WEBVTT - 8am Hour - Come Here! ;) 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.000 On War of the Roses. You're not trying to find 0:00:02.040 --> 0:00:05.320 out whether Kyle is cheating. You're trying to find out 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:08.559 whether he's serious, right as tell well, that's right, give 0:00:08.600 --> 0:00:10.720 me the story. Tell me what's going on with Kyle 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:13.880 and everything that makes you want to do a different 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:15.240 brand of War of the Roses. 0:00:15.240 --> 0:00:15.680 What's up? 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:23.439 Yeah, So, like I'm bracing myself for judgment. But so 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:24.360 I'm dating this guy. 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:26.079 Named Kyle, and. 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:30.520 I'm planning on getting married on I have the. 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:35.800 Date picked out, It's September thirteenth, twenty twenty five. That's 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.880 always been like the plan, right, And I have rings 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:42.559 picked out and everything, the venue, like I've done my research, 0:00:42.800 --> 0:00:45.800 Like everything is good to go. I'm getting married in 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:48.720 upstate New York because that's where my family lives, and 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:50.360 I want everyone to be able to come to the wedding. 0:00:50.440 --> 0:00:50.640 Sure. 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:53.440 Yeah, so that's all good. 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:55.920 The only thing is, and this is like where I'm 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:59.680 worried that people might judge me, is like I'm not engaged. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:04.440 I don't quite have the fiance quite yet. 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:07.680 And I know, like I'm aware that people. 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:09.640 Think that's you know, like weird and crazy and. 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:13.600 Wrong and stuff. But I'm personally like a big proponent. 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:17.720 Of manifestation, and I feel like, you know, if I 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:18.840 believe something. 0:01:18.600 --> 0:01:21.240 To be true strongly enough, then I think it can 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:22.360 come to fruition. 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:24.840 Have you and Kyle talked about getting married? 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:29.679 Yeah? Yeah, I mean not like I would say, not 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:34.200 like in super concrete terms, but more like because we've 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:37.240 only we've been dating for nine months and we've been 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:41.319 living together for three of those months. Okay, so like 0:01:41.640 --> 0:01:45.000 it hasn't been like, you know, when do you want 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:45.640 to get engaged in? 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:46.559 When do you want to get married? 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.480 But it's more been like, you know, I love you, 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:51.880 and I really think that this is moving in the 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:53.760 right direction, and I feel like things are serious. 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:56.400 Okay, now the judgment is going to start to roll in. 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:58.600 They're going to be the text messages and there's but 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:00.560 but I but I like the fact that you are 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:03.840 grounded enough of Stelle, Because I'm totally judgy too, I'd 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:06.840 be like, yeah, Estelle, she crazy, but you are grounded 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:09.040 enough that you go, I know it sounds crazy, but 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:13.360 you legit believe that if you manifest manifest it is 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:16.120 that what the word is that if you manifest this, 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:19.000 that you believe it's kind of like I believe that 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:21.680 I'm going to get a better job, or I believe 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:24.799 that I'm going to lose thirteen pounds. So you are 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:30.120 trying to Here's my question. Did you have the wedding 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:35.080 date picked out before you met Kyle or since you 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:35.760 met Kyle? 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:41.480 So technically I've had the wedding date picked out before. 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:45.200 Okay, cool, Here comes more judgment. 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:49.120 Here comes I know, I know it's not but but 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:49.960 you can say it works. 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:51.880 You can you can make the argument, I don't want 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:53.280 to interrupt it. You could say it worked. 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:55.000 Because if you were single when you picked out that 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:56.839 wedding date, the venue in Upstate New York. 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:58.680 In the rings, here comes Kyle. 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.520 He seems yeah, so at. 0:03:01.440 --> 0:03:04.320 Least you've got one staff down exactly. 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:06.160 And like, you know, I've always wanted to get married 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:08.679 at a certain like age and at a certain sort 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.919 of like stage in my life. So you know, all 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:15.040 of the pieces are falling into place exactly the way 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.960 that I like, arguably manifested. 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:21.320 Can I ask you kind of a personal question, is 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:24.600 your goal being in love and having a partner that 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:26.519 you love, that you love to wake up next to, 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:29.560 that you love to go to Florida with that you 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:33.840 love to have or is your goal marriage? And I 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:36.400 know that's kind of a deep question, but I worry 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:40.680 that your goal is marriage, not having a wonderful partner. 