Speaker 1: Okay, so you came into work. When was this a
Speaker 1: couple three days day before yesterday?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 1: Yeah, cause that show Anna on a ring camp. I
Speaker 1: think it was a day before, yes, okay. So you
Speaker 1: leave her there enough that you trust her. She's not
Speaker 1: going to steal your stuff. We got insurance and you
Speaker 1: were but you're checking her out on the ring cam.
Speaker 1: And what did you see her doing on the ring camp?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: So at my ring camera is set up like towards
Speaker 4: my kitchen area, which is like near the front door,
Speaker 4: and uh, I saw her walking in the kitchen. Get
Speaker 4: the alert on my phone. There's motion by the front door.
Speaker 4: And I saw her at the sink and it looked
Speaker 4: like she was just rinsing off like her plate or
Speaker 4: something like that. So I'm like, okay, cool, you know,
Speaker 4: hang up the little ring cam. Continue on my day
Speaker 4: and when I get home, she's gone. But it's almost
Speaker 4: like she cleaned everything that was out of place.
Speaker 3: That's fantastic.
Speaker 4: The entire sink, because I had dishes in the sink.
Speaker 4: The entire sink was wiped down, like no water spots either,
Speaker 4: like she dried the sink too loaded the dishwise, is
Speaker 4: that what I'm supposed to keep going.
Speaker 3: She folded her towel and her washcloth and like laid
Speaker 3: it like on the she showered. She showered.
Speaker 4: She straightened up the pillows on the couch theory, and
Speaker 4: like las she.
Speaker 1: Like gardener white fluffed the seats and stuff like the
Speaker 1: Chelsea like boom boom, and.
Speaker 4: She might have I didn't look that hard, but all
Speaker 4: the pillows were like aligned chronologically, like it was like
Speaker 4: color coded. When's the last time they were like that
Speaker 4: on your couch? Probably three weeks ago when I cleaned
Speaker 4: up like that. When kind of the first time she
Speaker 4: was coming over, I was like, okay, let me straighten
Speaker 4: up type of vibe. Yeah, So she did that. The
Speaker 4: my little desk in my front, I don't know what
Speaker 4: you call it, but all of my coasters were aligned properly.
Speaker 4: The PlayStation controllers were like evenly lined up.
Speaker 3: Like bro. She was like she was touching everything.
Speaker 5: And I don't know why, Why is this a big
Speaker 5: bad I just.
Speaker 4: Don't know, because to me, it's one of two things.
Speaker 4: Either you have OCD and you're a clean freak, which
Speaker 4: is okay, do your thing, or you really really like
Speaker 4: me and this is a sign of where you're at
Speaker 4: in a relationship.
Speaker 3: If I can't even say relationship, I think it's both.
Speaker 5: I wouldn't call it O C D. I think she
Speaker 5: just likes being neat and clean, And I also think
Speaker 5: she likes you and respects you and wanted to do
Speaker 5: that for you.
Speaker 4: But the need and clean thing for me is like,
Speaker 4: if you mess something up, you make sure you're needing
Speaker 4: clean with your things, to go the extra mile to
Speaker 4: like clean, she cleaned my stove.
Speaker 1: Too, Oh my god, Like, yeah, you're I can't believe
Speaker 1: that you would even look at this in an in
Speaker 1: any light. Then this is a girl I want to marry,
Speaker 1: Like this is somebody that I, you know, want to
Speaker 1: have a relationship with. You would look at this as
Speaker 1: a negative?
Speaker 3: I don't. I'm just asking a question.
Speaker 5: I think this is big. It's a huge green flag.
Speaker 5: So you wanted to take a bunch of stuff off
Speaker 5: your plate so that you could just relax when you
Speaker 5: got home.
Speaker 3: We like her. Have y'all ever done this all that?
Speaker 5: I mean, I say all the time, I would have
Speaker 5: done the same thing. I feel like, I don't know,
Speaker 5: that's just in my nature to leave a.
Speaker 3: Space, make meat. So you do that.
Speaker 5: Even if I go like if I go to my
Speaker 5: friend's house and I see that she's got like my
Speaker 5: friend lindsay, I love her to death, but she's always
Speaker 5: got crap all over her counters. If she like goes
Speaker 5: into the other room to take care of one of
Speaker 5: the kids or something, I always am.
