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Speaker 1: Broadcasting live across the world right now. This is the

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Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich radio program. Check one too? Can

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Speaker 1: I get a check one too?

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Speaker 2: Check one too?

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Speaker 1: That's good. Hey, Welcome to the Couple's podcast. We call

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Speaker 1: it couples Therapy. Yes, my guest this evening is Stacy Bara,

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Speaker 1: bride of me.

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Speaker 2: I like to be the bride of you. That reminds

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Speaker 2: me what a joy? Yes, do not forget.

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Speaker 3: At the end of this podcast, we have to tell

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Speaker 3: each other we love each other, because that's kind of

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Speaker 3: our seacrest out and last time we did.

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Speaker 1: Not, Oh how did we end it?

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Speaker 2: We just ended it and I was sad.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So at the end of this one, love you

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Speaker 1: love you. Yeah, and that's our secret down secrest out.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of simple, but that's okay, no.

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Speaker 2: But it's but it's it's loving.

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Speaker 1: Do you get the I Love you return?

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Speaker 3: Every time I would say nine nine point eight percent,

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 1: That feels good, doesn't it does?

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Speaker 3: Except you know what this morning I did not you

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Speaker 3: know why because I commented on your show. I said,

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Speaker 3: good morning, I love you, and then I gave you

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Speaker 3: a comment on your show and you skipped over the

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Speaker 3: I love you and went right to this show.

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Speaker 1: Oh, were you being critical of the show?

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Speaker 3: Well, not critical, just I was given commentary and I

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Speaker 3: normally don't, so I think you were caught off guard.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking to make sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you didn't give me an I love you. Wait,

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Speaker 3: I was just more being like commentary.

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Speaker 1: Ish, You're right, I didn't care.

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Speaker 2: No, but you normally do. So I let it go.

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Speaker 1: I am so sorry. It's okay, good. I love you,

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Speaker 1: never have been love you too.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to go through a couple of questions that

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Speaker 1: listeners have been sticking up on the socials. All right,

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Speaker 1: just stick up on Facebook that I was going to

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Speaker 1: have you on. So some of these I think are

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Speaker 1: interested about you. In fact, Morning Stacy or Night Stacy.

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Speaker 1: Which is more fun. I don't know if that's a

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Speaker 1: question for me or a question for you.

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Speaker 2: Actually, Oh, I think it's more a question for you.

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Speaker 1: Morning Stacy's fun. Night Stacy's fun. It's midday Stacy. That

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Speaker 1: is all about the business.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 1: So once before you start work and after you're done

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Speaker 1: with work, all fun all the time. But she's like, hustle,

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Speaker 1: we got a hustle. Yeah, I want you to tell

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Speaker 1: a story that I don't think is going to get

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Speaker 1: you in trouble and nobody will ever find out. But

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Speaker 1: whenever I talk about the hustle, I like to bring

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Speaker 1: up the example of you guys, you and your partner Nicole,

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Speaker 1: and the guest that walked into the bathroom at your

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Speaker 1: place and thought it was so beautiful, and she came

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Speaker 1: out and said, this bathroom's great. Who decorated? And You're like, well,

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Speaker 1: we did. She's like, well, do you do home a core?

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Speaker 1: And you guys said, We're like, well, yes, of course

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Speaker 1: you do. You do nurseries, of course.

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Speaker 3: And it's like, we've never done a nursery in our lives,

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Speaker 3: but it's like, of course we do, because we're all

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Speaker 3: about the hustle, the hustle, and we're gonna do a

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Speaker 3: nursery starting now. But what I really liked was speaking

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Speaker 3: of the bathroom another lady, because I happened to be

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Speaker 3: using the bathroom while another lady was in an adjacent stall,

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Speaker 3: and then she came out and was washing her hands

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Speaker 3: and said to her friend, oh, these hand towels are

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Speaker 3: so beautiful. I almost don't even want to touch them.

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Speaker 2: And they're so.

