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Speaker 5: I'm just like we've been done. We've been done.

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Speaker 5: He didn't, he just blocked me.

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Speaker 3: I've heard I've used this eighty times.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that is a good bed. Wow, I guess it

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Speaker 8: Did you where did your new boyfriend wear them? Like

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I didn't ask you, just gave him

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Speaker 7: They don't sell used underwear, but they they do sell

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Speaker 7: Okay, Jenny, I will give you three different categories. You're

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Speaker 9: Friend Seinfeld cheers, I'm not good at sign Yeah, those

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Speaker 7: The office Praiser.

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Speaker 3: Hey, you got something at the end there. Good job. Okay, great, sweetie.

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Speaker 3: Your last category is Jenny.

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Speaker 3: Hell, I love that show.

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Speaker 8: Hi, Dave?

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Speaker 7: Your first category, Dave, and you're gonna name as many

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Speaker 7: All right, fabulous, And your final category, David is cartoon

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Speaker 1: Damn drawn such a blame?

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Speaker 3: All right? Okay, you guys.

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Speaker 7: It was like a little TV version of Face Off.

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Speaker 7: There we'll go one by one here in TV channels. Jenny,

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Speaker 7: For cartoon TV shows, Dave you got six and Jenny

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Speaker 1: a second RAN show. I will warn you if you

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Speaker 12: No rhythm?

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Speaker 10: I mean the way that he grabs my boobs.

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Speaker 12: It's like he doesn't know how to use his instrument.

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Speaker 1: I wonder why it is that so many wonderful guys

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Speaker 8: I don't know, man, Let's be real, Intimacy is such

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying completely dump them.

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Speaker 9: Somebody texted it and so that he can get better

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Speaker 9: Go see a sex therapist. Let me tell you, six

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Speaker 9: Like, that's just yeah, it's that's an uncomfortable conversation and

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Speaker 3: Right, I do totally.

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Speaker 7: A lot of people are saying, you know, hey, you

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Speaker 7: Because that would be such an awkward like, hey, babe,

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Speaker 1: you don't want to fix everything at once. I'm gonna gaes, Stephanie,

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Speaker 7: For example, what if you say it once though, and

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Speaker 7: And then the next time it comes back around and

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Speaker 9: So without having the sit down conversation when you're actually

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and then they still do it that way.

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Speaker 3: Well, the problem is she's been you've been kind of

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Speaker 12: This whole time, right, Well, I mean I definitely I

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Speaker 4: I should say something, you know, in the bedroom or yeah,

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Speaker 4: well let me grab a phone call.

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Speaker 1: Really quick because we got to take a break. We

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Speaker 1: So basically we're not trying to be sillacious or do

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Speaker 1: it's not dirty or vulgar. It's that's the love and

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Speaker 1: pretty good. I don't have your name. My phone screen

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Speaker 1: want to comment to Stephanie. What's your name?

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Speaker 3: Ebie?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what you want to say about it?

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Speaker 4: Well, just listening to the conversation.

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Speaker 14: If it's worth the relationship to you to stick around,

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Speaker 14: Just like Dave said, you got to have the conversation.

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Speaker 14: I've been married for twelve years, got married very young,

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Speaker 14: If it's not the best, just act like it's all right.

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Speaker 10: No, absolutely not.

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Speaker 14: Just let him know, like, hey, it feels a lot

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Speaker 4: Feel better if you do it this way, or let's

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Speaker 14: I think conversation piece is definitely needed in this. You

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Speaker 14: do not have to suffer through.

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Speaker 1: That girl, because the longer it goes on, the lot

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Speaker 1: harder is going to be to fix the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Stephanie's on the phone, give me your sum

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Speaker 1: up your problem with your boyfriend in one sentence, Stephanie, Okay.

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Speaker 4: I I love everything about him, but a sex is awful.

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Speaker 1: Awful, awful. And we were talking about, you know, not

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Speaker 1: just how do you fix it, but can it work

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Speaker 1: I remember when I was brand new it like, you know,

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Speaker 1: that's what you did. I didn't know. So then you

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Speaker 1: learn to like just you know, slowly, and you know

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Speaker 1: what else you can do. You can you can hold

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Speaker 3: Your lips.

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Speaker 9: I'm not looking at you at the microphones in my way,

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Speaker 9: blessed gosh.

