WEBVTT - HIGHTLIGHT POD 30 MINS: The Woody Show August 3rd 2026 Podcast 0:00:00.640 --> 0:00:02.880 And now more of the Wadi show. 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:05.800 All right, welcome back everybody. 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:09.799 Hey, all right, so what did you discover through twenty 0:00:09.840 --> 0:00:14.360 three and me or ancestry dot Com. Yeah, there's all 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:16.360 kinds of stories coming in on the text. 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:18.400 Give me one off the text here, Gina. 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:21.000 We found out this from the seventy to three. We 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:23.000 found out my dead brother had a son. No one 0:00:23.079 --> 0:00:24.959 knew about it, and now he's in his twenties and 0:00:25.040 --> 0:00:25.919 I have a new nephew. 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:27.840 Wow, god crazy. 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:28.440 Yeah. 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:29.920 I think my uncle found out that he had a 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:35.559 daughter well into his like fifties, like late fifties, early sixties. 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:37.120 I forget how old he was when he found out 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:37.519 about it. 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:39.040 Was it one of those cases where he didn't know 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:40.640 the woman was pregnant. 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.880 Yeah, had no idea, And then later found out about 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:44.720 this daughter and it turns out the daughter had kids, 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:47.159 So he was a grandfather. He went from having no 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:48.839 kids and nothing to all of a sudden, he has 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:52.680 got a daughter. Right, and dude, this loser, he he 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:55.200 launched so hardcore into the whole grandfather thing. 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:56.120 Oh I bet. 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:57.920 Yeah, it was all the loser. 0:00:58.080 --> 0:01:00.959 It's my uncle Dennis. He's a douche hear that? Guy, 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:01.800 it's a douchebag. 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:03.920 It's weird to me that the women keep it secret. 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:08.720 I'm like, nah, like, uh, where's yeah, yeah, where's my 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:09.800 monthly payment or size? 0:01:09.880 --> 0:01:13.360 So what what did you discover? Let's say hi to James, Yo, James, 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:15.000 it's good yo. 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:15.800 Whatever what do you show? 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:17.560 So what did you what did you learn? What did 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:18.000 you discover? 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:21.479 So me and my older sisters took a twenty three 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:24.080 and me, uh and found out that the three of 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:25.279 us all had different dads. 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:30.399 Oh wow, that's got to be a lil Yeah. 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:32.600 Yeah, I'm glad we found out. 0:01:32.600 --> 0:01:34.240 We did it because my mom had cancer, so we 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.600 wanted to see what kind of genetic makeup and uh, 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:38.800 good thing we found out because she passed like three 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:40.200 months later after she told us. 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:40.640 Wow. 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:42.680 And then so like, so what happened that? How did 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:46.200 you confront uh you know, the people involved? I mean 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:47.680 how like did you bring it up or did just 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:51.200 kind of you had the information did nothing with it. 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:52.040 Yeah. 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:54.480 So we were all on a FaceTime call with me 0:01:54.520 --> 0:01:57.080 and my sisters and my mom, and I pulled up 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.680 the results kind of showing it and uh, I was like, wait, 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:04.240 it says I'm half Mexican, not Salvadorian, and my mom 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:05.160 like kind of. 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:07.400 Panicked and dropped off the call, and we all talked 0:02:07.400 --> 0:02:07.600 to him. 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:14.000 We all pulled it up, and two days later she 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:16.920 kind of satisfolled down and was like, I was afraid 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:18.720 to bring this up. I didn't know this would ever 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:20.639 come up thirty years ago. I didn't know you guys 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:24.520 would have DNA testing in your hands. Yeah, and uh yeah, 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:28.360 so I don't know my biological father and I haven't 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:30.600 told my other father. 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:32.640 Same thing with my sisters. 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:35.359 We just thought that now she's passed, there's no point 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:36.160 in bringing it up. 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.360 Well no, but I'm thinking, like, you know, did you 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:41.239 say anything with the guy who raised you, who he 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:43.640 thought was your dad and who he thought you were 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:44.160 his son? 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:49.560 That's crazy, Yeah, that's yeah for the dad. Yeah, well I. 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:52.920 Knew you would say that. Greg. I'm sorry, but you 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:53.680 know it is. 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:55.760 I think now I'm thirty three and you know, kind 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:58.360 of have my own life away from him, and I 0:02:58.440 --> 0:02:59.880 just think at this point in time, you know, it's 0:02:59.880 --> 0:03:01.440 not something to bring up because I'm. 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:03.239 Not using him for anything. I'm not getting any money 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:03.600 from him. 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:05.880 No, No, I understand, And what's the point. What's the 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:08.160 point of bumming him out too exact? 