WEBVTT - She Cleaned Kev's Apartment 

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you came into work. When was this a

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<v Speaker 1>couple three days day before yesterday?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, cause that show Anna on a ring camp. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was a day before, yes, okay. So you

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<v Speaker 1>leave her there enough that you trust her. She's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to steal your stuff. We got insurance and you

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<v Speaker 1>were but you're checking her out on the ring cam.

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<v Speaker 1>And what did you see her doing on the ring camp?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>So at my ring camera is set up like towards

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<v Speaker 4>my kitchen area, which is like near the front door,

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<v Speaker 4>and uh, I saw her walking in the kitchen. Get

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<v Speaker 4>the alert on my phone. There's motion by the front door.

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<v Speaker 4>And I saw her at the sink and it looked

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<v Speaker 4>like she was just rinsing off like her plate or

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<v Speaker 4>something like that. So I'm like, okay, cool, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>hang up the little ring cam. Continue on my day

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<v Speaker 4>and when I get home, she's gone. But it's almost

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<v Speaker 4>like she cleaned everything that was out of place.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fantastic.

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<v Speaker 4>The entire sink, because I had dishes in the sink.

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<v Speaker 4>The entire sink was wiped down, like no water spots either,

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<v Speaker 4>like she dried the sink too loaded the dishwise, is

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<v Speaker 4>that what I'm supposed to keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>She folded her towel and her washcloth and like laid

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<v Speaker 3>it like on the she showered. She showered.

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<v Speaker 4>She straightened up the pillows on the couch theory, and

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<v Speaker 4>like las she.

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<v Speaker 1>Like gardener white fluffed the seats and stuff like the

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea like boom boom, and.

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<v Speaker 4>She might have I didn't look that hard, but all

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<v Speaker 4>the pillows were like aligned chronologically, like it was like

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<v Speaker 4>color coded. When's the last time they were like that

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<v Speaker 4>on your couch? Probably three weeks ago when I cleaned

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<v Speaker 4>up like that. When kind of the first time she

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<v Speaker 4>was coming over, I was like, okay, let me straighten

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<v Speaker 4>up type of vibe. Yeah, So she did that. The

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<v Speaker 4>my little desk in my front, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 4>you call it, but all of my coasters were aligned properly.

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<v Speaker 4>The PlayStation controllers were like evenly lined up.

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<v Speaker 3>Like bro. She was like she was touching everything.

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<v Speaker 5>And I don't know why, Why is this a big

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<v Speaker 5>bad I just.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't know, because to me, it's one of two things.

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<v Speaker 4>Either you have OCD and you're a clean freak, which

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<v Speaker 4>is okay, do your thing, or you really really like

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<v Speaker 4>me and this is a sign of where you're at

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<v Speaker 4>in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>If I can't even say relationship, I think it's both.

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<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't call it O C D. I think she

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<v Speaker 5>just likes being neat and clean, And I also think

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<v Speaker 5>she likes you and respects you and wanted to do

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<v Speaker 5>that for you.

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<v Speaker 4>But the need and clean thing for me is like,

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<v Speaker 4>if you mess something up, you make sure you're needing

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<v Speaker 4>clean with your things, to go the extra mile to

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<v Speaker 4>like clean, she cleaned my stove.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, Oh my god, Like, yeah, you're I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>that you would even look at this in an in

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<v Speaker 1>any light. Then this is a girl I want to marry,

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<v Speaker 1>Like this is somebody that I, you know, want to

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<v Speaker 1>have a relationship with. You would look at this as

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<v Speaker 1>a negative?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't. I'm just asking a question.

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<v Speaker 5>I think this is big. It's a huge green flag.

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<v Speaker 5>So you wanted to take a bunch of stuff off

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<v Speaker 5>your plate so that you could just relax when you

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<v Speaker 5>got home.

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<v Speaker 3>We like her. Have y'all ever done this all that?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I say all the time, I would have

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<v Speaker 5>done the same thing. I feel like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>that's just in my nature to leave a.

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<v Speaker 3>Space, make meat. So you do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Even if I go like if I go to my

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<v Speaker 5>friend's house and I see that she's got like my

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<v Speaker 5>friend lindsay, I love her to death, but she's always

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<v Speaker 5>got crap all over her counters. If she like goes

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<v Speaker 5>into the other room to take care of one of

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<v Speaker 5>the kids or something, I always am.

