WEBVTT - HR. 1 - Choosed 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:04.400 Morning, lady, gentlemen, and welcome to video Message number twenty nine. 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:06.840 I'm like a dog in heat. I woke up yesterday 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:07.320 morning with us. 0:00:07.360 --> 0:00:09.960 Bring nice to start later, please, I could never know 0:00:10.000 --> 0:00:11.080 if the day with us Florida. 0:00:12.160 --> 0:00:12.719 Listen up. 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:14.600 The ratings just came in for last month. 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:19.320 We are number one. We just grabbed every key demography, 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:24.760 super duper. That's nice, fight Ago, Neto Gay, Yes, boy, 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:26.160 that is good news. 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:28.920 It is the thirtieth day of January twenty twenty sixth 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:32.320 January's almost over. Happy Friday, everybody. John Kriesel's here. We 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:35.720 got Marty Gallarnar, Mark Paris coming in a bit, and 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:37.800 Matt Minster to play the initial game. So let's get 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:40.360 her started. Here's Kevin Kneelin with some comedy on the 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:41.560 Paratrot Borning Show of Friday. 0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:42.040 Come on in. 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:44.520 I'm glad you're here. 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:47.879 People drink coffee sometimes because they're not morning people. I 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:49.720 can't talk to yet. I haven't had my coffee yet. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.839 I'm not a morning person. I think they're not afternoon 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:52.400 people either. 0:00:52.720 --> 0:00:53.199 You know what I mean? 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:54.560 When can we talk to you? 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:54.760 When? 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:57.200 When is that window, like after your morning coffee and 0:00:57.240 --> 0:00:58.520 before you're evening cocktail. 0:00:58.600 --> 0:00:59.080 When is it? 0:00:59.280 --> 0:00:59.880 When can we do? 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:01.720 Now? 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:04.080 I stopped going to Starbucks, and I'll tell you why. 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:05.720 Rip off. 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:09.679 Five dollars for tall coffee. Excuse me, five dollars for 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:12.400 tall coffee, which is really a small coffee, but they 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:14.959 call it a tall coffee because they figure psychologically you 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:17.920 won't mind spending five bucks and the tall coffee. But 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:20.920 I know it's going on. It's a small coffee. So 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:22.000 I wrote it the tall coffee. 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:22.640 I gave a dollar. 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:26.039 The guy goes, it's five dollars, sir, I said, I 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:32.679 call that dollar five dollars. That's my tall dollar. That's 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:35.360 my tall dollar. He goes, you want going to leave 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:37.119 room for cream in yourffee? No, not for five dollars. 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:39.039 Fill it up to the rim p. Put the cream 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:49.640 in my mouth. It makes when I get home, I'm 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:49.960 like a. 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:50.600 Dog in heat. 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:04.080 Sweet on your side. 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:22.760 You hear the distance under this and in you stray. 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:25.880 Nothing better in the world than waking up on a 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:27.720 Friday and talking tennis with John Crees. 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.600 So that's what we just spent ten minutes doing, right, 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:30.240 Johnny Kaye. 0:02:30.280 --> 0:02:34.200 Absolutely, there's Chris Hockey, There's Zach Elberson, there's Paul Lambert. 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:35.520 I'm Corey Cove. That's John Cree. 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:39.000 So this is the power to a morning shoe sinner 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.040 and Djokovic going at it. Palm down, Zach, I guess 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:47.040 Alcarez already won. Spoiler, I'll stoy it open. 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:50.960 I did not. I've watched a lot of tennis and 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:54.880 never made the effort to really understand the scoring. And 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:58.560 Corey learned me up in about three and a half 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:01.760 maybe four minutes. It's not that complicated, is it really? 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:02.040 Isn't it? 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:04.960 Just you explain it that way. I have attempted to 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:08.480 read like a in ten seconds in I'm like, I 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:09.280 don't have time. 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:12.639 Reading like a Google explanation. Yeah, it's not that hard. 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:15.280 No, it's cool. And this is why he's about to serve. 