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:08.720 Aig? 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:11.840 Yeah, yeah, all right, Hey James, Man, I appreciate the call. 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:12.639 Thank you. 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:15.160 Yeah, I guys have a going number one out here. 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:17.920 Ye, hey man, thank you. Did you find out like 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:20.680 your mom is hoeing around? Yeah? 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:23.160 That's tough, you know. But here's the thing. 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:25.200 It's one thing like, oh, your dad took off and 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:27.359 you never knew anything about your dad and just there 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:28.919 was no male figure in your life. 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:31.600 This poor other dude who thought he was Yeah. 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:33.760 I think it's the right thing though, that he's not 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:34.320 telling him. 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:37.040 Yeah, I really think the right decision. 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:37.880 But it's the right thing. 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:39.400 No, I agree with that. 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:41.360 I would think about that and stop. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:42.440 All separate dads. 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:45.160 That's pretty crazy, right, that's a mean mom's out there 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:46.480 putting it, you know, put it down. 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:49.200 He's living her life. 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:53.760 Yeah, a brook, Hi, Hi, all right, So what'd you learn? 0:03:55.160 --> 0:03:58.480 So my mom did twenty three years ago and found 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:00.800 out she had a long lost of brother on her 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:05.640 dad's side. Her dad had passed away already, so she 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:10.160 confronted her mom about it, and my grandma just was like, 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:11.240 oh yeah he did. 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:12.520 Wow. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:14.880 It was mary shocking to all of us that she 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:18.880 has this long lost brother nobody knew about. 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:21.039 You gotta wonder, like, how do these guys pull this 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:24.039 off who have secret families? Well, think back in the 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.440 day it was way easier wall Yeah, but even like 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:28.760 how but how do you manage that even back in 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:33.200 the day before, just from a I don't know an 0:04:33.240 --> 0:04:34.440 operational standpoint. 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:37.920 Yeah, when I said I found out my dad had 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:40.960 a second family in the Czech Republic, Like, how are 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:44.120 you doing? You got once a year by yourself for work. 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:47.000 That's what I said that, Like, yeah, it's one thing 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:48.120 if you have you you. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:50.000 Know, the different country thing. 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:50.680 I don't know. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:52.479 You skipped town, You got some chick pregnant, you were 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:54.840 with them whatever, skipped town and you've never seen or 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.760 heard from again. But the people who are who are 0:04:57.800 --> 0:05:00.720 you know? Got got plate spinning and both places? 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:04.360 Like how does the secret family know about the quote 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:05.240 normal family? 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:07.760 I think, Well, the people that I know that have 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:10.680 like their other family in Mexico that their American family 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:12.880 does and know about. I think the family in Mexico 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:14.240 knows that. 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:16.839 But I almost think it's easier for them to be 0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:18.680 out of the country. I know someone who did DNA 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:21.920 testing after their parents had already passed away, found out 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:24.000 that she had a half sister who lived down the 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:26.560 street from her her whole Yeah. 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:28.880 So Brooke like like, how did your grandma find out? 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:34.360 Well, I think my grandpa and this other woman put 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:38.599 they put their son up in for adoption, and I 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:40.960 guess it just was a conversation that they had together 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:43.520 and they just never told my sister or her five 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:47.760 other siblings. Yeah, so my mom actually reached out to 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:52.000 this new brother and they met up. They I guess 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:54.920 hung out one time and that was it and they 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:56.920 just kind of keep in touch here and there. 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.159 Huh crazy. 0:05:59.279 --> 0:05:59.880 Did I ever tell you? 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:00.480 Hi? 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:01.120 Thank you Brook? 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:02.160 Thanks Brook? 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.039 I think I told you the story Woody about how 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:08.600 my best friend had three, not one, three extra families 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.039 that his dad had in Nicaragua show up at his 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:14.839 dad's funeral. His current wife was there and the American 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:18.040 family was there. It was the most awkward thing ever, man, 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:20.479 and the mom was all pissed, wouldn't let him, you know, 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:24.000 see the dad. And do you know, it was a 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:28.840 whole thing, three different no fighting, no fighting, but it 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:29.560 was a mess. 