1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: It's the second date update, Mojo in the morning, second 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: date update, not getting a call back. You went on 3 00:00:06,320 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: a date and then you started thinking this could actually 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: be something, and then all of a sudden, no call 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: on the phone with us is Paul. He's dating ghosted 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 1: And this is the interesting thing. Paul and Stacy both 7 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: recently got divorced and are back in the dating scene. 8 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: So both of you. 9 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: Guys have this as a date to get to go 10 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: out and see each other. That had to be cool. Huh. 11 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: How's it like dating again, Paul? 12 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 2: It's a little weird. 13 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, but you know, you get used 14 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 3: to it and it's just kind of reverting back twenty 15 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 3: years ago or so. Yeah, not terrible. 16 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: How long were you married before you ended up getting 17 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: getting divorced? 18 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 3: Twelve years and we were together four fifteen while. 19 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 2: You know, it's been a while. 20 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: I've been out of the pool for a while and 21 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 3: everything's changed, so, you know, a little different. 22 00:00:58,040 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: All right, We're going to find out exactly why Stacy 23 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: has been kind of slow to get back to you. 24 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: Stacey is on the phone with us right now. Stacy, 25 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: will you say hey to. 26 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 4: Paul, Hey, how are you hi? 27 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 3: Hello. 28 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: So I have no idea what you guys did on 29 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: your date, but I'm gonna find out, first off, why 30 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 1: Stacy's not returning calls, and then ask questions about the date. Stacy, 31 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: why why are you slow to get back to Paul? 32 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 3: Well, let me. 33 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 4: Just say the date was fine. I mean it was good. 34 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 4: We had good chemistry. 35 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 2: What did you guys do? Did you guys go out 36 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 2: just for dinner or drinks? What did you do? 37 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, so we had met at a bar a few 38 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 4: weeks ago, and then we went to dinner recently, had 39 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 4: a nice dinner. 40 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 2: Okay, and then what did you do at the end 41 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 2: of the date. 42 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: Did you guys leave or did you guys go back 43 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: to another place and go what'd you do? 44 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 4: Well, Like I said, the chemistry was really good. So 45 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 4: I followed him back to his house. 46 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. 47 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,079 Speaker 1: Oh, this is where it gets funky. Let me change 48 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 1: the music here, this is where the good music. 49 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 5: What happened once you guys got to his house? 50 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 4: Uh? Yeah, See that's the whole thing. We walked into 51 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 4: his house and sitting right there in the family room 52 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 4: his babysitter and kids. 53 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: Okay, so he had a babysitter there watching his children 54 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: at his house. And when you were going back to 55 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: his house, were you thinking that you were going back 56 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: to his house to get romantic with him or what 57 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: were you thinking? 58 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 4: Definitely, And he did not mention one time that his 59 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 4: babysitter and kids would be there when we walked in 60 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 4: the door. 61 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: So what did you guys do then? Did you just 62 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: hang out with him and his kids or his babysitter. 63 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 4: No. He immediately pulled the babysitter into the kitchen, and 64 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 4: then next thing you know, they're walking down to what 65 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 4: I'm assuming is the basement because he went down the stairs. 66 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 4: Who's walking down the babysitter and the kids. 67 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so they go downstairs, so they and where do 68 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 1: you guys go? 69 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 4: Well, nowhere he came up to me and I'm asking him, Hey, 70 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 4: what's going on? He said, no, it's cool. I sent 71 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 4: the sitter and the kids down to the basement for 72 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 4: a while, so we're good. 73 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 2: And then what was what was the intention after that? 74 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 4: That? I I guess that we would go up to 75 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 4: his room and continue the evening. 76 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's absolutely the case. 77 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: Yes, Oh god, So wait, so your kids are with 78 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: the babysitter in the basement and you were going to 79 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: go then upstairs, so you'll be two floors away from 80 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: your children while you and Stacey are are together. 81 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 3: Yes, I mean that's that's where my life is, and 82 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 3: that's really the only. 83 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 2: Option I had. 84 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 3: There's not much else I could have done at that point. 85 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: First off, I'm kind of shocked that you would want 86 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: to introduce a new woman to your kids on a 87 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: first date like this. But I. 88 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 2: Like she said it was going well. 89 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, there was momentum, and I wanted 90 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 3: to keep the moment going, and I didn't know really 91 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 3: what other options I had, so I was just you know, 92 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 3: improvising at that point. 93 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 5: I gotta be that is awkward, though, I just meeting 94 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 5: the kids after only you know, knowing her for a 95 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 5: couple of hours. 96 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: Eight four to four Mojo Live eight four four six 97 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: six five six five four A. 98 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 2: You know, I just think that's not excuse where did it? 99 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 5: But your kids are? Your kids had to have known, like, well, like, 100 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 5: where do they think dad was going and what dad 101 00:04:58,760 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 5: was doing? 102 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,599 Speaker 3: Well, I'm honest with him. I mean I said, Dad's 103 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 3: going out with a friend. You know, it's been some time, 104 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 3: and then we talked about it. I mean I'm trying 105 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 3: to be transparent. Yeah, you know again, it's the cost 106 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 3: of dinner, the cost of where we're going to go 107 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 3: to a hotel. I mean, it's just I'm not that 108 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 3: guy spend that much, you know. And I was trying 109 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 3: to in the moment do the best I could. 