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Speaker 1: All right, So the question is, and we've got a

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Speaker 1: I love this guy. They're wonderful I always happy when

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Speaker 1: I'm around them, but it's just not good loving. Can

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Speaker 1: it work out? Elliott is on the phone with some input.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Elliott, What do you want to share with this? Elliott?

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Speaker 15: Well, you guys were speaking about how did you bring

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Speaker 15: you know, hey, so what do you like?

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Speaker 13: What position do you like?

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Speaker 11: Oh?

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Speaker 15: Well, I like this and I like that, which would

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Speaker 7: Let's try that, So making it seem like he's the

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Speaker 3: Ball in his court.

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Speaker 1: Okay, gotcha. Why do you think, Elliott, that so many

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Speaker 1: we're all done. Why do you think so many guys

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Speaker 14: I think it's just.

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Speaker 13: Social media and everything they have.

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Speaker 7: You know, they have these these younger you know, kids

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Speaker 1: And what you know, bathing should be, and you know

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Speaker 1: they just I don't know yourself, Elliott. Time to rate

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Speaker 1: Oh man, listen, I still want to be a sex therapist.

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Speaker 13: Let's let's put it like that.

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Speaker 15: I'm eleven, Alli, Alliant.

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Speaker 7: Are you single?

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Speaker 11: I am? I am.

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Speaker 7: Eli?

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Speaker 3: What'sar you from?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Park, not.

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Speaker 1: Too far stand on the corner in Brooklyn, Park.

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Speaker 7: Elliott, my thumb is out anyone, anyone.

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Speaker 8: There is some truth to that though, like p on

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Speaker 3: Let's just be so.

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Speaker 1: In the capital P world, the woman enjoys whatever is

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Speaker 1: going on. Yeah, you know what I mean. He can

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Speaker 7: I think a lot of text messages that are saying like, hey,

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Speaker 3: I'm also seeing one that's.

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Speaker 7: Saying hey, can you Unication isn't just speaking up.

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Speaker 3: It's also listening. So he has to be willing to

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Speaker 7: And if you bring it up like in the moment

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Speaker 7: a conversation like what Elliott just said, Hey, what do

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Speaker 8: Somebody texted and said they need to have a Subprina

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Speaker 8: Carpenter moment where she does this on on stage when

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Speaker 3: And should do a sex position on stage on this one?

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Speaker 1: or did you just throw the cake right in there?

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Speaker 13: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Good question.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good question.

446
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Speaker 9: To heat in the oven is more important than throwing

447
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Speaker 9: the cake in there.

448
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Speaker 3: Just you don't just so.

449
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Speaker 9: Every every recipe is it up stove or well that

450
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Speaker 9: other kind that doesn't really matter for but some people

451
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Speaker 9: need it at four and twenty I degree. Some people

452
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Speaker 9: only needed at like three fifty and.

453
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Speaker 3: Some people need it for fifteen minutes. Some people could

454
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Speaker 3: use like a good twenty five and time broilers. You

455
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Speaker 3: got to make that type of time.

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Speaker 7: Only things. We're actually talking about making a recipe.

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Speaker 3: Right now, which she sucks at anyway, So I don't

458
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Speaker 3: know why she's.

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Speaker 1: Okay, basically, let's get let's answer her question though as

460
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Speaker 1: best we can. She wants to know, Okay, the relationship workout,

461
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Speaker 1: even though the love in his subpar And.

462
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Speaker 7: A lot of people are agreeing that, yes, it can.

463
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Speaker 7: You have to teach him, but maybe not right in

464
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Speaker 7: the moment as it's happening, because he might not be

465
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Speaker 7: hearing you in that moment, but having to have a

466
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Speaker 7: conversation about it and communicating.

467
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Speaker 3: Because if you can't communicate, then you shouldn't be doing

468
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Speaker 3: it in the first place.

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Speaker 9: Jenny, I was gonna say, a lot of people are saying,

470
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Speaker 9: just try to communicate because he seems to be a

471
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Speaker 9: really good person in all other aspects.

472
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Speaker 7: That sex is definitely something that you can teach people.

473
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Speaker 3: It sucks that you have to.

474
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Speaker 1: But here's something interesting in text message at katiewb one

475
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Speaker 1: and thanks for all these my husband has askedper there's

476
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Speaker 1: no social cues exact sex issues. Great guy, but no

477
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Speaker 1: clue in the bedroom. They want to know what to do,

478
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Speaker 1: but they can't emotionally handle being told interesting.

