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Speaker 1: The Joe Show is on.

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Speaker 2: Cole.

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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, Cole, Cole, let's uh pick up Carissa right now.

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Speaker 1: I did talk to her yesterday. Hey, Carissa, stay there, Hi.

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Speaker 1: We could save the awkward hellos and everything you are

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Speaker 1: on with with Cole. And you know that we do

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Speaker 1: this so that we can get answers if anyone's ever

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Speaker 1: been ghosted. We try to help him out. And you know,

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Speaker 1: we talked about that yesterday. He said, you were sorry,

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Speaker 1: but let's just get into it. Maybe there's a little

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Speaker 1: bit of miscommunication involving his parents, right, So what's going

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Speaker 1: on with that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean so Cole and I, I mean we've

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Speaker 3: been dating for like six months quite a while and

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Speaker 3: have gotten extremely close, and he has gotten extremely close

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Speaker 3: to me and my family have been my brother, like

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Speaker 3: about two months ago met and like have just been

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Speaker 3: super chummy and amazing and great and like everything has

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Speaker 3: been great. However, around the time introduced him to my family,

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Speaker 3: he just got even cagier and weirder about his family.

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Speaker 3: And it's just become an issue because every single time

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Speaker 3: I would talk to him about it, like he gives

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Speaker 3: me no information, Like he's met my parents, been to

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Speaker 3: their house, stayed at their house over the weekend, been

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Speaker 3: you know, hung out with my brother and stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: But yet I know absolutely nothing about his family, and

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Speaker 3: except for they don't live that far. Like we're in

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Speaker 3: Tampa and they're just in Lakeland and we we literally

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Speaker 3: have to pass their house because we've gone to Disney

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Speaker 3: several times together. So we're heading to Orlando. We've passed

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Speaker 3: Lakeland to go where his family lives. And it's just

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Speaker 3: like he refuses to tell me anything about them, to

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Speaker 3: let me meet them, And that to me is just

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Speaker 3: like a problem. That's a red flag. That's weird. He's

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Speaker 3: hiding something, And it's just got to a point where

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Speaker 3: I was like absolutely not, Like, clearly he doesn't see

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Speaker 3: if futu with me, If he can't even like let

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Speaker 3: me meet his mom or at least know anything about.

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Speaker 4: Her, Cole, is this news to you?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I yeah, I'm feeling a little blindsided. I

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Speaker 5: mean I know that she she had to meet my

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Speaker 5: family a couple of times. I remember it's come up,

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Speaker 5: but I mean I I didn't think it was gonna

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Speaker 5: you know, we we've been together for what like six months,

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Speaker 5: we've been dating, which I thought it was just, hey,

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Speaker 5: I didn't think it was a huge priority. As she said,

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Speaker 5: her family's local. My family, It's it's not like you know,

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Speaker 5: they're they're right down the block or anything.

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Speaker 4: It's still yeah. I mean they're not super far.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know where you are in Tampa, but

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Speaker 1: drive forty minutes and you're there.

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Speaker 3: It's still like that's well.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, we passed their house like on the

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Speaker 5: way to go to have a fun you know, phill day.

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Speaker 5: That's gonna take a lot of our energy. Family takes energy,

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Speaker 5: and I just I don't know, I didn't think.

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Speaker 4: It was a huge deal.

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Speaker 5: I know you're super close with your family. I love

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Speaker 5: my family, but it's like you're getting to know me,

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Speaker 5: not my family.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, can I just play Devil's Advocate right here?

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Speaker 2: Like when it is coming into like relationships, you said

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Speaker 2: you were dating, you're dating for six months. Some people

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Speaker 2: just aren't close to their family, so like, given maybe

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Speaker 2: a year, maybe you oe me. Like my one of

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Speaker 2: my best friends, Ashley, she has been dating a guy

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Speaker 2: a year and he still has not met her mother

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Speaker 2: or father. And it's not that she doesn't like him

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Speaker 2: or anything. She's just like, I'm not that close to

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Speaker 2: my parents. You'll meet them eventually, but they don't live

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Speaker 2: in my same state eight.

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Speaker 1: Hundred and four on nine ninety three, ninety three. I mean,

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Speaker 1: do you agree with Ashley? I personally, I find it

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Speaker 1: a little bit strange. I don't know if you're with

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Speaker 1: someone for that long. To me, it's six months is

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Speaker 1: a long time.

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Speaker 4: I don't get.

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Speaker 5: I think, yeah, ghost, you know after that long and.

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Speaker 4: That and that that is fair.

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Speaker 1: Mind you and Carissa, we didn't really talk too much

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Speaker 1: about that, but you did just completely quit out on him.

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Speaker 1: You didn't even say like, hey, you know, can we

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Speaker 1: do this?

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Speaker 3: I mean, this side of it. His side is that

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Speaker 3: it's always that I didn't see this coming. Yes you did.

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Speaker 3: We had tons of conversations about this. You know, I've

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Speaker 3: upset about it. If you chose not to like believe

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Speaker 3: me when I said I was upset about it and

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Speaker 3: didn't feel like you were folding me like into your

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Speaker 3: life by letting me meet your family, then that's on you.

