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Speaker 1: We really do. There's like a family risk going on

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well tell me about it. What's going on?

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Speaker 1: My brother's wife honestly hates me, and I've now been

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Speaker 1: disinvited from coming to any future holiday parties or anything.

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Speaker 3: So hate you?

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Speaker 2: Why bro?

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Speaker 1: Like the last time they had me over, I kind

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Speaker 1: of just let her have it. I told her how

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Speaker 1: I really felt, acts like, I hate how she treats him,

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Speaker 1: and I can't stand it anymore.

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Speaker 2: You know, that is why I let her.

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Speaker 1: You know, my kids aren't going to know their cousins.

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Speaker 1: You know, some family members are taking mind sides and

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Speaker 1: we're taking their side. So I'm thinking maybe you guys

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Speaker 1: can massage the situation a little bit, you know, kind

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Speaker 1: of help me, you know what I mean. It's really bad.

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Speaker 4: No, I got you, and you don't want to keep

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Speaker 4: the kids apart. You don't want the cousins to not

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Speaker 4: hang out for the holidays. But she clearly doesn't like

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Speaker 4: you either. House Yeah, I mean, you know that's his wife.

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Speaker 4: If he's comfortable with however they communicate and navigate through

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Speaker 4: their family, and then you kind of just have to

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Speaker 4: respect that. But I get what you saying those times

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Speaker 4: it's hard to watch people kind of you know, be

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Speaker 4: talked to a certain way, especially if you didn't ever

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Speaker 4: know them that way.

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Speaker 2: But people change for their families.

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Speaker 1: If they're happy, they're happy. You know, it's not for

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Speaker 1: me to judge.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, we can definitely call her and see if

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Speaker 4: she's willing to talk to you, because I think you

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Speaker 4: have all the best intentions, so I do.

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Speaker 1: I've come around on this.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, hold on, let me get Crystal on hold on?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Oh god, what does he want.

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Speaker 2: To give you an apology?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. This is if he really wanted to apologize,

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Speaker 3: he could have called me. So yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: This is weird.

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Speaker 4: I think there's been so much, like he said, she said,

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Speaker 4: like a bunch of different stuff that's festered since last

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Speaker 4: year's situation.

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Speaker 2: That he just.

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Speaker 4: Felt like you didn't want to hear from him. So

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Speaker 4: he was like, well, I listen to these guys. You know,

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Speaker 4: maybe if they call her, it'll be a softer, you know,

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Speaker 4: cushion for him to try to just have a conversation

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Speaker 4: with you.

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Speaker 2: So he's on hold. If you're okay with me putting him.

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Speaker 3: On Okay, sure, whatever, I guess okay, Ryan.

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Speaker 1: Hey Chrystal, thank you for listening. I just want to

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Speaker 1: apologize for everything. And I didn't treat you respectfully in

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Speaker 1: your own home. You know, I understand that, and I

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Speaker 1: kind of stepped over the line a little bit. It's

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Speaker 1: not right.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I'm pretty sure you should just be

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Speaker 3: respecting me period, regardless of the location, but definitely in.

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Speaker 1: My own You're right about that. I want to want

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Speaker 1: to be happy, and I respect you guys. If you

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Speaker 1: guys are happy, then I'm happy for you.

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Speaker 3: He's your brother. But you don't know our relationship. You

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Speaker 3: don't know what's going on. Like you're so judgmental when

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Speaker 3: you see what a fraction of what it is. You

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Speaker 3: don't see Frank and I coming over and talking about

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Speaker 3: how out of it and zombie like your wife is

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Speaker 3: when we know she's drank three bottles of wine already

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Speaker 3: and is on two quanticans like this is. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's like these Hire family knows my wife has issues.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. We don't need to

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Speaker 1: go down that road. But that's beside the point, and

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Speaker 1: you accept my apology or not. That's all I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to do here.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to keep my children away from their

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Speaker 3: cousins during Christmas, nor am I going to keep my

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Speaker 3: husband from his family.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 3: But you have to learn how to be respectful and

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Speaker 3: you have to learn, like you know, your wife's not

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Speaker 3: the only one with problems. I think you have some

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Speaker 3: things to work on too. So if you guys want

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Speaker 3: to come over, FID, but I hope.

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Speaker 2: You've worked first.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it sounds like all families have issues, everybody

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Speaker 4: all like it doesn't matter. But the thing of it

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Speaker 4: is is just you know, if you want to have

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Speaker 4: a conversation or you feel a way about someone, it

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Speaker 4: shouldn't happen by calling that person out of their name

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Speaker 4: or pointing fingers, like, have a real conversation because at

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Speaker 4: the end of the day, you guys are family by

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Speaker 4: marriage or otherwise.

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Speaker 2: Like it just you know, is that a yes?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? But I'm really not going to be giving a

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Speaker 3: whole lot of other chances, So.

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Speaker 1: Okay, protection at that time, let's start you to pass

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Speaker 1: and try to move forward. We can try you.

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Speaker 3: We'll see you guys at Christmas.