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Speaker 8: Okay, you have to be able to be emostly like

480
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Speaker 8: to be told that. I and I don't know if

481
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Speaker 8: other people are like this. Sometimes I'll ask, like, can

482
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Speaker 8: I am I doing something wrong? Not in that moment,

483
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Speaker 8: but I'll ask can I be doing something better? Because

484
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Speaker 8: I care about pleasing my partner? So I hope that

485
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Speaker 8: he's like that, that he's willing to care about pleasing

486
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Speaker 8: your partner too. So you and I have to punch you. God,

487
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Speaker 8: he's trying to be friendly. God, Hey, Stephanie. I think

488
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Speaker 8: that the good news is you can work it out,

489
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Speaker 8: but it's going to take some work.

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Speaker 4: Okay, this has been so helpful, really, I think for.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people. Honestly, I think a lot of

492
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Speaker 1: people have realized I'm not the only one with a

493
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Speaker 1: clueless man in the bedroom. YEA, thank you.

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Speaker 12: It sounds hopeful.

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Speaker 4: So I definitely am gonna, you know, bring it up

496
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Speaker 4: and ask him, uh.

497
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Speaker 1: You know, put the ball in his court, changing lives

498
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Speaker 1: one thousand dollars from Kdwble. Would you change about your boobs.

499
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it was just talking about the keyword, but

500
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Speaker 1: you go ahead. What did you just say, we know

501
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: what the keyword is? Moving on?

502
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Speaker 3: Okay?

503
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Speaker 7: Really?

504
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Speaker 10: Yeah?

505
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Speaker 7: So what would you change about your boobs?

506
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Speaker 3: My goshi?

507
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Speaker 1: Right now? Yeah, right now, you have a list.

508
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Speaker 7: List out you guys can be a part of this conversation.

509
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Speaker 1: But yeah, we'll ask what would we change about Bailey's booms?

510
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Speaker 14: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: What you would change about your knockers? Oh, let's see,

512
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Speaker 7: I would so right now, there's one of them is

513
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Speaker 7: like an A cup and the other one's like almost

514
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Speaker 7: an A cup.

515
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Speaker 3: For yeah, it's like the smallest one.

516
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Speaker 7: I would want a B cup I think, and like

517
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Speaker 7: a not like a almost a B cup and a

518
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Speaker 7: B cup. I would want them both to be healthy

519
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 7: B cups, both solid B cups, solid bees. That would

520
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Speaker 7: be really nice so I could look more proportionate, Jenny,

521
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Speaker 7: what would you change about your boob?

522
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Speaker 9: So we have brought this up plenty of times on

523
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Speaker 9: the show before are but I've got higher naps? Oh yeah,

524
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Speaker 9: so I'd probably just bring them down a few centimeters

525
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Speaker 9: because I wear tops that I'm constantly concerned that something's

526
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Speaker 9: going to slip out.

527
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Speaker 3: Oh, it's going to peek out over your shirt.

528
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Speaker 7: But I don't want them to go too much lower,

529
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Speaker 7: because when.

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Speaker 1: They are is the dumbest kind of I mean, I

531
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Speaker 1: respect it, but this is probably the most incongruent conversation

532
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Speaker 1: we've had on the show.

533
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Speaker 9: Finished when they're out loose in the open, for like,

534
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Speaker 9: say a gentleman. Yeah, I like what they look like

535
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 9: out that way because they look perkier than they are,

536
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Speaker 9: you know, And I'm getting to the age where I

537
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Speaker 9: might get a little lifty, you know. I want them

538
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Speaker 9: to stay up.

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Speaker 3: A bit and then just on their own.

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Speaker 14: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I will say that is the one perk of having

542
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Speaker 7: small boobs is that they seem to be perky all

543
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Speaker 7: the time, even though in my heart I'm not perky

544
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Speaker 7: about it, but the way that they are sitting is

545
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Speaker 7: naturally perky.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, if you just turn the radio one. I

547
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Speaker 1: was having trying to have a conversation about winning a

548
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Speaker 1: thousand dollars important stuff, and then I had planned to

549
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Speaker 1: talk to Vaunt about the possibility of Final Destination seven,

550
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Speaker 1: but then I got interrupted by Bailey going or Jenny going.

