WEBVTT - She Planned Her Proposal

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<v Speaker 1>Mojo in the morning show. I don't know what the

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<v Speaker 1>answer is to this, but it doesn't seem right. She's

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<v Speaker 1>planning her proposal.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is not somebody that I know personally. It

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<v Speaker 2>is I would say, a friend of a friend, but

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<v Speaker 2>she's not really a friend of mine. She's my friend's friend.

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<v Speaker 2>So my friend's friend, okay, anyway, but she is planning

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<v Speaker 2>every single detail of her proposal, which she knows is

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<v Speaker 2>going to happen because she's planning it.

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<v Speaker 3>Aren't you supposed to with a proposal.

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<v Speaker 1>Aren't you supposed to be surprised and there's supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be some element of not knowing what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 4>For most people. Yes, that's how I wanted it to be.

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<v Speaker 2>But she and her boyfriend are going on a trip

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<v Speaker 2>here in the next couple of weeks. I think they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to Mexico. It's a warm weather destination, doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>But her demands for this proposal are very very specific.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>In addition to she has already designed her ring down

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<v Speaker 2>to the last detail. Now, to be fair, I did

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<v Speaker 2>tell Wes I want to a pair shaped diamond.

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<v Speaker 4>That's about all I had told him. Okay, hold on,

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<v Speaker 4>like I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I did say that you bringing yourself up in this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah you planned that Paris proposal.

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<v Speaker 2>I did if I could pull something like.

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<v Speaker 1>That off, because whenever you hear a topic and somebody

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<v Speaker 1>goes a friend of mine, no, this is this.

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<v Speaker 2>Is like, this hasn't happened yet. This hasn't happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Because if that was you, that.

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<v Speaker 2>That was not me, that credit to West there was

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<v Speaker 2>because that would make me go, okay, yeah, I would

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<v Speaker 2>have worn a different outfit anyway. Okay, So for this girl,

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<v Speaker 2>she designed her ring. I almost want to say she's

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<v Speaker 2>paying for a ring. But the proposal has to take

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<v Speaker 2>place on the second night of this trip.

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<v Speaker 4>For what reason, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think maybe they arrived the first day, so she

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<v Speaker 2>wants to get acclimated. Whatever proposal has to take place

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<v Speaker 2>on the second night. They hired. She hired a photographer

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<v Speaker 2>to document the whole thing. Her boyfriend soon to be

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<v Speaker 2>Beyonce's outfit was totally purchased head to toe by her.

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<v Speaker 4>Obviously, Charity has her whole outfit.

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<v Speaker 2>She has the music picked out for the post that

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<v Speaker 2>she's going to make on social media. All right now,

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<v Speaker 2>it's sing the engagement. I mean when I say every

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<v Speaker 2>detail is you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Divorced, because she's guaranteed this relationship is not gonna last.

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<v Speaker 2>But my friend was saying to me, I'm so curious

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<v Speaker 2>to see the post when she actually makes it, because

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<v Speaker 2>is she gonna are there?

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<v Speaker 4>Is there going to be a surprise face? Well, he

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<v Speaker 4>is going to being surprised for the photos.

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<v Speaker 3>Or fiance even be in it. She fakes orgasms too,

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<v Speaker 3>by the way, I guarantee you.

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<v Speaker 5>I think this is I think, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>if if you're finished or not, but I think this

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<v Speaker 5>is completely wrong, and I feel like this is where

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<v Speaker 5>our society and culture is heading into. For a significant

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<v Speaker 5>piece of the population, it's less about me and the

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<v Speaker 5>person I'm proposing to and more about this show and

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<v Speaker 5>everybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because of social media exactly. Social media has ruined

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<v Speaker 1>everybody it is. It has made people go on vacation

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<v Speaker 1>and not be on vacation. They're going on vacation to

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<v Speaker 1>take pictures of a vacation, you know, I think, and

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<v Speaker 1>I find this with myself, and I'm guilty of this too.