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:35.520 No fighting fight. Let's say hi to Amanda, what's up? 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:38.080 Amanda Morning Show. 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:40.720 Hey, hey, all right, so through twenty three meter or 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:44.359 ancestry dot Com, Like, what kind of surprise did you get? 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:45.160 Well? 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:48.240 I never knew my biological father, who left when I 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:51.560 was like two months old. So I eventually did a 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:55.200 twenty three meters just to find you know, where he's from, 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:59.120 that kind of thing background, what is he? And I 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:02.520 found that I had a half sister that I had 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:07.400 no idea about. And funny enough, her name also starts 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:10.520 with an A. Her birthday is four days before mine, 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:12.400 but she's two years older than I am. 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:19.120 Four days before he was really putting Johnny Applesey is 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:20.760 years older. 0:07:20.560 --> 0:07:23.760 Than I am. But so like the timing is kind 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:24.880 of funny. 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:29.080 Okay, Okay, so not the same year. I thought this 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:31.320 dude had, like, you know, one daughter going over here, 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:32.960 the other kid over here. 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:35.080 Within like a few days of each a couple of years. Okay, 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:35.800 got that one. 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:38.640 But come to find out he wasn't. Never he never 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:43.960 divorced her mother before he ever married my mother. So yeah, interesting. 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:45.600 Question for all you guys who have done this stuff. 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:47.640 So you find out, Okay, so you finally you have 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:51.880 this this half sister, how do you contact them because people. 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:54.280 Like they contacted me on Facebook. 0:07:54.280 --> 0:07:54.960 It's always. 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:58.680 It's always DM yeah. 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:03.960 Sometimes on the side, Hey do you know this person? 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:07.400 And it was like, no, I've never met him, but 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:08.400 I know of him. 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:11.200 Yes, are you available for a chat? 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:15.480 And the funny thing how you guys say about how 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:17.960 it tells you like this person's your second cousin or 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:21.800 whatever on it it said that we were cousins, that 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:25.559 we weren't sisters, but we were cousins, which is the case. 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:26.119 That's weird. 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.440 All right, Well, Amanda, thank you for the call. Appreciate 0:08:28.480 --> 0:08:30.880 you listening. I saw a great time. 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:31.640 Number one. 0:08:32.440 --> 0:08:37.520 Hell yeah, thank you, Amanda, thank you. Some other text 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:38.000 air Gina. 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:40.480 Yeah, this one's crazy because it happened in high school. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:42.680 This poor thing is in high school. We were learning 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:44.959 about genetics and the teacher started talking about eye color 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:46.720 and this girl said she was the only one in 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:48.720 her family with her color eyes. So the teacher was like, 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:51.680 you're adopted, and then she they didn't see her for 0:08:51.679 --> 0:08:53.440 a week. She didn't show up at school and she 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:57.280 was in fact adopted. The teacher being like, you can't 0:08:57.360 --> 0:09:01.160 have those crazy. And there's an the other one from 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:03.480 the seven one to four, says twenty three and me. 0:09:03.640 --> 0:09:05.880 We found out we have a half sister in California. 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:08.840 We found out seven years ago. She's now sixty two 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:10.960 and retired, but we spent the weekend with her and 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:13.600 her family. So stoked my dad kept her a secret 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:18.199 for fifty five years. That tight lip, dirty old goat 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:19.880 fifty five years. 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:20.839 I saw one in here. 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:24.240 It's a see nine one three found out through ancestry 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:27.199 research that my grandmother lied to us about her father 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:30.280 having passed away when she was a baby. In actuality, 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:33.480 her parents got divorced. Her dad moved to another city 0:09:33.480 --> 0:09:36.120 and lived into his seventies. My grandma was too embarrassed 0:09:36.320 --> 0:09:37.800 to say her parents divorced. 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:38.240 Shake. 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:38.719 I get that. 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:41.920 Back in the thirties, it was such a different time. Yeah, 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:43.640 so you made up this whole story. Now my dad 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:44.360 died as a baby. 0:09:44.440 --> 0:09:45.120 No, I get it. 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:47.439 My grandmother's parents were divorced, and it was like the 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:50.320 biggest shame and scandal you could think of. Yeah, so 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:51.360 you'd rather tell them that. 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:55.400 They did eight seven seven forty four warning text us 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:57.720 over to two two nine eight seven more what you 0:09:57.720 --> 0:09:59.200 show next. 