551
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Speaker 7: One last thing. Yeah, I do get some hairs. Yeah, well,

552
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Speaker 7: I don't be all to be gone, to be gone

553
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Speaker 7: forever and ever forever.

554
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

555
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Speaker 7: That and like boob sweat, which I don't get a

556
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Speaker 7: lot of because there's not a lot of boob, but

557
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Speaker 7: when it's like really hot out and then like, yeah,

558
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Speaker 7: I apologize, my boob like sits on top of like

559
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Speaker 7: my first like belly roll and it's kind of like sweaty.

560
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean.

561
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Speaker 7: I know what you mean.

562
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Speaker 9: Like sometimes if I have a like right, for example,

563
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Speaker 9: the the little table in front of Bailey and I

564
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Speaker 9: I could just like PLoP mine on there if I want. Yeah,

565
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Speaker 9: I do enjoy that about my boobs that I can

566
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Speaker 9: just call they're like kind of yes.

567
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Speaker 1: So they did the roller coaster one, they did the

568
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Speaker 1: bridge one, the race car one, they just did the high.

569
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Speaker 3: Skyscraper things.

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Speaker 7: Truck we're talking about can of course.

571
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Speaker 9: Yes, if you're gonna be supportive, you can ask a question,

572
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 9: get it supportive like a bra and.

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Speaker 3: Please text it if this is an HR violation or not. Jenny,

574
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Speaker 3: is this a real concern?

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Speaker 8: Are your nips that high that you worry that when

576
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Speaker 8: you wear a tip top they could pop out?

577
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 3: They're that high?

578
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Speaker 9: Absolutely, I'm shoulders to watch depending on the offhan I'm wearing.

579
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Speaker 9: I give a responsibility to one of my girlfriends for

580
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 9: the evening, like you're on nip slip duty. Okay, Yeah,

581
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Speaker 9: And it was a fun game that I played in college.

582
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Speaker 9: If you could guess where my nips were, I bought

583
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Speaker 9: your drink. If you got it wrong, you bought me

584
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Speaker 9: a drink. It was a fun little college game. I

585
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 9: can circle my boobs.

586
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Speaker 7: That was another thing.

587
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Speaker 3: I always circle. What does that mean?

588
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 7: Like?

589
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 9: I can shimmy home and then they can go on

590
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 9: one big loop. They teach you that in burlesque school.

591
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Speaker 7: Is that well, yeah, it's a it's like, you know,

592
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 7: you're shimmy and then your your tassels go in a circle,

593
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Speaker 7: and then if you lift one arm, it goes in

594
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Speaker 7: a different way, and then you lift the other arm,

595
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 7: it goes a different way. And then there's some big boobs.

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Speaker 7: I can't remember.

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00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 9: Yeah they would You just say Susan had big boobs.

598
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 9: She could probably do the circle thing too. I'm calling

599
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Speaker 9: hr Ohless the first sure can do the circle phone

600
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Speaker 9: with her boobs?

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Speaker 7: Come on, now, you know what I think that they

602
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,479
Speaker 7: should invent And it's actually like terrible that they haven't yet.

603
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 7: So if you have giant boobs and you get a

604
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 7: breast reduction, everyone's like, good for you, babe, good for you.

605
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 7: You do you. But me, as a tiny boobs person,

606
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 7: if I say, oh, I want bigger boobs, people to

607
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 7: be like, love them the way they are.

608
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 3: But I just want to take a suction like cup.

609
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 7: Put it on my sister's boobs, take some of her

610
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 7: boobs because I know she doesn't want all of them,

611
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 7: and then just suction them and siphon them right into

612
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Speaker 7: my boobs.

613
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 3: How come they haven't come up with that yet? What

614
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 3: happened between you and your sister?

615
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 8: Like, I don't feel comfortable asking this, Like the gens

616
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Speaker 8: from your mom, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You know, my sister got all the good ones.

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Speaker 7: She got the big old boobs, and she got the

619
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Speaker 7: pointy chain thank you. I have these tiny little boobs

620
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Speaker 7: and I got a round dog face. Shut stop it.

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Speaker 3: But still that's what I would want. I want to

622
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Speaker 3: siphon her boobs to thank you. I would really appreciate it.