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<v Speaker 1>I find myself going places only because we post social

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<v Speaker 1>media and things like that. I find myself going places

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<v Speaker 1>and not just enjoying the time. I find myself going, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the picture going to be? You know, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>stupid for.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, because it's our data post or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>This though, to me is I it is sad because

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<v Speaker 2>I do think that it should be a surprise, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, of anything that you have in your life. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the surprise moment right in proposal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and maybe a baby that you don't know the

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<v Speaker 2>sex of or something, you know, like those are surprises

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<v Speaker 2>that you are very few surprises that.

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<v Speaker 4>You get anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>There are still people that find out the sex because

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<v Speaker 1>they want to be able to decorate and do all

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of that stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>But your proposal is something that's a surprise.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, And I feel like theater when you start bringing

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<v Speaker 5>all this into it, like let me make sure the

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<v Speaker 5>photographer is there, let me make sure videograph first, dear,

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<v Speaker 5>they sure to hear, and it becomes a show an

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<v Speaker 5>event as opposed to like this moment that I share

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<v Speaker 5>between this person and hopefully I'll be with for the

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<v Speaker 5>rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four six sixty

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<v Speaker 1>five sixty five four eight. Anybody disagree and think that

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<v Speaker 1>what she's doing is great. And are there any listeners

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<v Speaker 1>that are listening that have ever done this where they

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<v Speaker 1>planned out everything, they planned out their proposal, Because to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>But you may have a reason why it's not.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't agree if if the reason or the notion

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<v Speaker 5>is that you feel like all of this is acceptable,

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<v Speaker 5>it's because hopefully this will only happen one time in

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<v Speaker 5>my life and I want to make sure it's perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't agree with that philosophy. Yeah, that's not the

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<v Speaker 1>way to do it. Well, I think this too, is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think the photographer at the proposal call me

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<v Speaker 1>crazy on this one. To me seems a little weird.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm gonna and I'm telling you, I thank god

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<v Speaker 1>that you had it for yours because we got great

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<v Speaker 1>web heaps off of it, or great social great. But

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<v Speaker 1>when I say this to you, like I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>weird when you're doing this, I think it's wonderful to

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<v Speaker 1>have the documentation of the day, but I think also

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of like there's nothing in the word organic.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of bothers me sometimes, but there's nothing really organic

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<v Speaker 1>about it because you're way too thinking about every bit

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<v Speaker 1>of the thing, so I actually not living the moment.

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<v Speaker 4>I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was happy that he had hired a photographer for

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<v Speaker 2>our proposal. The cool thing about our photographer was I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know the guy was a photographer because we were

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<v Speaker 2>in a space that had so many other people. So

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was like I didn't know the proposal

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<v Speaker 2>was happening obviously until it was. And then when he

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<v Speaker 2>pointed out the photographer, it was some random dude who

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<v Speaker 2>I thought was a tourist. However, then once I knew,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, what had gone down and this guy was

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<v Speaker 2>a photographer, and we were engaged, and then the photographer

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<v Speaker 2>stuck around and took photos.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>You can see the difference in our photos from our

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<v Speaker 2>engagement where I hate taking pictures. When we do photo shoots,

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<v Speaker 2>you know how weird I get. I get weird, And

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<v Speaker 2>you can tell the difference in the change in me

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<v Speaker 2>and the photos.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it does.

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<v Speaker 1>It does definitely change your demeanor because you know now

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<v Speaker 1>that there is pictures are there are pictures being taken.

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<v Speaker 1>My niece got engaged over in Chicago on you know

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<v Speaker 1>that bridge that there's the bridge that the river They

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<v Speaker 1>die like die Green. She lives in Chicago, and there

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<v Speaker 1>was a photographer that took pictures from a distance and

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<v Speaker 1>it was cool to see it. He wasn't close enough,

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<v Speaker 1>like it was nice to see it from a distance

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<v Speaker 1>and see her shock. She also was in yoga pants

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<v Speaker 1>and a T shirt, so she was really pissed off

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<v Speaker 1>over the fact she wasn't dressed up for the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was neat to see that whole thing. But

