mean? Oh? Yeah, oh, thank you? Okay.

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Speaker 5: Remark back to if you have to ask the child

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Speaker 5: to change their diaper, I definitely disagree.

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Speaker 3: If you see that that diaper is wet or dirty

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Speaker 3: in anywhere, you change that.

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Speaker 1: I would rather deal with a squirming, rolling chiddler than

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Speaker 1: to deal with diaper rash and a screaming, frying baby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You guys are like two against one over there, aren't

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Speaker 1: you doves with their baby?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like trying to wrestle alligator.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, try to put But it's necessary because otherwise you're

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Speaker 2: neglecting your baby. It's part of being a parent. And

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Speaker 2: when you don't, I don't know. I just think that

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Speaker 2: when you try to accommodate every single little thing, and

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Speaker 2: you don't just be a parent, you end up with

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Speaker 2: kids that are just absolute terrors.

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Speaker 3: I hear you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe you don't change and they get diaper rash

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Speaker 2: and then you're gonna have to buy a gallon of

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Speaker 2: desatine and just diplomatic. Yeah, and they're uncomfortable and they're

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Speaker 2: in pain. Do you want that?

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Speaker 3: No, it's just silly, I hear you. I would just

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Speaker 3: call talk Dog law Goodness.

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