623
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Speaker 1: I mean, I turned the microphone on a little while

624
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: ago and I was like, okay, let's talk about the

625
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: thousand dollars keyword, which again is star and you should

626
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: use it on katiewb dot com to enter that. And

627
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: then five ten minutes from now we get a Sabrina

628
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: Carpenter keyword and then all of a sudden, you know

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Speaker 1: it's supposed to be the Dave Ryan in the Morning Show,

630
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Speaker 1: but I don't.

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Speaker 3: You're an engineer.

632
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 7: And you know how to create one of these boob siphons.

633
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 7: Can you let us know?

634
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 3: Please? Thank you?

635
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 9: That would be really want a text coming and that

636
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,719
Speaker 9: says they sit down, Yeah, we want to hear.

637
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Speaker 3: This is best segment.

638
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 1: I'm not even trying anymore. Yeah, I'm not even trying anymore.

639
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Speaker 3: HR violation to the max.

640
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Speaker 9: What are you talking about having a friendly conversation? Sometimes

641
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Speaker 9: I think we forget though that like other people hear

642
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 9: the conversations, you know, like we kind of think.

643
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Speaker 3: That it is just the two of us talking the

644
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Speaker 3: bucket of content?

645
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 7: Jenny, Can I be on nip duty today?

646
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: I can just hear this conversation.

647
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 7: What I'm wearing tonight.

648
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 3: You'll be on nip duty for me too.

649
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: Say you're working at United Healthcare, you're down and eating prairie.

650
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Speaker 1: You're dining in like a conference room or there's a

651
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Speaker 1: big zoom call and you're trying to talk about the

652
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: new budgets for whatever, and then a couple of like

653
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Speaker 1: some he's like, hey, Bailey, what would you change about

654
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: your boobs? And it just throws the whole thing. It's

655
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Speaker 1: just not right.

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Speaker 7: Well, that sounds like an environment I want to work.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

658
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Speaker 7: The thing is, we always have like ideas for how

659
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 7: we want to change our boobs, we just never get

660
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Speaker 7: the platform to talk about it. And platforming women is

661
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Speaker 7: really important. Yeah, women support women, Dave, we do what

662
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Speaker 7: would you change about your boobs?

663
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Speaker 8: To day time?

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Speaker 3: To break it?

665
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Speaker 1: I'd give some to you, Bailey. Yeah, we wouldn't normally

666
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: do this on Halloween because it has nothing to do

667
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: with Halloween. But there's some urgency to this caller. And

668
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: we're talking to Becca right now. Becca, we're live on

669
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: the radio right now, and we got you. We're gonna

670
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: use you next week for group therapy. We thought there's

671
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: some urgency to this one, so really quickly, and I

672
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 1: know it's kind of a long story. Tell me what

673
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: you are faced with with this wedding. What's up, Becca?

674
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so my husband has a best friend who just

675
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 2: recently got engaged. Bride is lovely, we have some things

676
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 2: in common, She's nice, and we've known each other for

677
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 2: just over a year, I think. Okay, late lately, the

678
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 2: groom has been kind of hinting that I will be

679
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 2: asked to be a bridesmaid. The problem is, I don't

680
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: really know this girl. We're friendly, we're not really friends. Sure,

681
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 2: we've hung out one on one and the conversation seemed

682
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 2: kind of quiet, a little bit strained, and pretty like superficial.

683
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 2: And this couple lives about like an hour away from

684
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 2: the city, so we kind of see them sporadically, but

685
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: we're supposed to see them this weekend. So I'm getting

686
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 2: a little bit anxious about you know, can I can

687
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 2: I say no to being a bridesmaid? How do I

688
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 2: do so without you know, embarrassing myself or her? Because

689
00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,040
Speaker 2: anyone said no to this before and it's been fine.

690
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: And I don't want to put words in your mound,

691
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: but I did I read in there that's like, you know,

692
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: all the duties that come along with the bridesmaid, with

693
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: the bridal shower and the bachelororette party and all the things,

694
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: and you don't necessarily have or want to invest the

695
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 1: time with you know, respectfully somebody.

696
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 3: You don't know that queen? Did I get that right?

697
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 6: Yes?

698
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 2: I just you know, I kind of picture myself, you know,

699
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: sitting in the corner, not really knowing anyone, and then

700
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 2: you know, not having any fun memories or anything like

701
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 2: about the bride to contribute when you know you play

702
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 2: those the classic how well do you know the bride game?