110 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: This is what I'm picturing. He's gonna say, kids, go 111 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: down in the basement. Me and Miss Stacy we're gonna 112 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: I love when people do that. 113 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna go hang out. I mean, what else 114 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 2: is he supposed to do in that situation? Though? 115 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: Don't bring him back to the house. I mean, yeah, 116 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: I guess that's right. You'll go to her house if 117 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 1: she's got nobody at her house. 118 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 4: The car somewhere, Yeah, it's exactly parts of car somewhere. 119 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: Hold On, Wayne wants to comment, Wayne, what do you 120 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: think they should have done? 121 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 4: He should have got a hotel real quick. 122 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is this is the best time in the 123 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: world to go to a Hampton End, right, Yeah. 124 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: Holiday express the morning. This is an opportunity here. 125 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 1: This is where the babysitter comes into play and stays 126 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: with the kids until morning. 127 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 2: What's up, Dave? How you doing good? 128 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 6: How are you. 129 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,679 Speaker 1: I just wanted to ask him, why didn't you see. 130 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 3: What had she had going on at her house? 131 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh, so he didn't want to be too forward. 132 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 2: He was moving quick. 133 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:32,119 Speaker 5: Yeah, hey, hey, I got the kids that the house. 134 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 5: Would it be okay if we went back to yours? 135 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 6: Yeah? 136 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I got I gotta tell you 137 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: he's got a good babysitter. 138 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 5: Even just to prepare her that there are kids in 139 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 5: a babysitter there, she could make the decision exactly. 140 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: Natalie's up fired up here? What's up? Natalie? 141 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 6: That guy gives me to so bad, a little uh 142 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 6: too much for you that he wants to have some 143 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 6: fun with Stacy while the kids are down in the basement. 144 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 2: Missed this watching movies with the babysitter. 145 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 6: You could literally do anything else, anything else, then be like, yeah, sorry, 146 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 6: my children are downstairs and they might hear, you. 147 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 4: Know, bacon cookies. 148 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 6: But it's fine. 149 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 5: Part of me feels a little bit bad for Paul 150 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 5: because he's admitted he's been out of the game for 151 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 5: a while. 152 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, he didn't know what to do. Yeah he should. 153 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 2: He should honestly, just ended the date and have an 154 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 2: exciting It's about the end of the date. 155 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: Let let the kids, you know, go to mom's house 156 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: and do another date. 157 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 2: What's up, Eric, I. 158 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 6: Hey, just just for a future reference. 159 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 4: Uh what's his name? Uh? 160 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 2: Paul, Yeah, Paul. 161 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 4: Paul, Paul, just for future references. 162 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 2: I know they cost a dinner and present. 163 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 6: Hotels ridiculous, But you go to some places there's actually 164 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 6: hotels that you can rent by the hour in that way? 165 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 2: Do they are they have? Aren't those the prostitution there? 166 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 3: You just. 167 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 2: Trunckers is? What is the what is the chacuzzi place? 168 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 2: Isn't there? 169 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 4: Yeah? 170 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: Task about one O eight mile the other day? What's 171 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 2: up Ace? Hey? 172 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 3: Man, Paul need to like get some single friends so 173 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 3: you could break up on this etiquette. 174 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, borrow the bed of a single friend. 175 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 3: Paul rush in the city thing, you gotta take his 176 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 3: time and figure out the new groundwork. It's new area. 177 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: Paul text he here says eight one zero says should 178 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: have pulled a Shannon and West and went to church. 179 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 5: Went to church, Go to church, church. 180 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, church, it's always a good place. Richard. What's up Richard? Hey? 181 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 4: What's going on? 182 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: Mojoe and the motors. 183 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 4: Just wanted to let you know that my wife and 184 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 4: I we send the kids outside all the time, you uh, 185 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 4: you know, to get. 186 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: To get one in. But this, but that's what you 187 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: do with your wife and their mother, you know what 188 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 1: I mean? Like you don't do bring some strange back 189 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 1: to the house and then all of a. 190 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 2: Sudden before she was my wife, I did, did you 191 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 2: with a kid with my. 192 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 4: First with my with my first son? 193 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:16,559 Speaker 2: Old? 194 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 5: Was he though at the time. 195 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 4: He was probably like, let's see that would have been 196 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 4: been ten. 197 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: Oh okay, so aware that's crazy to me. That's crazy 198 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: to do that. Rachel, what's up? 199 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 2: Be like that song? 200 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 6: So first time when I heard him say that he 201 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 6: was going upstairs, I immediately said, ewa, like it's like babysitter, 202 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 6: take the kids downstairs. 203 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 5: I'm gonna go up and do this. 204 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 3: Woman. 205 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you know and you can go home. 206 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 2: What's you gonna do? 207 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 6: Come down dressed like Hugh Hefner. 208 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm done. 209 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: It's like some kind of porn or something. Is all right? So, uh, Stacy, 210 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 2: good luck to you in the future, Paul. I hope 211 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 2: you learned a lesson. Thank you, thank you, impusle important. 212 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 6: This is the home of the Dirty on the thirty 213 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 6: throw back fro Down, second date update and War of 214 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 6: the Roses. 215 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 2: This is Mojo in the Morning.