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Speaker 1: We call this Left on Red and uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: talk to Evan real quick.

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Speaker 2: Hey Evan, Hey, how's it going, guys?

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Speaker 1: Good Evan. I I talked with Morgan last night, and

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Speaker 1: you know I always ask for this, and I know

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Speaker 1: you know this because you listen to the show. Honesty.

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Speaker 1: That's gonna be the best thing, because she's gonna bring

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Speaker 1: up something she saw while you were out that you know,

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Speaker 1: Hey Morgan, Hey, I'm Morgan Morgan, kind of like what

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Speaker 1: I told you last night, Just be honest with Evan.

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Speaker 1: What did you see after your guys' date?

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Speaker 3: Oh? I just saw him out with a guy.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, that's fine, but like I'm not going to

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Speaker 4: be fighting every human person for his attention.

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Speaker 3: So I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, I thought that.

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Speaker 3: Uh I thought that.

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Speaker 2: First of all, you knew when I met you. I

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Speaker 3: I was by and I did not know that.

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Speaker 4: No, And again it's like not for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I mean, I'm I'm pretty open about you know,

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Speaker 1: I completely. I mean, Morgan, you didn't even tell me

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Speaker 1: I want to really talk about. Obviously, that is personal preference.

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Speaker 1: If you want to date someone who is straight, gay,

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Speaker 1: or by that's completely your personal preference. Let's all understand that.

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Speaker 1: Let's move on to what I kind of want to

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Speaker 1: Is there is there a problem? Is there an issue

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Speaker 1: in talking to other people and going out on dates

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Speaker 1: with other people? Eight hundred and four and nine ninety

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Speaker 1: Or is it just because he was on a date

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Speaker 3: I mean, I like it was like the same date.

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Speaker 4: Like he like has like a vibe that he just.

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Speaker 3: Does over and over again, and you're just like, you know,

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Speaker 3: it's fine, but like I'm good. I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to see amount with other people, like

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Speaker 1: So but uh yeah, yeah, and I'm not I'm not

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Speaker 1: I really don't know. Would you if you if you know,

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Speaker 2: I would, Yeah, I'm just not the same way. I've

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Speaker 1: Just otherwise we wouldn't be having this conversation.

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Speaker 3: But it's fine.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk to Jesse real quick. Let's talk to Jesse.

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Speaker 1: Let's see all right, here we go, Hi Jesse. Oh here,

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Speaker 1: uh sorry, Jamie, turn up pot B phone line B.

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Speaker 1: We've got Jamie running the board where we're currently on

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Speaker 1: does it look like? Yeah? Oh it is up? Hey Jesse,

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Speaker 1: Jesse? What do you what do you think you're on with?

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Speaker 4: So it's it's all about really how the date was

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Speaker 1: Cut ties and that was okay with me.

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Speaker 4: But I guess it all goes down once again, personal

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Speaker 4: preference on communications and communication exactly.

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Speaker 1: Morgan, is there any chance that maybe, like Evan, how

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Speaker 1: about this, Evan, would you be willing to kind of

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, now she's kind of put me on

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Speaker 1: Thank you Jesse by the way, thank you. Sorry, I'm

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Speaker 1: Let's see. Hold on, here's my ultimate test and we

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Speaker 1: love you. Jesse. Hey on, my man, Hey.

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Speaker 3: Yo, my man. Hey, listen man, It's okay to keep

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Speaker 3: that roster open if you single, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: But you know, like you got caught being a player

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Speaker 3: ain't get a call back. But yeah, man, if you're prerogative,

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Speaker 1: At what point do you have to stop dating other people?

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Speaker 1: Like are we exclusive? Or are we still seeing other people?

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Speaker 3: You know that's crazy because I was just talking about this,

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Speaker 1: I don't like to share.

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Speaker 3: It just happens, you know what. Every relationship I was in,

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Speaker 1: I absolutely you're okay with it because you well, yeah

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Speaker 5: I would go on different dates and like, but I

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Speaker 5: I would be like, hey, I don't think we should

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Speaker 1: What number of dates do you?

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Speaker 1: How many dates until you before you make it exclusive? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: It should to me if you're seeing someone consistently for like,

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Speaker 1: About a month or two. Yeah, the first day, first

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Speaker 1: day tomorrow. I love you, Jed, don't be crazy. That's

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: Oh my man, you're the best in Listen at the

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Speaker 1: and whatnot. But yeah, I mean Morgan, you have no interest, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: fake you heavan? How did the date go with the guy?

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Speaker 2: You know it's straight? I mean, uh, yes, how many days?

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Speaker 1: Last question? How many dates have you gone on? It

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Speaker 2: No, was in the first date. I mean, we've known

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Speaker 1: The last question, Now, I keep thinking of things you

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Speaker 1: like men or women more? And I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: It just was, yeah, attracted to your voice.

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Speaker 2: I'm very like very I guess what you'd call I

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Speaker 2: I like people for their minds, you know, their personalities,

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Speaker 2: and it never really I don't really think about gender

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Speaker 1: What is the difference between pan and by pan?

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Speaker 3: Is?

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Speaker 1: Like you said it more? Go ahead?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I like I like people for who.

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Speaker 1: They are on the inside, and you know, and what

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Speaker 2: Trying to say is I don't I don't have a

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Speaker 2: preference really between men and women. I just like people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I'm just trying to learn everything. That's

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Speaker 1: why I'm asking questions. But all right, thank you, thank

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Speaker 1: let the other person know, Like, listen, I want to

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Speaker 1: be exclusive with you, would bother me if you were

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Speaker 1: with someone else, That makes sense? Yeah, all right, cool,