703
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, those like kind of.

704
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 2: Standard things that go along with the showers and the

705
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 2: bachelorette parties. And just as a note, I'll also be

706
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 2: about four months postpartum when the wedding occurred. I'm not

707
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 2: really sure that I will feel or look my best.

708
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 2: And I know it's you know, people aren't looking at me.

709
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: But I just if I'm included in a wedding, I

710
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 2: want to be able to support one hundred percent or so.

711
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: The big question is you're looking for advice, like, how

712
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: do you say no because you think they're going to

713
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: maybe ask you this weekend because today's Friday, and you

714
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: think that they're may maybe ask you this weekend because

715
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: you're going to see them, and you're like, eeke, I

716
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: don't want to hurt anybody or look mean, but I

717
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: don't really want to that's kind of the question, right right, And.

718
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 2: You know it's it's more just because I just don't

719
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: feel like I know her. The groom has already kind

720
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: of declared who his groomsmen will be, and so now

721
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 2: it's kind of down to the bride and she's she's

722
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 2: got some sisters, so.

723
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 1: I know that you might be a little bit of

724
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: a space filler.

725
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 2: Two. Yes, that's exactly kind of how I feel. I'm like,

726
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: you know what, am I just there to make things

727
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 2: even on both sides because that's not really a great

728
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 2: feeling either.

729
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 1: No, I totally get that. I don't want to cut

730
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: you short, but we have to move through a break here.

731
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: But what I'm going to do is that you can

732
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: keep your radio on and find out what people say,

733
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: because I'm going to guess that's somewhere somebody is listening

734
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: who's had to say no for the same reason, or

735
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: a bride who's asked and they said no and they

736
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: said no in the right way or the wrong way.

737
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: So Becca, keep your radio on. We'll have some answers

738
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 1: for you.

739
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, thank you?

740
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Happy Halloween, good luck. I don't know

741
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: why I'm whispering.

742
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

743
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: I don't want her friends to hear.

744
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 7: Well, we've already gotten some text messages, so we can

745
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 7: come back to those at the other side.

746
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 1: A lot of ideas. Love to hear what you think.

747
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 1: A little special treat for you. We actually put on

748
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 1: our Halloween costumes from last night, so you can see

749
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 1: them on YouTube Dave Ryan TV if you want to

750
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: go check those out. They're not actually full costumes because

751
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 1: I don't have my makeup on. I was Jenny, yeah,

752
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: and Bailey's wearing her hat, but no green makeup.

753
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 3: Now, I had a green face last night. It took

754
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 3: me like thirty minutes to put it on, so I

755
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:46,919
Speaker 3: wasn't about to do it again.

756
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 1: The funny part is you look a little bit like

757
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: Inspector Gadget because you were wearing your hat on top

758
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: of your headphones. Yeah, so you look a little bit

759
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: like Inspector Gadget, Right, Bailey, I think you look like

760
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 1: the guy from Curious George.

761
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 7: That's what everyone thought I was gonna be because I

762
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 7: asked for a yellow hat and they were like, ooh,

763
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 7: you're gonna be Curious George and the man in the

764
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 7: yellow hat.

765
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 3: And I didn't say otherwise. So it was a bait

766
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 3: and switch.

767
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: You can see us on YouTube, Dave Ryan TV. Jenny,

768
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 1: I am.

769
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 9: Tina Carlisle because I am Bailey's boyfriend. I'm Bailey's girlfriend

770
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 9: from the Mask. That's Cameron Diaz's character in the Mask.

771
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,959
Speaker 9: And Dave, I'm obsessed with the fact that your little

772
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 9: uh barber or not wait, necklace is hanging.

773
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 7: Between your cleavage right now. It's just being held up.

774
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 3: By your boobies. Does it work out? He's Jenny and

775
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:33,399
Speaker 3: you go world, yeah, yeah, wow, yeah yeah. And I'm

776
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 3: a little orphan any I have the full costume one,

777
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 3: I have my wig, I have my red dress.

778
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 7: It's all only half for your costume though. Those two pieces.

779
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 1: Well yeah, well the bit I was wearing leggings last night.

780
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 1: Yoga pants is what you girls call him. Yeah, leggings,

781
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: and I don't have those on today. So I we're

782
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:52,840
Speaker 1: from the from the neck up right now, shoulders up.