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Speaker 3: But like I had to block you, and you've been

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Speaker 3: blowing up me, blowing up my family, blowing at my

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Speaker 3: brother's phone, and the reality is just like now you

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Speaker 3: want to be like this big communicator and like you

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Speaker 3: could have done that and I'm sorry, but I had

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Speaker 3: to just cut you off because it really upset me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, Chris, Chris, you're on with Carissa and Cole.

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Speaker 1: We got the Battle of the Seas right now. But

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Speaker 1: they broke up. They're done, maybe not forever, but listen,

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Speaker 1: it's gotten to the point where they're on with us

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Speaker 1: for left unread and chrisa said, Hey, we've been together

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Speaker 1: for six months. You're still not letting me meet your family, Like,

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Speaker 1: what's going on with that?

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Speaker 4: What do you think?

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Speaker 3: It could just be like Ashley said, he's not super

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Speaker 3: close with his family.

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Speaker 4: It could be a drama field situation. And if you

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Speaker 4: guys are happy together without.

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Speaker 6: Being his family like that and they happy, you're not

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Speaker 6: needing him here, I mean his family him.

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Speaker 7: I'm not close with family either.

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Speaker 4: It took my girlfriend almost a year, I mean my mom.

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Speaker 1: And just things are popping in my head. And I'm

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Speaker 1: not accusing you of anything, Cole. Anyone catching the vibe

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Speaker 1: though that Cole might have another girlfriend or something.

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Speaker 4: What are you hiding? I'm not saying that you are Cole.

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Speaker 6: Nothing.

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Speaker 5: I'm not hiding anything. I'm a little more private. I

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Speaker 5: still love my family, but there's nothing there's no secrets

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Speaker 5: or anything like that, just because you know, we we

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Speaker 5: haven't been able to get together with my folks.

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Speaker 3: Come on, if you loved your family, would you not

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Speaker 3: want to introduce into like a huge part of your life.

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Speaker 3: That is what feels fishy. That what feels like you're

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Speaker 3: hiding something. You're hiding something, and I just don't like that.

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Speaker 3: That's not worth it to me.

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Speaker 1: Isabelle, Hey, Hi, you say red flag, red flag, red flag.

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Speaker 7: Red flag. Like I heard you say that you're not

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Speaker 7: hiding something, but there definitely has to be a reason

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Speaker 7: why it's been six months and you don't want to

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Speaker 7: introduce the parents. I don't understand it.

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to go to another guy, Eric, Am

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Speaker 1: I drop in?

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Speaker 4: Isabelle? I like it? Eric, go ahead?

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Speaker 7: Hi, Yes, sir.

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Speaker 6: I think that she is wrong in the sense of

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Speaker 6: her poor communication, but and she should have just communicated

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Speaker 6: her concerns more and let him respond to that.

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Speaker 4: So and we talked.

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Speaker 1: We talked about that too, Chris. I mean, Chris said,

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Speaker 1: do you feel like maybe you should have communicated this

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Speaker 1: even more?

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Speaker 4: I mean, you say, you say listen.

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Speaker 1: I brought this up to a million times, like what

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Speaker 1: more do you want me to do?

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Speaker 3: But exactly, I brought it up multiple times and communicated

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Speaker 3: it multiple times. If he doesn't have his ears open

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Speaker 3: to listen, that's on him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, one more, Eric, you get one more thing? What's up?

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Speaker 8: I know you're hung up?

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Speaker 4: Oh he did? All right? Well, hopefully Wasn't that great

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Speaker 4: of a point?

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Speaker 8: Can I say something real quick though, because I'm kind

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Speaker 8: of siding with Cole on this. Because my girlfriend and

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Speaker 8: I have been dating since May ish end of May,

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Speaker 8: beginning of June, we still have not met each other's parents.

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Speaker 8: She lives with her parents. I live right down the

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Speaker 8: road for my parents. I would say there's a few

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Speaker 8: reasons for that. One her parents are European, they're Albanian there,

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Speaker 8: she's first generation American, so I think there's some cultural

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Speaker 8: differences why I think that hasn't happened. Also some other

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Speaker 8: issues that I don't really want to ear out just yet.

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Speaker 8: It's nothing like serious between her and I are families.

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Speaker 4: Make a point.

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Speaker 8: My point is I don't think it's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, that could have been said in twenty seconds.

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Speaker 4: We're going over. Should we do one more?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: Wrap it up?

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Speaker 8: You said we're already going over wrap it up?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 1: Well, listen Cole Carissa off air conversation. Hopefully you guys

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Speaker 1: can work things out. Call back in and maybe things.

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Speaker 2: Takes a month is a long time to just give

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Speaker 2: it up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but hey, at the end of the day, it's

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Speaker 1: important to Carissa and it's not that important to Cole.

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Speaker 1: So maybe you guys just got the difference there. But

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Speaker 1: thank you guys for calling in. And I really do

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Speaker 1: wish you guys.

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Speaker 4: The best of luck.

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Speaker 1: I wish Jed and Ashley the best of luck in

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Speaker 1: their future endeavors with their relationships.

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Speaker 4: I hope everyone gets exactly what they want in their

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Speaker 4: in their relationships and all of that.

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Speaker 2: We love, love,