Speaker 3: Cleaning it up always. I would think we all do
Speaker 3: that for each other. So she's actually good with that. Yeah,
Speaker 3: But if you went over to a guy's house, like
Speaker 3: if you went to.
Speaker 5: When West when I first started dating all the West
Speaker 5: is very much a neat freak.
Speaker 3: But yeah, like I feel like I would do that
Speaker 3: in a situation like this.
Speaker 6: No, because I haven't really been with a guy like that,
Speaker 6: But I would absolutely do that. I feel like that's
Speaker 6: just like a nice thing to do for them. If
Speaker 6: you don't, you're a I will say, it's like more serious.
Speaker 6: I wouldn't do that like my first or second time
Speaker 6: seeing the guy.
Speaker 3: What if it was your first or second time staying
Speaker 3: at his place? But how long have you been talking?
Speaker 3: Stay like a month?
Speaker 5: Maybe not to that extent, right, I'm still loading the
Speaker 5: dishwasher and making that bad, but I'm not scrubbing your stove.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that part, by the way, don't now comes over.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but this wasn't like my house is never well,
Speaker 4: I've gone through my filthy stage the last six months.
Speaker 4: I've turned a new leaf and I'm like a clean
Speaker 4: guy now. And so the house wasn't dirty, like she
Speaker 4: wasn't in there, you know what I'm saying with my
Speaker 4: shinley little air mob like scrubbing up and stuff.
Speaker 3: But what if she did like Josiah's laundry for.
Speaker 4: I make sure Joe Shiah door shut. I don't need
Speaker 4: nobody seeing that. Oh my god, that wouldn't need help.
Speaker 3: Does he have two socks all over the floor? Science projects?
Speaker 4: Just like has a water bottle that I don't know
Speaker 4: what was inside of it, but it's been there for
Speaker 4: four years.
Speaker 3: It's changed colors. Oh my gosh, what's up, Megan, Megan?
Speaker 3: What do you think about this girl? Right?
Speaker 7: Good morning?
Speaker 3: Yeah, good morning.
Speaker 8: So I'm just gonna go ahead and say that I
Speaker 8: was the girl that queen before I left, and I'm
Speaker 8: not married to the guy, so it ended up working out.
Speaker 5: Did you do it just because that's you, that was
Speaker 5: your nature, or because you wanted to impress him specifically?
Speaker 9: Well, it's kind of like my love language is like
Speaker 9: you know, doing things for others. Yes, So like when
Speaker 9: he would before he would come home from work, I
Speaker 9: would make sure, you know, like his towels were folded.
Speaker 9: He had a towel in the bathroom ready for his shower,
Speaker 9: like just so it was very easy and smooth for
Speaker 9: when he came home from work.
Speaker 10: So now I'm married.
Speaker 3: He wiped you up right there? NICKI does not like this.
Speaker 3: What's up? Nikki?
Speaker 7: This is this is the dumbest thing I have ever heard.
Speaker 7: This is a huge red flag. Kevin run?
Speaker 3: Tell me why Nick run?
Speaker 7: Because Kevin and I think you know who I am.
Speaker 7: I work at Fox two. Kevin, you know I mean business. Okay,
Speaker 7: don't mess with this girl. She's crazy. Really, then what
Speaker 7: happened when you get married? What else do you have
Speaker 7: to look forward to?
Speaker 11: Like?
Speaker 7: What is she going to do?
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Wait, why is it?
Speaker 7: Molly made?
Speaker 11: Hi?
Speaker 7: Your Molly made Kevin run?
Speaker 3: But Nikki like like Shanna say, why why is it crazy?
Speaker 3: Why is it she's looking through all your stuff?
Speaker 7: She is looking through all your stuff right now?
Speaker 3: Trust man, Nikki, I will say Ben.
Speaker 7: And Josiah's room.
Speaker 4: Trust I'll put up check it all out all the
Speaker 4: important documents and stuff.
Speaker 3: I'll make sure those are somewhere.
Speaker 7: We will find them.
Speaker 3: You're not alone, by the way I found them. You're
Speaker 3: not alone.