783
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: So if you want to see us on YouTube, we'll

784
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,320
Speaker 1: have these costumes on for the next step out to

785
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,839
Speaker 1: know twenty minutes, fifteen minutes, not a whole lot more

786
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: because this thing is very itchy. But you see a

787
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 1: bunch of pictures from Boo Bage last night on Dave

788
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: Ryan Show on Instagram. So we talked to a woman

789
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: Becca a little while ago. Really interesting question and I'm

790
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: gonna sum it up for you. Basically, she knows her

791
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: her husband's friend is getting married. They don't know his

792
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: fiance very well, but she's very nice. They've known each

793
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,720
Speaker 1: other for about a year and they've had conversations Becca

794
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: and the woman the bride, and it's like, you know,

795
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: it's a okay conversation, but you know one of those

796
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: where you're not really hitting it off and you make

797
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 1: polite conversation, you struggle for something to say. And so

798
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 1: she thinks that they are going to ask her to

799
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: be the one of the bride'smaids, and she doesn't want to.

800
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: And the simple reason is she just doesn't know this

801
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 1: woman very well, and she's worried that if she does

802
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 1: the festivities and the bachelorette party and the bridal shower,

803
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: that she won't know anybody and she'll sit in the

804
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: corner and she just doesn't want to. Nobody likes that.

805
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 1: So she thinks they're going to ask her this weekend,

806
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: and that's why we put her on right away instead

807
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: of waiting till group therapy on Tuesday. What should she do?

808
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: If you've been declined by a potential bridesmaid? Is there

809
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: a polite way to do it? If you've declined to

810
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: be a bridesmaid?

811
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 3: Is what did?

812
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: How was the reaction? What do you think she should say?

813
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: And we got a ton of text messages, but first

814
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,439
Speaker 1: we got a bunch of phone call, or at least

815
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 1: one phone call. So let's see if we can talk

816
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 1: to John a little bit different perspective. John, tell me

817
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: your story. What happened?

818
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 13: So, yeah, I will asked to be a groomsman. This

819
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 13: was about five years ago and I barely knew the guy,

820
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 13: talked to him maybe a handful of times at the time,

821
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 13: and he just randomly asked me. And when he asked me,

822
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 13: I said, if you need me to be, I will,

823
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 13: because it's your day. I'm happy to help you. But

824
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 13: at the same time, I don't feel comfortable being a

825
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 13: groomsman yet. If you want to get to know each

826
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 13: other more or get to get together more often, then sure,

827
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 13: but I'd rather just be a person to be there

828
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 13: and help you and have fun with you.

829
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 1: Guys, what did you end up doing? Did you actually

830
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: end up being a groomsman.

831
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 4: Or did you not?

832
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 13: I actually did not. They found other individuals to be

833
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 13: a groomsman, and I'm still friends with him actually.

834
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: And he took it okay. I think sometimes I think

835
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 1: it happens with men more than women. Sometimes there are

836
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: guys that just don't have enough friends. She's got six friends.

837
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: He needs to round out that side of the ceremony,

838
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: so he'll like be like, I don't know, I got

839
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 1: six friends. Yeah, And so they sometimes, But then you

840
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: see the wonderful weddings where the guy has got like

841
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: ten groomsmen up there and they've known each other since

842
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: third grade and they played football together and it's like

843
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: so cool. And then there's other ones that just don't

844
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 1: work out.

845
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 7: And we have some text messages that are kind of

846
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 7: saying the same thing about the woman as well. One says,

847
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 7: don't say no. It's a chance to get to know

848
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 7: her better. She might not have a lot of close friends.

849
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 3: Yes.

850
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 7: Another one also says, she doesn't have close people in

851
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 7: her life. She may feel that you would be a

852
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 7: good person to have by her side at this point,

853
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 7: but you can just be completely honest with her and

854
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 7: tell her that you don't think you could show up

855
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 7: in the way that she would.

856
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 3: Need you to.

857
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 7: A lot of people are saying, blame the baby, blame

858
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 7: the baby, and that's kind of like a running thing,

859
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 7: especially if you're only if your four months postpartum. Say

860
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 7: that you can't devote one hundred percent and that you

861
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 7: won't be able to do it, and people are saying, hey,

862
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 7: that reasoning sounded perfect, and I think that would be

863
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 7: an acceptable No.