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:23.840 All right, Oh you got served, and Sena just centners 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:25.160 so good. Shoves it down. 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:29.800 Chokovich is the road Jesus for aggressive start. 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:33.520 Yeah, that is an aggressive start. Yeah, Chris, you've got 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:35.280 a cold working over there? What do you got going there? 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.520 I don't think so. Oh I feel prettydamn good. 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:38.120 It's out in the open. 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:41.520 It's not like you had a cold or something. Oh depression, 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:45.279 Oh that kind of call one of those permanent colds. 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:47.640 Right exactly, that's all there is that. 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:51.160 Yeah, I'm you know, just over here giving myself the 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:57.280 cold shoulder. Oh right, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it's fun enjoy. 0:03:57.400 --> 0:04:00.480 There's a you know when you always got some argue 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:04.560 with That's what I love. You're lost in argument to 0:04:04.600 --> 0:04:06.200 yourself every damn day. 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:09.240 Yeah. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.320 Yeah, no, No, it's one hundred and three dogs blanket 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:12.720 in here right now, and I don't know why is. 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:13.240 It hot over there? 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:13.360 Too? 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:17.840 Agrees in here very comfortable. It's so hot over there, 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:18.440 and I love. 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:20.560 Being warm, but I am I mean, if my testes 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:21.680 are sweating, there's a problem. 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:24.680 And aren't they always wear what regular shirt? Paul's wearing 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:25.640 a sweat shirt? 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:27.960 Yeah, I know. He loves sweaty nipples. 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:30.159 Yeah I do, yeah, especially yours. 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:30.400 Hawk. 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:31.480 That's so sweet a view. 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:33.279 That was very nice of you to say that, But 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:35.159 he doesn't act like it. No, I meet it, though 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:36.240 I know you say you do. 0:04:37.440 --> 0:04:37.720 I don't know. 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:38.920 Yeah, things are good. 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:40.560 Aren't your testes always warm? 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:42.280 Why do you ask questions? Why does he ask questions 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:43.400 on my testicles every day? 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:43.920 Dude? 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:46.080 The show just started every day? Can you just wait 0:04:46.279 --> 0:04:46.719 a question? 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:47.800 How are your balls? 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:49.279 Can you answer the question. 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:51.720 Yeah, there's sweat every so what damp? 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:55.280 You know that's ruined except you know it's ruined the 0:04:55.520 --> 0:05:00.040 road having fun gaming, know with the person in the 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.159 passenger seat in the driver's seat know what I'm talking about. 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:03.839 I don't tell you talking about, so I don't know 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:09.440 if I do. You don't want to use road? Uh yeah, okay, yeah. 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:13.160 The heated seats, man, because they're all sweaty down there. Now, 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:16.480 it's not it's not gross first world problems. 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:17.839 It's not scross. 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:19.520 It's just disgusting. 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:20.159 Yeah. 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:21.560 Yeah, yeah. 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:23.839 Make sure you here in your new vehicle yesterday. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:27.960 Yeah, yeah, you drove out of here like with like 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:31.640 he looked like ice Cube and uh boys in the 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:34.919 hood with one arm draped over the steering wheel. He 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:37.360 had the window down in the top down, and I'm like, 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.839 it's that's that guy. It's minus nine. 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:41.359 And the guy sitting in the passenger seat looked like 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:43.719 Gandolf the gray Yeah. 0:05:43.279 --> 0:05:43.760 Well. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:46.919 I couldn't see his head, the guy in the passenger 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:49.520 seat minus the r Yeah. 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:50.679 Make sure. 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:56.240 Make sure was he sweaty? Make sure you keep those 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:57.599 heated seats off kids. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:04.159 Good advice. Fantastic advice. Yep. Anyway, there you go. 