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<v Speaker 1>then it was like they kind of like just did

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<v Speaker 1>the few photos and then the photographer left because she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'm not taking more pictures. I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>any more pictures. This is all I wanted was to

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<v Speaker 1>be with him. And then then you're taking like you

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<v Speaker 1>and Wes had to do a whole bunch of photography stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you guys, basically was our engagement.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, photo, But then you're kind of away from the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing. Like, I will say this to you. My

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<v Speaker 1>wedding proposal was way not even romantic at all. We

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<v Speaker 1>were come home from a bar one night and Chelsea

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<v Speaker 1>had already been wearing her ring and so she knew

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<v Speaker 1>that she had that I had it, and we were

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<v Speaker 1>both drunk, and I rolled over to a song playing

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio and just said will you just marry me?

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<v Speaker 1>And I proposed to her, but I will say this,

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<v Speaker 1>like we have no photos, nothing of that to me,

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<v Speaker 1>we will have the story forever. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>this is my problem with what this you know, particular

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<v Speaker 1>woman is doing. By planning this whole thing. She's not

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<v Speaker 1>letting this guy be himself like she's being the person.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is the one moment where you are hearing

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<v Speaker 1>this person tell you how much that you mean to them.

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<v Speaker 1>And even if it's something as simple as he just

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<v Speaker 1>gets down on his knee in the morning while she's

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<v Speaker 1>getting ready to take a shower, that at least is him, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's got.

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<v Speaker 5>To be true to who you are in your relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Michael, what's going on? What do you think of this?

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's absolutely crazy because she's going to be

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<v Speaker 6>controlling him and I think he needs to have a

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<v Speaker 6>prenup time.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, let's put it this way, she might

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<v Speaker 3>plan the prene up herself. It's kidding, right, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>it's it's very controlling.

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<v Speaker 1>She's definitely taking control of that whole situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Shelley, what's up taking Maria?

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<v Speaker 7>Guys, I'm feeling pretty fast from this guy here. I mean,

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<v Speaker 7>he can't even come up with the proposals, and I

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<v Speaker 7>feel like she thinks he's not good enough for her already.

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<v Speaker 7>This guy is signing up for a lifetime of drama

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<v Speaker 7>that this woman is going to dictate his every move.

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<v Speaker 7>It's so sad, Like, let the guy surprise you, let

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<v Speaker 7>him show you himself how much he loves you, instead

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<v Speaker 7>of telling him how much he loves you and how

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<v Speaker 7>it's gonna go.

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<v Speaker 8>That's the craziest thing I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like the women who go and give

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<v Speaker 1>birth to a baby and have like makeup put on

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<v Speaker 1>them and they get ready to instead of just going

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<v Speaker 1>and delivering and yeah that you know that.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, some of like's greatest moments just happen when they happen,

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<v Speaker 7>And what you look like and what you're wearing and

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<v Speaker 7>having everything else planned out is just nothing. It takes

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<v Speaker 7>away from the actual joy and the reality of what's

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<v Speaker 7>going on in the commitment. This is sad.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the pictures that people post that are obviously

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<v Speaker 1>not staged, like they're there. It's them, you know, with

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<v Speaker 1>the ugly cry or the ugly you know, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>put any makeup on, like I'm you know, not dressed

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<v Speaker 1>really nice. I love those pictures, but I also know

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of people like to see the beauty,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they like to see everything kind of planned out.

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<v Speaker 1>And this girl probably has a hell of a social

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<v Speaker 1>media following. What's up, Dwight, How you doing good?