Speaker 1: Nikki five eight six says it it's pathetic to clean
Speaker 1: someone else's space.
Speaker 7: Yes, yeah, bad got bread.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's crazy.
Speaker 4: I'm not you know, it's crazy now thinking about it.
Speaker 4: She straightened up my refrigerator too. Oh wow, she like
Speaker 4: jumbled in there, but so she like it was very aligned.
Speaker 4: Did she look through to see which was expired mayonnaise
Speaker 4: or no? I got a jarring pickles with like one
Speaker 4: pickle in there.
Speaker 3: What's up, Tyra?
Speaker 11: I'm sorry, I'm laughing at all.
Speaker 3: Good morning guy.
Speaker 11: So regarding that last call, I would not say it's
Speaker 11: a ram flag. I you don't do it for everybody,
Speaker 11: you know what I'm saying. Like I've been in I've
Speaker 11: been I'm fifty five years old, and I dated a
Speaker 11: guy before for a while and he was a firefighter,
Speaker 11: so he would leave me at his house, you know,
Speaker 11: and he wasn't a complete mess. But if I'm there,
Speaker 11: I'm going to straighten it up. And I never looked
Speaker 11: any of his stuff at b RAH ever, so that
Speaker 11: is not a necessary something that she's doing. But what
Speaker 11: I will say is that we auditioned sometimes, Kevin, we
Speaker 11: want you to know that, you know, we can do
Speaker 11: this for you. So it's kind of afty type of things,
Speaker 11: you know, which is kind of coming from her because
Speaker 11: that's who she is, because that's who I am. But
Speaker 11: I'm only going to do so much.
Speaker 3: Did you thank her?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 4: You know, it's so it's so crazy you asked that
Speaker 4: question because literally I don't know, and I was having
Speaker 4: that thought actively before you asked it, literally about to
Speaker 4: text her and say, I don't know if I thank you?
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well she's now thinking, yeah, you got to hold on saying.
Speaker 1: I got two people here that have opposite points of view.
Speaker 1: Patty who says what Patty, Oh, good morning.
Speaker 10: I say it's a red flag too.
Speaker 1: One. Taylor is also on with us. Taylor, you disagree.
Speaker 1: You don't think that this can be a red flag?
Speaker 2: No, I mean what I think her name is Nikki.
Speaker 2: What she was saying about going through your stuff and
Speaker 2: looking at your notes and things like that, I mean,
Speaker 2: obviously she's done. Kevin mentioned, Queen, I was not thinking
Speaker 2: about going through things one bit, about making sure your
Speaker 2: space is nice and clean.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was organizing, Patty, why do you think there's
Speaker 1: something wrong with that.
Speaker 10: I think it's more of here's how I think you
Speaker 10: should live, Here's how I think you should And I
Speaker 10: say that, I think it's interesting that I can't remember
Speaker 10: who just said it, but she said when she goes
Speaker 10: to her friend's house, her eye was over. Here's the
Speaker 10: interesting thing about that, Shannon said, when she goes in the.
Speaker 7: Other room, I organize it, probably.
Speaker 5: With her then, because I know she's busy in front
Speaker 5: of her seriously, like that's a bad thing. It's helping
Speaker 5: out somebody or a friend who I.
Speaker 10: Just I was in a relation.
Speaker 3: No, I don't.
Speaker 10: If you know, we all have our I was just
Speaker 10: in a relationship. And when I was going over to
Speaker 10: his home, it was a manas and it drove me crazy.
Speaker 10: But it was his home and I didn't not I
Speaker 10: didn't feel it.
Speaker 3: Was my place. I want to invite over to my house.
Speaker 10: I would make dinner and clean up, I help my
Speaker 10: project from the house. But the thing that I didn't
Speaker 10: think I liked, I didn't just I think for.
Speaker 5: Some people it is just their nature to do that.
Speaker 6: Especially things you're touching if she used a dish clean it.
Speaker 1: What if she threw out something that you really wanted
Speaker 1: that would have been where Ye like all the other
Speaker 1: girl's phone numbers that are all sitting.
Speaker 3: There on the counter where there are none of those.
Speaker 10: Yeah,