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Speaker 1: So last week was Sky's birthday, and we have heard

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Speaker 1: over the years birthday gifts in her household or didn't

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Speaker 1: miss actually any gifts, you know when it comes to

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Speaker 1: Christmas birthdays, those kind of things. You know, they're kind

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Speaker 1: of all over the place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we got through phases, We got through seasons.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, will there's occasions you guys just completely skip.

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Speaker 3: Yes, sometimes we'll decide we're going to skip this and

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Speaker 3: we'll just you know, have a lovely meal together. There

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Speaker 3: was a phase where he was going to this boutique

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Speaker 3: where I didn't care for anything in there and nothing

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Speaker 3: actually fit me, but he would keep buying me things

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Speaker 3: from there.

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Speaker 1: But you never really spoke up.

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Speaker 3: Well, you would think when the things just hang for years,

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Speaker 3: the tags on them, that.

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Speaker 1: You would think he has a human being. You would

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Speaker 1: just say, oh, those are my favorite things.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just like, maybe don't say thing that you're okay,

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Speaker 4: let's move forward next to you're going, hey, you know,

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Speaker 4: maybe give him a hint in the opposite direction of

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Speaker 4: the boutique. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think it was finally year three of these gifts

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Speaker 3: that he was like, why would I ever see you

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Speaker 3: Everything from that boutique seems to fit on and I

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Speaker 1: And then and then you got the hint.

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Speaker 2: And then yes, finally got the hint and moved on

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Speaker 2: to other other things.

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Speaker 1: Yes. Yeah, So it's always been questionable what these gifts

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Speaker 1: are and if they even get gifts, and yeah, there's

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Speaker 1: years that Sky was like, all right, well, I guess

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Speaker 1: no gifts this year. Things like that. So these things happen.

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Speaker 1: You guys aren't the biggest when it comes to presenting

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Speaker 1: gifts and things like that. No, you know, it is

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Speaker 1: what it is. Yeah, well this year we've gone to

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Speaker 1: of the gifts she received for her birthday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I didn't even process it.

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Speaker 3: It like took me a full like five days till

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Speaker 3: I finally figured out what the hell was going on. So, yeah,

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Speaker 3: my birthday was on Wednesday, and you know, it was great.

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Speaker 2: There were gifts. I was so thrilled.

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Speaker 3: There was an orchid plant and beautiful cards. And the

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Speaker 3: plan was is that we were going to go to

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Speaker 3: uh after my daughter got home from school, we were

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Speaker 3: going to go to ut See Mall. We were going

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Speaker 3: to do a little shopping maybe the three of you, yes.

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Speaker 2: And daughter, the three of um. Sorry, he doesn't.

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Speaker 4: Usually it's very unclear whether he's going to be there

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, he's he's normally never there. You're correct on

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Speaker 3: our mall trips. But because it was my birthday, that

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Speaker 3: was different. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't just shopping.

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Speaker 3: It was like, oh, we're going to shop for like

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Speaker 2: And uh that's.

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Speaker 3: What was in my head. And then wor'll go have

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Speaker 3: dinner at this I know, but I'm sorry. You know,

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Speaker 3: I get like kind of kid like excited for my birthday.

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Speaker 2: I get it, I get I get it.

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Speaker 5: We know. It's really weird portal on strange. Okay, so

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Speaker 5: he's doing the holding yourself and shaking back.

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Speaker 4: And there was a live dand singing me happy birthday.

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Speaker 4: It really meant a lot.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's a really weird You understand that, right

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Speaker 5: if you saw if you saw no person holding yourself

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Speaker 4: Somebody in the moment, what happened to? Uh?

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Speaker 3: So, before we go out to the mall, my daughter's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm just like sure, great.

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Speaker 3: So I open up all the presents and you know,

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Speaker 3: the really nice, really nice stuff that they got me.

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Speaker 3: And then when I opened the Hobby's card, I noticed, well.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't all really nice stuff. It was a pair

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Speaker 4: of ugboots that were the wrong I'm sorry to point

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Speaker 4: that out. We talked about on the show last week.

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Speaker 4: They were ugots, they were the low ones, and you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true. Wei there was yeah again going back

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Speaker 3: the thought that counts. That's where I was at at

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Speaker 2: Was that about?

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Speaker 3: And I read his card, which was one sentence, which

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Speaker 2: And that is when he says.

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Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, and I want to let you know when

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Speaker 3: we go to the mall, I got you something that

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Speaker 3: was not included in your gift. I got you a

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Speaker 3: gift card to this new store, which I really like.

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Speaker 3: It's called Free People, but it's like kind of one

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Speaker 2: So it's one of those stores.

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Speaker 3: And I never treat myself to close close as you

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Speaker 3: guys know, we know clothes aren't really my thing. But

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Speaker 2: So I am, I got you this gift card. Great.

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Speaker 3: And then I'm like, okay, well should we should we

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Speaker 3: grab it before we go? And he goes, oh, it's virtual,

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Speaker 3: and I go, well should we print it out? He's like, no, no,

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Speaker 2: Got to piring it out, put it in my purse,

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Speaker 2: double check it. But okay, okay, mister tech savvy.

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Speaker 5: Normally you got to do it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Same in my house. So Robert was saying this, I'd

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Speaker 4: be like, oh yeah, hell going on, use your phone,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, okay, cool, sounds good. So we go

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Speaker 3: that line store at Fashion Valley.

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Speaker 2: They have like tons of stuff, and so I'm.