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:05.920 That's life right there, that's how we roll. 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:08.080 That is life. Yeah, that's life. 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:11.800 Parish later Marti. Later you mentioned Matt Minster. He's playing initials. 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:12.599 That's later today. 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:14.960 I think we're going to later monster. 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:15.560 Yeah. 0:06:16.080 --> 0:06:18.320 I know he gets mad about that. But spell your 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:18.960 name right then? 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:19.279 Yeah? 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:26.440 Yeah, no, no, no good. I get called chrysl. Yeah. 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:31.600 You a lot of times that speeches. They'll be like, 0:06:31.880 --> 0:06:33.560 how do I pronounce it? When they're going to read 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:35.600 the intro, how do I pronounce your last name? And 0:06:35.680 --> 0:06:37.960 I tell him it's like Diesel with a KR. But 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:38.960 then I always say. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:43.520 If you mispronounce it, it doesn't matter. I don't care. Yeah, 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:46.120 I've been called worse. Ye take the power, but I don't. 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:47.000 Care about your story. 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:51.720 Chrysl. Yeah, shut up, Chrysol. Now it's it's fine. It's 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:57.279 the same story. Yeah, my daughter says way worse things. Yeah, 0:06:57.400 --> 0:06:59.680 go back to the work. Oh there was another one 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:00.960 this week. Yeah. 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:03.000 She was making her bed. She didn't make it in 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:08.240 the morning, so I was like, make your bed. She's like, wow, 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:10.640 that time's coming up soon, and I was like, doesn't matter. 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:14.440 Standard doesn't change. Make your bed. So she was doing 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.760 it and she had just finished with gymnastics. She's like, 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:20.679 my leg's hurt, and I said, must be nice joking, right, 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:23.360 And then and I went My office is right next 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:25.280 to her, so I was going to work on some stuff. 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:30.559 And then she appears and she goes, I'm not trying 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:32.520 to be mean when I say this. And then I'm like, oh, 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:37.200 this is gonna be great six and a half and 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:42.640 she goes, this was a choice you made, and I go, 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:47.120 what are you talking about? She said, you choose to 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:49.520 join the army and I'm not correcting the grammar because 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:52.240 it's cute, it's adorable. You choose to join the army. 0:07:52.960 --> 0:07:55.880 Then you choose to go to the war, and that's 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:58.400 where your legs were blown off, she said. So it 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:03.160 was your choices though, and I go, that's fine. I go, 0:08:03.480 --> 0:08:07.720 it was a joke, though, buddy, And I said, I said, 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:10.960 I wasn't trying to get sympathy. I didn't want you 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:13.160 to feel sorry for me, and just dead seriously looked 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:15.720 at me, and she goes, well, I'm feeling very sorry 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:22.240 for you right now, so serious, like my god, kiddel. 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:27.480 But she's right. I wasn't drafted, and this is when 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:29.840 she has a she would be upset. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:33.120 I know, I know she's sick, but if she had 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:37.160 a cigarette and it's been like, you choosed to join the. 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:40.520 Art, dude, she's a quick pino. 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:45.440 To go to the war dude. No smile, just serious. 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:47.320 And I was very serious for her. 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:50.200 She checked with me. She is and I tell her 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:53.199 there will be times too where she'll be getting punished 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:55.360 about something. I'm like, no, you're gonna do some time 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.719 in your room or whatever the punishment is. And then 0:08:57.800 --> 0:09:01.280 she'll be like, this is rediculous, and I'm like, you 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:05.360 made the choice to misbehave and that's why you're getting 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:09.800 this punishment right now. So this was her completely turning money. 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:11.800 IQ must be off the charge. 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:13.320 She's a very smart child. 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:18.160 Wow, actions have consequence, made the choice. 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:21.360 But but here's something I have to say to you guys, 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:24.640 as as somebody who has an over thirty year old 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:28.920 and and over well twenty three year old, the things 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:33.920 you are most proud of as a parent, You're going 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:37.360 to find out we're a major mistake. And by that 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:40.520 I mean there is nothing you can say or do 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:47.040 that that can't be shaped as a negative. There there 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:51.840 there is a there's no you're you're you're simply you're 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:55.920 in the role of parent. So something you're doing is 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.760 wrong in some way. And I'm not saying you should 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:01.440 stop trying. I'm just if you think, if you ever 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:04.320 look in the mirror and say, yep, they're gonna look 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:07.880 at at somebody someday and say that was the perfect dad, 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:14.320 you're wrong. And that's okay because there's no such thing. 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:16.920 The other parent, or like someone else's dad is the 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:17.319 best dad. 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:20.400 Right exactly, You're you are, you're doing your very best. 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:22.760 You're you're learning them right from wrong the best that 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:24.960 you can, and you're teaching them what you know. But 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:28.800 someday everybody listening right now is going to be told 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:32.680 by their child, well do you remember when I was 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:36.240 seven and you did this? And you're going to say, hey, no, 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:39.319 I don't remember that. That was just something that happened 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:41.560 in passing. That was a thirty second thing. I had 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:45.520 no idea that that impacted your entire life. You know, 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:48.200 it's the craziest thing. But I can tell you that 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.199 will definitely happen. How do I know that because this 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:52.680 happened to me and I did it to my parents. 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:54.800 I did it to their parents, and I'm sure they 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:58.600 did it to their parents. You're gonna do something wrong accidentally. 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.080 Just love and that's all you can do. That's all 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:02.560 I did it. 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:04.640 Like with my dad was getting beat by a two 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:08.560 by four. I understand what. Yeah, there is well, there's 0:11:08.559 --> 0:11:12.520 certain ye gotta love it and it is always the 0:11:12.600 --> 0:11:15.960 things too, like you. Recently, there's circle time at her 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:20.079 school where they share something about interesting in their life. 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:22.920 And we recently told Chloe we're going to Disney in March, 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:24.840 and then she brought up the. 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:32.720 Damn you and then she she brought up the story 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:38.040 at circle time at her little Christian school that she 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:40.120 said the F word on the Disney bus. 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:44.920 And my wife was like, you said what at circle time? 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:48.880 Because she she was overtired when we're three, or when 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:51.520 she was three and all. And then I was like, 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:54.560 my wife said she needs a nap. I said, we 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:57.640 can do a couple more rides. My wife was great. 0:11:57.840 --> 0:12:00.000 We got on the bus and it was that pass 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:03.000 the witching hour for her and we're going to take 0:12:03.000 --> 0:12:07.000 a nap and she doesn't swear. She was like, I 0:12:07.000 --> 0:12:10.040 don't want to take an fing. Now, oh my god, 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:11.360 got three years old. 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:16.280 Yes, that's amazing and precious. 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:18.600 And there's a million other kids on the bus like, 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:21.360 oh my god, and parents are looking at me. And 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:25.480 I rent a scooter at Disney. I'm not gonna be tired. 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:30.040 I don't care if people look at me whatever. So 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:33.000 I'm like strapped down in this scooter because you have 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:36.400 to like wheel on and then they strap you down. 0:12:37.240 --> 0:12:40.840 And I'm just sitting there, strapped down, and my daughter's 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:46.120 dropping an F bomb on the Disney bus. So we've 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:49.199 said this and and she doesn't swear again, so I 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:51.120 don't know. This was just the end of her rope. 0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:53.760 She shared that at circle time, and so now the 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:58.040 joke is like something on TV, like something on the 0:12:58.080 --> 0:12:59.640 news or whatever, and she's like, oh my god. 0:12:59.679 --> 0:12:59.760 What. 