1
00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,720
Speaker 1: Make a decision. Not sure if you made the right decision,

2
00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,000
Speaker 1: So you call us and we'll figure it out for you.

3
00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:07,800
Speaker 1: We're live on ninety three three fl Z, Ashley, Terry,

4
00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:16,600
Speaker 1: Jadme Joe Show and also Tests Hi Tess Hi Tess Day?

5
00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:18,320
Speaker 1: Was this weekend?

6
00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:18,599
Speaker 2: Right?

7
00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:22,520
Speaker 1: And that was bad?

8
00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:24,680
Speaker 3: Yeah?

9
00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:25,439
Speaker 4: It was pretty bad.

10
00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:32,599
Speaker 1: So I have a couple of questions, then we'll figure out.

11
00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:36,519
Speaker 1: You know what everyone thinks an eight hundred four ninety three.

12
00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:43,120
Speaker 1: When did you realize that you needed to leave?

13
00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,440
Speaker 4: I mean, I was sitting there for a solid forty

14
00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,199
Speaker 4: five minutes, I mean, and that just gone hinge. We

15
00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:53,880
Speaker 4: didn't really talk much before we decided to go out,

16
00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:58,560
Speaker 4: but we met it all of garden and when I

17
00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:01,360
Speaker 4: tell you, everything where that came out of his mouth

18
00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,319
Speaker 4: was just like want of tone and so boring. I

19
00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:07,480
Speaker 4: was being lulled to sleep by the moment. I felt

20
00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,320
Speaker 4: like my brain cells were popping by the second. And

21
00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,960
Speaker 4: I just it was so hard for me to even

22
00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,600
Speaker 4: remain president in that conversation because all he would talk

23
00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:20,000
Speaker 4: about was his job and medical device sales, and it

24
00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,840
Speaker 4: was just so inherently boring. I've never been on a

25
00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:26,520
Speaker 4: date that was so so lustless and I was just like,

26
00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:30,280
Speaker 4: I can't do this, So I snuck away. I went

27
00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:34,120
Speaker 4: to the bathroom before the food got there, and I escaped.

28
00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:36,080
Speaker 5: I left.

29
00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:43,680
Speaker 1: Now here's the thing, Olive Garden. I thought about this

30
00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,920
Speaker 1: a lot last night. Tests Olive Garden might be the

31
00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:52,520
Speaker 1: best place to ditch someone because it's like a circle. Right, Yeah,

32
00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:55,240
Speaker 1: so like you could you could leave and never have

33
00:01:55,320 --> 00:02:00,240
Speaker 1: to leave on that side. But when did he text? Year,

34
00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,080
Speaker 1: I'm assuming he called texted? What did he do? How

35
00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:04,800
Speaker 1: did he find out that you were gone?

36
00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:04,960
Speaker 3: Like?

37
00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:06,920
Speaker 1: How long did it take him to realize you weren't

38
00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,079
Speaker 1: coming back from the bathroom?

39
00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,200
Speaker 4: Well, I mean I blocked him after I left, So

40
00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,440
Speaker 4: I'm not quite sure of the exact timeline. But at

41
00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,120
Speaker 4: least he had endless breadsticks.

42
00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:26,120
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay, So eight hundred four nine ninety three

43
00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,880
Speaker 1: ninety three. I've never I have never done this before.

44
00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:30,799
Speaker 6: I've always wanted to.

45
00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,240
Speaker 1: And thank goodness, I've never had it happened to me.

46
00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:37,720
Speaker 6: You've why said, through dates where I really wanted to

47
00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,519
Speaker 6: get up and leave, but I've never had the courage

48
00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,280
Speaker 6: to do so. And I don't think you're an a

49
00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:41,720
Speaker 6: hole for.

50
00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:45,480
Speaker 4: It, thank you.

51
00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:47,280
Speaker 1: I don't.

52
00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,079
Speaker 4: Because I couldn't have it anymore.

53
00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:55,360
Speaker 1: Well, I think she is an a whole because you

54
00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:58,240
Speaker 1: ordered food, and I think it's just really rude and

55
00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,720
Speaker 1: obnoxious to order food and then it with the guy there. Yeah,

56
00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:10,080
Speaker 1: but at the same time, you know it going bad within.

57
00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:14,320
Speaker 6: I know someone who has done this before, and instead

58
00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,600
Speaker 6: of leaving them with the bill, she ended up going

59
00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:18,480
Speaker 6: to the server paying for it.

60
00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,280
Speaker 1: In walking out, she was like, I would pay. I'm

61
00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,680
Speaker 1: going to pay something that's respectful at least. Yeah, but

62
00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,840
Speaker 1: then you risk the chance of him seeing that. I mean,

63
00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,840
Speaker 1: you got to make a swift ex you get that

64
00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,880
Speaker 1: heck out of here. Hey, I love those like I

65
00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,720
Speaker 1: keep thinking about it, Like, look at a map of

66
00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,840
Speaker 1: an olive garden. If you've never been in it, is

67
00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:39,960
Speaker 1: it the best place to ditch someone? It might be.

68
00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:44,960
Speaker 1: The more I think about this. Stephanie out of Northport.

69
00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,280
Speaker 1: You know, tests goes on this date, bad date. He's

70
00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:53,040
Speaker 1: making it all in about himself. It's it's just you know, Tess,

71
00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,000
Speaker 1: you said it. You very quickly realized this was not

72
00:03:56,200 --> 00:04:00,480
Speaker 1: the guy for you, so you leave. Steph What do you.

