Speaker 1: Mojo in the morning show. I don't know what the
Speaker 1: answer is to this, but it doesn't seem right. She's
Speaker 1: planning her proposal.
Speaker 2: So this is not somebody that I know personally. It
Speaker 2: is I would say, a friend of a friend, but
Speaker 2: she's not really a friend of mine. She's my friend's friend.
Speaker 2: So my friend's friend, okay, anyway, but she is planning
Speaker 2: every single detail of her proposal, which she knows is
Speaker 2: going to happen because she's planning it.
Speaker 3: Aren't you supposed to with a proposal.
Speaker 1: Aren't you supposed to be surprised and there's supposed to
Speaker 1: be some element of not knowing what's going to happen.
Speaker 4: For most people. Yes, that's how I wanted it to be.
Speaker 2: But she and her boyfriend are going on a trip
Speaker 2: here in the next couple of weeks. I think they're
Speaker 2: going to Mexico. It's a warm weather destination, doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: But her demands for this proposal are very very specific.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: In addition to she has already designed her ring down
Speaker 2: to the last detail. Now, to be fair, I did
Speaker 2: tell Wes I want to a pair shaped diamond.
Speaker 4: That's about all I had told him. Okay, hold on,
Speaker 4: like I did.
Speaker 3: I did say that you bringing yourself up in this.
Speaker 3: Yeah you planned that Paris proposal.
Speaker 2: I did if I could pull something like.
Speaker 1: That off, because whenever you hear a topic and somebody
Speaker 1: goes a friend of mine, no, this is this.
Speaker 2: Is like, this hasn't happened yet. This hasn't happened.
Speaker 3: Because if that was you, that.
Speaker 2: That was not me, that credit to West there was
Speaker 2: because that would make me go, okay, yeah, I would
Speaker 2: have worn a different outfit anyway. Okay, So for this girl,
Speaker 2: she designed her ring. I almost want to say she's
Speaker 2: paying for a ring. But the proposal has to take
Speaker 2: place on the second night of this trip.
Speaker 4: For what reason, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think maybe they arrived the first day, so she
Speaker 2: wants to get acclimated. Whatever proposal has to take place
Speaker 2: on the second night. They hired. She hired a photographer
Speaker 2: to document the whole thing. Her boyfriend soon to be
Speaker 2: Beyonce's outfit was totally purchased head to toe by her.
Speaker 4: Obviously, Charity has her whole outfit.
Speaker 2: She has the music picked out for the post that
Speaker 2: she's going to make on social media. All right now,
Speaker 2: it's sing the engagement. I mean when I say every
Speaker 2: detail is you're.
Speaker 1: Divorced, because she's guaranteed this relationship is not gonna last.
Speaker 2: But my friend was saying to me, I'm so curious
Speaker 2: to see the post when she actually makes it, because
Speaker 2: is she gonna are there?
Speaker 4: Is there going to be a surprise face? Well, he
Speaker 4: is going to being surprised for the photos.
Speaker 3: Or fiance even be in it. She fakes orgasms too,
Speaker 3: by the way, I guarantee you.
Speaker 5: I think this is I think, and I don't know
Speaker 5: if if you're finished or not, but I think this
Speaker 5: is completely wrong, and I feel like this is where
Speaker 5: our society and culture is heading into. For a significant
Speaker 5: piece of the population, it's less about me and the
Speaker 5: person I'm proposing to and more about this show and
Speaker 5: everybody else.
Speaker 1: It's because of social media exactly. Social media has ruined
Speaker 1: everybody it is. It has made people go on vacation
Speaker 1: and not be on vacation. They're going on vacation to
Speaker 1: take pictures of a vacation, you know, I think, and
Speaker 1: I find this with myself, and I'm guilty of this too.
Speaker 1: I find myself going places only because we post social
Speaker 1: media and things like that. I find myself going places
Speaker 1: and not just enjoying the time. I find myself going, sure,
Speaker 1: what's the picture going to be? You know, and it's
Speaker 1: stupid for.
Speaker 4: Sure, because it's our data post or whatever.