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on? What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>So my time was? I feel like, like you mentioned earlier,

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<v Speaker 6>you mentioned that social media is playing a big role

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<v Speaker 6>in why all of this needs to be like all

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<v Speaker 6>of the fans paired up trying to go into proposals

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<v Speaker 6>now right, And I feel like social media plays a

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<v Speaker 6>role in that because it's starting to make it the standard,

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<v Speaker 6>like women are going as you can't compose to me

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<v Speaker 6>the way Modo proposed to Chelsea with the doves and all,

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<v Speaker 6>and everybody's comparing everything else instead of and keV keV

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<v Speaker 6>was mentioned before that comparison can be the feaful joy. Yes,

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<v Speaker 6>And I got lucky because my wife is what I

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<v Speaker 6>like to call a heartfelt girl. She didn't need all

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<v Speaker 6>of that I proposed to her. About the riverfront, I

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<v Speaker 6>had a book made that that kind of told us

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<v Speaker 6>how we came to be here and at the end

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<v Speaker 6>it asked her to be my wife.

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<v Speaker 3>So that that and you know what, she loves it

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<v Speaker 3>and she loves you.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, oh yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that's I agree. And by the way, as a

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<v Speaker 1>great call, Dwight, and I agree with you. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that we all just compare ourselves to everybody else. Wendy,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? Wendy's a photographer. Hi, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 9>A photographer down?

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<v Speaker 8>And I'm great.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you good? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 7>Well?

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<v Speaker 9>I am a photographer down in Hiltonhead Island and we

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<v Speaker 9>do three a week ambush engagement photos and it.

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<v Speaker 8>Is just hilarious. But it's always the groom that hires us.

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<v Speaker 4>Is what is an ambush engagement photos?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, we have to go, we have to go incognito.

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<v Speaker 8>The girl does not have, okay, the ideas to be

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<v Speaker 8>and so we like.

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<v Speaker 9>You know, hide in the bars and or you know,

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<v Speaker 9>on the beach.

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<v Speaker 8>Or we look like we are just a regular tourist.

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<v Speaker 9>And but we do three a week of them. Sometimes,

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<v Speaker 9>oh my god. Sometimes sometimes we have mother in laws

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<v Speaker 9>or you know, future mother in laws arranging it. But

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<v Speaker 9>but man, there is a blast. But tell tell this

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<v Speaker 9>poor girl that's doing this, your friend, she's going.

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<v Speaker 8>To be divorced in six months, and will you be there?

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<v Speaker 1>Will you be there to take the pictures, the divorced pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm there, I'm there to take pictures of the serving papers.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for the call, Tavin. What's up Tavin?

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<v Speaker 6>Here? How's it going?

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Nothing much here?

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<v Speaker 6>I just want to say I've been seeing this more

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<v Speaker 6>and more a lot lately, but women proposing to men,

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<v Speaker 6>and I feel like at this point she might as

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<v Speaker 6>well just.

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<v Speaker 1>Write exactly that is so true, and that's pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>what she's.

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<v Speaker 4>Doing at this point.

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<v Speaker 2>I almost wonder if she's going to write what he's

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<v Speaker 2>going to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet, and I bet she's going to write his

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<v Speaker 1>voles for him too, Dedra, what's up?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 10>Honestly, I personally don't agree with it. I would like

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<v Speaker 10>chease price as well, but I'm almost that personal I don't.

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<v Speaker 10>I don't know the guy. What if he enjoys her

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<v Speaker 10>taking charge? What if he's open to letting her plan

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<v Speaker 10>everything so that he can watch her have fun and

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<v Speaker 10>enjoy the planning process and getting everything she wants because

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<v Speaker 10>of it's between them, as long as as long as

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<v Speaker 10>the groom is okay with everything I said, why not?

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<v Speaker 4>You know what, that is a very fair point and

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know the answer to that.

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<v Speaker 5>But man, no, man, won't they girl acting like this?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna tell you that right now.

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<v Speaker 10>No. Yeah, man, like boss women we do.

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<v Speaker 3>But this is a little too boss. This, this is overboard. Boss.

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<v Speaker 5>You gonna forget to tell him where to be. She

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<v Speaker 5>get worried about controlling everything else. He's gonna be in

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<v Speaker 5>the room.

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<v Speaker 10>Some man don't want us to plan and all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think, though, that this guy has any say

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<v Speaker 1>so in anything? I guarantee the only thing he's got

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<v Speaker 1>to say so in is probably paying for some of this.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's that's about it.