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<v Speaker 3>Cleaning it up always. I would think we all do

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<v Speaker 3>that for each other. So she's actually good with that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>But if you went over to a guy's house, like

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<v Speaker 3>if you went to.

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<v Speaker 5>When West when I first started dating all the West

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<v Speaker 5>is very much a neat freak.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, like I feel like I would do that

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<v Speaker 3>in a situation like this.

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<v Speaker 6>No, because I haven't really been with a guy like that,

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<v Speaker 6>But I would absolutely do that. I feel like that's

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<v Speaker 6>just like a nice thing to do for them. If

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<v Speaker 6>you don't, you're a I will say, it's like more serious.

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<v Speaker 6>I wouldn't do that like my first or second time

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<v Speaker 6>seeing the guy.

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<v Speaker 3>What if it was your first or second time staying

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<v Speaker 3>at his place? But how long have you been talking?

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<v Speaker 3>Stay like a month?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe not to that extent, right, I'm still loading the

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<v Speaker 5>dishwasher and making that bad, but I'm not scrubbing your stove.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that part, by the way, don't now comes over.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but this wasn't like my house is never well,

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<v Speaker 4>I've gone through my filthy stage the last six months.

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<v Speaker 4>I've turned a new leaf and I'm like a clean

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<v Speaker 4>guy now. And so the house wasn't dirty, like she

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't in there, you know what I'm saying with my

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<v Speaker 4>shinley little air mob like scrubbing up and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>But what if she did like Josiah's laundry for.

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<v Speaker 4>I make sure Joe Shiah door shut. I don't need

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<v Speaker 4>nobody seeing that. Oh my god, that wouldn't need help.

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<v Speaker 3>Does he have two socks all over the floor? Science projects?

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<v Speaker 4>Just like has a water bottle that I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>what was inside of it, but it's been there for

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<v Speaker 4>four years.

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<v Speaker 3>It's changed colors. Oh my gosh, what's up, Megan, Megan?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think about this girl? Right?

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<v Speaker 7>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, good morning.

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<v Speaker 8>So I'm just gonna go ahead and say that I

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<v Speaker 8>was the girl that queen before I left, and I'm

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<v Speaker 8>not married to the guy, so it ended up working out.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you do it just because that's you, that was

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<v Speaker 5>your nature, or because you wanted to impress him specifically?

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<v Speaker 9>Well, it's kind of like my love language is like

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<v Speaker 9>you know, doing things for others. Yes, So like when

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<v Speaker 9>he would before he would come home from work, I

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<v Speaker 9>would make sure, you know, like his towels were folded.

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<v Speaker 9>He had a towel in the bathroom ready for his shower,

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<v Speaker 9>like just so it was very easy and smooth for

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<v Speaker 9>when he came home from work.

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<v Speaker 10>So now I'm married.

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<v Speaker 3>He wiped you up right there? NICKI does not like this.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up? Nikki?

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<v Speaker 7>This is this is the dumbest thing I have ever heard.

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<v Speaker 7>This is a huge red flag. Kevin run?

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me why Nick run?

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<v Speaker 7>Because Kevin and I think you know who I am.

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<v Speaker 7>I work at Fox two. Kevin, you know I mean business. Okay,

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<v Speaker 7>don't mess with this girl. She's crazy. Really, then what

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<v Speaker 7>happened when you get married? What else do you have

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<v Speaker 7>to look forward to?

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<v Speaker 11>Like?

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<v Speaker 7>What is she going to do?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, why is it?

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<v Speaker 7>Molly made?

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<v Speaker 11>Hi?

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<v Speaker 7>Your Molly made Kevin run?

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<v Speaker 3>But Nikki like like Shanna say, why why is it crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>Why is it she's looking through all your stuff?

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<v Speaker 7>She is looking through all your stuff right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Trust man, Nikki, I will say Ben.

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<v Speaker 7>And Josiah's room.

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<v Speaker 4>Trust I'll put up check it all out all the

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<v Speaker 4>important documents and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll make sure those are somewhere.