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Speaker 1: Sof while you're yeah.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, when I picked great hand towels,

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Speaker 3: did you jump out of the stalledge? No? I actually no,

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Speaker 3: that's funny you ask I hid in there till they

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Speaker 1: I want you to tell people the story, of course,

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Speaker 3: Well, oh well, there is this like sweet, little quirky

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Speaker 2: And this kid was.

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Speaker 3: Like four, and he was very cute, I mean, a

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Speaker 3: And he would eat onions raw, and we're not talking

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Speaker 3: slices of onions, but rather whole onions, like an apple.

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Speaker 3: So he would bite into the apple like houp and

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Speaker 3: eating a full apple, but it was an onion. And

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Speaker 3: he goes, of course.

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Speaker 2: He just was like wait a.

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Speaker 3: of course. And so ever since then, I cannot say

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Speaker 3: the phrase, of course.

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Speaker 1: Without that effect on it.

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Speaker 2: It has to be like, of course.

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Speaker 1: It's a little catchphrase that you didn't know was a catchphrase, right, And.

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Speaker 3: It's really cool because the other day Blake John Jay's

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Speaker 3: wife gave me a hat and it says of course

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Speaker 3: on it, and so I wear that with pride because.

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Speaker 1: Of course you gotta go up at the end. Of course.

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Speaker 1: Of course, yeah, you said in your daily life. Okay,

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Speaker 1: a couple more questions from Pamela in Texas. What is

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Speaker 1: something that you're weirdly good at?

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Speaker 2: Weirdly good at?

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Speaker 1: And again, I don't know if this is for you,

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Speaker 1: you me, or both of us as a couple. Hmmm, me,

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Speaker 1: I would say, remembering lyrics to every song.

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Speaker 2: Well, if it's.

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Speaker 3: About I mean, I know it's not. But if it's

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Speaker 3: about remembering, I'm a psychophreak about remembering numbers. I can

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Speaker 3: remember nothing else, but I remember, for example, like the

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Speaker 3: day the number on the calendar of the day we met.

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Speaker 3: I remember the number on the calendar of like when

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Speaker 3: my next dentist appointment is.

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Speaker 2: I don't keep a calendar.

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Speaker 1: I know you don't. It's terrible.

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Speaker 3: I know you hate it. But because numbers stick in

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Speaker 3: my brain. Nothing else does. But I'm weirdly good at

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Speaker 1: Stacy, is Rich a planner or a wing it person?

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Speaker 2: Wing it person?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't really like to plan monch.

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Speaker 1: In fact, that sounds terrible to me.

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Speaker 1: But it's like, let's go now, I'm all over totally.

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Speaker 1: Even if you're like, I need to go to the

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Speaker 1: post office, do you want to ride? I'm like, yes, sure,

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Speaker 1: let's go. You're like, of course, Stacey, you married Rich.

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Speaker 1: Who was your first celebrity crush?

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Speaker 3: Oh? You know, I think it might have been it

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Speaker 3: was This is Year. I'm totally a child of the eighties.

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Speaker 3: It was either Kirk Cameron or Michael J. Fox, one

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Speaker 1: From Michael J. Fox from Family TiSER, Back to the Future,

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Speaker 1: Back to the Future, that's strong. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh, and then a close third was Ralph Macchio from

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Speaker 3: Karate Kid.

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Speaker 1: You're still You're still into that show, I know.

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Speaker 3: But but not into him like now on Karate or

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Speaker 3: on Cobra Kai. I'm like, ew, I don't much like him.

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Speaker 3: For Johnny now, yeah.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense. Okay, So the other thing I want

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Speaker 1: to talk about is I was telling people. How you

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Speaker 1: have a hot take on everything. I mean, like I could,

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Speaker 1: I could order a salad from Wendy's and you're like,

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Speaker 1: isn't that better than this salad or that salad? Like

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Speaker 1: you have a hot take on everything. Like I'll close

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Speaker 1: you have a hot take on everything. So this morning,

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Speaker 1: Kyle was asking us about hot takes. I had ten

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Speaker 1: at for my two hot takes. One of them is

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Speaker 1: that your kid doesn't need a big birthday party. You

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Speaker 1: can have cake in the backyard totally.