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:03.600 The was this legit fitness model that I worked with 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:06.400 and he was super hot, and so I thought like 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:08.600 it would be the ultimate power move to bang him, 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:12.199 and I did. And then instead of him telling everyone, 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:14.800 I told everyone because I thought that would make me 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:17.280 look cool, and it caused a ton of problems and 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:18.000 then he got fired. 0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:25.720 So I think that the we're all getting thrown off 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:29.640 the scent by Sammy. What this trip all that she 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:32.240 went on was all about. I think she's scoping out 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:37.040 wedding venues. Oh, because she came back and she was saying, like, 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:40.079 you know, she's realizing that brides field way too much 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:41.920 pressure to have the perfect wedding. 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:42.640 Like we didn't ask. 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:46.640 Yeah, you know, she went back to Massachusetts, which is 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:49.559 where she's from originally, so yeah, chicks want to get 0:10:49.559 --> 0:10:51.640 married and stuff like that. And so it was this 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:53.680 whole thing about like, no, I'm meeting up with old friends, yeah, 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:56.119 to tell them all the chicks they're going to be bridesmaids. 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:59.920 Well, there was a wedding marriage too, so letting talking 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:03.280 and well what happened was it was in The wedding 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.640 was in Cape Cod and it was raining. It rained 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:08.679 the whole time we were there. And the wedding was 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:12.000 at this house that was an outdoor venue and chairs 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:15.320 and everything, and the bride her sister had got married 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:17.080 at this house in twenty seventeen. 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:18.600 It was one that they grew up going to in 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:19.360 the summer. 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:21.960 And so she had a very specific vision in her 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:23.640 mind of what this wedding was going to be. They 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:25.840 had to put a tent out over the reception area, 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:29.360 and she refused to have the ceremony under the tent. 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:31.640 It needed to be where she had decided it was 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:33.840 going to be. But it's pouring rain out, so they 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.280 had to hand out clear umbrellas to everyone. They didn't 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:39.679 have enough. People are sharing umbrella. She's walking down in 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:43.600 the mud in the pouring rain. Her like vision of 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:45.920 what she had been planning and what I think she thought. 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:46.920 She wanted it to be. 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:50.040 What's what's I mean, what's the difference between being under 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:51.640 a tent and being under umbrellas? 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:57.240 No? Well, because of allocation in the in the backyard. 0:11:58.480 --> 0:11:59.880 Was in a different spot the guy, and. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.840 Then no one could see anything because everyone had umbrellas 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:03.400 in front of her. 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.840 Right, wait, she didn't have it the week Closset Resort 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:10.720 and Golf Club. Yeah, how gross? 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:13.360 Yes, I mean you should have told her like, Okay, 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:14.880 this is what you're in a vision, but you have 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:15.720 to be flexed. 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:19.160 A lot of She had one friend that was like, girl, 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:20.720 we need to get serious. 0:12:20.840 --> 0:12:22.880 Through but it did get to the point where it 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:26.439 was like, nobody make any suggestions because she wasn't having 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.120 any suggestion. It was like, no, this is what we're 0:12:28.120 --> 0:12:29.920 gonna do. We're gonna try and wait out the rain. 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:32.200 So now it's a two hour delay for the wedding. 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:34.520 At least it was an early wedding. It was supposed 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.240 to start at three. But then it's like trying to 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:36.880 wait out the. 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:39.640 Rain and like people are hungry and getting annoyed. 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.160 Right all the guests. Yeah, like it's just an immediate 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:42.800 family thing. 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:46.240 She had a vision, man, and you can't. And I 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.360 don't think it's her specific. I know it sounds like, 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:51.280 oh my gosh, but I do really think that brides 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:53.720 just get this vision if everything needs to be perfect 0:12:53.760 --> 0:12:55.280 and then it needs to be this way and they're 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:56.000 trying to. 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:57.520 I mean, if they're high maintenance bitches. 0:12:57.559 --> 0:12:58.280 Yeah. 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:00.360 The one thing I will the one thing I will 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:03.040 give it is if you're a bride and you're planning 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:05.920 all this stuff and you have a thousand jillion decisions 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:08.680 to make that are so minute and so detailed. You 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:11.320 are being asked a lot of things, so you're expecting 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:15.040 those things to happen. I understand that, but that's the thing. 