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Speaker 1: But someone else in that group is Should the guys

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Speaker 1: Ninety seven seven two zero.

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Speaker 2: I'm looking at you.

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Speaker 3: I feel like answer you no, I know because I'm

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Speaker 3: just if this is my friend, I'm telling her, like, hey,

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Speaker 3: just leave the relationship because you're just embarrassing this guy

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Speaker 3: and I cannot be around him. Why you consistently like

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Speaker 3: who they are doing that. I'm like, it's not my business.

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Speaker 3: I don't even want to get involved because I don't

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Speaker 3: so I just let him do whatever.

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Speaker 1: I just always think of, like listen, nine point nine.

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Speaker 2: Cross that out. Just put one hundred percent of the time.

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Speaker 1: I tell Melissa like everything, So like I might be

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Speaker 2: You gotta keep your mouth shut. Someone always cheating. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so she would probably know the fact that Kennice

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Speaker 4: That's the kind of bogus, what kind of thought.

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Speaker 2: That was pretty interesting.

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Speaker 1: But you know, Joe, someone on Twitch by the way,

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Speaker 1: We've been trying to we'll see if we can end

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Speaker 1: up getting them on. But from what I hear, and now,

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Speaker 1: What were you gonna say, buddy? And then we'll take

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Speaker 1: just was gonna say, I mean, I don't want this

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Speaker 2: But if I knew that listen was cheating.

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Speaker 1: On you obviously tell you other way around though, buddy, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yes, if I was cheating, would you tell a listener.

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Speaker 4: You'd have to be changed.

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Speaker 2: It's tough because it's it's.

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Speaker 3: Your relationship with Joe if you were to and it's

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Speaker 4: You don't like her and love her, but it's just like.

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Speaker 1: And I love my feeling's friends, I love all of them.

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Speaker 4: But you know they got her back over yours.

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Speaker 1: I would Yeah, I would have your back before I

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Speaker 2: I guess that's what I'm saying. That's true. And I

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Speaker 1: That Alyssa probably would have I know for him, she

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Speaker 1: it's just Cheryl, you say, the guy should say nothing.

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Speaker 1: At the end of the day, it's not his business.

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Speaker 1: Stay out of this guy's business.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, it is none of his business too. And they've

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Speaker 5: been friends for a longer time. And then not only that,

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Speaker 5: once you tell, if you go and tell her, then

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Speaker 5: what do you think is going to happen? After that?

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Speaker 5: Then you're going to start to get asked a lot

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Speaker 5: of questions, well how do you know that? And then

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Speaker 5: after that then it could be, Oh, you're just jealous.

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Speaker 5: I don't believe, so, you know, there's like a domino

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Speaker 5: effect after you say something. And then number two, if

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Speaker 1: There's a lot to unpackt with that. Thank you, Cheryl.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna move because we got a lot of people

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Speaker 6: Go ahead, Hey, good morning, guys.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 5: I kind of agree with staying out of it, just

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Speaker 7: But at the end of the day, like that's.

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Speaker 5: Somebody's girlfriend and boyfriend, and you kind.

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Speaker 4: Of owe them that royalty to say something because she's

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Speaker 6: She never.

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Speaker 2: Wait.

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Speaker 1: Hold on you want to voice disguise her? Hold on

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Speaker 1: one secon let me.

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Speaker 2: See hello, that's good.

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Speaker 6: I'm a narcotics dealer in Colombia.

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Speaker 2: I get very distracted. Hold on no much mad eh.

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Speaker 6: Hey, Grace, very funny on the beach somewhere with an umbrella.

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Speaker 1: I love how Grace has an accent and I know

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Speaker 2: No one will know, No one will know, no one

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Speaker 1: All right, Grace, go ahead and tell us how you

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Speaker 1: relate to this because you know, one more time or

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Speaker 2: We did catch a cheater in kind of a different way.

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Speaker 1: There was a wife who was concerned about her husband's

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Speaker 1: like friend group. They've all been college friends. It's a

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Speaker 1: why didn't you say anything? Why didn't you tell the

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Speaker 6: I am with the wise and I'm brat Worres's at

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Speaker 6: because I'm somewhat in a similar situation because I came

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Speaker 6: we have kids. She wasn't a situation where he looked

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Speaker 6: up with a cool wor curve. Well, she was married,

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Speaker 6: she got the voice. She's married to hear her. Now

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Speaker 6: They're keeping us apart because they know, I got you know,

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna say something, but they're nothing loyal to that

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Speaker 6: That can damage her seriously because not only is the

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Speaker 3: And out, and Wisca is getting to say like it's

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Speaker 1: Issues grace with the voice disguiser, it's hard to hear you,

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Speaker 4: To ruin lives. If she got on air and said

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Speaker 1: One, Richard, you've been in this position.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sir, go ahead.

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Speaker 7: So I don't think he's wrong for not saying anything,

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Speaker 7: then they don't break up or get a divorce on anything.

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Speaker 7: Now the wife doesn't like you, and now the friend

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Speaker 7: So you know, it comes down to what the last

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Speaker 6: What he's doing.

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Speaker 7: But you know that goes that. That's how life is,

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Speaker 4: So much drama can start by just being honest.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling just the one thing that I will say

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Speaker 6: I got.

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Speaker 2: Richard.

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Speaker 2: And and why.

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Speaker 1: It's a tough situation. Richard, thank you so much. So

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Speaker 1: many people are calling in. I wish I could just

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