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<v Speaker 7>We will find them.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not alone, by the way I found them. You're

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<v Speaker 3>not alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Nikki five eight six says it it's pathetic to clean

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<v Speaker 1>someone else's space.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, yeah, bad got bread.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not you know, it's crazy now thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 4>She straightened up my refrigerator too. Oh wow, she like

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<v Speaker 4>jumbled in there, but so she like it was very aligned.

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<v Speaker 4>Did she look through to see which was expired mayonnaise

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<v Speaker 4>or no? I got a jarring pickles with like one

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<v Speaker 4>pickle in there.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up, Tyra?

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<v Speaker 11>I'm sorry, I'm laughing at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Good morning guy.

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<v Speaker 11>So regarding that last call, I would not say it's

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<v Speaker 11>a ram flag. I you don't do it for everybody,

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<v Speaker 11>you know what I'm saying. Like I've been in I've

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<v Speaker 11>been I'm fifty five years old, and I dated a

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<v Speaker 11>guy before for a while and he was a firefighter,

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<v Speaker 11>so he would leave me at his house, you know,

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<v Speaker 11>and he wasn't a complete mess. But if I'm there,

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<v Speaker 11>I'm going to straighten it up. And I never looked

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<v Speaker 11>any of his stuff at b RAH ever, so that

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<v Speaker 11>is not a necessary something that she's doing. But what

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<v Speaker 11>I will say is that we auditioned sometimes, Kevin, we

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<v Speaker 11>want you to know that, you know, we can do

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<v Speaker 11>this for you. So it's kind of afty type of things,

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<v Speaker 11>you know, which is kind of coming from her because

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<v Speaker 11>that's who she is, because that's who I am. But

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<v Speaker 11>I'm only going to do so much.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you thank her?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's so it's so crazy you asked that

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<v Speaker 4>question because literally I don't know, and I was having

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<v Speaker 4>that thought actively before you asked it, literally about to

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<v Speaker 4>text her and say, I don't know if I thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well she's now thinking, yeah, you got to hold on saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I got two people here that have opposite points of view.

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<v Speaker 1>Patty who says what Patty, Oh, good morning.

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<v Speaker 10>I say it's a red flag too.

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<v Speaker 1>One. Taylor is also on with us. Taylor, you disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't think that this can be a red flag?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean what I think her name is Nikki.

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<v Speaker 2>What she was saying about going through your stuff and

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<v Speaker 2>looking at your notes and things like that, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>obviously she's done. Kevin mentioned, Queen, I was not thinking

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<v Speaker 2>about going through things one bit, about making sure your

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<v Speaker 2>space is nice and clean.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she was organizing, Patty, why do you think there's

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 10>I think it's more of here's how I think you

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<v Speaker 10>should live, Here's how I think you should And I

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<v Speaker 10>say that, I think it's interesting that I can't remember

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<v Speaker 10>who just said it, but she said when she goes

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<v Speaker 10>to her friend's house, her eye was over. Here's the

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<v Speaker 10>interesting thing about that, Shannon said, when she goes in the.

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<v Speaker 7>Other room, I organize it, probably.

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<v Speaker 5>With her then, because I know she's busy in front

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<v Speaker 5>of her seriously, like that's a bad thing. It's helping

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<v Speaker 5>out somebody or a friend who I.

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<v Speaker 10>Just I was in a relation.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 10>If you know, we all have our I was just

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<v Speaker 10>in a relationship. And when I was going over to

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<v Speaker 10>his home, it was a manas and it drove me crazy.

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<v Speaker 10>But it was his home and I didn't not I

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<v Speaker 10>didn't feel it.

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<v Speaker 3>Was my place. I want to invite over to my house.

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<v Speaker 10>I would make dinner and clean up, I help my

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<v Speaker 10>project from the house. But the thing that I didn't

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<v Speaker 10>think I liked, I didn't just I think for.

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<v Speaker 5>Some people it is just their nature to do that.

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<v Speaker 6>Especially things you're touching if she used a dish clean it.

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<v Speaker 1>What if she threw out something that you really wanted

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<v Speaker 1>that would have been where Ye like all the other

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<v Speaker 1>girl's phone numbers that are all sitting.

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<v Speaker 3>There on the counter where there are none of those.

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah,