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Speaker 1: John Yan and Rich what's up Nat?

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Speaker 2: What's going on? Oh? Nat?

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Speaker 1: I thought you were a girl? Like short for Natalie.

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Speaker 1: What's not short for Nate?

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Speaker 2: Nathaniel?

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Speaker 1: Nathaniel? What can we do for you?

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Speaker 2: Well, I think I've officially reached my breaking point with

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Speaker 2: my quote work wife. My actual wife has started making

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Speaker 2: comments now because this girl from my office she keeps

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Speaker 2: texting me from at like ten thirty eleven PM with

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Speaker 2: work emergencies, but that aren't really work emergencies. They're just

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Speaker 2: literally her complaining about her boyfriend. I've always played the

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Speaker 2: whole thing off is just being a supportive, supportive coworker,

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Speaker 2: like friendly and everything, and just kind of played into

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Speaker 2: it without without worrying. But then today at the office lunch,

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Speaker 2: she literally reached over and wiped the crumb off my

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Speaker 2: face in front of everyone and all kinds of line exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it felt so weird and so domestic, right, like the

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Speaker 2: whole table went silent. So now my boss is giving

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Speaker 2: me the look so like I'm pulling a fast one

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Speaker 2: or something like that, cheating on my wife, which is nonsense.

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Speaker 2: But if I tell her to back off, I don't

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Speaker 2: want to be I'll end up the mean guy who

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Speaker 2: ruined the office vibe. You know what I mean, and

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't really know what to do.

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Speaker 3: Well, you still got to protect your your marriage, right,

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Speaker 3: you can't allow it to go on.

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Speaker 4: Right at that point, it's okay to be the mean

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Speaker 4: guy if you're setting that.

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Speaker 3: If you don't have to be mean about it, right.

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Speaker 4: But I'm assuming he's saying like her feelings will be hurt.

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Speaker 4: But it's like, yeah, you don't have to be mean

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Speaker 4: about it. You can be very clear, Hey, I feel

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Speaker 4: this is a little inappropriate and disrespectful to my wife.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It work.

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Speaker 1: Then after that there's got to be a there's got

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Speaker 1: to be a softer way of saying that exact same message.

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Speaker 1: So that's not awkward. It's a little blunt, but I mean,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to I don't know if she's going

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Speaker 1: to take a hint. You know, maybe the time there's

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Speaker 1: a crumb on your face and she goes to do it,

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Speaker 1: you go, oh, hey, I got it, And the next

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Speaker 1: time she sess, hey, well I got or you can

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Speaker 1: be hey, don't text me eleve o'clock at night like

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to sleep and I woke up like, there's

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Speaker 1: ways you can get the message without ruining your cowork space,

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Speaker 1: because that would suck to work with somebod you don't like.

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Speaker 1: I've done it before. We had to work with somebody

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Speaker 1: you don't like. You know, and I mean, rich has

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Speaker 1: no clue.

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Speaker 2: Crumbs on your face. I just believe it.

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Speaker 1: Remember we did that blast off on your teeth.

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Speaker 3: I didn't say anything, Yeah, we're in a meeting.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't going to pick your teeth. I should have.

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Speaker 3: We're in a meeting. We had this boss that was

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Speaker 3: talking to us the whole time, like maybe maybe a

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Speaker 3: half an hour. She leaves and John's like, hey, you

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Speaker 3: had a spot on your teeth. I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 3: about if I want to embarrass you.

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Speaker 1: I go, I go, you got some broccoli, broccoli in

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Speaker 1: your teeth and he goes like this to move it,

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Speaker 1: and literally it went like that's how heavy it was.

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Speaker 1: It fell on the table like that, That's how much

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Speaker 1: broccoli was there.

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Speaker 3: I had a big tooth, thick and store anythings.

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Speaker 1: You have to set boundaries.

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Speaker 3: I think we're all saying the same thing.

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Speaker 4: It's just Jon J wants you to set boundaries in

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Speaker 4: a more delicate way right.

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Speaker 2: Right, that makes sense, that makes sense. It's just how

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Speaker 2: we'll go about it. Yeah, just do it delicately.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks for sharing with this man. What an interesting

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Speaker 1: I wonder if you get people to call up what

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Speaker 1: would you do eight seven seven nine three seven one

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Speaker 1: oh four seven what would you do text us text

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Speaker 1: jgr and what you would do the nine six eight

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Speaker 1: nine three Thanks Nat, Thank you