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Speaker 3: I'll take my gift card treat myself to my little

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Speaker 2: Can I get the gift card?

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Speaker 3: And he's like, oh, yeah, it's virtual, And I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I meant verbal, What do you mean verbal? He goes, well, like,

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Speaker 3: I told you I got you a gift card, but

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Speaker 1: Wait, and I'm.

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Speaker 2: But didn't get around to it. So he was just

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Speaker 3: Store, but was playing it off like he got me

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Speaker 1: That is different, different, yeah, because I mean he's just

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Speaker 1: But he doesn't work so I mean, like, I get

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Speaker 1: gets the gift card. It's totally it's at least it

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Speaker 1: it's on me, as.

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Speaker 5: If like like that doesn't make.

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Speaker 1: Sense, right, it doesn't work. And can can you get

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Speaker 2: And by the way, you know what I just did.

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Speaker 4: Went to free people dot com. It took me two

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Speaker 4: have bought the gift card online. Oh yes, just what

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Speaker 1: That would been in a tiny extra step.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I felt bad because, you know, being a parent,

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, you should take notes on this.

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Speaker 3: But we're walking out the door after I hear about

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Speaker 3: this verbal gift card, I'm I'm like, I'm mumbling to

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Speaker 3: So my Birthday morning, when she left the house, she said, hey, Dad,

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Speaker 3: and it turned into it.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand.

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Speaker 2: It turned into a verbal gift card, which.

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Speaker 1: I you know you are a fan of the verbal

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Speaker 1: greeting card. Yes, yes, but that's okay, But the verbal

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Speaker 1: gift card's not okay.

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Speaker 3: Different different, really, Yes, a verbal greed like an actual

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Speaker 2: We all know what happens.

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Speaker 3: Either it goes immediately in the trash or it gets

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Speaker 3: displayed for like a week and then goes in the trash.

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Speaker 3: So the verbal card, I feel like is effort because

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Speaker 3: but the verbal gift card doesn't exist and is complete BS.

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Speaker 5: See Scott, It's it's difficult because Sky just said the

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Speaker 5: always makes a statement, well not for me, for other

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Speaker 5: people you give out, you give out crappy cards all

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Speaker 5: the time.

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Speaker 2: I don't give out crappy cards, used cards.

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Speaker 3: I don't give out charity card. Yeah, exactly, three cards, exactly,

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Speaker 3: that are odd topic.

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Speaker 2: You gave me your.

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Speaker 1: Card.

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Speaker 2: They have birth, they may say on the back.

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Speaker 1: This isn't about cards, I know.

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Speaker 5: But my point is she just she's a very do

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Speaker 1: To an extent, I agree, but this is next level

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Speaker 1: like not trying anything. You can't just say to somebody,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, here's a card that doesn't exist and buy

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Speaker 1: what you want.

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Speaker 2: Like why do that?

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Speaker 4: Like why do that?

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Speaker 2: He already got her the ug boots stop there.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you want to go to the extra step.

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Speaker 1: You went to the store. So you were at the store.

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Speaker 1: I know you didn't find anything, but you're there. Buy

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Speaker 1: the gift card there, you know, go like all right,

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Speaker 1: for the next time you go, here's the here's the

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Speaker 1: actual gift card. Yeah yeah, nothing but nothing happened. No,

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Speaker 1: so you really got nothing.

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Speaker 4: And then also I just thought of this. He had

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Speaker 4: a whole week after her birthday until or not a week.

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Speaker 4: He had a couple of days after the birthday, because

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Speaker 4: they go, we went Sunday, Yes, your birthday was Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we had all that time to log on it.

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Speaker 1: No, there's no shame in the game though, if you

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Speaker 1: just go, eh whatever, Yeah, yeah, you're you know, go ahead.

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Speaker 1: So so when you went to the store and he

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Speaker 1: said it's a verbal good one, did he just say

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Speaker 1: even at that point, he didn't give you the credit

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Speaker 3: No, So when we went to the store on my

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Speaker 3: actual birthday, I was assuming that if I had found something,

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Speaker 3: when we got to the register, he was going to

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Speaker 3: pull out a gift card.

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Speaker 1: Like it a god under said, when you and your

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Speaker 1: daughter went, is what I'm saying, Oh yeah, I just

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Speaker 1: you just bought something.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I just brought my purse with me and

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Speaker 2: we went.

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Speaker 3: To the mall.

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Speaker 1: So did you buy anything from that store though? Yeah? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that's the gift is it? Is that what he's claiming?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I got you that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would be.

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Speaker 2: The next level like you are so cool, I would

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Speaker 1: Well, I would be like you basically.

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Speaker 5: Just flapp not to victim blame, but I feel like,

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Speaker 5: did you say something to him that you weren't happy

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Speaker 3: Well, I gave him like the I was so confused.

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Speaker 3: So well, I was so confused when it came out.

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Speaker 3: I actually looked at him and I go, wait, so

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Speaker 3: you're telling me you didn't actually get me again, and

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Speaker 3: he goes.

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Speaker 5: It's a verbal and then did you say all that

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Speaker 5: really hurts my.

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Speaker 1: Feelings and that's not a thing.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 2: I just kind of gave a like, you know, hand

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Speaker 3: And I walked it, turned and walked away, walked away.

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Speaker 3: Comment sense So figures that what out like someone has

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Speaker 3: to draw then diagram to figure out you know, that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 4: It happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully that's a new trend you've created, that verble

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Speaker 1: gift card, verable gift card. I don't get it, Okay,