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:45.480 Well, I think it's both, Okay. 0:03:44.440 --> 0:03:46.960 Like, I don't know if I could pick this one. 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.280 Like, I definitely believe in true love. 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:52.520 And I definitely like Kyle and I are absolutely in love. 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:56.080 We wouldn't be living together, you know, if I didn't 0:03:56.080 --> 0:04:00.880 feel so strongly about him, And but I also believe 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:03.840 in marriage, and like, family is really important. 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:04.880 To me, and that's why, you know, I want to 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:08.120 get married near my family and like I want to 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:12.600 you know, provide grandchildren my parents, you know. So it's 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:13.280 like both of those. 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:15.680 In a way, I admire you because a lot of 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:18.000 us just go through life like, okay, well let's find 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:21.239 out what happens next. Yep, oh, well let's get married. 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:21.559 Okay. 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:24.960 Well, yeah, I admire you because you're a planner, right, 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:27.080 But I'm going to tell you, we're going to get 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.000 people who are saying you're over planning. I'll read some 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:31.240 of those texts. While here's my question, though, what does 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:32.800 this have to do with War of the Roses, Because 0:04:32.800 --> 0:04:35.240 You're not worried that he's cheating. You're trying to find 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:37.680 out whether he is serious enough that he's going to 0:04:37.720 --> 0:04:40.880 stick to your schedule and marry you within two years? 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:41.680 Am I right? 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:43.000 Yeah? 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:44.839 Exactly, exactly. 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:45.279 Yeah. 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:47.200 So I feel like doing War of. 0:04:47.120 --> 0:04:52.000 The Roses on him would almost be like too obvious, because, like. 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:55.800 You said, like I'm not I'm not worried that he's. 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:56.280 Cheating at all. 0:04:56.800 --> 0:05:00.320 I'm just I just need confirmation that, like you know that. 0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:01.040 He wants to be with me. 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:04.799 And like forever, you know, like that this is really serious. 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.039 I've been thinking about it a little bit and I 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:09.200 want to see if you'd like this idea. And it's 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.320 not the be all end all, but it said, because 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:13.799 we're not trying to fight him his cheating, how about 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:20.279 we have Bailey filling in for Jenny. Call Kyle and 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:22.719 you know the thing, Bailey, you've heard War of the Roses. 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:25.200 I'm calling from your phone company, got. 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:27.560 Long dozen long stem red roses for. 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:29.600 You, and who do you want to send him to? 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.280 But roses won't work because of course he's going to 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:35.080 send roses to you. Here's my idea, and you guys 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:39.760 tell me what you think you offer Kyle either some 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:42.440 sort of adventure. Let's do this. How about a ski 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:46.919 weekend for four at Lutsen with the condo and the 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:49.560 rental and the lift tickets or whatever, so he can 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:52.880 go up with his boys or you and another couple. 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:56.440 And I did four because it's like, if it's romantic 0:05:56.480 --> 0:05:59.200 and it's just two, then he's probably gonna pick you, right, 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:02.120 But if it's people, he's gonna take his dopey, drunken 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:05.000 buddies up there. And if it's an if it's four, 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:06.400 then he's going to take another couple. 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.400 That's so then it's not as romantic. 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:13.400 Or how about two thousand dollars off a ring at 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:19.719 wedding day diamonds. Yeah, because think about this. If he 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:23.359 hears two thousand dollars off a ring at wedding day diamonds, 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:26.440 he might go, oh dang, I'm going to get his 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:28.919 stell the ring with the wedding day diamonds. 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:29.400 Gift card sreca. 0:06:29.480 --> 0:06:30.320 What a deal? Of course, I'll do. 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:33.800 What a deal. But if he's like, no, not no, 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:38.720 that ski trip sounds better and it's probably worth close 0:06:38.760 --> 0:06:40.560 to the same. I don't know how much a condo 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.560 is and you know, lift tickets are expensive, So are. 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:45.160 You cool with that? Astelle? If we call him and 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:45.560 have a ba. 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:48.119 Fantastic yeah. 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:51.440 That way he will either prove that he's not really 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:55.120 ready to buy that engagement ring, or he's ready to 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:57.200 buy the engagement ring because he's going to pick that diamond. 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:59.000 What if he goes down there and buys himself like 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:00.839 a really cool let's yeah. 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:04.000 He's got like a grill for his teeth. 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:08.760 He goes grills like, babe, look what I did? 0:07:08.920 --> 0:07:09.640 Oh my god. 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:12.200 All right, if you're cool, If you're cool with that, 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:14.960 then Stelle will make the call and we'll we'll trap 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:16.440 him and see what he wants to do. 