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:18.560 It's like, if you're having an outdoor wedding, sorry, bitch, 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:19.160 you gotta. 0:13:18.920 --> 0:13:19.600 Be ready to pivot. 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:20.120 Sure. 0:13:20.200 --> 0:13:24.439 I mean the tent for the reception itself was the backup, right. 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:33.679 Taking all our notes, your umbrellas, beach club, outdoor thing. 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:35.000 Is it going to be like indoors? 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:38.800 Is it gonna be like a Disneyland the one that 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:39.400 you're planning? 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:42.760 Did you did you have this trip just to be 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:45.679 at this wedding or just this wedding happened to be 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:47.560 happening when you went on the trip. 0:13:48.120 --> 0:13:50.480 No, I went on the trip for the wedding and 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:52.720 then but it was a midweek wedding too, so then 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:53.559 it was extended. 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:57.920 And this girl, as if the Friday weddings weren't baden 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:00.079 this girl, everybody has to it. 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:02.640 Yeah, so that's what I found out. 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:04.959 So when we were checking into our hotel, the lady 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:06.400 checking us in asked us what we were there for. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:08.319 We said, a wedding. She was like oh, I knew 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:09.800 it was going to be a wedding. She was like, 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:11.440 Thursday weddings. 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:14.360 Are the new thing because everything is booked out solid 0:14:14.600 --> 0:14:21.360 on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday getting married on Monday. They've 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:25.600 now opened up Thursdays as well because vendors everything, you know, photographers, whatever. 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:27.880 If everyone's booked and it's who you want, they've opened 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:28.480 up Thursdays. 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:30.960 Left early because you were like in the bridal party. 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:34.520 But no, she's just a selfish, cheap person, this bride. 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:36.160 Yeah, and put it on everybody else to have like 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:39.200 call for work. Yeah, your friends during it was even 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:42.080 during a holiday week either, Yeah, your friend sounds kind 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:42.520 of miserable. 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:43.720 Should be x from. 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:46.320 Let me guess she's the one that like they throw 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:48.000 the rice and she goes right into the car. 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:48.800 On her honeymoon. 0:14:49.680 --> 0:14:51.280 No, it was at a It was at a house, 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.160 so everyone a lot of people are staying. 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:54.640 At that house. 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:59.160 Sammy, when is she going on her honeymoon? It's like now, 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:03.800 isn't it. That's like for somebody who was such a 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.640 traditional thing, like nobody does that anymore. It's like, oh, 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:08.840 and maybe we'll have a honeymoon next year or a honeymoon 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:09.320 in six months. 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:10.920 People. I left the next day. 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:12.119 No, really. 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:15.680 Really so old school. 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:17.640 We were the old school is like you said, you 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:19.160 leave the ceremony, get in the car. 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:21.840 Yeah, yeah, no, they had everyone was at the house. 0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:24.920 They partied that once it was over, she was super chill. 0:15:25.560 --> 0:15:27.080 You're waiting for the moment to relax. 0:15:27.160 --> 0:15:27.800 I got married. 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:30.280 Next day was like a breakfast with all our out 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:32.560 of town family who was there and just hung out 0:15:32.600 --> 0:15:32.960 for the day. 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:34.800 And then it was the day after that that we 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:35.640 left for the honeymoon. 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:38.239 That's so like, very traditional. 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:41.480 That is I think more like what Greg says, like 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:44.040 you have the car with all the cans, so. 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:46.760 Little campy like that's a little bit like. But leaving 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:49.280 within like the week of the wedding, Yes, wow. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:51.440 Because I took time off to get married, right, and 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:56.080 we got married next week in a city where yeah 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:58.480 I didn't live. Yeah, So we did that and then 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.240 went the thing and it was done. 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:03.120 Yeah that breakfast you had the next day, I was 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:06.880 so hungover. I think that might be the last time 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:07.480 I was hungover. 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:08.040 Yeah. 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:08.520 Probably. 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:12.480 Well, you know Greg's sin open bar. Yeah, did you 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:13.720 see holding himself up. 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:16.640 That timar what he posted on his Instagram just the 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:19.240 other day. It was a uh it was a car, 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:21.800 I said, just married, and it was on the back 0:16:21.840 --> 0:16:25.200 of a flatbed like tow truck and it said starting 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:27.600