Speaker 2: This though, to me is I it is sad because
Speaker 2: I do think that it should be a surprise, you.
Speaker 1: Know, of anything that you have in your life. This
Speaker 1: is the surprise moment right in proposal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and maybe a baby that you don't know the
Speaker 2: sex of or something, you know, like those are surprises
Speaker 2: that you are very few surprises that.
Speaker 4: You get anymore.
Speaker 1: There are still people that find out the sex because
Speaker 1: they want to be able to decorate and do all
Speaker 1: the rest of that stuff.
Speaker 3: But your proposal is something that's a surprise.
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I feel like theater when you start bringing
Speaker 5: all this into it, like let me make sure the
Speaker 5: photographer is there, let me make sure videograph first, dear,
Speaker 5: they sure to hear, and it becomes a show an
Speaker 5: event as opposed to like this moment that I share
Speaker 5: between this person and hopefully I'll be with for the
Speaker 5: rest of my life.
Speaker 1: Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four six sixty
Speaker 1: five sixty five four eight. Anybody disagree and think that
Speaker 1: what she's doing is great. And are there any listeners
Speaker 1: that are listening that have ever done this where they
Speaker 1: planned out everything, they planned out their proposal, Because to me,
Speaker 1: I think it's crazy.
Speaker 3: But you may have a reason why it's not.
Speaker 5: I don't agree if if the reason or the notion
Speaker 5: is that you feel like all of this is acceptable,
Speaker 5: it's because hopefully this will only happen one time in
Speaker 5: my life and I want to make sure it's perfect.
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that philosophy. Yeah, that's not the
Speaker 1: way to do it. Well, I think this too, is weird.
Speaker 1: I do think the photographer at the proposal call me
Speaker 1: crazy on this one. To me seems a little weird.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna and I'm telling you, I thank god
Speaker 1: that you had it for yours because we got great
Speaker 1: web heaps off of it, or great social great. But
Speaker 1: when I say this to you, like I think it's
Speaker 1: weird when you're doing this, I think it's wonderful to
Speaker 1: have the documentation of the day, but I think also
Speaker 1: it's kind of like there's nothing in the word organic.
Speaker 1: Kind of bothers me sometimes, but there's nothing really organic
Speaker 1: about it because you're way too thinking about every bit
Speaker 1: of the thing, so I actually not living the moment.
Speaker 4: I agree with you.
Speaker 2: I was happy that he had hired a photographer for
Speaker 2: our proposal. The cool thing about our photographer was I
Speaker 2: didn't know the guy was a photographer because we were
Speaker 2: in a space that had so many other people. So
Speaker 2: I thought it was like I didn't know the proposal
Speaker 2: was happening obviously until it was. And then when he
Speaker 2: pointed out the photographer, it was some random dude who
Speaker 2: I thought was a tourist. However, then once I knew,
Speaker 2: you know, what had gone down and this guy was
Speaker 2: a photographer, and we were engaged, and then the photographer
Speaker 2: stuck around and took photos.
Speaker 4: It's so funny.
Speaker 2: You can see the difference in our photos from our
Speaker 2: engagement where I hate taking pictures. When we do photo shoots,
Speaker 2: you know how weird I get. I get weird, And
Speaker 2: you can tell the difference in the change in me
Speaker 2: and the photos.
Speaker 3: Well, it does.
Speaker 1: It does definitely change your demeanor because you know now
Speaker 1: that there is pictures are there are pictures being taken.
Speaker 1: My niece got engaged over in Chicago on you know
Speaker 1: that bridge that there's the bridge that the river They
Speaker 1: die like die Green. She lives in Chicago, and there
Speaker 1: was a photographer that took pictures from a distance and
Speaker 1: it was cool to see it. He wasn't close enough,
Speaker 1: like it was nice to see it from a distance
Speaker 1: and see her shock. She also was in yoga pants
Speaker 1: and a T shirt, so she was really pissed off
Speaker 1: over the fact she wasn't dressed up for the thing.