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.160 I think this is perfect. I'm really excited about this. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:22.600 All right, Estelle, you stay there, we'll come back. Bailey 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:24.720 will make the phone call and we'll do that. It's 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:26.600 all coming up on part two of Four of the Roses. 0:07:26.600 --> 0:07:28.640 Send me a text, let me know what you're thinking 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:32.080 at Katie WB one and we'll be right back. 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:34.080 And now the. 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:37.480 Dramatic conclusion of War of the Roses, Well a girl 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:39.400 can hope one one. 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:42.160 Three kt W b oh Man. 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:44.480 We're gonna make a phone call in just a second. 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:46.240 Actually we're gonna yeah, we're gonna make phone call in 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:49.160 just a couple of seconds. But first though, uh, we 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:51.600 want to talk a little bit about what the text 0:07:51.600 --> 0:07:56.440 messagers are saying. I don't think she's crazy, but I 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:59.880 hope she doesn't just settle to make things happen for her. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.800 And that's what's really interesting. It sounds like she wants 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:05.680 just any guy that will work, that will like you 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:08.640 know that you know, we'll marry her, And it doesn't 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:12.640 sound like she really cares who it is who it is. 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:15.520 Yeah, she's looking more for like a wedding and not 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:18.320 necessarily a marriage with a particular person. 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:21.440 This one says via text message. 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:22.840 If we'll get the phone call in a second, Women 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:25.160 who fully planned their wedding while not in a relationship 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:27.400 are b as crazy, ron Kyle. 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:28.800 Is that true? 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:33.440 She convinced me a little bit, Bailey that MANIFESTI manifestifestation 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.120 is a legitimate thing. We actually had a therapist text 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:39.800 in and said, people don't know how powerful manifestation is. 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:43.400 But then we got a text message from Darcy. She 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:46.120 said it happened on Scrubbs Elliott. A girl had her 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:48.880 wedding date planned out for its specific church. The marriage 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:52.280 never happened because she cared more about her life plans 0:08:52.840 --> 0:08:56.360 versus the relationship. This lady is not self evolved enough. 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:59.400 She is doing this in the manners she is, and 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:03.200 the boyfriend should leave if she can't grow up running Kyle. 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:06.760 Run, Yeah, a lot of run texts for Kyle. 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:10.000 Let's make the phone call and find out what he chooses, 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:15.000 either the ski trip or the two thousand dollars off 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:18.679 a wedding ring at wedding day diamonds. One means he's serious, 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:20.960 one means he's not serious. 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:27.240 Okay, all right, awesome, Thank you so much for participating 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:28.000 in that survey. 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:29.360 You did such a great job. 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:32.440 We have two options for you that we'd like to 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:36.680 offer for you, so maybe one of these particular fancy. First, 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:39.439 we'd like to offer you a ski weekend for four 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:41.559 in Lutsen that's complete with. 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:43.520 A condo rental and lift tickets. 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.760 Or we're really excited about this new partnership we've got, 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.680 we'd love to offer you two thousand dollars off any 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:51.960 ring at wedding day diamonds. 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:54.440 Do either of those sound interesting to you, Kyle? 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:59.120 Honestly, this the ski weekend sounds really cool. Okay, I'd 0:09:59.160 --> 0:09:59.800 be down for that. 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:02.800 Okay, wonderful. I can definitely put you down for the 0:10:02.880 --> 0:10:03.640 ski weekend. 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:10.120 Oh man, I don't know how that's gonna go over 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:14.200 with Estelle. Let me back up a second, Kyle. Everything 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:16.079 is gonna get a little hazy. You're gonna feel a 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:19.600 little bit dizzy. You're gonna feel lightheaded as everything kind 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:23.280 of sings in here. Everything's okay, by the way, except 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:25.240 Astelle has been listening to this whole thing, and she 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:30.080 just heard you choose a ski weekend for four at 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:34.280 Loots and over two thousand dollars at wedding day Diamonds. 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:36.679 Kyle, let me go back and explain. 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:39.360 This is Dave Ryan, it's not your phone company, and 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:41.640 that's Bailey, and we're over on the radio. We're on 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:43.559 KATIEWB right now, and we set a. 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:45.120 Trap for you. Have you ever heard of War of 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:45.600 the Roses? 