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:01.800 Then my wife will be like, yeah, you're going to 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:03.040 talk about that time. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.439 Well, let me give you a I'm not going to 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:07.400 say which of my two kids, because I don't want 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:09.800 to put them in a bad spot. Here's something that 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:12.120 I did that I thought was the right thing. In fact, 0:13:12.520 --> 0:13:15.320 I thought this was parent of the Year material. I 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:19.280 expected to be given an award. Okay, one of them 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:21.640 came home for the first time when they were in 0:13:21.679 --> 0:13:24.480 an early grade, probably fourth grade or fifth grade, with 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:30.080 straight a's, and I was like, that's freaking awesome, and 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:32.040 I mounted it in a frame and put it on 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:32.360 the wall. 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:33.360 Right. 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:38.120 I had no idea that I had just unleashed hell 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:41.240 on that child's brain by making them feel like the 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:43.640 only way they could show me their report card was 0:13:43.640 --> 0:13:46.120 that if it had straight a's. I never said those words. 0:13:46.360 --> 0:13:48.600 I never intimated it as far as I know, but 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.319 by making a big deal out of it, too big 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:51.720 a deal out of it, I made it look like 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:55.080 that's the ultimate thing. If you don't do that, you're disappointed. 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.280 Straight a's at one point, never so you were extra. 0:13:58.520 --> 0:13:59.680 I was like super proud. 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:02.360 Right, So, I thinking I was doing the right thing, 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:06.240 was doing something that is going to need therapy, you 0:14:06.240 --> 0:14:08.720 know what I mean like that? And I absolutely didn't 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:11.040 mean to, but I didn't know any better, right. And 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:14.240 the real thing I think is what would be great 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:16.920 if there was a way to find out earlier, Hey, 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:19.240 this affected me this way, And I think that's something 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:21.200 that your daughter is going to be able to communicate 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:23.520 to you that perhaps my children weren't for some reason, 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:25.720 and that's a win for you. That's cool, man, that's great. 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:27.440 And this is my second go round. 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:30.760 I had step kids for eleven years, and in our 0:14:30.800 --> 0:14:35.680 twenties we are learning life ourselves. Yeah, so naturally, my gosh, 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.520 forty four, I feel like I am a better parent 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:41.640 than I was at twenty five, and so that you're 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:42.560 still well nailed to. 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.760 Do as twenty three. And you're right, it's not your boat. 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:47.400 You're doing the best I could. 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:48.880 But at this age you look back and you're like, 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:51.520 oh my god, it's not just being better parents at 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:52.760 forty five or whatever. 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:54.840 Almost all of us, almost all of us are just 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:55.600 better people. 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:56.200 For sure. 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:58.840 Your calmer, you're wiser, you know more about the world. 0:14:58.840 --> 0:15:01.320 It's easier to parent when you when you know what's 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:04.360 important and what isn't. I learned about tennis today is 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:06.720 the scoring of tennis, and that's going to trickle down 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:07.680 to Clobe one hundred percent. 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:10.320 She still understand the scoring by the end of the week. Yeah, 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:11.880 nailed it. Yeah, she was. 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:16.000 Last Sunday, she would not leave my side and the 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:18.600 game football is about to start. I know that she 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.520 knows she's going to be fatherless for that day. But 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:25.040 she was like she was that's the deal, and she 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:27.280 was like, she sat on my shoulders to watch like 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:29.800 most of the first half and was asking a million 0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:32.920 questions of the game, and I loved every minute of it. 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:35.080 Well, it sounds like she also was concerned about leaving 0:15:35.120 --> 0:15:36.480 you to your own devices. 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.200 And that she's going to go and talk at circle 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:40.160 time and say. 