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Speaker 2: Well, I actually agree with that.

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Speaker 1: And nobody wants to go to your couple shower, especially

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Speaker 1: don't care if you have beer. We're gonna have beer, Like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Yeah at my house. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then a couple other hot takes is nobody cares

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Speaker 1: like we're we're good on all those. So what are

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Speaker 1: your hot takes? What do you want to share?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm going to tag team onto. Nobody cares about

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Speaker 3: So it's like nobody cares.

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Speaker 1: Like our neighbor Annette, who is like the uh. I

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Speaker 1: mom would tell them every day none if you were special,

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Speaker 3: Well that's a little extreme, like I wouldn't recommend doing that,

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Speaker 3: I mean, but yet at the same time, Annette is

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Speaker 2: Yes she is, and so there's something to be said

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Speaker 1: Mom made her feel like, well, you just got to

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I think there's a problem with teaching

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Speaker 1: Esteem like not necessarily Simon Collin American Idol, Right, not.

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Speaker 2: That bad, but also not Paula Abdul.

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Speaker 1: Where everything you do is great?

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Speaker 2: Right exactly.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Now I have another hot take, and this is

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Speaker 3: totally different and not about kids. This is something I

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Speaker 3: have noticed lately with my venture. At my event venue,

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Speaker 3: we will tell people people to show up for a

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Speaker 3: up at twelve thirty eight. Your appointment was not at

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Speaker 3: twelve thirty eight, It was at one o'clock.

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Speaker 1: Well, why is that a problem?

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Speaker 3: That's a problem because we have another tour at twelve,

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Speaker 3: So we're in the middle of dealing with another client,

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Speaker 3: and then you're loitering around and we feel bad that

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Speaker 3: It's like a beautiful glass you can drink champagne out

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Speaker 3: if they all wear band tees and kind of spike

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Speaker 1: If you meet the guitar player from Dream Theater, what

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Speaker 1: If you meet the guitar player from Toto and Michael Jackson,

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Speaker 1: Oh, wow, boy, you're good. You're right all right already,

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Speaker 2: And if I meet that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's right right, Yeah, what makes this sound great?

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Speaker 1: That's my guy?

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Speaker 1: I know, yeah he is.

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Speaker 1: But Rick, that's all you need. Yeah, they don't make

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's his big thing.

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Speaker 1: That's big thing.

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Speaker 3: He just doesn't think they make him like they used to.

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Speaker 3: I kind of agree with them.

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Speaker 1: So you'll have a good talking here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like he and I could go have tea.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a beautiful thing. Yeah. Well, I am

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Speaker 1: glad you're coming with me. I don't like to go

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. I don't like to be a part.

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Speaker 1: So we should thank Monster Cable for inviting us out

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Speaker 2: That's true, Thank you Monster Cable.

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Speaker 1: So if you're gonna use cable, use Monster Cable. Absolutely

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Speaker 1: sounds like it's pretty good. Yeah, they're really committed to

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Speaker 1: it because I don't think they make anything else, not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're not the same monster that makes those drinks.

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Speaker 2: I don't think they are.

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Speaker 1: Just make the cable, just the cables yeah, so right

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Speaker 1: on Monster Cable and Rask Guitars too.

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Speaker 3: Now, our friend Robert Rask of Rass Guitars is the

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Speaker 1: And then my buddy of Jay Rocket Pedals, my buddy

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Speaker 1: Chris is going to be there. So all the nerds,

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Speaker 2: Their band tea be great.

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Speaker 1: So you're going to look and be like you got

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Speaker 1: Did he just say anything? You just give them a

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Speaker 1: I got this all right. Well, thank you for being

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Speaker 2: I always have fun, Yes, very much.

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Speaker 1: So love you.

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Speaker 3: I love you. See crust Out. Oh wait, that's another show.