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:51.280 Kyle, Dude, I'm like, no, I know you're baffled. Baffled 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.080 is a great word. Baffled is a great word. This 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:58.079 whole thing was a trap to see whether you are 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:01.959 serious enough about Estelle to pick a wedding ring over 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:05.840 a weekend at Lutsyn for four with the rental and 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:08.520 the lift tickets and all that. And here's the funny thing. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:11.120 As you're baffled, that gets even worse because as Stelle 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:12.880 is listening, she's the one who put us up to this. 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.199 Hi say, Hi is Stlle? 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:14.679 Hi? 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:22.920 Tell Kyle why you Do you want to tell him? 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:24.280 Or do you want me to tell him why you 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:24.600 did this? 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:26.920 I can tell him? 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:32.040 So, Hi, Kyle, I I wanted to put you up 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:35.480 to a test to see, like, because I know, I 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:37.200 know you're not cheating on me, Like that wasn't at 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:41.080 all what I'm worried about. But I just wanted to 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:43.520 see like how serious you are about me, and like 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:47.679 if you were like seriously considering like taking the next 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:51.760 step with me. And I guess I didn't realize like 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:54.840 that that's not even really on your radar at all. 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:58.080 So I'm kind of surprised, honestly, I really thought you 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:01.480 would pick the wedding, like the wedding day diamonds, Like 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:04.400 it's like two thousand dollars off. Seems like a really 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:05.080 good deal to me. 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:11.040 I'm kind of confused, honestly, and kind of embarrassed about me. 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:14.200 I'm just overwhelmed with what's going on right now. I 0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:17.120 thought this was like I was just filling out a 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:19.080 survey and they were giving me a thing. I mean, 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:22.080 don't you think you're putting the horse in front of 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:24.360 the cars here in the situation? 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:27.440 You mean the cart before the horse? Oh? 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:31.440 Snap, yes, it is that one. Yeah, it's not the 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:33.280 horse before the card? Is the card before the horse? 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:36.880 I mean, Kyle, we've lived together for three months. Like 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:39.720 that's not nothing, And like, I. 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:42.680 Don't know if you, like, I wouldn't move in with 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:45.160 someone if I wasn't seriously considering like taking the. 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:46.000 Next step with them. 0:12:46.520 --> 0:12:48.440 And I just kind of thought we were on the 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:51.520 same page about that, and you know how serious I. 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:53.360 Am about you and about like wanting to have a 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:55.480 wedding and all of these. 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:58.720 Things, and like it's just really it's really disappointing, honestly, 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.319 because I I just thought we were on the same page, 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:03.120 and I feel like kind of stupid, honestly. 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:07.600 Oh Mann, Can I take the diamonds instead? Can I 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:09.240 like change my mind? Is it too late? 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:12.160 Yeah, it is a little bit too late. 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:16.640 So I will tell you a lot of people said, 0:13:16.800 --> 0:13:19.520 what if he's got the ski trip planned. He wants 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:21.640 to go on the ski trip not planned, but he 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:23.080 would propose on this skill. 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:26.640 On there weeks. Yeah, I don't think that was the situation. 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:28.559 I think that's an ideal situation. 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:32.560 Yeah, he was given like two seconds to consider it. 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:33.320 What do you think? 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:35.360 Let's talk to Jonathan Fogel because he's always done some 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:38.000 insight on this. And thanks for all the comments on 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:38.840 War of the Roses. 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:39.800 Uh. 0:13:39.960 --> 0:13:43.199 This text says Estelle is honestly crazy. I would have 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:46.080 wanted my boyfriend to pick the weekend get away. Run 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:48.679 Kyle Run. We got a bunch of texts that say 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:51.840 that why can't she just ask him and see if 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:54.160 he's serious and sees the future. I had that conversation 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:57.560 with my boyfriend five months in. I was getting serious. 0:13:57.559 --> 0:13:59.160 I didn't want to waste my time if he didn't 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.240 see the same future. I wanted marriage and kids in 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:03.160 a couple of years, and I didn't want to waste 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.120 my time with somebody who didn't want the same things. 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:06.720 How did that turn out? Finish? 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:08.400 Give me a part two of that text message and 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:09.480 what did your boyfriend say? 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:11.439 So I'm curious. 0:14:13.480 --> 0:14:18.720 Or the roses on KD double ub coming up it's back. 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:22.960 We talked about last week about how old analog hobbies 0:14:22.960 --> 0:14:28.600 are coming back, like bird watching, crocheting, knitting, majong is big. 