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:44.240 Yeah, I can't trust him. Guys, he makes choices to 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:45.480 go get his legaphone that. 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:48.520 She she works for China. 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:53.280 Yeah, all right, John Criso is here or John chrys 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:56.840 will call him either way. We'll do initials at eight 0:15:56.880 --> 0:16:00.440 fifteen with one hundred and eight thousand, five hundred up 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:04.320 for grabs, potentially with the Saint Paul Federal Credit Union Initials, Jackpot. 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:07.200 Marnie Gellner, and Mark Parrish. Later, Matt Minster will be here. 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:09.120 We'll talk to mister z in like forty five minutes 0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:10.160 about some films as well. 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:12.000 This it's the Power to Mornings. 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:28.840 You want a fan field, Happy Friday, everybody check this out. 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:34.920 I believe it starts today that if you don't have 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:36.120 a real ID, it's gonna cost you. 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:37.560 Forty five bucks. 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:40.960 Passengers who don't have a real ID or other acceptable 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:43.640 form of ID will have to pay forty five dollars 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:47.080 ahead of time for an alternative ID check. The feis 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:50.400 payable at the confirm ID webpage on TSA dot gov. 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:53.560 Travelers then present the proof of purchase at the checkpoint 0:16:53.800 --> 0:16:55.920 that THEE will cover up to ten days of travel, 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:58.440 including return trips, within that window. 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:07.399 I'm Mark Mayfield. Every I think the problem, Yeah, the problem. 0:17:07.480 --> 0:17:09.000 It's been all over the years. 0:17:09.000 --> 0:17:11.320 Do you know how many times I've done this news story. 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:11.760 Have you really? 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:16.280 I mean, just like the last ten years. No, I 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.040 know about the real idea and all that. I didn't 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:24.440 know about the fee bit. I think, yeah, it's it's 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:25.200 been all over. 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:28.760 Yeah, I've literally read that to busy number. 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:31.280 Too busy sending me fart videos on Instagram. 0:17:33.520 --> 0:17:35.240 Oh well, now I'm gonna have to get one. The 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:36.879 other thing I'm confused about because I saw it on 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:40.720 Channel five last night. I think it doesn't matter which 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:42.720 show I was watching. I don't know why I hesitated 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:44.200 so much to say the number. 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:49.080 The part that you know, like it seems like a 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:51.080 backup plan, Like all right, crap, I don't have a 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:51.560 real idea. 0:17:51.560 --> 0:17:53.600 I don't have a passport with me. I totally forgot. 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:56.000 Well, now I have to essentially pay a forty five 0:17:56.040 --> 0:17:58.280 dollars fine if I want to keep going right, But 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:00.760 everybody keeps saying that you get it ahead of time 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:04.240 and then you go through this special line. If you're 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:07.320 planning that far ahead of time, you probably already remembered 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:10.040 your passport or probably you probably have a real ID. 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:12.040 This is for people in panic mode that are like, well, then, 0:18:12.040 --> 0:18:13.760 how am I supposed to get on the plane? Pay 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:16.719 forty five dollars and hop in that line? So but 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:19.840 they keep saying sign up first online and then you 0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:20.920 go through some line. 0:18:21.720 --> 0:18:24.120 No, that's not going to happen. That sounds really annoying. 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:29.080 And those people, once they're told this, Paul, they're going 0:18:29.119 --> 0:18:30.840 to be like, what the hell is going I'm not 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:35.640 paying forty five dollars. You can't get on the plane yet. Yeah, 0:18:36.600 --> 0:18:39.520 And the real ID process is very simple. You can 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:42.600 send your documents online ahead of time to make it 0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:43.240 go quicker. 0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:45.760 And the only problem was, you know, like a year 0:18:45.840 --> 0:18:48.360 or so ago, when it was real I D crazy 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:50.280 times is there were times that if you didn't have 0:18:50.320 --> 0:18:53.040 a well, appointments might be two months out unless you 0:18:53.040 --> 0:18:55.320 wanted to drive super far, or if you just went 0:18:55.359 --> 0:18:56.960 in there and tried to stand by it, it would 0:18:56.960 --> 0:18:58.199 be four to six hours. 0:18:58.240 --> 0:18:59.320 And I'm like, I'm not doing this. 0:18:59.480 --> 0:19:00.560