Speaker 1: But it was neat to see that whole thing. But
Speaker 1: then it was like they kind of like just did
Speaker 1: the few photos and then the photographer left because she
Speaker 1: was like, I'm not taking more pictures. I don't need
Speaker 1: any more pictures. This is all I wanted was to
Speaker 1: be with him. And then then you're taking like you
Speaker 1: and Wes had to do a whole bunch of photography stuff.
Speaker 4: Because you guys, basically was our engagement.
Speaker 1: Yeah, photo, But then you're kind of away from the
Speaker 1: whole thing. Like, I will say this to you. My
Speaker 1: wedding proposal was way not even romantic at all. We
Speaker 1: were come home from a bar one night and Chelsea
Speaker 1: had already been wearing her ring and so she knew
Speaker 1: that she had that I had it, and we were
Speaker 1: both drunk, and I rolled over to a song playing
Speaker 1: on the radio and just said will you just marry me?
Speaker 1: And I proposed to her, but I will say this,
Speaker 1: like we have no photos, nothing of that to me,
Speaker 1: we will have the story forever. And I think that
Speaker 1: this is my problem with what this you know, particular
Speaker 1: woman is doing. By planning this whole thing. She's not
Speaker 1: letting this guy be himself like she's being the person.
Speaker 1: And this is the one moment where you are hearing
Speaker 1: this person tell you how much that you mean to them.
Speaker 1: And even if it's something as simple as he just
Speaker 1: gets down on his knee in the morning while she's
Speaker 1: getting ready to take a shower, that at least is him, right,
Speaker 1: It's got.
Speaker 5: To be true to who you are in your relationship.
Speaker 3: Michael, what's going on? What do you think of this?
Speaker 6: I think it's absolutely crazy because she's going to be
Speaker 6: controlling him and I think he needs to have a
Speaker 6: prenup time.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, let's put it this way, she might
Speaker 3: plan the prene up herself. It's kidding, right, I mean,
Speaker 3: it's it's very controlling.
Speaker 1: She's definitely taking control of that whole situation.
Speaker 3: Shelley, what's up taking Maria?
Speaker 7: Guys, I'm feeling pretty fast from this guy here. I mean,
Speaker 7: he can't even come up with the proposals, and I
Speaker 7: feel like she thinks he's not good enough for her already.
Speaker 7: This guy is signing up for a lifetime of drama
Speaker 7: that this woman is going to dictate his every move.
Speaker 7: It's so sad, Like, let the guy surprise you, let
Speaker 7: him show you himself how much he loves you, instead
Speaker 7: of telling him how much he loves you and how
Speaker 7: it's gonna go.
Speaker 8: That's the craziest thing I've ever heard.
Speaker 1: It's kind of like the women who go and give
Speaker 1: birth to a baby and have like makeup put on
Speaker 1: them and they get ready to instead of just going
Speaker 1: and delivering and yeah that you know that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, some of like's greatest moments just happen when they happen,
Speaker 7: And what you look like and what you're wearing and
Speaker 7: having everything else planned out is just nothing. It takes
Speaker 7: away from the actual joy and the reality of what's
Speaker 7: going on in the commitment. This is sad.
Speaker 1: I love the pictures that people post that are obviously
Speaker 1: not staged, like they're there. It's them, you know, with
Speaker 1: the ugly cry or the ugly you know, I didn't
Speaker 1: put any makeup on, like I'm you know, not dressed
Speaker 1: really nice. I love those pictures, but I also know
Speaker 1: that a lot of people like to see the beauty,
Speaker 1: you know, they like to see everything kind of planned out.
Speaker 1: And this girl probably has a hell of a social
Speaker 1: media following. What's up, Dwight, How you doing good?
Speaker 3: What's going on? What are you doing?