73
00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:04,920
Speaker 2: Think I've had to text my father to have him

74
00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,160
Speaker 2: get me out of three dates, and so I've excused

75
00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,720
Speaker 2: myself and left, and I understand when it's not going right,

76
00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,040
Speaker 2: but I have to say, you kind of are to

77
00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,760
Speaker 2: a hole because he did order food, and you just

78
00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:19,960
Speaker 2: didn't have a chance to like at least just maybe leave.

79
00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,360
Speaker 5: Him much of drinks, but to order the food too.

80
00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:23,320
Speaker 4: It's not so great.

81
00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:29,480
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Did you did you know you were

82
00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,600
Speaker 1: leaving before you ordered the food, or did you order

83
00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:33,640
Speaker 1: the food and then go all right, I gotta get

84
00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:34,040
Speaker 1: out of here.

85
00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, it wasn't like an intentional thing. It's just I

86
00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,520
Speaker 4: was trying so hard and we ordered the food and

87
00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:44,840
Speaker 4: then it's like as after that, it just kept progressing

88
00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,400
Speaker 4: and getting more and more dront out, and I just

89
00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,920
Speaker 4: realized afterwards it's not like I ordered the food and

90
00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,080
Speaker 4: it was like all right now all the time.

91
00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:53,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is.

92
00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,640
Speaker 2: Hard to be in a situation where you're not comfortable,

93
00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:57,599
Speaker 2: but it.

94
00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,880
Speaker 5: Still wasn't the best the best.

95
00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:01,560
Speaker 2: Move to do that you could have just you know,

96
00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,360
Speaker 2: told him afterwards, thank you, but no thank you.

97
00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,560
Speaker 1: I love that you use your dad. By the way, Stephanie,

98
00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,279
Speaker 1: I think that that's all.

99
00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:15,720
Speaker 2: They all had bad teeth and some of them.

100
00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:17,440
Speaker 1: Are you saying all men in Northport have bad teeth.

101
00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:23,080
Speaker 2: Unfortunately the few I went out with did.

102
00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,200
Speaker 1: Hey, Tyler, you say that Test is not the a hole.

103
00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:32,400
Speaker 3: No, not the a whole Waiting until the end of it,

104
00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:37,599
Speaker 3: you're just dragging things out. She didn't eat the food,

105
00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:44,039
Speaker 3: and you've got something to eat tomorrow whenever he's, you know,

106
00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:45,760
Speaker 3: reeling over this situation.

107
00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,160
Speaker 1: Pasta is the best type of food to have is

108
00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:49,680
Speaker 1: left over.

109
00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,480
Speaker 3: It just the noodle mm mmmm.

110
00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,799
Speaker 1: Tess See, you didn't get breadsticks, you didn't get noodles,

111
00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:00,479
Speaker 1: you didn't get nothing. Yeah, I almost feel almost feel

112
00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:04,360
Speaker 1: bad for you. Alexa is Test the a hole. She

113
00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,919
Speaker 1: went out on this date dates not going well. She

114
00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:12,080
Speaker 1: left before the food even got there and blocked his

115
00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,039
Speaker 1: number and never said anything to him again.

116
00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:15,760
Speaker 3: Listen.

117
00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,600
Speaker 5: I commend her for her cohones to do that, because

118
00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:23,320
Speaker 5: that's fantastic. The only thing that I think is listen.

119
00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,880
Speaker 5: I would have pulled I'm a mom, so I would

120
00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,919
Speaker 5: have used some sort of excuse so I didn't just

121
00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,880
Speaker 5: up and bounce. I would have been like, listen to

122
00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:32,839
Speaker 5: my kid, or there's an emergent, you know, something to

123
00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,280
Speaker 5: at least give the guy, like being boasted like that

124
00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,080
Speaker 5: would suck, Like imagine put yourself in those shoes. That

125
00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,520
Speaker 5: would suck, and then not knowing, you know, being blocked,

126
00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,480
Speaker 5: like there's zero closure. So she doesn't owe him that.

127
00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,640
Speaker 5: But I just feel like individual, the individual, like he's

128
00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,080
Speaker 5: still a human and he might be boring, but dance

129
00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,880
Speaker 5: like that sucks. So I you know, I don't know,

130
00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,840
Speaker 5: but good for her for her confidence to go, because

131
00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,880
Speaker 5: that's most people would have just been like, oh my god,

132
00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,120
Speaker 5: this is the worst thing ever. Sorry, you know, so

133
00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,920
Speaker 5: I don't. I'm in between with her, like to the

134
00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:04,400
Speaker 5: next one.

135
00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:06,680
Speaker 1: I gotta get, you know, for.

136
00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:11,200
Speaker 5: Sure, for sure? Damn could you imagine? Like but I

137
00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:13,240
Speaker 5: guess it's different for women that I got. Maybe I

138
00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:14,840
Speaker 5: don't know. Men are sensitive these days, So.

139
00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,480
Speaker 1: These days I've been sensitive. I came sensitive out of

140
00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:24,840
Speaker 1: the womb. That's the womb, woomba. I cannot talk this morning,

141
00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,560
Speaker 1: but listen. What I can say is test a lot

142
00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,280
Speaker 1: of calls right now and a lot of people are

143
00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:32,360
Speaker 1: saying that you are not the a hole, which I love.

144
00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:39,440
Speaker 1: I love that, and you know, I I want to

145
00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:41,920
Speaker 1: try this. I don't know how I I try this

146
00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,440
Speaker 1: being engaged in everything, but I want to see. Maybe

147
00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:46,360
Speaker 1: like Jed and I go out to eat one day

148
00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,360
Speaker 1: and we'll see, I'll ditch them before the food even

149
00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,920
Speaker 1: comes out. Tests you're not the a whole. Thank you

150
00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:52,560
Speaker 1: for calling in