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:32.320 But this is something that's you've done it before and 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.240 now it's popular again and it's a group social thing 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:37.840 and I think it's really cool. It's back, it's big, 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:39.520 and I'll tell you what it is coming up next 0:14:39.600 --> 0:14:40.920 on KD doub. 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:48.440 Last week on the show, we talked about. 0:14:48.160 --> 0:14:53.600 How analog hobbies are coming back, like crocheting or you know, 0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:56.800 knitting or majong. 0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:58.320 Looking at an analog clock. 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:02.280 Looking at an analog clock that's not a pastime. 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:04.200 Well, like an alarm clock instead of your phone. Let 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:06.440 him go on, let him talk, let me yeah, okay, 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:08.240 go ahead. 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:12.360 Bingo is back, bigo. It's not your granny's bingo. 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:15.200 There people are flocking to bars, restaurants and pop ups 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:19.040 to wait for their letter in number to be called again. 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:22.000 That's not a church basement bingo or even Texas bingo 0:15:22.080 --> 0:15:24.600 hall bingo. Some of these are elevated with players stress 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:27.440 to the Nine, sipping on Martiniz and nibbling on caviar. 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:31.760 There are themed nights, Dragged Knights, dance breaks, prizes and more. 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:34.080 And the best part is you cannot be in the 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:37.120 phone and give the game your attention at the same time, 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:40.320 so it's analog fun. Because you're on your phone checking 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:44.560 your Instagram, you're gonna miss under the oh yeah, sixty nine, 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:47.080 oh sixty nine nine. 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:50.800 There's something called Bingo Loco that's like a touring thing 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:52.320 that comes to the cities every once in a while. 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:53.760 And I did it for a friend's birthday like a 0:15:53.800 --> 0:15:56.520 year or two ago, And basically it's like a rave Bingo. 0:15:56.880 --> 0:15:58.160 You'd play a couple of games. 0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:00.640 If someone hits Bingo, they have to go up on 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:03.800 stage and like the prizes are like pretty obnoxious. Some 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:06.120 of them are like sex toys, and like you have 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:08.400 to like earn it, even though you've already won Bengo. 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:10.120 You have to like go up there and do a 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:13.080 dance or something. But then in between they'll do dance 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:15.960 breaks and stuff and they have like confetti cannons and 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:19.800 like it's crazy. So it's super fun. I highly recommend 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.040 going to it sometime if it's in town. Bingo logos 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:22.560 what it's called. 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:28.320 Oh fun, Yeah, I love that. That sounds very cool. Okay, 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:31.160 here's a good reason to go for a run. Aerobic 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:36.000 exercise literally makes your brain look younger. Oh here's the story. 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:39.920 They studied adults who had logged one hundred and fifty 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:43.840 minutes of cardio a week for a year, and they 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.760 looked at their brains on MRI scans, and their brains 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:52.640 looked about seven months younger than it did when they started. Now, 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:54.560 one hundred and fifty minutes of cardio a week, you 0:16:54.640 --> 0:16:58.120 divide that by seven, Well, most people don't do partimo, 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:01.760 so fifteen. That's minutes a day, thirty minutes a day, 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:03.280 five days a week. Am I right about that? 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:03.560 Yeah? 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:05.720 Yeah, okay, so that's not that hard to do. 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:08.040 But I just give you a little bit of the 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:12.119 Walking is great, Walking is better than nothing. But my 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:15.280 suggestion is you got to get that heart rate going. 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:17.760 You really get the heart and lung thing going. And 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:20.000 walking is way better than sitting on your couch scrolling 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:22.720 on your phone. But I'm gonna whatever it is that 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:25.000 really gives you, like heart rate going and sweating and 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:28.000 that pulse going. That's that's the kind of cardio that 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:28.520 we all need. 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:30.719 I saw a video of a guy yesterday doing like 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:35.800 lymphatic drainage jumping or whatever, and it's like jumping. There's 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:37.760 like all these different jumps that you do, and then 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:40.760 you're like touching your ches and like wobbling to and fro, 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:43.280 and it looked ridiculous, but he said he's lost eight 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:45.359 pounds in a week from doing this. 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:50.040 Your lymphatic system basically like we sit all day and realistically, 0:17:50.119 --> 0:17:52.000 like our legs should be up in the air, so 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.520 like everything's just like drowning down to like our feet 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:56.840 and stuff. So l fatic massages are like the new 0:17:56.880 --> 0:18:00.960 thing to like work out any kind of like water. Yeah, whatever, 0:18:01.520 --> 0:18:04.560 But I guess I've never seen someone doing what you're 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:07.840 describing before. But lymphatic massages are seriously one of the 0:18:07.880 --> 0:18:10.120 new hot things. 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