Speaker 6: So my time was? I feel like, like you mentioned earlier,
Speaker 6: you mentioned that social media is playing a big role
Speaker 6: in why all of this needs to be like all
Speaker 6: of the fans paired up trying to go into proposals
Speaker 6: now right, And I feel like social media plays a
Speaker 6: role in that because it's starting to make it the standard,
Speaker 6: like women are going as you can't compose to me
Speaker 6: the way Modo proposed to Chelsea with the doves and all,
Speaker 6: and everybody's comparing everything else instead of and keV keV
Speaker 6: was mentioned before that comparison can be the feaful joy. Yes,
Speaker 6: And I got lucky because my wife is what I
Speaker 6: like to call a heartfelt girl. She didn't need all
Speaker 6: of that I proposed to her. About the riverfront, I
Speaker 6: had a book made that that kind of told us
Speaker 6: how we came to be here and at the end
Speaker 6: it asked her to be my wife.
Speaker 3: So that that and you know what, she loves it
Speaker 3: and she loves you.
Speaker 6: Right, oh yeah, definitely.
Speaker 1: Now that's I agree. And by the way, as a
Speaker 1: great call, Dwight, and I agree with you. I think
Speaker 1: that we all just compare ourselves to everybody else. Wendy,
Speaker 1: what's going on? Wendy's a photographer. Hi, how you doing?
Speaker 9: A photographer down?
Speaker 8: And I'm great.
Speaker 3: How are you good? What's going on?
Speaker 7: Well?
Speaker 9: I am a photographer down in Hiltonhead Island and we
Speaker 9: do three a week ambush engagement photos and it.
Speaker 8: Is just hilarious. But it's always the groom that hires us.
Speaker 4: Is what is an ambush engagement photos?
Speaker 3: What do you mean?
Speaker 8: Well, we have to go, we have to go incognito.
Speaker 8: The girl does not have, okay, the ideas to be
Speaker 8: and so we like.
Speaker 9: You know, hide in the bars and or you know,
Speaker 9: on the beach.
Speaker 8: Or we look like we are just a regular tourist.
Speaker 9: And but we do three a week of them. Sometimes,
Speaker 9: oh my god. Sometimes sometimes we have mother in laws
Speaker 9: or you know, future mother in laws arranging it. But
Speaker 9: but man, there is a blast. But tell tell this
Speaker 9: poor girl that's doing this, your friend, she's going.
Speaker 8: To be divorced in six months, and will you be there?
Speaker 1: Will you be there to take the pictures, the divorced pictures.
Speaker 1: I'm there, I'm there to take pictures of the serving papers.
Speaker 1: Thank you for the call, Tavin. What's up Tavin?
Speaker 6: Here? How's it going?
Speaker 3: What's going on?
Speaker 5: Nothing much here?
Speaker 6: I just want to say I've been seeing this more
Speaker 6: and more a lot lately, but women proposing to men,
Speaker 6: and I feel like at this point she might as
Speaker 6: well just.
Speaker 1: Write exactly that is so true, and that's pretty much
Speaker 1: what she's.
Speaker 4: Doing at this point.
Speaker 2: I almost wonder if she's going to write what he's
Speaker 2: going to say.
Speaker 1: I bet, and I bet she's going to write his
Speaker 1: voles for him too, Dedra, what's up?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 10: Honestly, I personally don't agree with it. I would like
Speaker 10: chease price as well, but I'm almost that personal I don't.
Speaker 10: I don't know the guy. What if he enjoys her
Speaker 10: taking charge? What if he's open to letting her plan
Speaker 10: everything so that he can watch her have fun and
Speaker 10: enjoy the planning process and getting everything she wants because
Speaker 10: of it's between them, as long as as long as
Speaker 10: the groom is okay with everything I said, why not?
Speaker 4: You know what, that is a very fair point and
Speaker 4: I don't know the answer to that.
Speaker 5: But man, no, man, won't they girl acting like this?
Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you that right now.
Speaker 10: No. Yeah, man, like boss women we do.
Speaker 3: But this is a little too boss. This, this is overboard. Boss.
Speaker 5: You gonna forget to tell him where to be. She
Speaker 5: get worried about controlling everything else. He's gonna be in
Speaker 5: the room.
Speaker 10: Some man don't want us to plan and all that stuff.
Speaker 1: Do you think, though, that this guy has any say
Speaker 1: so in anything? I guarantee the only thing he's got
Speaker 1: to say so in is probably paying for some of this.
Speaker 1: But that's that's about it.