864
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, the reasoning is just like completely justifying.

865
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 8: My girlfriend, Alyssa, her sister got married and so she

866
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 8: asked the other sister and she was like, sorry, I

867
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 8: just don't want that responsibility.

868
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,359
Speaker 3: And that's her sister. So this girl, Becca's not even

869
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 3: like close.

870
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 9: What would you do, Jenny, Oh, I would definitely just

871
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,080
Speaker 9: blame having a child. I'd be like, I'm sorry, my

872
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 9: life is like too busy. And I do think that

873
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 9: that's like a truthful answer mixed with a passive aggressive answer.

874
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 9: And I think that that's perfectly fine because she doesn't

875
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 9: owe this person anything. She barely knows this person.

876
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 7: I don't know.

877
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 9: I would definitely say no, no matter what, because being

878
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 9: a bridesmaid is hefty duty.

879
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 7: Someone did suggest being a personal attendant, So you could say, like,

880
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 7: I can't I can't be a bridesmaids because I can't

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Speaker 7: put in that effort for you. But I would be

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Speaker 7: willing to be a personal attendant because I do feel bad,

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Speaker 7: Like if this is a girl who doesn't have a

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Speaker 7: lot of friends and that's why she's asking you.

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Speaker 1: Ye, that's what I feel.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, right, Because then like if you're a personal attendant

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Speaker 7: and if you offer it up, like, hey, I can't

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Speaker 7: be a bridesmaid because I'm going to be four months postpartum,

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Speaker 7: but I would love to be a personal attendant, then

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Speaker 7: it's still like a no, but versus just a no.

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Speaker 9: I think you can feel bad, but you also have

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Speaker 9: to think that like is it really her responsibility to

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Speaker 9: take on the financial toll of being a bridesmaid when

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Speaker 9: she's barely friends with this person?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it does cost money. That's not fair at all.

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Speaker 7: This Texas, my sisters and I were all asked to

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Speaker 7: be in a wedding of someone we didn't really know.

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Speaker 7: We said yes because we felt concerned, but it was

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Speaker 7: or cornered but it was awful.

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Speaker 3: Don't do it.

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Speaker 7: I would say, you are honored to be asked, but

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Speaker 7: unfortunately you will be unable to do it due to

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Speaker 7: having a new baby.

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Speaker 3: That's a reasonable reason.

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Speaker 1: Finally, wrap things up with Secretary Brie. So the dilemma is,

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Speaker 1: she's I think somebody that she doesn't know very well.

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Speaker 1: She is probably going to ask to be asked to

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Speaker 1: be a bridesmaid in her wedding this weekend, not the

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Speaker 1: wedding of this weekend, but she'll ask this weekend. She

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to because she doesn't know her well and

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Speaker 1: doesn't want all the duties that come along with it.

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Speaker 1: Wrap it up for me, Secretary Brie, what do you think?

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Speaker 7: Don't do it?

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Speaker 16: Don't do it at all if you're not feeling it,

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Speaker 16: you don't have the financial resources, and you don't know

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Speaker 16: the person well. Do not feel guilty saying no. My

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Speaker 16: half sister asked me to be her maid of honor.

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Speaker 16: I don't have a relationship with her, didn't I said

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Speaker 16: yes because I felt obligated. I didn't know a single

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Speaker 16: other bridesmaid in the wedding party, barely knew any guests.

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Speaker 16: It was the most miserable experience and I had to

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Speaker 16: travel up to the North Shore, spend a ton of money.

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Speaker 1: And I was the woman on it as simple as that.

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Speaker 1: All Right, thank you, Brie. We'll be back in a

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Speaker 1: second with katiew But I was going to say we

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Speaker 1: got a keyword for Sabrina Carpenter. But also, if you

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Speaker 1: ever an issue that you're like, I need some advice

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Speaker 1: and I don't know who to ask, somebody listening to

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Speaker 1: the show's got some advice for you because they've been

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Speaker 1: in that same sit situation. We'll be back in a

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Speaker 1: second on ktiewb with you Can't Make This Stuff Up.

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Speaker 1: We're going to talk about there's something with the new

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Speaker 1: iPhone that people are they They're like, am I imagining

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Speaker 1: this or is it really happening. Yes, it's really happening,

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Speaker 1: and I'll tell you about it.